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Post time 9-4-2015 11:29 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts |Read mode
Salam semua,

Aku skrng tgh bercinta dgn boss aku sndri. Boss aku ni sorg duda anak dua dan bercerai hidup. Jarak umur aku dgn dia ni dlm 14 thn gituu. Awal percintaan mmg manis, indah,seronok, happy.. Tp kan dia ni sorg yg workholic laa. Serius dia mmg kerja, kerja & kerja. Since aku ni PA dia kan so aku tau la camne schedule dia. Mcm tak da life pon ya gak. Then dia ni jenis ego tinggi. Boss kan semua benda dia je betul

Aku bebetol buntu laa. Tlg kakak2 dan abg2 sekalian. Apa pendapat korg bercinta satu office? Sakitnya masa bergaduh. Susah la nak hadap benda ni. Last2 aku mereput sengsorg. Dia cam biasa je, sebabkan busy kan. Mana ada masa nak layan perasaan.

Skrng aku dgn dia tgh silent treatment sebabkan kteorg gaduh. Seriusly aku tak tau nak buat apa. Dia tak bukak mulut pon utk bg explanation. Korg rasa patut tak aku tanya dia kenapa dia camtu? Dah la satu office kan, hadap org yg sama je.  

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Post time 9-4-2015 11:47 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Terima je perangai nya kalo syg.... Prepare kn minda n jiwa utk mkn hati berulam jantung sepanjang perhubungan dgn nya...

N...jgn lepas kn gold mines tt.. B smart...
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Post time 10-4-2015 12:02 AM | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 9-4-2015 11:47 PM
Terima je perangai nya kalo syg.... Prepare kn minda n jiwa utk mkn hati berulam jantung sepanjang p ...

Ko jangan suruh TT jadi "Gold Digger" lak.

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Post time 10-4-2015 12:03 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 12:02 AM
Ko jangan suruh TT jadi "Gold Digger" lak.

Ape salah nya...bonus tu...dpt somi berharta..idup pun senang nnt...tp kalo kaya kedekut pon xguna gk...huhuhu
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Post time 10-4-2015 12:07 AM | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 10-4-2015 12:03 AM
Ape salah nya...bonus tu...dpt somi berharta..idup pun senang nnt...tp kalo kaya kedekut pon xguna ...

Kebanyakkan gold digger end up with merana wei. Jangan main2 dengan lelaki kaya ni. Depa ni jenis mana2 perempuan boleh sapu asalkan poket tebal. Kalo korang jenis hati kering tak kisah bab perasaan ni so go ahead la.

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Post time 10-4-2015 12:10 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 12:07 AM
Kebanyakkan gold digger end up with merana wei. Jangan main2 dengan lelaki kaya ni. Depa ni jenis  ...

Bkn suh men2 laaaa...ade ayat suh main kn hati n perasaan ke...sabo jela..

Kn mia suh dia prepare minda n jiwa if she really loves her guy...

Xdep pon mia suh jd pisau cukur...

Kalo dah jd somi cukur jela...hihihi
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Post time 10-4-2015 12:21 AM | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 10-4-2015 12:10 AM
Bkn suh men2 laaaa...ade ayat suh main kn hati n perasaan ke...sabo jela..

Kn mia suh dia prepa ...

Gitu kekdahnya. Aku rasa TT tak sesuai dgn bossnya tu. Dah la bercerai hidup dan ada anak dua. Have something wrong with this guy. Kena siasat nape dia bercerai dgn ex-wife dia tu.

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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 12:34 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
miabebe replied at 9-4-2015 11:47 PM
Terima je perangai nya kalo syg.... Prepare kn minda n jiwa utk mkn hati berulam jantung sepanjang p ...

Tu laa, kena sabar je laa dgn si dia ni. Haha. Tq for ur advice
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Post time 10-4-2015 12:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 12:21 AM
Gitu kekdahnya. Aku rasa TT tak sesuai dgn bossnya tu. Dah la bercerai hidup dan ada anak dua. Hav ...

Haaaaaa ade betul gak tu...hihi
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Post time 10-4-2015 12:37 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
MissHoney replied at 10-4-2015 12:34 AM
Tu laa, kena sabar je laa dgn si dia ni. Haha. Tq for ur advice

Sama2 tt..hihi
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 12:37 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 12:07 AM
Kebanyakkan gold digger end up with merana wei. Jangan main2 dengan lelaki kaya ni. Depa ni jenis  ...

Tau tak pew. Dia nak sesiapa pon aku rasa dia boleh dpt. Tp aku suka kat dia bkn sbb dia tu berharta. In shaa Allah duit tu aku boleh carik sendiri. Bonus dpt laki camnie sbb dia dah kukuh kewangan kan. Nak wat camne hati dah terpaut. Ssh plak nak reverse ke belakang. Huhu
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 12:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 12:21 AM
Gitu kekdahnya. Aku rasa TT tak sesuai dgn bossnya tu. Dah la bercerai hidup dan ada anak dua. Hav ...

