| Why do people engage in anal sex |
Look at the statistics . The vast majority of respondents of European and American couples - 75% - is engaged in such kind of sexual gratification of curiosity, interest, desire of novelty and visual sensations, to make a variety of sexual life.
- It is not the result of moral decline in our time, because AU has existed since time immemorial, but it certainly is an undeniable contribution to its popularization is made publicly available porn.
- 12% - AC couples prefer spaciousness because the woman's vagina.
- 10% say that they are doing it to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy
- 3% were forced to use this method during the menstrual cycle partner.
Note that men and women pushed to innovate anal different reasons, which we shall consider. Why do men engage in anal sex According to sexologists, men, unlike women, love for anal is caused by two factors: physiological and psychological. The inner surface of the rectum from the vagina is different: for vaginal sex best thrill daryatsya on "input", anal - all the "path."
anal opening is narrower than the vagina, because their opportunity to experience beckons bright and quick orgasm by rubbing in more "NARROW" holes. "It's like having a virgin every time" At this point, according to the sexologists, men can realize their "unrealistic" sexual fantasies, presenting as a sexual partner a little girl, a virgin or a young man. - "Porn is full of" orgazmiruet ass ", and what I'm something worse? I also want this forbidden fruit "-" LORD OF THE SYNDROME. " Every man wants to feel the "principal", "important", "best", "the master, which are all considered" etc.. And if it does not always work, in the social sphere, or somewhere else, in the subconscious male sex is just easy and gives an opportunity to feel their absolute power over women. Catching anal sex feels a sense of male superiority, almost every man he - winning it - is subject. Many men treat it as a kind of test: "Do you really love me so much that is ready for anything?" For them it is a sign of complete trust and love women. "Between loving people in all sex is permissible" - men ready to hang this motto on the doors of all the rooms of the world, the word "loving" in the men's interpretation - is secondary, and the word "all" - specifies. Like the man, the woman is given, sacrifices himself for the sake of it, beloved.She seems to be saying to him, "Honey, are you - the owner. For you, I was ready for anything. I - yours. Here's my ass. As you say, so be it ... It's nothing, I put up! "- Men" like "eyes, and kind of anal sex gives scope sophisticated tastes. For "beautiful pictures" they are even willing to "close their eyes" to potential traces of feces on his own penis after removing it or the possible unpleasant odor during intercourse. In other words, the picture is the "before" worth what you can see the "after." What is called aesthetic pleasure for perverted mind. Why women engage in anal sex Sexologists claim that about 90% of men would like to try anal sex with a woman at least once in their lives, and 90% of women would prefer not to try it ever. In the woman's anus (with very few exceptions) no nerve endings, allowing her to experience sexual pleasure (all clear that women do not have orgasms during bowel movements), so initially mentally healthy woman would dream to offer the most to penetrate her through the anus. So why do women agree to this practice? - The vast majority of girls / women who were themselves in the head did not come, and they do not see anything in his anus erogenous, forced to accept the AU because of persistently PARTNER. Pay attention to the search engines and an abundance of titles "How to persuade his girlfriend to anal sex?" Articles usually begin with "my girl by no means unwilling to do it." Considered it normal that if a person is not in any want, it will still need to prepare for this? Articles tend to continue a whole set of tricks mental-physical sense, as send it to the "true path": what you need to develop techniques anus, what to buy and how to grease rimming helps in the process of "ripening". Failure is not an obstacle for the man: he continues to hint joke about it, extort affection, persuasion, tricks and other tricks. Think about it, why is it so? Is not this a signal that this kind of unnatural intercourse woman initially and unpleasant? Confirmation are almost all women's stories of loss "anal virginity" With very few exceptions, starting with the words "persuaded", "this", "I do not want to, but I did for him," my husband likes and we decided to try "," after lengthy persuasion "," to me it was unpleasant, disgusting, but I tried, "" ceded "," guy insisted very strongly "," husband likes, I certainly do not shy away "," to agree "," I long for this was, but my husband was patient, "" wanted to make a nice husband, "" I - a virgin, but my present young man - still a guy, so I gave up on the speakers agreed, I do not want to lose her virginity ".. As a rule men, persuading partners, "forget" to tell them about the dangers and risks of the AU. "It's so nice" - they say, citing the example of pornographic