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Author: JaneLowJane

Are we meant to be together?

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 Author| Post time 2-1-2013 08:02 PM | Show all posts
MissSchiffer posted on 2-1-2013 07:50 PM
You're welcome and always happy to giving you any advise...

If he keep on bringing all that stu ...

ya true, thats y i always kept quiet LOL
becoz i know, he is kinda sensitive guy, he couldnt take the stress/pressure, so let him say or brings out the stuff, atleast afterwards he feels better, im alright to listen, becoz i can handle my pressures, lol
but afterall, he is still being very very nice to me, : ) and i believe, love is not only from one side, it must be from both sides which only make up a complete shape, InshaALLAH everything would be positive

thanks guys !
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Post time 2-1-2013 08:09 PM | Show all posts
JaneLowJane posted on 2-1-2013 08:02 PM
ya true, thats y i always kept quiet LOL
becoz i know, he is kinda sensitive guy, he couldnt take ...

I'm glad to hear that.
And you guys would definietly have a beautiful baby of a mix race in the future together..jealous I hehe..
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Post time 3-1-2013 04:53 PM | Show all posts
Jane,

A couple of questions:
1. Have you ever been a relationship before?
2. Do you really understand what his culture is like?
3. Have you really discussed what is his expectation of you once you are married? You said you have met his parents. Do you understand or can you see for yourself how his father treat his mother?
3. Can you deal with his so-called sensitive nature? For the rest of your life?
4. Have you spoken about finances? How will he find a job and sustain a career here?
5. Have you spoken about children? How you want to raise them?
6. Do you understand what being a muslim woman in a Pakistani household is?

A wife in a Pakistani culture might not equate to your expectation of being a wife in Malaysia, or a wife in a Chinese household.

I beg that you seek the answers from within yourself and also speak to him very, very frankly.
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Post time 5-1-2013 10:56 AM | Show all posts
Laluan gelap terasa sunyi,
Ternampak cahaya di celah lorong,
Hembusan kuat tiada bunyi,
Dipasang di dinding, boleh disorong.

Jikalau tuan bijak bistari, silalah jawab soalan kami..
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Post time 5-1-2013 11:59 AM | Show all posts
Wakiwaki posted on 1-1-2013 09:14 PM
Ingatkan pompuan melayu jek, terjebak cinta pakistan.. bangla. Chine pon sangkut jugak.. LOL

Itulah keindahan dan kehansomeman mat Pakistan. Banyak teruna kat Malaysia, mat Pakistan/ Bangladesh jugak yang dipilih.
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Post time 6-1-2013 08:10 PM | Show all posts
spiderman80 posted on 5-1-2013 11:59 AM
Itulah keindahan dan kehansomeman mat Pakistan. Banyak teruna kat Malaysia, mat Pakistan/ Banglade ...

tang mana istimewanya?
tang bulu nya kah?
hahaha... kalau bau mereka tu, lalu tepi pon dah rasa nak pengsan... perghhhhhhhhhhh!!

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Post time 7-1-2013 01:59 PM | Show all posts
i pun ala2 paksitani gurl..mc aishu gak..ramai mat3 bangla usha....tp tetap nak mcari teruna jejaka malaya...lalalaalala
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Post time 7-1-2013 09:37 PM | Show all posts
good news..nope
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Post time 9-1-2013 03:24 PM | Show all posts
just be patient..
if u believe ur god..just pray and wait...
if both of you are meant together..i am sure god will show the way...
u re student and just focus ur study..after u already graduated..u can think abt ur marriage..
if god already plan that both of u meant together..he will become ur husband even it will take a thousand year...
trust urself..and pray always..if he not meant together with u..believe me..there has a gud wisdom behind it..

the wisdom (just example) :  if he become ur husband maybe ur marriage cannot be happy...or he totally change after married..
                                          maybe ur god has stated a good match for u..whatever blessing from parents is more
                                          important ...if u are a gud women, god will provide u a gud man too...
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Post time 12-1-2013 12:35 PM | Show all posts
Sometime love is like that,it makes you Happy and it will also hurt you so badly...Be strong to your decision and never regret
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Post time 18-3-2013 02:53 PM | Show all posts
hi jane,
so, hows your life going with your pakistani bf?
i am married pakistani and i think it's not right to have negative thinking when we in love with pakistani people.i am 8 years married with pakistani and important thing is, it's up to your assumption, not others. because u felt  it, you r facing all the situation and i  think you can make right decision .(sorry my english grammar very bad i think) but dont so gelojoh, jangan belakangkan parents. they agreed with your relationship and now your turn to convinced your bf after he was disappointed with ur parents.
anyway good luck to you.
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Post time 18-3-2013 03:48 PM | Show all posts
spiderman80 posted on 5-1-2013 11:59 AM
Itulah keindahan dan kehansomeman mat Pakistan. Banyak teruna kat Malaysia, mat Pakistan/ Banglade ...

that guy must be handsome like this probably..

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Post time 18-3-2013 03:59 PM | Show all posts
Dear Jane,
I know this is really hard for you..need to choose between your family and your man.. goodluck for both of u..
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