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Hai assalam kawan-kawan...saya newbie selalu jd SR je...nak minta pendapat pasal masalah sis saya ni...sis saya ni anak sulung, kami dua beradik je so cubit paha kiri paha kanan terasa...saya sedih tgk life dia kalau dia mengadu nak nasihat lebih2pun saya just adik je.saya tak tahu kenapa life dia sgt miserable though dia nak kata jahat tu memang taklah...dia baik, tak pernah kedekut dgn family, kalau balik kg confirm akan belanja bukan takat parents sampai makcik pakcik semua dia kerap belanja n sgt seorang yg suka tlg org, kelakar, n solatpun tak tinggal cuma dia ada masalah psl life dgn lelaki...
ceritanya mcm ni, dia pernah hidup bermadu sejak 5 thn lepas...n baru cerai bout 3 months ago...dia kenal ex husband (Mr A) dia kat tempat kerja lama...n masa tu Mr A kata xbahagia dgn wife sbb wife dia ada org lain n xjlnkan tanggungjawab sbg seorang isteri (part ni mmg betullah diakui oleh wife dia sendiri) so Mr A janji dgn my sis akan ceraikan wife dia utk kahwin dgn my sis cuma Mr A perlukan masa sbb anak dia masih sekolah & dia ajak my sis settle down dulu utk elakkan perkara xbaik jd...my sis ni pun ok sbb percaya yg Mr A akan tunaikan janji.
Time goes by...sampai 5 tahun dah deyoll kahwin n dpt baby (3 years) mr A still xceraikan wife dia...my sis ni pun tak adalah memaksa sgt cuma my sis minta mr A ni kalau boleh berterus teranglah dgn first wife yg deyoll dah kahwin tp Mr A cuma bg jawapan...SABAR....n happen to be wife dia dah berubah jadi baik...my sis found out rupanya mr Apun dah berbaik dgn wife dia (after 5 years deyoll hidup mcm strangers).
So for the sake of move on, my sis beritahu first wife Mr A yg deyoll dah kahwin...my sis buat mcm ni sebab nak suruh Mr A lepaskan dia sebab my sis tahu Mr A takkan lepaskan first wife dia...surprisingly first wife Mr A sgtlah baik n xserang my sis...in fact dia minta my sis buat istikharah utk buat right decision...n first wife Mr A juga mengaku pernah buat silap thru out their marriage b4 this.
Time tu Mr A marah my sis sbb bgtau first wife dia tapi he's still refuse to divorce my sis (he is very selfish) though my sis minta banyak kali and first wife Mr A bila dah tahu husband dia ada orang lain..diapun cuba memenangi hati husband dia balik (which is good for herlah)...n nampaklah perubahan Mr A yg dh start mula call first wife dia n text though dia ada kat umah my sis...sampai my sis rasa hati Mr A mayb bukan pd dia lagi tp my sis tak ada kekuatan nak filekan cerai sbb mr A sgt bertanggungjawab soal kebajikan n baik n rajin tlg buat housechore.
8 bulan my sis hidup bermadu dgn keadaan madu tahu (faham tak?hahaha) she admits its not easy tp she already made mistake by choosing this life (dia nasihatkan saya kalau boleh elak bermadu) my sis nk move on tp susah lg2 memikirkan baby dia...so what she did is she woke up every night n buat istikharah minta beri petunjuk...
And the crisis begin...(bila my sis cerita ni rasa nak hantuk kepala dia kt dinding) my sis terkenal seorang lelaki kt satu function ni n deyoll exchange number for work purpose tp mamat ni keep texting her everyday though my sis ada gak mengelak tak reply or reply dgn ayat annoying tp he didnt give up till one day the met up (dating kot).
Knowing my sis, dia bukan jenis senang fall for guy (dia berkawan dgn Mr A 3 thn, n kahwin 5 thn, time tu ada org approachpon dia tolak...mcm2 deyoll lalui) tp yess i strongly believe that people come into ur life for a reason..and mamat ni menjadi kekuatan utk my sis failkan cerai (till now Mr A tak tahu kehadiran mamat ni) walaupun deyoll tak declare as couplepun juz friend.
Mr A yg rase ego tercalar time tu sbb tak sangka my sis akan failkan ceraipun lafaz depan hakim bila court minta deyoll hadir kt court.my sis mmg nekad time ni dh cerai baru dia bagitau kami sekeluarga.Kiranye masalah my sis dgn Mr A dah settlelah n first wife mr A pun ucap tq sbb sudi undur diri n say tq sbb pernah hadir dlm hidup deyoll.
TAPI......masalahnya skrg saya xsuka my sis kawan dgn mamat tu..sbb he is someone's husband jugakk..arghhhh..im afraid he just using her for his own benefit (berkaitan kerja) atau dgn erti kata lain nk jdikan skandal je sbb mamat ni akan cari my sis mase2 tertentu je (my sis kate this guy super duper bz) lagipun work line mamat ni mmg senang dikaitkan dgn skandal..penat dah nasihat my sis ni..kesian pun ye gak sbb saya xnk dia jatuh lubang sama...i love her so much...dia sgt baik n xfair for her to involve with this kind of rubbish..tp dari cara my sis cerita mamat ni adalah sisi baik dia...i know she screw up tp when involve hati mmg susah...i could see her happy face bila dia balik jumpa that guy n sad when he disappeared...what should i do to help her??saya takut dia end up jd 2nd wife lg...saya dah nasihat dia n my sis kate diepun minta utk lupa that guy (saya nampak my sis bgn at 3am almost everyday to solat sunat) tp masih xboleh move on n xbleh nk ignore if he texted her.b4 this ada yg approach my sis mmg husband org siap de yg openly nk jdkan skandal tp my sis tolak...tp yg mamat ni i dont know why she fall for him...
