Girls: How would you feel if a male friend you are fond of ignored u

Tongny

Girls: How would you feel if a male friend you are fond of, who you used to enjoy his companionship, seems like ignoring you?

Dulu, saya pernah postpone my studies to do something else. Tetapi usaha saya gagal, I failed. Ego dan keyakinan saya sebagai seorang lelaki jatuh merudum ( My female friends know me as a resourceful, highly driven, smart and reliable person ). Lepas tu saya kembali sambung belajar, dan terjumpa kembali kawan2 lama yg sudah menapak ke depan dalam bidang tersebut. Dalam jiwa saya ada sedikit perasaan malu, terutamanya apabila terjumpa kawan2 perempuan yg used to be so close with me ( some of them really like me, used to be flirting with me, so to speak ). Jadi saya seolah2 melarikan diri daripada terserempak dengan mereka. Persoalannya, saya sedar ada beberapa orang dari mereka yg seolah2 terasa hati dengan kelakuan saya yg seolah2 ingin melarikan diri daripada mereka. Saya ada berterus terang dengan dua orang daripada mereka ( walaupun tidak sepenuhnya ), mereka nampaknya boleh menerima penerangan saya.

Adakah saya telah menyakitkan hati kawan2 perempuan saya secara tidak sedar dengan berkelakuan "unreasonable" sebegini? Reunion batch saya yg dulu  pun saya langsung tak pergi....

I need to fix this I think, really need female opinion on this....I really don't wont to hurt their feelings altho unintentionally...

tabasco

kalau awk betul2 rapat dengan mereka,mesti mereka tu betul2 terasa.how to fix the situation?start saying hi to them whenever you see them, and ask them how you doing..they probably will ask you back how's your plan.so please get ready what is the best answer to tell them.

good luck!

Tongny

kalau awk betul2 rapat dengan mereka,mesti mereka tu betul2 terasa.how to fix the situation?start sa ...
tabasco Post at 30-12-2011 20:36

   Thanks sis. Btw I googled on this, and found feedbacks like this in yahoo answers :
I would be annoyed especially if we are friends at least. If you dont want to talk, just tell me. Most of the time we understand. I wouldnt ignore him if he approached me though, but i would act annoyed towards him and ask why he was ignoring me.

tabasco

Thanks sis. Btw I googled on this, and found feedbacks like this in yahoo answers :
I woul ...
Tongny Post at 30-12-2011 20:50

    well, you shouldnt worry about this statement IF you act as soon as possible. I, too,will be annoyed like this lady but if you come to your friends and explain why you react that way, they would totally understand that and give you moral support, not abandon you.

card_reader

perempuan kalo dia terasa hati, biarkan dia dulu. lama2 lepas tu baru ko approach dia perlahan2, lama2 ok la tu bila dia rasa selasa semula

rosasen

I ada kawan lelaki yg sebijik macam u.. i suka dia n skrg dia mcm menjauhkan diri dari I... lagi2 sejak dia dah kerja pangkat tinggi... dulu ape2 dia mesti rujuk kat I, minta tolong I.. Memang sedih la bila dia ignore I mcm ni... so layan la kawan u tu macam biasa...

siputsedut

of course la terasa pastu taktau reason plak tuh kenapa tiba2 teman menjauhkan diri

kene bear in mind..pompuan ni sensitif..cepat sentap..emotional

budakgraphic

Just tell them the truth bro... If they really are a true friend, they'll understand ur situation... or at least TRY to understand ur situation...

applejahat

minta maaf la. klu bole, try kekalkan keakraban spt dulu