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Post time 18-6-2013 10:17 AM | Show all posts |Read mode
just want to share...

perkenalan dgn si dia bermula di muka buku ( facebook), setelah berkenalan bermula maka cinta sudah berputik..
segala duka dan tawa di kongsi bersama, setelah itu cinta semakin mekar adakah di sebabkan hati yg kosong ataupon si dia benar2 ku cinta.

setahun telah berlalu, si dia telah dan aku telah pon bertunng, tnpa aku sedari, tapi mendapat restu org tua, adakah terlalu cepat atas desakan atau pon tidak tp aku turutkan jugk,
persoalan ny disini adakah aku bnar2 cinta and bersedia dgn si dia sdgn ku di akhir semester di menara gading, segala dugaan dan cabaran aku hadapi jga, pahit ku telan , madu ku simpan,

tp, yg indah x semestinya milik kita, gdo, mrh, ego dan benci mula timbul atas desakan si dia mahu mempercepatkan perkahwinan sdgkn aku bru tamat ppengajian dan sdg menjani latihan industri di ibu kota,

aku hnya mpu menjawab dgn nada ego ku sebagai seorang lelaki, si dia xmgerti ..... aku mahu kejar cita2 aku dlu, mahu berjaya di dlm kerjayaku, tepati si dia berkeras n anggap aku hnya pntgkan career dr drinya, adakah aku trlalu ego? or trpaksa menurut semua kata2 ny.. setiap kali persoalan ini timbul mst ada pergaduhan antara kami, rsa sygku smakin kurang dgn sikap desakan nya yg melampau2......

pernah juga si dia minta untuk putus beberapa kali, tp ku pertahankan jga kerana mnjga air muka keluarga,
adakah aku trpksa? atau ini benar2 cinta?
perasaan aku skrg hanyalah pda kerjaya.... adakah aku terlalu ego... xmmpu aku menjawabnya....
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Post time 18-6-2013 10:26 AM | Show all posts
dia dah keje ker? tanya blik sapa nak tanggung keluarga sedangkan TT lom kerja lagik....
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 10:35 AM | Show all posts
juita posted on 18-6-2013 10:26 AM
dia dah keje ker? tanya blik sapa nak tanggung keluarga sedangkan TT lom kerja lagik....

blom lg kje, still practical, hmmm

ble trlalu fokus tuk cari kerja xsmstnya nk lupakan si dia... tp ble sikap pompuan terlalu mendesak wt sy terlalu rimas ...
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Post time 18-6-2013 10:42 AM | Show all posts
be practical larrrrr....dia nk kawen pree jer ker? nikah je cukup? bukan lar materi sgt tapi skang ni semer pakai dwet...memasing tak keje lagik...sidia yg mendesak ke mak pak dia yg mintak?
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 10:52 AM | Show all posts
juita posted on 18-6-2013 10:42 AM
be practical larrrrr....dia nk kawen pree jer ker? nikah je cukup? bukan lar materi sgt tapi skang n ...

itu lah pompuan skrg ni, urmmm nk kwen bkn free smua ny kos n mkin tgi, nk ltak hntaran ikut peredaran zaman, org ltk 10k dia pon nk cm tu, xphm tol la, keluarga xda masalah n still phm kedaan sy cm ne,
tp bingung skrg ni....

kje pon blom lg, blom abes practical pon lg,, adoiiii..... susah tol lau di xphm.....
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Post time 18-6-2013 10:57 AM | Show all posts
kalu nak senang ..bincang ngan mak pak dia... nak bela anak org bukan mudah...kabo bebetul kat mak pak dia bukan nak memainkan anak dara derang tapi TT nak bebetul stabil dolu..kalu makan sendri pun tak lepas camner nak kasik makan anak org..tapi jg bg tempoh lama sgt...cecepat lar carik keje
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 11:04 AM | Show all posts
juita posted on 18-6-2013 10:57 AM
kalu nak senang ..bincang ngan mak pak dia... nak bela anak org bukan mudah...kabo bebetul kat mak p ...

itu la, hope dpt abes kn sisa2 practical ini dan mndapat kerja yg elok nt insyaallah....
lgpon sy dtg dr keluarga yg bkn berada, impian sy nk mbantu keluarga dlu,,,, urmmmmm
lps tu dh stabil bru bole pkr psl kwen......