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Napa la g mintak cerai elok elok dah ada laki |
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Yg I faham your sis bercerai dgn ex husband becoz ex husband tak tunai janji utk cerai isteri pertama. You pun kata yg 1st wife ex husband dan ex husband baik2 shj org nya. Hanya kerana ex husband tak tunaikan janji lepaskan 1st wife your sis nak bercerai dan akhirnya berani fail cerai kerana sudah ada penganti konon2 nya. I hanya mampu hmmmm kan shj....doakan lah yg baik2 ajer... |
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Byk kesalahan your sis yg i rasa kene bertaubat..
1st mengharapkn penceraian madu masa 1st marriage.. Dia adalah pengacau rumah tangga.. Luckily dia kawen.
2nd berkawan dengan lelaki semasa masih berkahwin...
Sebab tu hidup sentiasa x tenang . Kene muhasabah diri.. Semoga yg tebik buat your sis n dipermudahlan segal urusan |
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Sy faham kenapa tinggalkan suami utk suami orang |
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Edited by Mrperfect2 at 21-1-2019 05:35 PM
Isk... Isk.... Poligami tu bknya haram pun... Halal... Wlpun dimadukan... Tapi suami bertanggungjawab adil dan tak pernah abaikan nafkah zahir & batin... So tiada masalahkan.??? ... Kenapalah kakak awak tu nak terjun ke mulut buaya... Adoi... Sblm ni dah elok2 halal cemolot.... Gi cari penyakit nak berskandal bagai..... Mengapa ini harus terjadi.... Dah tu dgn suami org pulak tu...... |
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takyah risau pasal dia jd second wife lg sbb lelaki mcm tu takkan nk kawin dgn dia, dia cuma nk seronok2 jd skandal je tu.. |
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noraidil_06 replied at 21-1-2019 09:19 AM
Sy faham kenapa tinggalkan suami utk suami orang
Sebab dia fetish suami orang ke sis??? |
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No comments... Belum sampai tahap ni lagi
#mindblow jap  |
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missDollie replied at 21-1-2019 05:39 PM
Sebab dia fetish suami orang ke sis???
In away yes.
& Dah biasa menang |
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Nak husband org or bujang. Tu adalah pilihan ur sister. Takdir x berslh dlm ni. Ma sister u yg pilih husband org, jd dpt lah seadanya. |
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Ur sister dah biasa jd cebter of attention.
Disayangi sbb baik n pandai ambik hati.
Dia sll menang.
Dia sll dpt apa yg dia nak.
Dgn husband dia, dia x menang.
Dia kena dengar ckp husband dia yg in away menangkan first wife.
The cycle continue on n on |
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Org perempuan bila dah tak dpt attention suami, bila org laki lain bg attention mmg dia senang nak fall for the other guy. Tgh vulnerable state. Suami org kan mmg ayat manis.
Remind her over and over again what happened the first time dia hidup bermadu. Dia escape the first time, takkan nak repeat??? Maybe you guys can start workout together, start to tone up n ckp ngan dia, she can get any man she wants that is better than suami org tu. Try to set her up with someone else ke?? Or try speed dating (for Muslim of course) so she can meet someone new (and try something new in her life) |
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Walaupun ex dia xtepat janji nk ceraikan first wife..tp ur sis kata dia btnggjwb dgn ank n tlg keje rmh kn..
Pkenalan dgn yg baru ni cpt sgt la..dia x rasa serik ke? Baru bcerai kn..tp rasanya mcm yg baru ni xsmpai niat nk kawen kot..dia tahu ke ur sis skrg dh bcerai? |
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Post time 21-1-2019 06:03 PM
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onexox97 replied at 21-1-2019 04:10 PM
Napa la g mintak cerai elok elok dah ada laki
ntahlah my sis ni suke buat keputusan tanpa consult org laen dh buat bru bgtau...xde jodoh dh kot..kite yg tgk die..kite yg pening.hahahah |
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Huh!!.....Pokchik lost nih.... adakah tren baru sekarang ni?? Laki Orang hot in da market izit?? |
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Post time 21-1-2019 06:05 PM
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kaseh80 replied at 21-1-2019 04:23 PM
Dah tahu susah hidup bermadu kenapa nak kawan dgn husband org lagi
patutnya kakak tt dah tahu sel ...
told her n hrp die dgr |
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Nenolen replied at 21-1-2019 04:37 PM
Yg I faham your sis bercerai dgn ex husband becoz ex husband tak tunai janji utk cerai isteri pertam ...
ntahlah..i pon xtau ape ade dlm hati die..only she knows the main reason why |
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Post time 21-1-2019 06:08 PM
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sally03tomato replied at 21-1-2019 04:55 PM
Byk kesalahan your sis yg i rasa kene bertaubat..
1st mengharapkn penceraian madu masa 1st marria ...
tulah...i try advise her |
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Post time 21-1-2019 04:00 PM
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