Camtu eh? Dia ni dah menduda 3 thn. Aku nak korek rahsia dia drpd siapa eh? Memandangkan dia tak bukak pon cerita pasal kisah silam dia. Hmm
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Post time 10-4-2015 01:23 AM | Show all posts
MissHoney replied at 10-4-2015 12:41 AM
Camtu eh? Dia ni dah menduda 3 thn. Aku nak korek rahsia dia drpd siapa eh? Memandangkan dia tak b ...

Try cari / skodeng facebook ex-wife dia dan berkawan dengannya. Jangan cite yang ko ni gf ex-husband dia lak. Bila dah berkawan dgn ex-wife, jadi dapatlah korek sejarah pasal bf aka boss ko tu.

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Post time 10-4-2015 04:30 AM | Show all posts
Edited by mbhcsf at 10-4-2015 04:32 AM

assalamualaikum,

kalau saudari rasa boss saudari sesuai  dan sekufu dari segi intelek, rohani, emosi dan jasmani - boleh get along and boleh membahagiakan saudari dari keempat empat aspek ini maka ...tanyalah yg Maha Mengetahui di tikar solat - istikhorah - buat ape pun elok istikhorak sebab ? it is okay to ask ALLAH anyway because he knows the  true answers to ur question.

melihatkan profiles boss saudari - may be ada benda kot dia nak pikiaq sebab tu lelaki yg mature seperti boss anda seolah olah macam saudari nampak tak ada 'life'

may be cara dia cope dengan kesunyian or when the kids need to be with ex partner tu , dia sunyi dia try lupakan atau menghadapi siatuasi kekosongan tu dengan get himself busy - may be saudari namapak ' macam tak ada life' but saudari pun tahu kan

ade org keje sebab  dia kena buat keje tu

ade org yg enjoy keje sebab itu dia passion and she is good at
and there is a lot of support and good ambience for her to do just the thing she likes



and  haha boss dia mata hijau  ( cewah kidding je ye hahahahhaah) so u know it depends...

so being woth someone yg ada profile sebegitu demands quite a bit of understanding on your part  dan pada dia benda remeh remeh no dia you knwo tak laya sangatlaa sebab ada banyak benda lagi nak pikiaq but he at times know to take a break bila dah had enough with work , selalunya org yg  highly strung ni macam tu hahahahahahahah
cer tanya  dia how did he cope with loneliness
apa  etc etc ( i dunno ? may be aspek dalam hidup dia yg matters to him , nilai hidup dia , atau falsafah  atau  the way he he sees life'

apa benda dia enjoy...

u knwo that sorts

if you are preparing yourself  to be with this kind of person  you need to understand him in certain aspects

apa motivates dia
apa matlamat dia
how did he cope with thiongs yg favourable atau tidak
apa temperamental dia

apa you think BENTUK KOMUNIKASI yg membantu??



well I wish you well..

and all the best

bless you.
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Post time 10-4-2015 04:34 AM | Show all posts
MissHoney replied at 10-4-2015 12:37 AM
Tau tak pew. Dia nak sesiapa pon aku rasa dia boleh dpt. Tp aku suka kat dia bkn sbb dia tu berhar ...

u love him untuk redha ALLAH or just to feel secure . tak apa jawapan ni you tak payah jawab sini , ini soal hati.

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Post time 10-4-2015 07:25 AM | Show all posts
Nanti kawen pun stonecold...camna? X kawen pun ang dh rasa bosan ..kalau kawen dia asikkk mcm tu ja memg hangin weyy...
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 07:32 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
wds replied at 10-4-2015 01:23 AM
Try cari / skodeng facebook ex-wife dia dan berkawan dengannya. Jangan cite yang ko ni gf ex-husba ...

Ok thank you wds yg ni aku xpena terpikir lak.
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 07:41 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mbhcsf replied at 10-4-2015 04:30 AM
assalamualaikum,

kalau saudari rasa boss saudari sesuai  dan sekufu dari segi intelek, rohani, em ...

Waalaikumussalam..

Mata hijau tu apa? Hahaha. Thanks a lot atas nasihat. Dia pernah bgtau yg he's enjoy doing the works. Dia mmg seorg yg suka bekerja. Sbb tu dia tak kesah habis waktu bnyk kat office.

Tu pon yg aku try buat skrng. Ask Allah.

Soklan2 yg ko bg ni nanti aku tnya dia. Hehe. Tak terfikir nak tnya. Selalunya kalau dgn dia borak pasal kerja, projek & other business. Haha
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 07:43 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
mbhcsf replied at 10-4-2015 04:34 AM
u love him untuk redha ALLAH or just to feel secure . tak apa jawapan ni you tak payah jawab sini  ...

Sentap baca. Hahaha.Thanks mgkin ini lah masa utk muhasabah diri
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 Author| Post time 10-4-2015 07:47 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
alieyrina replied at 10-4-2015 07:25 AM
Nanti kawen pun stonecold...camna? X kawen pun ang dh rasa bosan ..kalau kawen dia asikkk mcm tu ja  ...

Hai Alieyrina,

Tu laa aku pon tak tau nak buat camne. Aku cuba paham situasi dia, busy dgn kerja dan weekend dgn anak2.

Mmg mkn hati wei kalau berterusan camnie  hahaha
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