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aku dok pikir2 psl bende ni,tp x jumpe lg conclusion..
apa beza 'i need u' ngn 'i luv u'..mne yg lebih bermakne,yg lebih dlm maknenye..
ex aku ckp ngn aku bru2 ni, 'i luv her,but i need u in my life'..pastu aku ckp,luv n need tu lain..pastu die reply,'then u don't know anything about luv'..
x paham aku..
ape maksud die?
adakah die sbnrnye suke jer kt awek die?die ingat cinta,tp sbnrnyer bukn cinta.. |
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mmg in my opinion luv n need are 2 different meaning. need ~ die sentiasa perlukan seseorg tu disisi...mcm die akan rasa hopeless & restless without u maybe sbb u've shown to be too accomodating to the person's needs & wants, always there for him ke, ape2 problem u akan sentiasa ade, u sbg seseorg yg bole diharap...jadinye 'need' tu jatuh no 1, something like dat
luv ~ pulak lebih pd perasaan cinta/suka/seronok tapi mungkin tk secara menyeluruh, perasaan menginginkan tu jatuh no.2. of course setiap relationship tu akan complete bila luv + need adalah seiringan. tapi tula die...terpulang pd perception seseorg itu mcmane die menilai erti cinta yg sebenarnye.
ape-ape pun biar sesuatu perhubungan tu ade matlamat yg sama & seiringan...tapi utk mencapainye perlukan masa+hardwork also...:victory: |
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Reply #2 cikgurindam's post
btul tu...sy sokong |
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Reply #1 luvisindair's post
Merak setuju ngn cikgurindam....sebenarnya 'need + luv' perlu ada dlm sesuatu hubungan klu tak ssh jg.
Kes 1: kawan Merak (guy) ada 2 prm dlm idup dia A & B. This guy klu ada apa2 masalah akn rujuk pd A tp dia jatuh hati pd B dan depa kawin. Tp still dia contact & keluar ngn A sbb dia kata dia perlukn A dlm hidup dia. So mcm mna tu? masalah jg kn.
*Lg ssh klu xder 'luv & need' dlm sesuatu hub. Cth kes xleh Merak nk kongsi kt sini.
Lg satu lelaki ni klu blh nk semua prm jd hakmilik dia, bila kita kata yg btl @ buat dia compius tu yg dia kata tn rumah xfhm apa2 abt luv..sorry ye para lelaki2 budiman.
[ Last edited by merak7118 at 12-7-2008 08:57 AM ] |
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ada satu cerita tv aku tengok hari tu dan aku suka ending monolog dia. dia kata, we wont get who we want. god will give us who we need. |
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Originally posted by Gemukkkkkkk at 12-7-2008 10:14 AM
ada satu cerita tv aku tengok hari tu dan aku suka ending monolog dia. dia kata, we wont get who we want. god will give us who we need.
syahdu jer bunyi.. |
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hmmm.. i need u dear.. |
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Originally posted by cikgurindam at 12-7-2008 01:15 AM
mmg in my opinion luv n need are 2 different meaning. need ~ die sentiasa perlukan seseorg tu disisi...mcm die akan rasa hopeless & restless without u maybe sbb u've shown to be too accomodating ...
right...both are equally important.. |
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I need U ---> Wussy, Needy, clingy
I love U... better this way |
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Originally posted by luvisindair at 12-7-2008 12:21 AM
aku dok pikir2 psl bende ni,tp x jumpe lg conclusion..
apa beza 'i need u' ngn 'i luv u'..mne yg lebih bermakne,yg lebih dlm maknenye..
ex aku ckp ngn aku bru2 ni, 'i luv her,but i need u i ...
need is basic
love plak more than luxury..atas lagik..lebih dari soal material
macam kalo i need u..maybe dalam relationship tu kehadiran ko tu buat dia settle masalah senang ke..ilham dia mai banyak ke..dia happy ke..dia tak bosan ke..so tu needy
kalo i love u..this is totality, holistic or menyeluruh gitu, ko benci kee ko nyampah ke..ko tak mo ke..ko kawin ngan sapa pun ke..ko mati masuk kuboq pun..i love u tu still ada aaaaaaaa paham?
kalo tang aura word..sure lah i love u lagi power ranger..kalo cakap btui2 dari bottom of heart, awek cayaq punyoooo
tapi tang realiti kesanggupan tu belum tentu lah..i love u tu baru in term FEELING aaa..feeling kauuu boleh gitu..boleh apa je
salu word i love u ni ler jadik mangsa, manusia senang cakap tapi buat tu nothing so nampak tak jujur word tu..nampak penuh deceit..full of lies..ciannn i love u..so i need u tu lebih praktikal and make sense |
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need = perlu dan tak lengkap kalo takde/tak dapat.
cinta = suka dan mahu. |
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Originally posted by cikgurindam at 13-7-2008 12:01 PM
ape-ape pun luvsindair...since he's already ur ex, kekalkan aje perhubungan tu atas dasar kwn, if he needs ur advice bagila n drill it in ur head he's just a FREN & plsssss make su ...
nk kate kitorg break up care baik, x gak.. lps aku broke up ngn die,aku mmg kalu bleh,dah xnk rapat lagi ngn die..xde la smpi bermusuh,tp x jugak berkawan..sbb sakit tau!!..aku rase,lg senang nk move on kalu die xde..
la ni,aku da confuse2..ape aku nak wat next.. |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-7-2008 05:54 PM
need is basic
love plak more than luxury..atas lagik..lebih dari soal material
macam kalo i need u..maybe dalam relationship tu kehadiran ko tu buat dia settle masalah senang ke..ilha ...
berdasarkn ko nyer definition,aku rse i luv him,tp i dont need him.. |
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ermm... slalunyer bile ex dh de gf.. perkataan kawan xwujud.. sbb satu mase dahulu kite pernah syg die.. so better move on.. kalu x mhkin akan timbul blk rase syg tuh... |
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Originally posted by luvisindair at 13-7-2008 19:44
nk kate kitorg break up care baik, x gak.. lps aku broke up ngn die,aku mmg kalu bleh,dah xnk rapat lagi ngn die..xde la smpi bermusuh,tp x jugak berkawan..sbb sakit tau!!..aku rase,lg senang ...
huhuu...adik manis, itu mcm kalo...tutup buku, angkat kaki...jalannnn. he's not worth u then. tkyah ingat2 lagi yg lepas k. mcm iklan loreal dik..."kerana diriku lebih berharga" kan...kan...kannnn;) |
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So...need is better than love |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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