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Child bride dies of internal injuries four days after marriage in Yemen.

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Post time 19-7-2016 09:36 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
Edited by changepassword at 19-7-2016 09:46 PM

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By MAIL FOREIGN SERVICE
UPDATED: 10:40 EST, 6 March 2016

A 13-year-old Yemeni girl died of internal injuries four days after a family-arranged marriage to a man almost twice her age, a human rights group said.

]Ilham Mahdi al Assi died last Friday in a hospital in Yemen's Hajja province, the Shaqaeq Arab Forum for Human Rights said, quoting a medical report.

She was married the previous Monday in a traditional arrangement known as a 'swap marriage', in which the brother of the bride also married the sister of the groom, it said.
Sigrid Kaag, regional director for UNICEF, said in a statement that the United Nations child agency was 'dismayed by the death of yet another child bride in Yemen'.

]'Elham is a martyr of abuse of children's lives in Yemen and a clear example of what is justified by the lack of limits on the age of marriage,' SAF said in a statement.
A medical report from al-Thawra hospital said she suffered a tear to her genitals and severe bleeding.

The Yemeni rights group said the girl was married off in an agreement between two men to marry each other's sisters to avoid having to pay expensive bride-prices.
The practice of marrying young girls is widespread in Yemen and drew the attention of international rights groups seeking to pressure the government to outlaw child marriages.


Legislation that would make it illegal for those under the age of 17 to marry is in serious peril after strong opposition from some of Yemen's most influential Islamic leaders.
[size=1.2em]The group said that was a common arrangement in the deeply impoverished country.
[size=1.2em]Yemen's gripping poverty plays a role in hindering efforts to stamp out the practice, as poor families find themselves unable to say no to bride-prices in the hundreds of dollars for their daughters.

[size=1.2em]More than a quarter of Yemen's females marry before age 15, according to a report last year by the Social Affairs Ministry.
[size=1.2em]Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.

Last month, a group of the country's highest Islamic authorities declared those supporting a ban on child marriages to be apostates.
[size=1.2em]A February 2009 law set the minimum age for marriage at 17, but it was repealed and sent back to parliament's constitutional committee for review after some politicians called it un-Islamic. The committee is expected to make a final decision on the legislation this month.
[size=1.2em]Some of the clerics who signed the decree against a ban sit on the committee.

[size=1.2em]Further imperilling the effort is the weak government's reluctance to confront the clerics and other conservative tribal officials, whose support is essential to their fragile hold on power.
The issue of Yemen's child brides got widespread attention three years ago when an eight-year-old girl boldly went by herself to a courtroom and demanded a judge dissolve her marriage to a man in his 30s.

She eventually won a divorce, and legislators began looking at ways to curb the practice.
]In September, a 12-year-old Yemeni child-bride died after struggling for three days in labour to give birth, a local human rights organisation said.
]Yemen once set 15 as the minimum age for marriage, but parliament annulled that law in the 1990s, saying parents should decide when a daughter marries.



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Post time 19-7-2016 10:01 PM | Show all posts
Edited by sam1528 at 19-7-2016 10:10 PM

So what is your issue?

1. There is already a law prohibiting child marriage but annuled and given guardianship to the parents
2. The parents are to be blamed.

The clerics are wrong. There cannot be any takfiri just because there is justification to prevent child marriage.

Tribal custom also plays a role, including the belief that a young bride can be shaped into an obedient wife, bear more children and be kept away from temptation.

How can it be Islamic if there is already elemant of tribal custom?

I really don't know what is your issue? Semakin lama semakin bangang ko ni.

Apa tu .... sunnah tu mesti ye .... ha ha .... apa daaa ... ineedanewbrain

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Post time 19-7-2016 11:51 PM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 20-7-2016 12:00 AM

hahahahahah berita ni bukan acong dah bawa the last time i checked it was 2013 now 2016
TT kenapa selective dalam memilih article

saya rasa sumber daily mail ada menceritakan

BERKENAAN CHILD BRIDE

lihat link

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/ ... riage-groom-40.html


sila lihat benua mana yg ada 40% ?

so anda bias apada islam dan dengan itu anda terlupa being objective
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Edited by changepassword at 20-7-2016 12:06 AM
mbhcsf replied at 19-7-2016 11:51 PM
hahahahahah berita ni bukan acong dah bawa the last time i checked it was 2013

Acong tu umo 8 tahun lah akak.

Ni berlaku taun ni lah. Ada date kat atas tu.




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Post time 20-7-2016 12:01 AM | Show all posts
sam1528 replied at 19-7-2016 10:01 PM
So what is your issue?

