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Post time 10-11-2007 01:19 PM | Show all posts |Read mode
Assalamualaikum semua...

Aku nak share probs le... hope uols ley tlg @ give some advices... uwa...

Actually, aku baru kapel stlah sethn b'kwn...... masa mmula aku x syg dia betul2.. mayb sbb baru.. kalau dulu, even aku ade dia.. aku kerap dgn kwn2 aku.. so, dia x de di sisi pon tak terasa sgt... sejak aku pindah dan benti keje.. jauh gak dr member2.. member2 pon da bz keje.... dia yg kerap teman kan aku.... ke sana sini... dia keje yg de shift... keje kt butik MNG  jd stor boy.. dkt2 ngan tmpt aku.. so, sblum keje die mesti dtg amek aku gi makan... dan aku slalu la b'manja2 ngan die.. coz family aku pon bukan de kt uma.. aku sorg jek.. dlu elok2 keje benti lak coz jauh dr uma,,..

Probs start aku x tau punca dr sape... tp, aku rs aku yg salah... 1 pg kte org gado.. then, dia jd tak tentu arah... die tension sampaikan die gado ngan bos die kt tmpt keje... actually die ni x thn pressure.. die ske lari dr pressure.. then die trus cabut dan gi keje s'pore.. mmg sblum nih dia ckp, ade lubang keje kat s'pore gaji beso... tp, dia ckp demi aku dia x keje sane... sbb kte org gado tu dia trus trima keje tu... dia ckp dia tension aku wat dia camtuh.... uwaa aku x sangke sbb gado kecik dia ley wat camtuhhh..... uwaaaaaaaaa............... skang nih dia gi keje s'pore dan tinggalkan aku sndiri... bila skarang dia ngok aku, dia ckp nyesal keje s'pore.. sbb yerla.. keje spore mne de life... pg keje.. balik mlm...

Aku tak bule la tanpa dia.. coz da t'biasa ngan dia.. da cube kua ngan kwn2 tp, x se'fun kuar ngan dia... mcm mane ni??? perlu ke aku keje biar aku bz kan diri dan x pk psl dia sgt..... ?? aku pnah rayu kt dia suh keje kat sini, dia.. dia ckp dia kena teruskan.. dia ckp x lame.. tp, 10 bulan... 10 bulan tu kejap ke???????????? uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......................... mcm mane aku nak hepi mcm dlu... da la jupe pon x slalu... msg lg la x slalu.. susah nk msg.. cal? lg la.........

kwn2 pls help me... aku da cite kat beshfren aku... dia ckp sabar jek... dan die slalu ajak aku jln supaya aku x sunyi sgt.. tp aku x nk susahkan die gak.... uwaa help...
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Post time 10-11-2007 01:43 PM | Show all posts
matlamat lifo awk ape ek?? just asking  
sbb org yg xada matlamat hidup je akan rase sunyi, xtau nk wat pe dlm hidup ni..
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Post time 10-11-2007 01:55 PM | Show all posts
hhhmmm....
hidup kita ni bukan setakat nak pikirkan bf kita jer...
kita kan da matlamat lain lam hidupkan...
banyak benda yang kita boleh buat daripada nak memikirkan masalah je....
masalah ni bukan takder penyelesaian...
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Post time 10-11-2007 01:56 PM | Show all posts
setakat nak dekat dgn dia, nak beroman dan bermesra jer....?
itu la.. dulu ko ego sgt masa gado... mengapa kau dating dgn orang lain... dia cemburu la...
skrg amik ko... terimalah akibatnyer..
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Post time 10-11-2007 01:56 PM | Show all posts
hhhmmm....
hidup kita ni bukan setakat nak pikirkan bf kita jer...
kita kan da matlamat lain lam hidupkan...
banyak benda yang kita boleh buat daripada nak memikirkan masalah je....
masalah ni bukan takder penyelesaian...
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Post time 10-11-2007 02:14 PM | Show all posts

Reply #1 shanew3stgalz's post



ermm umo u baper ?
in my mind, i bet u r still young...

u need him juz bcoz u rasa sunyi ?
u need him juz bcoz u feel lonely ?
altho im woman - i wud say that this is not fair..

yeah love tu blh dtg bila dah terbiasa..and a jgk yg start from the frenship...
"Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time..."

cumanya bila baca ur case ni..erm..
ask urself... - how far do u need him sebnrnya...and as wat...
juz to isi kekosongan masa u ke camner ke..or u really love him..

i hv to admit bila sumone concern about u, cheer ur life yg sunyi, u sakit ada org nak sms u suruh makan ubat, ada org utk u share citer ke per, ada org yg bila cuti ajak u jalan2 ke mana2, sms u daily, call u selalu - yeah feel like heaven..berbunga2 rasa dunia..terutamanya if u r single, then ada org yg concern camtu kat u - of cos la syokk bangat...
but - jgn jadikan dat person sbg tmpt pelepas sunyi jer - u get wat i mean?
dun do sumthing if u dun really meant it...tak bagus utk the other side..

in ur case -- if i jadi u...

i will back into my life..let him decide for his life..

u r still young...life ni masih jauh..
relationship is juz part of it..ada byk mender lagi yg u kn fikirkan for ur life..ur future..ur career...ur family...ur frens...

and ...hv to learn a lot of things about the relationship itself...

then -- u'll understand...




