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Post time 12-4-2015 04:21 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
Edited by lr7 at 12-4-2015 04:30 PM

Salam forumers,

I nk tny pndpt uols ttg prob i..i dah get married a year n 2 months ago n recently i suffered injury n make my right leg unable to function temporarily..husbnd i ni mslhnya tiap kali ketuk baru jalan..tp kali suruh baru dia buat..xsuruh buat dia akan buat xtau..bila i mngamuk baru then kelam kabut nak buat..pnt la tiap2 kali kne ketuk baru jalan..

Cth disebbkn my injury i mmg unable to do any housework..nk jln pun tak boleh..so mmg rumah i dah jadi a little bit huru hara..husbnd pulak selagi i xtegur cth bilik air dah berkarat..dia akn buat tak tau je kt bilik air tu..lps i suruh dia akn buat..tp muka dia mmg masam la lpas buat tu..kalau i sihat selama hr ni mmg dia xpernah buat pun house work segala..lama2 i jadi penat..jadi penat fed up sbb nk kne jadi mandur n keep on arguing on small2 things mcm ni dgn hubby..

So nk tny pndapat anyone yg ada suami mcm my husbnd n how u deal with them?
Thanks
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Post time 12-4-2015 04:57 PM | Show all posts
hire part time maid? i pernah dengar husband husband yang merungut nak buat kerja rumah. tapi masa kecik elok buat kerja rumah di rumah mak bapak dulu. bila adik nak pindah dia pulak sibuk nak mengemas kat rumah adik. rumah sendiri tak mahu pulak buat kerja. aku kalau jenis cam tu, kalau tak nak buat kerja rumah sendiri jangan nak mengada nak kemas rumah mak bapak adik etc. kena adil. kalau ringan tulang semua tempat kena adil dan saksama.

kalau dah jadi masam muka just utk kerja rumah, kalau ada extra duit, boleh hire part time maid. cam not worth utk masam muka utk hal hal gini.

just my opinion.
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 05:06 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
munchkin replied at 12-4-2015 04:57 PM
hire part time maid? i pernah dengar husband husband yang merungut nak buat kerja rumah. tapi masa k ...

Hi dear,

Thanks for your opinion..i pernah bgi cadangan utk ambil part time maid utk dtg kemas rumah saja on weeknd..n i said xpe let me pay maid tu sbb xnk bbnkn dia..tp dia xizinkan sbb xsuka ada someone else masuk dlm rumah n do hal2 dlm rumah ni n jnji dia akn buat semua..

Tp tu jnji masa tu lah..lpas tu bila dah smpi timenye we will arguing like dia dah lupa jnji dia yg dulu..lpas buat house work mmg muka dia akn masam giler as if xpuas hati but xnk suarakn sbb xnk bergaduh..i think i kne ambil jugak lah part time maid tu no matter what...
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Post time 12-4-2015 05:11 PM | Show all posts
lr7 replied at 12-4-2015 05:06 PM
Hi dear,

Thanks for your opinion..i pernah bgi cadangan utk ambil part time maid utk dtg kemas  ...

good idea dear. sebab tengok kalau dia tak buat, terus hire pt maid. nanti kalau dia tak suka pt maid masuk rumah, then suruh dia decide. cakap i takmau gaduh or tengok you muka masam sebab rumah tak kemas. i pun rasa you pun tak suka i muka masam. you tak kemas so i take action hire part time maid sebab malas nak bicara panjang and nak solve problem. if you tak suka, then you decide lah you tolong buat kerja or i teruskan hire part time maid. you pun tak penat. kita dua pun tak gaduh or bermasam muka.
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Post time 12-4-2015 05:20 PM | Show all posts
Suami x izinkan kenapa nak tambah fuel. Derhaka la tu namanya.

U reverse saikologi la. U try buat keja rumah depan dia. Tapi since u r injured just jatuhkan barang ke ape ke. Mintak simpati. Kalau dia buat say thanks instead of scolding him like a kid. Lelaki. What do u expect. Mereka hanya kanak2 dewasa
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Post time 12-4-2015 05:37 PM | Show all posts
minta cerai je
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 05:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by lr7 at 12-4-2015 06:00 PM
munchkin replied at 12-4-2015 05:11 PM
good idea dear. sebab tengok kalau dia tak buat, terus hire pt maid. nanti kalau dia tak suka pt m ...


Huhu..i mmg stress..plus dgn my injury dgn kerja lg plus house work..waduuhh..mmg la tekanan..

ok sis cmne kalau x melibatkn housework?eg kalau mcm brf dapur dah hbs..tp ye lah dia tgok je la dah hbs n bila i bebel lg bru kelam kbut cr brg dapur..aarrgghhh tensen lah i..huhu..lpas tu billings n all pun same..xketuk xde la ingt nk g byr..pnh satu time rumah ktorg kne potong elektrik sbb xbyr..bkn xde duit nk byr..tp disebbkn sikap acuh xacuh my husbnd ni..how to wake him up..hello u r already married..dah xde zmn carefree mak ayh tnggung mkn minum..dah ada tgjawab..
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 06:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
nuryakmal replied at 12-4-2015 05:20 PM
Suami x izinkan kenapa nak tambah fuel. Derhaka la tu namanya.