films and various comments on Internet forums. Some fans speakers are not interested in the opposite point of view and educate girls who no longer understand what they imposed "porn mode", and that is a manifestation of love and care about them. There is a sad fact that sometimes men themselves, ardent fans of the AU, leave positive comments on Internet forums on behalf of the women of the "speaker - it's great!", "Entirely without consequences", "even quite nebolno was" etc. in an attempt to convince everyone that everything is actually fine, nothing to fear (and then another, and inadvertently show your woman, they say, "Look, she liked it! Maybe we try?"). This is a typical beginning of "anal love" - ​​woman concedes, lacks character refuse fear seem uninteresting, "whatever floats your boat, but he does not cry" or simply the fear that her podyschet replacement. Whatever it was, for it is - unnatural situation imposed, inter alia, has a detrimental effect on her health. - the desire to retain husband / partner , tie him to her "unforgettable sex" sacrifice themselves - the main reasons why the woman continues the practice. She begins to "play along" partner itself offer such an option intercourse (knowing that it is for him "a tasty morsel"), even convince themselves that it is her pleasure or simply to manipulate the "weakness" of the partner (as well as during oral sex, some women "teach" themselves to swallow sperm of a man with sexy smile while experiencing discomfort or even disgust, and all for what so you need to make it enjoyable). The only "but" - these women forget that loving man does not need to keep these victims and loveless - why do we need it. - Moral pressure on girls / women, by men who, anyway, watching porn. Dominance AU pornographic genre, arouses interest and desire of men to "try like in the movies." In turn, the woman realizes that the more she knows, the more it can show, the more potentially interesting partner it will be. The same principle as that of the plate, one only potato fries at home, and the other constantly surprises with cooking delights. There is a demand - there is a supply. So to be more desirable sexual partner and "keep up" with inquiries men girls can prepare in advance, with all sorts of ways to develop the anus, then to "the threshold" to combat the man of her "sexual looseness", offering speakers that she "just loves . " Can be a long debate on this subject, but the fact remains that if the woman initiated the AU, it is connected with "must show himself a great lover", "will show you what I can do", "Only with me you fulfill any of his dirtiest fantasies ".. - Sensation" I want, and where - it does not matter. " Psychologically healthy woman having adequate self-esteem diminishes such sex, so this situation is more characteristic of women with low self-worth feeling she just "give" themselves "at the mercy" as a "piece of meat" (though in the eyes of sexual partner). Considering the position of the AU with naturalness as compared, for example, vaginal sex, it becomes quite obvious that the anus and rectum to its natural purpose not intended to interact with a penis. Generally, the question "is needed if the unit" mainly worried men. Why? To begin with will understand why all a person needs SEX . Naturally, for a man to intercourse for procreation, like most of fauna, and yet he does this is not always the sake of procreation. Words, touch, looks evoke desire for a partner. Body adjusts to the act of copulation, quickens the heartbeat, breathing becomes interrupted, the body becomes hypersensitive to the slightest touch. Also react genitals partners: men increases blood flow to the penis, an erection and highlighting women compacted clitoris, vaginal lubrication stands that protects the delicate inner vaginal cavity mucosa from damage during intercourse. Vaginal sex is satisfying for both partners, as as a physical, emotional and mental body to discharge. What happens to the woman at the anal penetration? On a subconscious level, a woman's body is set to vaginal sex. Anal orifice for sex nature provided: it does not occur with what is happening with the vagina, because he has another function - excretory [if during sexual organ partner slides freely inside the rectum, it is only because "deceived" the intestinal wall began secrete mucus for free passage of feces]. Unlike the vagina, anus inelastic. When you first try to access it naturally shrinks at this moment strained muscles women, and in anticipation of the joy of intercourse no trace remains. Willed woman relaxes the muscles to allow the partner to enter it. However, dry anal sphincter does not allow to do it, because the body is designed so that the rectum does not produce lubrication. Penetration in this case brings partner severe pain and possible discontinuities sphincter. "Help" come various cosmetic products, including grease and speakers (in sex-shops sell even special lubricant with anesthetic to "trick" the body). But despite this, many women do encounter discomfort immediately after sexual intercourse, which may bother them for several days.
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