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Edited by DARSITA at 18-10-2015 07:46 AM
I'm not adding new variables, I'm just clarifying for you, since you seem intent on misunderstanding. Its so simple:- aii ada anak so ada pengalaman susah senang mengajar anak berbahasa Melayu dll bahasa. Kamu?If you want to raise the discussion above my personal experience that I related, you need to provide some research or at least intellectually compelling arguments that contradict that experience. So far, you haven't done any of that and only come across as a bitchy and contentious poster with a clear agenda "akujeryangpandaiajaranakckpmelayu"
My kids semua under 10 yrs old they can go back and forth in either languages. They are not comfortable always having conversations in two, three languages simultaneously, they have to pick one of the languages to be use as our main family language. Yg penting my kids faham/boleh ckp Melayu and some writing too! Mood rajin depa ckp tak ada mood tak cakap. Bebudak kan? For them their BM is useless if used to communicate only with the mother but useful if can be use to communicate with their father. Unlike your parents their grandma in Malaysia speak Cantonese.
These comments may not make sense to people who dont have anak and not multilingualism.
Nota kaki: Sesiapa nak ajar anak dua tiga bahasa sila ke board Keluarga dlm tu ada sub-board Kanak-Kanak Istimewa, Komunikasi & PembelajaranPergi cara thred di mana aii bagi pendapat pro anc contra ajar anak dwi bahasa. Thread taun 2007 or 2008. THread tu sentiasa update.
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Kalau anak2 yg mak bapaknya blajar oversea xreti ckp bm dan english beraccent bagai pon korang nk komplen.pekata korang carik bahasa baru jah..org melayu malu nk berbahasa melayu sbb korang2 jugak kan. Kalau ckp omputeh baru pandai..cakap melayu x brape pandai.cakap omputeh campor melayu bodoh...mmg xpernah puas kan?ckp jelah asal paham! Melayu islam yg ramai (termasuk aku) x reti bahasa arab xde plak korang nk kutuk?!?? |
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adakah me heran dengan apa u tulis,
u gagal dengan anak anak u, itu you.
so kenapa me nak baca pepanjang dari orang yang gagal...
banyak contoh positif sekeliling me, itu aje me peduli,
pasal u, do i look like give a crap especially yang menulis ialah you. oh please 
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DARSITA replied at 18-10-2015 09:02 AM
Sorry, You are not a language expert. And don't take it the wrong way, but parents who successfu ...
Haha..agreed. Sembang kencang takat praktikal dlm hati jah.nnti anak dh keluar sorang ckp itik sorang ckp mcm kambing end up anak jd rojak..xde satu bahasa yg dia expert. |
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maaflah, u tulis pepanjang bukan me baca pun,
sebab u darsita... 
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Tak apa aii tau you malas dan gagal dalam memahami apa yang aii tulis. Nasihat dari aii whatever you do at least make learning a language pleasant NO paksa paksa okey ~
Bye ~
(sambil gelak gelak teringat kat Julien) |
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Bergitulah Mokcik some ppl ni ~ sembang kencang angan angan bukan main
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how much more condescending can you be.. nak bagi point valid point pun, u rasa memang perlu ke nak tonyoh in her face pasal buat anak, childlessness bagai  yang i beklog ni, i rasa dia tak buat personal attack kat you pun to warrant personal jab such as yours |
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Edited by ginbug at 19-10-2015 11:54 AM
i tak kisah melayu nak cakap english ke apa, sape lah daku untuk menghakimi. i pernah saksikan kawan i (membesar dengan cakap english, technically a mamak, tapi ic kata dia melayu) dengan anak cousin i (mak dia india singapore) kena maki depan public sebab tak mahir cakap melayu. simpati i dengan orang2 macam ni memang tebal, jadi tak kisahlah bangsa apa pun, kalau dia cakap english sebab 'my malay is not so good', lantak lah. dah tu, ko nak paksa dia malukan diri sendiri, communicate macam ayam itik ke.
tapi kan, i memang berbulu dengan spesis yang cakap english sebab nak meriak, bukannya sebab dia nak berkomunikasi. selalunya spesis ni, english dia pun dah tahap sedih. dan orang2 nya adalah spesis2 perangai hazab takde kelas macam geng sembang kencang MLM/farah mendoza lol |
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Act aii ignore her dari bod gossip kes nya dia tuduh aii menipu. Bila aii tunjuk bukti terus dia malu (thread Lisa Suriani mengandung) dah terkantoi tu ada nak minta maaf? nan hado .. jenis mentaliti pprt. Lepas tu gatei gatei pergi quote my post dlm thread ini. General blanket anak anak aii yang tak nak bercakap melayu ni jenis malas dan ibubapa jenis gagal. Tu tak personal attack ke? Kot dia ada anak lain cerita ini seorang anak pun tak ada lagi nak sembang. Mcm dia jer yg perfect and know everything on every subject and nobody else can have a different opinion because she have a "masters in languages". Pehlezzz
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Again, in some cases yes, but until you know each and every individual situation you can't judge it.
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Bukan melayu cakap melayu sebab nak training cakap melayu dekkkk . kalau dah melayu training la cakap omputih atau mandarin di mana mana saje...ini.2.main langugage yg melayu kena belajor...think forward malays... |
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aku cuba
whattttt???? why they got????
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sorry la kalau ko nak kata aku ni jawa totok mcm ko ye....
kalau ko berdarah jawa jgn ko nak assume semua org berdarah totok mcm ko jugak
du ai know yu? no meh? never meh? yu ken get lost
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eleh...dtg nk tongkang tahun 1980 pun bole dpt ic biru...no hal la |
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terasa
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kalau org ckp ko sesuatu yg ko bukan ko rasa camna? ko x rasa nak betul kan ke atau ko buta buta senyum je. cth: tetiba ada budak lalu tepi ko ckp " eh mummy itu babi ke?" sambil jari telunjuk dia arah kat ko
ckp kosong boleh la....khennnnnnn
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Post time 18-10-2015 11:44 PM
