Academic excellence at the expense of social life.....

DanIno

Assalamualaikum, sebenarnya saya telah dikuasai oleh satu fahaman, iaitu mengurangkan masa untuk kehidupan sosial ( bertemua kawan2, ahli keluarga, sanak-saudara, masa keluar bertemu kenalan ) untuk meningkatkan kecemerlangan akademik sehingga ke tahap semaksimum mungkin. Maknayanya berusaha over 100%......cuba untuk membuang kehidupan sosial semata2 mengejar kecemerlangan dalam pelajaran dan seterusnya kerjaya pada masa hadapan. Bersukan jarang, tengok tv tidak, enjoy dengan kawan2 apatah lagi. Study jer 24 hours a day. Can u guys gimme the pros and cons of this practise?

[ Last edited by  DanIno at 25-10-2006 12:22 AM ]

ako_chan

emm.....:hmm::hmm::hmm:.........


mn ko dpt fahamn cenggini???.....:stp::stp:....
may be klu ko ni robot.....ako leh la trime....i meant....kite ni manusia, ada hati n perasaan...nk gak hiburan tuk release kn tension kn???....
bayangkn klu ko study je memanjang......pas 2 ko x de sosial life...
jadi katak bawah tempurung la gayanye....

bagi ako life ni kena la seimbang...klu setakat nk kurang kn yg x baik cam slalu kluar malam...rempit ke, gi main snooker..mmg patut la......
tp ni nk cuba buang kehidupan sosial ko???.....apa kes???.....silap2 leh jadi cam saintis gile yg ada ilmu...but x th cam mn nk gi tahu kt org ramai.....

:geram::geram:

fairy_hobbit

Originally posted by DanIno at 25-10-2006 12:16 AM
Assalamualaikum, sebenarnya saya telah dikuasai oleh satu fahaman, iaitu mengurangkan masa untuk kehidupan sosial ( bertemua kawan2, ahli keluarga, sanak-saudara, masa keluar bertemu kenalan ) untu ...

huh.. aku tak bole ler mcm ni.. hidup kena seimbang.... baru puas hati... unless kalau betul2 lemah dlm pelajaran, susah sgt nak masuk dlm otak...  n dah takder cara lain.. baru la buat mcm ni kot....

macademia

ada orang camni.....

Deadgurlzz

dont study hard but study smart.... :love:

okb

kalo stadi smart bodo cenggitu gak tak guna gak.. ka ka ka

RedAlert

The thing is, I don't think human's mental capacity can cope with 24 hours of studying.The brain needs a break once in a while and that's where our "social life" comes in. It doesn't have to be extreme like going out clubbing, etc.... but enough to let your mind rest so that you can resume your studies afterwards.

Kadang-kadang bila kita berinteraksi dgn orang, minda kita lebih mudah menerima apa yang dipelajari... that's the beauty of human communication. Kalau asyik dgn buku / computer saja we'll end up memorising facts instead of understanding them.

But bear in mind, it's all about balance and discipline....

[ Last edited by  RedAlert at 26-10-2006 06:27 PM ]

DanIno

Originally posted by fairy_hobbit at 25-10-2006 01:37 AM

huh.. aku tak bole ler mcm ni.. hidup kena seimbang.... baru puas hati... unless kalau betul2 lemah dlm pelajaran, susah sgt nak masuk dlm otak...  n dah takder cara lain.. baru la buat mcm ni ko ...

That's exactly my prob, saya betul2 lemah dalam pelajaran ( especially Maths )...

DanIno

Kalau korang nak tau, Bill Gates masa dia memulakan syarikat Microsoft tu dia pun takde social life, sebab tu dia boleh succeed ( Kalau tak caya pegi baca profile dia ). Dia ni genius, brilliant tapi still concentrate gila2 at what he's doing.......

DanIno

Originally posted by macademia at 25-10-2006 05:07 PM
ada orang camni.....

Memang ada tapi susah untuk dijumpai, saya pun baru jumpa sorang je...