1. There is already a law prohibiting child marriage but annuled and given ...

u read on child bride tu yg highlighted in light blue box tu   , i dah lama tanya persoalan arranged marriage
, forced marriage arranged marriage
child bride - tu

tapi kenapa islam yg discopekan?

kelemahan minda mungkin. as usual.


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Post time 20-7-2016 12:02 AM | Show all posts
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:01 AM
Acong tu umo 8 tahun lah akak.

Ni berlaku taun ni lah. Ada date kat atas tu.

child bride - kat mana tinggi ?


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mbhcsf replied at 20-7-2016 12:01 AM
u read on child bride tu yg highlighted in light blue box tu   , i dah lama tanya persoalan arrang ...

kenapa Islamic authorities nak hokom? kalau ada orang bantah tak setuju knk2 under age kawen?

Abad 21 masih lagi bermimpi idop dalam gua sambil tonggang onta di padang paser 1400 taon dulu?






Last month, a group of the country's highest Islamic authorities declared those supporting a ban on child marriages to be apostates.



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Post time 20-7-2016 12:14 AM | Show all posts
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:12 AM
kenapa Islamic authorities nak hokom? kalau ada orang bantah tak setuju knk2 under age kawen?

...

kenapa tak setuju pulak kalau undang undang yemen nak ban child bride?
so? u tak setuju pulak?


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Post time 20-7-2016 12:16 AM | Show all posts
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:01 AM
Acong tu umo 8 tahun lah akak.

Ni berlaku taun ni lah. Ada date kat atas tu.

kenapa tak nak jawab soalan ni - kat mana child bride tinggi ?

kenapa nak highlight islam je , kenapa being selective?

CHILD BRIDES: A GLOBAL ISSUE


[size=1.2em]Despite numerous  campaigns from many of the world's largest charities and NGOs, the issue of child brides remains a global concern.
[size=1.2em]There are currently some 57.5 million child brides across the world, 40 per cent of which married in India.
[size=1.2em]Forty-six per cent of women in India were married before the age of 18, according to the National Family Health Survey-3.
[size=1.2em]Meanwhile, in Africa, 42 per cent of girls were married before turning 18 compared to 29 per cent in Latin America and the Caribbean.
[size=1.2em]But the number of child brides is estimated to rise to 140 million by 2020 if current trends continue, 18.5 million of which will be under 15 years old[size=1.2em], analysts warn.
[size=1.2em]Statistics show that girls living in poor households are almost twice as likely to marry before 18 than girls in higher income households.
[size=1.2em]And girls younger than 15 are also five times more likely to die in childbirth than women in their 20s.



Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2415871/Yemeni-child-bride-8-dies-internal-injuries-night-forced-marriage-groom-40.html#ixzz4Es7bxv2a
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Post time 20-7-2016 12:19 AM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 20-7-2016 12:22 AM
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:12 AM
kenapa Islamic authorities nak hokom? kalau ada orang bantah tak setuju knk2 under age kawen?

...

ade tak article tu cakap siapa ' highest islamic authority  tu' - ungkapan itu sangat vague?

islamic authority can be any entity - dalam konteks malaysia could be JAKIM, JAIS etc

yg ultimatenya ialah mahkamah syariah lah seba nak mentafisr danmenjatuhkan hukuman

so - pada stil vague?sebab article tu tak specific

kenapa awak tanya saya - soalan kenapa depa kata begitu kena tanya rasional depalah?

u tanya i , as malaysian ? awak tahu ke jawapannya?

ke awak nak kata sunnah = mesti?

kan itu hujah awak kan dari thread sunah kawin budak umur 6 tahun

so the exeistence of this thread membuktikan awak faham seperi yg Sam dakwa , it is a fact. you kata sunnah = mesti.
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Edited by changepassword at 20-7-2016 12:42 AM
mbhcsf replied at 20-7-2016 12:14 AM
kenapa tak setuju pulak kalau undang undang yemen nak ban child bride?
so? u tak setuju pulak?

...

bila pulak wa kata wa  tak bersetuju? Sila kopipes kat sini!

Yang tak bersetuju tu adalah pihak lobai Islamic. Siap nak hokom orang yang menghalang kehendak mereka ontok menala knk2.
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mbhcsf replied at 20-7-2016 12:19 AM
ade tak article tu cakap siapa ' highest islamic authority  tu' - ungkapan itu sangat vague?

is ...

