Sahabat karib bertukar menjadi kekasih

meow_meow08

Ok korang thanks bagi nasihat apa yang sepatut nya

sneha23d

CUBALAH DULU....kalau dia ungkit kisah u..just stop ...

siti_shaqila

aku harap satu hari aku dpt couple ngan kwn baik aku..
walaupun aku tau mustahil...

ahysa

im the living example tat good frens make good marriage...insyaallah

bila baca post tuan rumah, macam baca kisah hidup saya & suami pulak

kami berkawan selama 7-8 tahun. dalam masa tu, dia lah tempat saya mengadu bila hati terluka dan saya lah tempat dia luahkan perasaan frust pada mana2 awek yg lukakan hatinya.

masa tu takde terpikir pun nak bercouple with each other. tapi walaupun saya tahu hampir semua cerita family dia & vice versa, tak pernah pula saya mengenali mereka dan dia pun tak pernah berkenalan dgn family saya.

tapi...allah maha mengetahui dan dah tetapkan jodoh kita berdua.

skarang ni, he's my best fren, my lover, my husband...& i feel so blessed...alhamdullilah

mbhcsf

that's so nice .....

otakotak

Originally posted by ahysa at 27-4-2009 21:28
im the living example tat good frens make good marriage...insyaallah

bila baca post tuan rumah, macam baca kisah hidup saya & suami pulak

kami berkawan selama 7-8 tahun. dalam masa  ...

bestnya......................................

ahysa

hehehe...memang best...but u need to be prepared to deal with the many many things tat u know as his fren...cos sometimes, knowledge can kill u

memula tu memang banyak cabaran...sbb we know too much abt each other...wat he's done or the length he had gone for the others before u.

tapi alhamdullilah, our understanding of each others' character helps alot to iron out many misunderstandings tat came our way...& we feel sure of each other now more than ever. and we have very good communications. we can still talk abt anything under the sun, and beyond, with each other...juz like we had when we were juz frens. and we make it a habit to keep switching from spouse/fren mode when dishing out our opinions on issues.

and like someone said in earlier post...we've got nothing to hide anymore...he's seen me at my worst & i at his...and we are both very comfortable with wat we've seen LOL

siti_shaqila

best nyer.....tibe2 berangan mcm nie..

cik_tijah

terpulang pada hati dan perasaan u.. kalau u dpt terima perasaan dia lebih dr kawan.. then teruskan

cik_tijah

yg pasti, kekasih belum tentu blh menajdi sahabat karib, tp sahabat karib tak mustahil boleh menjadi kekasih...

otakotak

Originally posted by ahysa at 28-4-2009 08:21
hehehe...memang best...but u need to be prepared to deal with the many many things tat u know as his fren...cos sometimes, knowledge can kill u

memula tu memang banyak cabaran...sbb we  ...

bestlah 2 kut.

kira lu xyah nak skt2 ht kengkonon cam xkenal dia sume tuh.

ntah. aku xdpt cari kata2 skrg.

tapi cam besh jerk.

cik_tijah

best mmg la best.. senang sbb dah sama2 paham attituted masing2.. blm cakap abih, dan2 dah paham.. gaduh pun kira sekerat jalan jer la.. sbb dah pakat2 tau tindakan memasing.. kikikiki

derose83

Originally posted by meow_meow08 at 31-3-2009 02:20
Salam,
situasi nya begini korang berkawan dengan someone nie agak lama dalam 7 tahun gitu
sanggup bersusah payah then family pon dah kenal antara satu sama lain
masalahnya skrg korang anggap d ...

kalo kita berada di tempat ko terima aja...
drp cter ko dia ni jenis yg caring dan sanggup tolong time susah...
zaman skang ni bukan senang nk dpt laki yg baik camni..

mbhcsf

i met this young lady lecturer, pleasant looking  young lady nice sopan and on...saya tanya ler dia about something tapi dalam nejawab tu kan dia mentioned dia dah kahwin...so saya terkejut dah tau ..tapi i suruh dia citer dia pun citer actually the husband is a good friend depa berkawan sejak dari sekolah menegah lagi ..the guy tu dok bagi hints dah tapi this gal tak picked up until  one day that guy tanya are we " friends" .... like friends or we are really really  really close friend ? "then this  young lady ( now she is expecting dah pun 3 tahun dah married) pun terjawab aah lah we  are kan? hahahhhaa


now , it can turn pout be very sweet  lah ....kan?in a sense kan?

FreeMen

rasanya x jadi masalah kalau both party ade understanding.

as for me more comfortable fall in love after few years from friendship.

but i know bukan semua buleh implement this kind of relationship.

whatever reason is. understanding n faith.