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Kadar Perceraian di Malaysia meningkat 105%!

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Post Last Edit by ifanonline at 14-9-2010 17:19

Number of divorces rises by 105pc                        

2010/09/11

MARRIAGES are breaking down faster than they are being built. The divorce rates in Malaysia are rising sharply.
            
In 2002, for every 9.6 marriages registered, there was one divorce. Last year, in every 6.1, there was one.

Researcher John Emmanuel Kiat said while the number of marriages had increased by 21 per cent (153,318 to 199,586) from 2002 to last year, the number of divorces had gone up by as much as 105 per cent (16,013 to 32,763) during the same period.

Kiat, a Statistics and Cognition tutor in HELP University College, described the jump as "statistically significant".

"The question is, would you consider this rise big enough to be regarded as a problem?"

Dr Anjli Doshi-Gandhi of the National Population and Family Development Board  said the rising rates could signify a turn in the public's perception of the marriage institution.

"Those days, being divorced was embarrassing and families lost face. Now, people are more open. Times have changed.

"Marriages must be strengthened. We don't want what's happening in developed countries, where divorce rates are very high, to happen here."

The board, she added, counselled 700 to 800 troubled couples a year.

Psychologist Charis Wong pointed out the challenges in  marriages today.

In self-arranged marriages, many young Malaysian men and women adopt an unrealistic, Western-style conceptualisation of love strongly influenced by the media, she said.

These couples enter into  marriage with intense, passionate feelings but without exploring their beliefs and values about marriage.

They focused so much on the romantic aspect of love that they forgot that real love must be accompanied by commitment, which involved hard work by both parties, said Wong.

"The moment a marriage becomes challenging, they become disillusioned, frustrated and give up easily."

Wong recounted the many pending divorce cases she saw petitioned at the Kuala Lumpur family court when she was  a practising litigation lawyer.

She said she was saddened by the "long list of petitions for divorce, the majority of which were from young couples in their 20s or 30s".

The National Registration Department  registered 2,706 divorces among non-Muslims in 2002, which subsequently climbed  to 5,647 last year.

Between 2006 and last year, the rates mostly stagnated at about 5,000  a year.

However, seven months into this year, there were already 7,428 cases registered,  way higher than years before.

There was an appreciable rise in the number of divorces among Chinese and Indians this year, said Universiti Malaya's Associate Professor Dr Tey Nai Peng.

"The high ratio of divorce over the number of marriages is a cause for concern. The rising rate may be a contributory factor to  falling fertility."

As for the Muslims, the Department of Islamic Development recorded 27,116 divorces last year, up from 13,937 in 2002. Over the years, the upward trend has been quite consistent.

The divorce rate was still much higher among  Muslims compared with non-Muslims, with the former making up more than 82 per cent of total divorces, said Tey.

Divorce, while not completely free from stigma, was at least an option for women and a better alternative than an abusive relationship, said Wong.

"In traditional marriages, men and women had very specific, defined roles.

"When a man fails to carry out his duty and responsibility to his wife, the wife often does not see divorce as an option because of the stigma and hardship that will follow.

"On the other hand, when a wife fails to fulfil her duty to her husband in taking care of his domestic needs, she stands to be corrected and even punished by him and his family.

"Trapped in these inflexible roles, men and women may remain married, but unhappy as a couple.

"In today's  marriage, however, both husband and wife need to accommodate and adjust to the changing role of women;  from their traditional  role as a child-bearer and homemaker to someone who is  capable of taking over many  roles previously in the husband's domain."

Banyak sangat dugaan di luar sana...pompuan semakin ramai...lelaki semakin sedikit...andartu bertimbun-timbun...


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Post on 14-9-2010 05:20 PM |All posts
pompuan makin ramai,laki makin sikit,,tp ..................................wa nak cite pon segan
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Post on 14-9-2010 05:28 PM |All posts
banyak unsur2 sexual dlm media...mcm kat CI ni banyak tepek citer seks
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Post on 14-9-2010 05:37 PM |All posts
lelaki yg ada tak cukup kaya untuk layan demand-demand pompuan ini
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Post on 14-9-2010 05:40 PM |All posts
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    perlu kah aku naik kereta subaru impreza wrx berbunyi high cam untuk mengorat gadis2 tersebut???rumah area2 kubang buaya kuantan???
membujang sampai ke tua la aku
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Post on 14-9-2010 05:42 PM |All posts
lelaki yg ada tak cukup kaya untuk layan demand-demand pompuan ini
bmw_e34 Post at 14-9-2010 17:37


aku rasa ni bukan soal demand, tetapi role antara lelaki dan wanita dah berubah...both are competing
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Post on 14-9-2010 05:44 PM |All posts
sekiranya soceity menganggap perkahwinan itu membebankan...akan timbul masalah lain seperti peningkatan rumah2 pelacuran...masalah sosial, seperti dadah, jenayah, etc...
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Post on 14-9-2010 06:19 PM |All posts
mesti ramai yg fed up balik raya hari tu ?

