|
|
Soalan jujur berapa lama dh korang berkahwin?apa korang rasa sekarang
[Copy link]
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 7-6-2023 10:11 AM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
green~tea replied at 10-5-2023 01:21 AM
Sayang hubsbaby... sangat2 lah baik tak pernah marah iols.. seriously kalo i PMS, dia rilex je...
...
Alhahamdulilah chouls
Rezeki uols
Moga terus bahagia |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Meols sbgai tuan tanah
terharu yach
benang neh ttp dpt sambutan
terima kasih uols yg bgi respons
meols heppy sgt bila ramai acik forum
fasa bhg jer skrg ne
mna2 yg dilandai badai tuh
bnyk bsabar dan bdoa ya
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
BarbiePink replied at 7-6-2023 10:11 AM
Alhahamdulilah chouls
Rezeki uols
Moga terus bahagia
Sedangkan lidah lagi tergigit.. biasa laa sikit2 tu mmg ada discussion or heated arguments... tambah pulak in my family (husband, anak & myself) all jenis extroverts.. we take turns utk bercakap sbb semua nak bercakap.. haha |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
coming to 21 years and counting..
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
soalan jujur, korang pernah complain tak pasal kote suami? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Been married to hubsbaby for many years.. and am still head over heels with him...
And still kagum dengan kehebatannya seorang leader... he is truly a leader di rumah & ofis...
Romantically... alhamdulillah... rasa cinta & lust masih sama... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Been married for 19 years dah up down awal2 tu biasa la sbb i kahwin awal tgh study lagi, sekarang dah nak masuk 40s ni alhamdulilah happy je still in love with him.. he worked hard to have what we have now. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
elecom replied at 13-12-2022 04:24 PM
dah nak masuk 11 thn kahwin and childless couple. dah slow down career sbb penat & factor umur. mayb ...
Best la uols takde anak, mesti duit berkepuk, boleh menyimpan banyak  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
15 years of marriage, out of which, around half of the duration, long distance. Sebelum kahwin, dating 2 tahun pun long distance. Absence does make the hearts grow fonder. Cuma at the beginning, every time dia ada, mesti byk gaduh sebab tak biasa ada dia around. Macam kena jaga another kid pula (we have 3 kids). But now that we’re in our 40s, kids are more independent, we fight less. He’s the quiet type, while I am loud. Now I learn to cool down first before I explain to him why I was upset or angry. Whenever he’s home, we go out very often, just the two of us. Even if it’s just to get some stuff from kedai runcit or hardware shop, mesti keluar berdua. Or just to eat cendol. We also make time to stay overnight at a nice hotel without kids. Just order food for them. I sincerely hope that when he comes home for good, we will continue to have this healthy relationship. I kena reduce my expectations, tutup mata, byk2 bersabar cos dah lama tak tinggal bersama for a longer period of time (now maximum dia ada kat sini pun 1 month only). InsyaAllah. In terms of intimacy, I don’t know why but we seems to be more active and “adventurous” than before, hehe. Maybe it’s because of late, both of us have been actively exercising… I do think that helps to spice up things too |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
5 tahun lebih kahwin. Anak nak masuk 4. Happy je sbb husband i jenis romantik dan rajin jaga anak. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Tahun ke 13 dgn 3 ketul anak. Kejap je ye masa berlalu tak rasa 13 tahun. Sekarang dah rasa tenang2 aman bahagia  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
dah kawen 28 tahun. terlampau byk drama dlm marriage i. Like seriously i kesian nak tinggalkan hb tak tahu lah kenapa, drp sblm kawen lagi perasaan kesian ni ada.
Pernah la rasa bahagia dulu2... gaduh/drama camne pun tetap rasa bahagia sgt sgt. Sehinggalah 1 hari mak mertua meninggal, terus berubah segala-galanya... tiba2 hb rasa kehilangan, rasa bersalah kat (arwah) mak, rasa tak cukup balas jasa mak, rasa berdosa ngan mak sbb tak ikut nasihat dia, & macam2 rasa lah (yg negatif & tak best) .... guess what, selain dari dia menyalahkan i penyebab dia jadi gitu, hb juga tiba2 rasa i juga penyebab dia akan masuk neraka  .... berbelas tahun i fight hak i & marriage , akhirnya ok lah jugak terkawal keadaan walaupun tergadai segala ... pindah randah, jual property, savings habis, anak2 terbiar etc. i nak tinggalkan dia byk kali tapi hati ni betul2 tak sampai hati nak tinggalkan dia
Now, i dah ok dgn hb, just ok. Nak kata bahagia sgt tu taklah... sbb luka lama tu berparut, takkan ada plastic surgeon yg boleh licinkan balik buang semua parut tu... susahnya i nak maafkan hb sbb apa yg dia buat lepas mak dia meninggal tu. Ada masa2 i ter-lepas ckp juga , dan akan jadi gaduh tak bertegur sapa 2,3 hari jugak la... i wish i boleh lupakan kejadian dari 2013 sampai 2019 ... lepas 2020 walaupun ada tapi tak seteruk 2013-2019
i mengharap dpt balik kebahagiaan macam dulu2 sblm mak mertua meninggal. tapi tak tahu la boleh dpt ke tak, tkde tanda2 akan berlaku.... Dulu i rasa sedih sgt , tapi skrg i nak belajar bersyukur sbb hb sbnrnya ada byk effort jugak utk berubah. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
sudah 8thn bernikah..ok je..x rs nk hempuk lg dgn iron suami den tu..bersyukur n bergembira je dgn apa yg ada.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
|
Post time 4-6-2023 05:10 PM