[ Last edited by  chemist_UTM at 10-11-2007 02:29 PM ]
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Post time 10-11-2007 03:01 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by chemist_UTM at 10-11-2007 02:14 PM


ermm umo u baper ?
in my mind, i bet u r still young...

u need him juz bcoz u rasa sunyi ?
u need him juz bcoz u feel lonely ?
altho im woman - i wud say that this is not fair..

yeah ...



panjang lebarnyer nasihat chem
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Post time 10-11-2007 03:19 PM | Show all posts
adoi...bukak je page ko ni..mak aii bjeler ler plak, trase mls nk bace..  tp aku bace gakla skit....nk phmkan situasi.heheheh

ni pndpt aku la..

ko rs ko perlukan die sbb ko dh set ati ko tu ko mmg xleh idup tnpa dia..datz y susah utk ko lupekan die or wat2 xtau je bile die xde....ko salu ingat sweet memories ngan die ke..tu maybe leh jd ko jo x tntu arah without him


tmbhan pndpt aku..


ko BOLEH lupekan die..asal xleh plak? ala...carikla laen..susah benor...cube ko set dlm ati ko "aku jdikan die kwn jelah" then try to think positive "Ade jodoh,adelah..xkemane pn" ok? ko ni...kite ni , jgn ikut prasaan sgt..tu pasal leh jdik cenggini...bile mcm ni, kite kene pk kekuasaan Allah..ko phmkan aku ckp ni?
jgn m'persoalkan nape leh jdik cenggini, nape die x pk sblm ni ke nape nape nape....

ni slh satu jalan idup ko...trime k? jgn cepat sgt bgantung kt org..if ko ckp ko kuar ngan kwn, better jdikan more fun....

ai..aku bukannye x pnh bcinte...dh nek bosan dh...aku juz btau ko pndpt aku la....tu jek! peace :victory:
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2007 03:22 PM | Show all posts

Reply #6 chemist_UTM's post

hai there chem... tanx for ur advice... bila u ckp camtuh rs cam i ni betul2 selfish kan???? now baru la i faham..... actually, bukan i nak dia utk lepaskan kesunyiaan i jek... actually i really2 love him... mayb i terlalu ikutkan hati... he's my 1st love... sblum nih x penah mcm ni....

tanx so much... i'll try utk balik ke kehidupan i yg dlu... i rs i x penah pk about family.. which family is comes 1st rite??? sejak2 b'cinta ni... i jd teruk gak.. dunno nape ek... uwaa....
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2007 03:24 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by Keyboard at 10/11/07 01:56 PM
setakat nak dekat dgn dia, nak beroman dan bermesra jer....?
itu la.. dulu ko ego sgt masa gado... mengapa kau dating dgn orang lain... dia cemburu la...
skrg amik ko... terimalah akibatnyer..


bila mase lak aku dating ngan owg len... huh! xkan aku kua ngan member pompuan nak jelos gak kot! x masuk akal!
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2007 03:26 PM | Show all posts

Reply #6 chemist_UTM's post

uhm, btw i ni x le muda sgt... tua pon x gak... 21.. huhu tp cam x matang jek...
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2007 03:29 PM | Show all posts

Reply #8 Deadgurlzz's post

tanx deadgurl...

hm.... btul gak tu...

asal b'cinta smpai busan??? msti da lame sgt ek?? hehe
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Post time 10-11-2007 05:59 PM | Show all posts
10 bulan xlama..... kejap je berlalu.... buatlah keje2 lain yg lbh berfaedah,,,, yg ada matlamat....
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 Author| Post time 10-11-2007 06:21 PM | Show all posts

Reply #14 indah1285's post

hmm.. i'll try... bila crita pasal matlamat.. aku ni cam org x bermatlamat jek... baru t'sedar dr lamunan.. chewahhh...
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Post time 10-11-2007 11:27 PM | Show all posts

Reply #15 shanew3stgalz's post

lebih baik sedar dr tak sedar langsung.....
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Post time 11-11-2007 08:44 AM | Show all posts
10 bulan tu kejap je la..
aku nasihatkan baik ko keje..bole kumpul duit byk2
past bile die dh balik mesia, silap hrbulan nk kawen bagai..dh ade saving
x pon bole la banje die mkn best2..cm qada' la ape yg ko x leh buat mase ni..
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 Author| Post time 11-11-2007 01:08 PM | Show all posts

Reply #17 smy1's post

hemm.. idea baik gak...

tanx yea...
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Post time 11-11-2007 02:58 PM | Show all posts

Reply #18 shanew3stgalz's post

Start lah cari kerje ... nanti hilang sunyi tuh ..
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Post time 12-11-2007 12:10 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by shanew3stgalz at 10/11/07 03:29 PM
tanx deadgurl...

hm.... btul gak tu...

asal b'cinta smpai busan??? msti da lame sgt ek?? hehe



ye kot...hahahha....smpi busan pn ade rasenye...smpi 1 thp mmg ade kbosanan nie..uwarghh!!!


so ape cite?dh rmi bg advice, ideas.....aplikasi kan x?
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Post time 12-11-2007 10:42 AM | Show all posts
ala relax la...
kalo ade jodoh tu x ke mana..walopun ko duk khutub utara..die duk khutub selatan...

dun worry ya..
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