Jakim jawi jais tu agama Hindu ka?
Lobai bertotop atas memang suka menala knk2 lah.  itu impian mereka.
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 Author| Post time 20-7-2016 12:49 AM | Show all posts
Edited by changepassword at 20-7-2016 12:56 AM

@maideen  

Maideen...betulah lobai dan lobainita sekelian alam ni suka buat andaian sunderi sambil berfantasi
Adakah mureka jadi macam tu sebab dari knk2 dah di suap oleh tok guru dengan perkataan fitnah? jadi fitnah adalah sebahgian dari kehidupan seharian mureka?

ada ke patot makcik tandas di luor rumah ni kata wa tak bersetuju dengan ondang2 ontok mengharamkan kawen under age.

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Post time 20-7-2016 02:52 AM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 20-7-2016 02:55 AM
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:25 AM
bila pulak wa kata wa  tak bersetuju? Sila kopipes kat sini!

Yang tak bersetuju tu adalah pihak ...

yang you pertikaikan pernyataan highest authority yg kita tak tahu siapa sebenarnya mereka tu ?

sedangkan dah ada pun kan rule yg ban child bride

eh kenapa takut sangat nak sentuh percentage negar  mana benua mana yg ada child bride tu? ini benua africa so saya percaya selepas ini ada salakan lolongan daripada pihak yg sama#

tak tawanan perang , child bride





india = south asian continent FYI .


so, ini dari sumber daily mail itu

HILD BRIDES: A GLOBAL ISSUE





There are currently some 57.5 million child brides across the world, 40 per cent of which married in India.
Forty-six per cent of women in India were married before the age of 18, according to the National Family Health Survey-3.
Meanwhile, in Africa, 42 per cent of girls were married before turning 18 compared to 29 per cent in Latin America and the Caribbean.
But the number of child brides is estimated to rise to 140 million by 2020 if current trends continue, 18.5 million of which will be under 15 years old, analysts warn.
Statistics show that girls living in poor households are almost twice as likely to marry before 18 than girls in higher income households.
And girls younger than 15 are also five times more likely to die in childbirth than women in their 20s.



Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2415871/Yemeni-child-bride-8-dies-internal-injuries-night-forced-marriage-groom-40.html#ixzz4EskZcDfK
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so sebelum tuding jari kat islam sebab awak bias .

then kat mana tinggi ? so kenapa i tengok nak attack islam je? dah dicakap itu tribal dan forced pulak tu. bawa bukti  yg rasulullah saw paksa aisyah kahwin ? tak ada dan memang tak ada

so takpayah pusing pusinglah.


kan dah cakap itu tribal custom ...dan dipaksa arrange marriage - tu kat mana yg sering mempraktiskannya


pada saya yg berotak dah boleh nampak

tapi kalau nak bias kat islam as u claim lah sunnah = mesti

( hahaha)




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Post time 20-7-2016 02:58 AM | Show all posts
changepassword replied at 20-7-2016 12:25 AM
bila pulak wa kata wa  tak bersetuju? Sila kopipes kat sini!

Yang tak bersetuju tu adalah pihak ...

defined lah siapa mereka sekadar jawapan : lebi istamic labelling name calling hey you know setakat ni ke pihak u boleh buat? name calling je macam memang suka budaya buruk ye ? tapi tak pelahj ini menunjukkan pihak anda yg tak berlandaskan sistem nilai mempunyai akhlak yg semmeangnya buruk berlainan sangat dengan islam dan rasulullah saw  yg sering menjadi cercaan puak puak anda .
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Post time 20-7-2016 03:33 AM | Show all posts
changepassword replied at 19-7-2016 04:01 PM
Acong tu umo 8 tahun lah akak.

Ni berlaku taun ni lah. Ada date kat atas tu.

apa umat islam tak ikut sunnah nabi? patut nikah umur 9 tahun..... bukan 13 tahun  
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Post time 20-7-2016 03:35 AM | Show all posts
tahniah Mr Naik...! sudah berjaya memartabatkan sunnah nabi
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mbhcsf replied at 20-7-2016 12:02 AM
child bride - kat mana tinggi ?

Nagara Islam.
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Post time 20-7-2016 03:56 AM | Show all posts
Hujatul_Jihad replied at 20-7-2016 03:33 AM
apa umat islam tak ikut sunnah nabi? patut nikah umur 9 tahun..... bukan 13 tahun

apa tanda baligh dan  yg nyata dalam islam
by age or by signs?

i kena tanay soalan basic ni sebab nampak awak seperti mana org tak ada agama tau baru masuk agama islam macam tak tah usangat ni
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Post time 20-7-2016 03:58 AM | Show all posts

nak menang je kan punya pasal bukan kebenaran kalau kebenaran pun bawa berita kes kes yg dipaksa, forced marriage, arrange marriage yg vague , alahai.
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