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Post time 18-6-2013 12:07 PM | Show all posts
aku sokong je ko..sekarang kena realistik..if berkawen, sapa yg kena support? ko jugak..dah explain betul2 tak kat tunang ko? nnt duk kejar nk kawen, kalau ko x leh tanggung, dia jgk yg bising..hehehe
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 12:44 PM | Show all posts
tiramisuu posted on 18-6-2013 12:07 PM
aku sokong je ko..sekarang kena realistik..if berkawen, sapa yg kena support? ko jugak..dah explain  ...

dh puas explain... tp biasa la org pompuan kdg2 tu susah nk phm xtw npe...
lg terangkan smakin gdo je cm ne.. so skrg ni sy diam je mls nk gdo2 ke pe...
xnk bsr2 kn n pnjg2 cte lg...

lau da jdoh tu xkemana kn.. so dia kna la sbar sme kn...
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Post time 18-6-2013 12:47 PM | Show all posts
berapa umur you and your partner?
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 12:52 PM | Show all posts
mbhcsf posted on 18-6-2013 12:47 PM
berapa umur you and your partner?

umur sy 25 and tunang bru 21..urmmmm
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Post time 18-6-2013 12:58 PM | Show all posts
myls0dasky posted on 18-6-2013 12:52 PM
umur sy 25 and tunang bru 21..urmmmm


ooooooooo okay ...well...

well....u know ...

jap  you are the lady or the gen?
hehe i ketepuan la ni ...so sorry tak leh process...


but wow i mean nak kahwin tu baik sure but wow

u know well ini I lah


is she mature enough  or ready enough to act as a lover, companion, wife , supporter?????

well...matang ni terserlah bila u knwo sembang, cara dia lihat sesuatu benda, sejauh mana dia fikir , u know...that sort ?
cara dia handle conflict ...


am i right ke yg awak ni a lady yg tunang awak tu 21

my advice is - if that person is mature fair enough but if not , tak salah untuk u know take your time

japppppppp ..i tak baca bebetul u are a guy

well...u know - obviously i can say your partner tak belajar develomental psychology dan tak faham yg lelaki dewasa awal macam awak  masa ni ialah tumpuan kat career

dan awak juga kena faham pemikiran ladies umoq ni sebab depa secara psychologynya tertumpu pada membina hubungan

but then u know ...ikut sukalah

istikhorah Last edited by mbhcsf on 18-6-2013 01:01 PM

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Post time 18-6-2013 01:01 PM | Show all posts
mbhcsf posted on 18-6-2013 12:58 PM
ooooooooo okay ...well...

well....u know ...

tuan umah ni laki
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Post time 18-6-2013 01:02 PM | Show all posts
tiramisuu posted on 18-6-2013 01:01 PM
tuan umah ni laki

yup got it ... hahahaha i dah edit dah . my mind is not working today hahhahaha...

well... i dah edit kat atas tu thanks  heheheheh
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Post time 18-6-2013 01:03 PM | Show all posts
myls0dasky posted on 18-6-2013 12:44 PM
dh puas explain... tp biasa la org pompuan kdg2 tu susah nk phm xtw npe...
lg terangkan smakin gd ...

apa dia jawab bila ko ckp psl masalah kewangan?

ko dgn dia kerap sgt ke berjumpa? mana la tau tunang ko ni nk halalkan apa yg haram, masalah kewangan no2
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Post time 18-6-2013 01:04 PM | Show all posts
mbhcsf posted on 18-6-2013 01:02 PM
yup got it ... hahahaha i dah edit dah . my mind is not working today hahhahaha...

well... i da ...

saya pn baca separuh komen ko, pastu bila reply, baca balik pos ko,br pasan bwh2 tu dah realise the truth
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 01:05 PM | Show all posts
tiramisuu posted on 18-6-2013 01:01 PM
tuan umah ni laki

ye laki2 la
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Post time 18-6-2013 01:06 PM | Show all posts
myls0dasky posted on 18-6-2013 01:05 PM
ye laki2 la

saya mula2 baca pn ingt tuan umah ni ppuan, dgn nama yg berbelit payah nk baca, terus ingt ppuan
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 01:09 PM | Show all posts
tiramisuu posted on 18-6-2013 01:03 PM
apa dia jawab bila ko ckp psl masalah kewangan?

ko dgn dia kerap sgt ke berjumpa? mana la ta ...

ble ckp mslah kewangan dia ckp masalah tu bole setel, xyh wt kenduri bsr2,, nk wt kecik2 pon kna da duit jgk kn, xkn nk harapkn parent je

lgpon syg dr keluarga yg susah, xkn nk susahkn parent lg, skrg just nk build my own career 1st then bru pikir psal kwen ke pe, urmmm

xda duit cm ne nk kwen kn..
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2013 01:12 PM | Show all posts
mbhcsf posted on 18-6-2013 12:58 PM
ooooooooo okay ...well...

well....u know ...

yela sy pon byk tolak ansur tp still dye xley phm jgk, skrg hnya berdiam diri, dn dia mrajuk... biasa la pompuan....

bes tu pe perlu wt...

pompuan ni dye nk jwapan tuk kepastian dye,,

mmg la sy nk kwen, tp dye xphm ke keadaan sy cm ne skrg... urmmmm

kdg2 pikir tu bole stress, tp sy byk brsabr je....

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