Asik tanya .... kau bila nak kahwin ?    ...
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Post on 14-9-2010 07:52 PM |All posts
artis di mesia ni,
kultus cerai berai
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Post on 14-9-2010 08:35 PM |All posts
satu benda kat article yang saya rasa amat penting  - exploring values and beliefs about marriage  ni laaaa kena sama wavelength/ sekufu....

exploring expectations / kena tahu nilai, jangkaan  tanggapan tentang perkahwinan tu and kena ingat you have to work the relationship out, bukan sikit sikit  angkat tangan surrender - untuk benda remeh - and said i am out...

sebab tu i think sekufu ni penting...
maturity , problem solving, understanding semua ni ...penting..intimate relationship tu just a part of it...
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Post on 14-9-2010 09:39 PM |All posts
satu benda kat article yang saya rasa amat penting  - exploring values and beliefs about marriage  n ...
mbhcsf Post at 14-9-2010 20:35


that's true...when it comes to 'real' life, sekufu is important
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Post on 14-9-2010 09:50 PM |All posts
that's true...when it comes to 'real' life, sekufu is important
ifanonline Post at 14-9-2010 21:39

oh yesss...but  then those yang sekufu tu kena hati hati gak...kang hubby orang kang  hishhh hehehhehe
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Post on 14-9-2010 11:41 PM |All posts
apa yg aku perhatikan zaman skrg ni dh tk ada hormat menghormati antara pasangan...
bila time bercinta, blm apa2 lgi dh pggil papa, mama, bi, ma...panggil yang jgn ckp la....
bila dh kawen, baru la nmpk luar dlm....baru la perangai sebenar keluar...
nk buat camne...yg boleh terima tuh, sabar je la....
yg tk leh terima.....cerai berai la jawabnya....
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Post on 14-9-2010 11:48 PM |All posts
lelaki yg baik, bekerjaya dan beragama dah pupus....
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Post on 14-9-2010 11:58 PM |All posts
lelaki yg baik, bekerjaya dan beragama dah pupus....
annehuda Post at 14-9-2010 23:48


bukan lelaki sahaja...pompuan yg baik2 pun sudah extinct...
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:11 AM |All posts
kalau kuasa cerai ditangan pompuan...rasanya kadar penceraian

di malaysia meningkat 300%
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:11 AM |All posts
cabaran duniawi makin kuat.....so, kena tingkatkan iman dan kembali ke pangkal jalan....
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:20 AM |All posts
kalau kuasa cerai ditangan pompuan...rasanya kadar penceraian

di malaysia meningkat 300%
TanSriJess Post at 15-9-2010 00:11


ye ker ??? :re:
Mr. Oshin_Honey.. extravaganza.. ahakzzz..
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:23 AM |All posts
Post Last Edit by faraway1 at 14-9-2010 11:24
lelaki yg ada tak cukup kaya untuk layan demand-demand pompuan ini
bmw_e34 Post at 14-9-2010 04:37


memula dikatakan ppuan lagi ramai dr lelaki,
kemudian dikatakan wanita demand demand..
kalau tak berlaki, dan susah pulak nak berlaki sbb lelaki kurang,
nak demand dengan sapa pulak lepas tu?
sugar daddy, lelaki simpanan, nepal, bangladesh

senang cita, nilai perkahwinan hari ini bukan cam dulu,
kuat setia sampai mati
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:25 AM |All posts
kalau kuasa cerai ditangan pompuan...rasanya kadar penceraian

di malaysia meningkat 300%
TanSriJess Post at 14-9-2010 11:11


really,, apa me baca kat FD tu,
dorang lagi sanggup bersuamikan kaki memukul curang etc
dr menjadi janda.
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:26 AM |All posts
lelaki yg baik, bekerjaya dan beragama dah pupus....
annehuda Post at 14-9-2010 23:48



    ape lg cari la partner pompuan....
HUP HOLLAND HUP!!!!!!
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:28 AM |All posts
Mr. Oshin_Honey.. extravaganza.. ahakzzz..
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:30 AM |All posts
ape lg cari la partner pompuan....
lkick2113 Post at 14-9-2010 11:26


me rasa baik single ajelah sampai mati,
ppuan kan dikatakan suka demand, bayangkan dua ppuan suka demand duk serumah..
mesti selalu gaduh
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me rasa baik single ajelah sampai mati,
ppuan kan dikatakan suka demand, bayangkan dua ppuan su ...
faraway1 Post at 15-9-2010 00:30



    partner pompuan kan ramai.....ape kisah up kan relationship tu to the next level (pompuan+pompuan)...hahaha
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Post on 15-9-2010 12:34 AM |All posts
mesti ramai yg fed up balik raya hari tu ?

Asik tanya .... kau bila nak kahwin ?    .. ...
Jesse_Mccartney Post at 14-9-2010 18:19

dan laki kau mana...ropernya kali ni balik umah isteri muda hehe
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