DanIno

I pena baca Chinese student scorer dedahkan rahsia dia kat paper yg dia study 8 to 12 hours daily...macam tak percaya je. Mesti la dia buat berhenti2, ada masa rehat dan berekreasi, tapi dia macam menipu je? Apa pendapat korang?

sherrina

do u like it? do u like to do that, study 12 hours without doing anything else? if u like it, go ahead. Tp bila dah bekerja dan rasa betapa byk mende yg anda dah terlepas, jgn menyesal. Coz that 8-12 hours studying will surely be with u when u are working, lagi2 kalau kene job yg mmg kene buat 8-12 hours. Many of us here are doing it now. Stress mmg ye tp at least tak le terasa tahap cipan sebab masa skolah kita dah balance our life. Dah blaja puas2, main puas2. So tak ralat sgt, in fact kalau kita pandai atur schedule kita leh fit in leisure and family time into our tight schedule.

think about it, remaja hanya sekali

sherrina

Originally posted by DanIno at 26-10-2006 06:45 PM


That's exactly my prob, saya betul2 lemah dalam pelajaran ( especially Maths )...

lemah tang mana? lemah apa? what's ur plan to overcome the prob? kalau pun study 12 hours, does that overcome the prob? plan and execute :D

DanIno

Originally posted by sherrina at 26-10-2006 07:32 PM
do u like it? do u like to do that, study 12 hours without doing anything else? if u like it, go ahead. Tp bila dah bekerja dan rasa betapa byk mende yg anda dah terlepas, jgn menyesal. Coz that 8- ...

I really like it if it means greatness and excellence in life and career.....

sherrina

kalau ikut pakar motivasi, dlm masa sejam hanya 30-45 minit pertama aje kita fokus. selebihnya kita dah terapung2 dialam lain. Kasihanilah otak dan badan anda, ia juga memerlukan rehat

p/s: does that the only thing that matters in life?

iscol_klang

fahaman sesat...
kakak kawan aku penah citer kat aku, kat u dulu dia stadi je memanjang, takde social life langsung...sudahnye pas grad, memang takde life...kejer pun bosan...

yg sebetulnye, carik ape kelemahan & baiki kelemahan tu dgn cara yg selesa...bukan dgn cara yg menyeksakan badan...aku tak penah jumpe orang yg tak berape pandai pastu stadi 24 jam sampai takde social life pastu result mencanak2 naik,takde, aku tak penah jumpe...unlessla kalo orang tu rasa stadi tu la social life dia sampai nak buat benda lain pun tak suke, tu nasib dia la bile tengok dunia luar nanti...

Deadgurlzz

Originally posted by okb at 26-10-2006 04:28 PM
kalo stadi smart bodo cenggitu gak tak guna gak.. ka ka ka

dah tau bodo gi la skolah! ape la...kui kui kui....study smart ni good for student...yela this way lagi bagus dr study hard spmai pecah kpale.....

fly_in_d_sky

Originally posted by DanIno at 25-10-06 12:16 AM
Assalamualaikum, sebenarnya saya telah dikuasai oleh satu fahaman, iaitu mengurangkan masa untuk kehidupan sosial ( bertemua kawan2, ahli keluarga, sanak-saudara, masa keluar bertemu kenalan ) untu ...

rugi nyer study 24 jam
study 24 jam bukan dpt masuk sume menda yg dibaca
ingat study 24 jam leh ingat the whole book
brapa percent jer dpt masuk
benda nie xleh dibuat lama
nanti otak akan penat
kene pandai bahagikan masa
few hours study then few hours relax, beriadah org kata
pastu sambung balik
kalau nak study lebih teratur wat jadual
time bile senang nak study
pagi, ptg, mlm ..... depend pd invididual
pastu kalau study 24 jam means study sorg2 ker
kalau leh study sorg2 ok gak but sumtimes kene gak study group
yer la bincang ape yg x faham
kalau x pandai dlm certain subject
do lots of practice
kalau math ..... wat latihan n kene pandai gune formula ........
study smart, not study hard

Icahn

Originally posted by sherrina at 27-10-2006 07:07 PM
kalau ikut pakar motivasi, dlm masa sejam hanya 30-45 minit pertama aje kita fokus. selebihnya kita dah terapung2 dialam lain. Kasihanilah otak dan badan anda, ia juga memerlukan rehat

p/s: d ...

  This is what we have to think about....

CRK

Originally posted by sherrina at 26-10-2006 07:32 PM
do u like it? do u like to do that, study 12 hours without doing anything else? if u like it, go ahead. Tp bila dah bekerja dan rasa betapa byk mende yg anda dah terlepas, jgn menyesal. Coz that 8- ...

:setuju:

skarang ni bila masuk alam pekerjaan/kahwin baru aku rasa dah banyak bende2 yg aku terlepas sepanjang aku study dulu. lepas abis degree terus continue master pahtu continue lagi. kawan pun tak ramai..