still water runs deep ..
quiet person much more complex ..
yap .. when entangle problem ..
sometimes expressing by vocal voice sound .. can do xtra damage to d'situation ..
so why not .. try switch to audio visual system mode mood ..
hear and listen .. get understanding
look and see .. get observation
dont worry be happy always .. hear and listen ..
they say .. Music is the therapy of human soul ..
come .. lets work it out with 'oppa Kl style' haha
wassalam Last edited by NorAddin on 23-1-2013 12:33 PM
happiness with friends
In life we need friends ..
so treasure your friends ..
in our life journey .. we will make many friends ..
at school .. at university .. in sport or other activities and at work place also ..
hoping we will develop a small circle of good friends ..
friends who will stand by us in good times and bad times ..
Oleh itu dengan mengenal diri, seseorang akan tahu dimana kelemahan dan kelebihan yang ada pada dirinya. Dia juga akan tahu, bagaimana untuk memperbaiki dan meningkatkan mutu ibadahnya kepada Allah SWT. Nabi SAW pernah berkata "Sampaikan sesuatu, walaupun hanya dengan satu ayat"
very correct ..
mereka mengenal segala gerak dan geri ..
mereka .. usul dan periksa ..
i received this good advice from wise person ..
he told me that one of d'reasons which caused people to be unhappy
was that they were envious of others ..
never envied your friends who had
better education or
earned more money or
lived in bigger houses or
owned more expensive cars ..
to be contented with what we had ..
this is good ..
philosophically ..
it would be even better
if we could feel vicariously happy
when we see our friends and former students doing well in life .
wassalam
p/s ..
alif ba ta
alif .. ugama
ba .. bangsa
ta .. tanah air
haha .. cari tempat selamat aahh ..
or else go dengan group ..
Nabi s.a.w. bersabda;
‘‘Barang siapa berpecah belah, maka dia bukanlah dari golongan kami (bukan umat Nabi s.a.w.).
Rahmat Allah berada bersama-sama dengan jemaah dan
sesungguhnya serigala hanya akan memakan kambing yang menyendirikan diri.’’
Riwayat Atthabarani
When thingz dont go your way ..
itz eazy to feel ..
fruztrated
helplezz
confuzed
Any time you feel this way .. azk yourzelf : "what iz one thing i can do right now to improve d'zituation"
Thiz iz empowering queztion ..
bcoz it makez you realize that ..
there'z alwayz zomething productive you can do .
Alwayz .. You juzt need to focuz .. on one action you can take immediately ..
if you're unhappy abt your relationzhip with your bozz
zchedule a converzation with him or her
if you're unhappy abt your zalary
improve your zkill
enroll in a courze
find a mentor
negotiate a pay increaze
you could even start a buzinezz on d'zide
there'z an endlezz lizt of thingz you could do to make your life better if you're not willing to do anything on that list .. then you zhouldn't complain
inztead of complain .. take action
Change your circumztancez and yourzelf
Happinezz izn't juzt an emotional ..
it'z a choice .. a daily one ..
Finding real happinezz takez dedication and determination .. zo it'z not for fainthearted
Elle_mujigae posted on 26-2-2013 03:57 PM
Salam, hi pakcik NorAddin...
Ye,changed siggy...hehe this excerpt is from a book I'm reading ...
salam Elle_mujigae
they are also how the person feel inside and respond to outside events.........
wow .. superb and excellent .. understanding ..
p/s: changed avvy huh....the pic reminds me of Sirius;the brightest star in the night sky..
haha .. yap ..
lose control .. if d'ocean get rough n stormy ..
errmm .. unless .. you ..
swim like a bird ..
fly like a fish ..
an important star for navigation around Ocean ..
wassalam
p/s ..
Baby .. look at me and tell me what you see
You ain't seen the best of me yet
Give me time .. I'll make you forget the rest
I've got more in me .. and you can set it free
I can catch the moon in my hand
Don't you know who I am?
Remember my name ..
complain .. itz something we all do ..
but whenever we complain .. without also proposing an alternative ..
we're being irresponsible ..
some people believe that itz our job to complain ..
And d'authority job to provide solutionz
But this isn't d'right attitude ..
as a responsible person .. if we oppose authority policy ..
then we should also take d'initiative to suggest a viable solution .
sadness is normal emotional state in respond to negative external eventz
such as ..
failing in exam .. breaking up . or death in family ..
However .. sadness is temporary ..
and often doez not interfere nor impair with daily functioning of individual ..
depression .. on d'other hand ..
is more than sadness ..
and often impair daily functioning ..
It is a complex disorder ..
which involves d'disabling of one'z physical and emotional well being ..
Elle_mujigae posted on 20-3-2013 12:15 PM
Easier said than done.....if the person live alone then its possible to do it...not when you have ...
salam
decision making is very crucial ..
although we ..
decide thru heart
choose thru mind
select thru senses
at d'same times ..
element event surrounding .. situation and condition
does play a part .. in making decision ..
second thought,Am i being selfish?
so i guess .. your second though decision .. correct ..
you are not being selfish ..
but remember when making decision barring with personal n sentiment/event problems ..
emotional and mind must be intact and tactful ..
so there will be no bias ..