U reverse saikologi la. U try bua ...

Reverse saikologi hny berkesan di masa kejadian..i mmg selalu berlakon dgn husbnd..tp tu lah lakonan hny berkesan at tht time..if nk suh dia bt anor thing kne berlakon lagi..huhu..

Man mmg big kid..really dnt understand sikap diorg yg suka ambil mudah atas almost everything..dah tgk wife ni sakit xkn xde timbul kesedaran in his mind tht he need to help this sick wife?

Tah lah..susah nk phm kdg tu..
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 06:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
NORIZALHAMZAH replied at 12-4-2015 05:37 PM
minta cerai je

Tht is still not an option for my prob..

Nway thanks 4 the reply..
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Post time 12-4-2015 06:46 PM | Show all posts
laki aku pun jenis kena mintak tolong dulu baru buat. nasib baik muka x masam kalau aku mintak tolong. kalau masam siap!!

aku setuju je hire part time maid ni. semalam aku baru je mintak quotation cleaning services co ni kasi 2 cleaner n 2 jam dorang charge rm70 aku rasa ok kot rate ni dari aku berpenat lelah..
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 06:55 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sobsob replied at 12-4-2015 06:46 PM
laki aku pun jenis kena mintak tolong dulu baru buat. nasib baik muka x masam kalau aku mintak tolon ...

Sis com tu kat mn?area klang valley ke?

Knp susah lelaki utk phm..husbnd n wife sm2 pnt cari duit..tu diorg ok boleh terima..tapi bila hal rumhtngga knp diorg xbole terima sama2 kne penat sm juga mcm cari duit?
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Post time 12-4-2015 07:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
masalah bila lelaki dimanjakan sejak kecil
masa bujang mak buatkan semua..lepas kahwin, bini pulak yang kena jaga/bela
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Post time 12-4-2015 07:27 PM | Show all posts
ramai weh jantan gini..
semua nak bini buat..
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 08:03 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MeghanK replied at 12-4-2015 07:04 PM
masalah bila lelaki dimanjakan sejak kecil
masa bujang mak buatkan semua..lepas kahwin, bini pulak  ...

Mmg pun..dr kecik lagi i rasa masyarakat melayu ni mnjakn ank lelaki n bebankn semuanya dekat ank perempuan..

Bila dah get married aduyai..letih bini nk melayan..
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 Author| Post time 12-4-2015 08:05 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miss_baby replied at 12-4-2015 07:27 PM
ramai weh jantan gini..
semua nak bini buat..

So then how to change them? I xboleh face to live with a man inconsiderable for the rest of my life..huhu
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Post time 12-4-2015 08:16 PM | Show all posts
lr7 replied at 12-4-2015 08:03 PM
Mmg pun..dr kecik lagi i rasa masyarakat melayu ni mnjakn ank lelaki n bebankn semuanya dekat ank  ...

pengajaran kat sini, awak kalau ada anak lelaki nanti, jangan lupa ajar dia buat kerja rumah jugak..kalau tidak, jadi kes macam suami awak sekarang lah..kesian kat memantu awak nanti

apa2 pon, masalah awak dengan suami ni, pergi la slow talk dengan dia, face to face sebegitu..bagitau awak tak mampu nak buat segala2 nya sendiri

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Post time 12-4-2015 08:35 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
betoi cakap mod.

Jika keadaan dah parah,
Gunalah reverse psikologi..
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Post time 12-4-2015 09:02 PM | Show all posts
cuba masa u basuh bilik air, sila bebuat jatuh telentang lepas tu
menangis gila babi, kalau still lepas tu your husband boleh buat bodo lagi,
upah aje maid, ada husband pun tak berguna.. atleast maid meredakan masalah u.
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Post time 12-4-2015 09:12 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Laki u typical jantan xde sensitivity.dia ingat bini dia kuli batak kot.yg bagi kulat bilik air dia jugak.yg menyepah rumah bukan dia jugak ker?vongoks..u hire jah part time maid!
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Post time 12-4-2015 09:59 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lr7 replied at 12-4-2015 05:58 PM
Huhu..i mmg stress..plus dgn my injury dgn kerja lg plus house work..waduuhh..mmg la tekanan..
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Bills can be paid online dear. Kalau boleh kita bayarkan. And kalau ada tesco or cold storage delivery kita minta deliver. Kalau takde hmm susah juga. Tapi kita ni kalau beli barang sure nak pilih pilih punya. Susah kalau tak memahami ni
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