LET HER GO...

melinda_kerr

Damon_Salvatore replied at 1-8-2015 09:13 AM
6 years?? wow.. lame nye.. cant imagine how much it hurts..
Anyways, i will move on.. Hopefu ...

Yes you should. Let her go then u akan temui ketenangan hidup. Jgn ada apa2pun brkait dgn dia. Let say dia jodoh u pasti dia akan datang juga nanti tapi for time being stop chasing her dan mengharap bagilah peluang diri tu pd org lain

Pelindung

Damon_Salvatore replied at 1-8-2015 09:17 AM
yeah.. sometimes the world can be so decieving.. it clouds our view to the point where we cant eve ...

mesti nko stalking dia kan.. kan.

Pelindung

intriQue replied at 31-7-2015 11:34 PM
Betul tu....pointnya kalau dah tak suka....

dah lah kita cakap tak suka, siap pulak si x tu datang merayu-rayu mendayu-dayu.. dari rasa kesian timbul pulak nyampah! rasa nak terajang je.

sue_0684

meratap la puas2 kalo dah itu yg ko nak..:zz

paipsicola

tt...this is my story.

She left me, semalam. 5 years i've waiting for her, then 5 years me and her been together. But yesterday semuanya sudah berakhir. I try so hard to tell myself, she's gone....thats the fact. Now.. dia sudah tak cintakan aku lagi. Itu hakikat mutlak yg harus aku telan hari ini dan seterusnya dalam hidup aku. Aku tak tahu apa aku rasa skrg. Kosong.

intriQue

Pelindung replied at 1-8-2015 06:35 PM
dah lah kita cakap tak suka, siap pulak si x tu datang merayu-rayu mendayu-dayu.. dari rasa kesian ...

Takdelah rasa sampai nak terajang. Ganas sgt tu....huhuhu

mbhcsf

paipsicola replied at 1-8-2015 07:55 PM
tt...this is my story.

She left me, semalam. 5 years i've waiting for her, then 5 years me and he ...

visualise  yourself 12 months from now. Please think ( for you own good ) that : I am not alone. Gonna get thru this.

Then prayed to ALLAH , moga pintu hikmah itu terbuka ,ok.

but right now, just let yourself experiencing the grief , but , know when to set the limit.

i wish you well.

Damon_Salvatore

Pelindung replied at 1-8-2015 06:33 PM
mesti nko stalking dia kan.. kan.

haha.. awal2 je laaa.. skang xde daaa..

Damon_Salvatore

paipsicola replied at 1-8-2015 07:55 PM
tt...this is my story.

She left me, semalam. 5 years i've waiting for her, then 5 years me and he ...

yeah ive been there.. and trust me, its gonna suck.. like so bad.. soo, brace yourself,a'ight???

Pelindung

paipsicola replied at 1-8-2015 07:55 PM
tt...this is my story.

She left me, semalam. 5 years i've waiting for her, then 5 years me and he ...

kesian. gi nangis puas2 kt jamban sampai mata tu rasa sakit. lepas tu jgn nangis lagi. fikir positif. kita fikir itulah yg terbaik, padahal rupanya racun. kalau rasa jiwa  tu kosong, bawa2 bertenang lepak dgn memember. kadang kita ni selalu pandang org yg diatas tapi kita lupa tgk org yg dibawah. berlambak org yg dugaan hidupnya lebih sukar dari nko. nak aku bagi contoh?

Pelindung

Damon_Salvatore replied at 3-8-2015 08:51 AM
yeah ive been there.. and trust me, its gonna suck.. like so bad.. soo, brace yourself,a'ight??? : ...

aku dulu dek cinta gampang ni .. nyaris aku di parang. nko ada?

Pelindung

Damon_Salvatore replied at 3-8-2015 08:47 AM
haha.. awal2 je laaa.. skang xde daaa..

bagus! jgn buat lagi.

paipsicola

aku tak tahu nak nagis atau tidak sampai hari nie. The day she asked for clash, my brain cannot functioning at all. Until today, aku cuma hidup aje..ikut je flow rutin aku hari2. 10 tahun, ia bukan tempoh yg singkat. terlalu..lalu..lalu..byk benda kami berdua lalui.dia chenta mati aku. sekrang hari2..aku berdoa minta Tuhan gantikan kesedihan ini dgn sesuatu yg lebih baik.

mbhcsf

paipsicola replied at 3-8-2015 09:21 PM
aku tak tahu nak nagis atau tidak sampai hari nie. The day she asked for clash, my brain cannot func ...

this is called detachment from surrounding lah dear

u rasa macam u just a mere observer looking thru a glass window

yups ..detach from surrounding

it's normal but it will pass...how soon? depends on you

hey....say to yourself :  I AM STRONGER THAN THIS...gonna get thru this...

hoccay....

Damon_Salvatore

paipsicola replied at 3-8-2015 09:21 PM
aku tak tahu nak nagis atau tidak sampai hari nie. The day she asked for clash, my brain cannot func ...

10 tahun??? Damnn.. Anyways, just be strong ok.. u gonna feel the pain, but just bear it.. it'll get better.. in time..

Damon_Salvatore

Pelindung replied at 3-8-2015 08:30 PM
aku dulu dek cinta gampang ni .. nyaris aku di parang. nko ada?

fuyoo... sampai main2 parang naa..haha.. dasyat.

ntah_sape

apabila anda telah di rejected by someone..
yg paling penting kita perlu la pergi jauh dari dia..
jgn smpai dia tahu yg kita masih terhegeh2 lagi..
lenyap terus dari pengetahuan dia psl diri kamu..
klu dia masih ada hati dgn kamu... dia akan cari..

try it

Damon_Salvatore

ntah_sape replied at 4-8-2015 12:49 PM
apabila anda telah di rejected by someone..
yg paling penting kita perlu la pergi jauh dari dia..
...

will do.. thanks for the advices..

paipsicola

ntah_sape replied at 4-8-2015 12:49 PM
apabila anda telah di rejected by someone..
yg paling penting kita perlu la pergi jauh dari dia..
...

Tq for the advise. really appreciate it.But...
Pergi jauh??..ke mana??Jauh mana?? Sampai bila??
Kemungkinan yang pernah aku fikir namun
tak berdaya nak wat camtuh.
Separuh hidup aku adalah separuh hidupnya dia.
Setengah kawan2 dia adalah kawan2nya aku.
Sebahagian yg aku ada hari ini adalah sesuatu
yg pernah kami kongsi bersama,
Aku mahu lari ke mana sedangkan kehidupan, famili,
kerjaya dan kawan2ku di sini..
Berhenti kerja dan bermula segala2nya semula
bukan pilihan terbaik aku utk masa kini hanya
kerana putus chenta.
Yang aku harus buat sekarang ini..HADAPI semua LUKA, PEDIH,
PERIT dan KEMUSNAHAN PERASAAN aku nih. Biar lumat aku berdiri sendirian di sini.
Biar lenyap seseorang yang bernama AKU.

intriQue

paipsicola replied at 5-8-2015 01:11 PM
Tq for the advise. really appreciate it.But...
Pergi jauh??..ke mana??Jauh mana?? Sampai bila??
...

Yes....it would be nice if we could start over, start fresh...somewhere where people don't know your name. And alhamdulillah, I was given that opportunity.  I dropped everything.  I left.  I detached myself from everything that reminded me of old relationship.  Started  fresh in a new surrounding. New love.  New hope.  New happiness

And I've learned from experience...bercinta lama2...bertahun2....tak semestinya ada jodoh bersama.  Ada yg cuma kenal sekejap jer, dpt terus bersama di alam rumahtangga.