"i cant live without you" vs "i can move on without you"

sLapshock

Look and think about this two phrases/statements below.

"Baby, what will happened if i die/my love fades/dont love you anymore/sick of you, what will happened to you?"

1.Sigh, what to do, dah takda jodoh.. though its hard, but i guess, i will move on...
2.Dont say that Baby, i cant love without you, you're like my breath, my heart and my soul...


Which are the one that you wanted to hear from your partner?
Which are the one that is a common phrases talked between two couples?

Tentu yang number 2 kan?

But dont you think, that is a selfish lie worst.. its not love at all, but instead a NEED.

NEED and LOVE is two different things.

Let me explain.

1.Sigh, what to do, dah takda jodoh.. though its hard, but i guess, i will move on... - THIS IS LOVE!

Why?  Because, you have everything you wanted, you got everything you need to live on...you dont need her..but why you choose to stay is because YOU LOVE HER.


2.Dont say that Baby, i cant love without you, you're like my breath, my heart and my soul... - THIS IS NEED!

Why? Because .. without her/him you cant move on, you gonna die, you have nothing..you depending on her/him, without her/him in your life, you wouldnt be able to move on... THAT IS A SELFISH NEED.. not love. Beware, once you finally realised that you have everything, you definately gonna leave her/him ... or your love fades .. or worst.. you suffer. HE/SHE is using you... using you to carry on have a happy life.   AGAIN that is SELFISH!

Although, number 2 memang lah ungkapan yang sedap di dengar..kira nak cairkan.. but if u think the other way, it is actually not a good one.

SO which one you want? A NEED or a LOVE.


So, what do you think?

ahysa

both....i need him coz i love him

most importantly...i want him to want me

[ Last edited by  ahysa at 27-11-2007 04:50 PM ]

fatz

Originally posted by sLapshock at 27-11-2007 04:34 PM
1.Sigh, what to do, dah takda jodoh.. though its hard, but i guess, i will move on...
2.Dont say that Baby, i cant love without you, you're like my breath, my heart and my soul...

'love' atau ''live' ?.....

sLapshock

Originally posted by fatz at 27-11-2007 04:52 PM


'love' atau ''live' ?.....

live - is what i meant. sorry typo error

how can u have both? you are confusing yourself  xxxxx

[ Last edited by  halimijuliana at 28-11-2007 02:39 AM ]

arsenally

Dont you think the last word is too much?

sLapshock

aik itupun tu much... adoi!

artgeex

aku rasa dalam banyak banyak posting kau, yang ni aku palinggg suka dan palinggg tak sakit hati bila dibaca

selalu kau macam bangga je kan buat maksiat bagai, hehehe jangan marah ye aku just being honest je

tapi aku setuju dengan pendapat kau tu. Lagipun on the other hand, kita manusia ni memang egois, tak suka dikasihani, so kalau korang suka no 2 tu korang jenis manusia yang suka dikasihani dan pakwe/makwe korang stay pun sebab kesian, nanti kang korang bunuh diri pulak kalau ditinggalkan

tapi itulah, manusia jugakla spesies paling sukar terima kenyataan

ahysa

Originally posted by sLapshock at 27-11-2007 05:22 PM
how can u have both? you are confusing yourself  bitch

are u refering the above to my posting? if so, obviously u ain't mature enuf to discuss such issue. enuf said.

sLapshock

ok. im not mature, whatever you call it, i dont really give a sh1t.. you can seek barney for help

anyway, yup..say no to one who need NEEDS

halimijuliana

Berporem dgn aman ya ... Nanti abang tak tido lena kat umah ...

arsenally

When people faces problem, the most problematic part of her/himself is being vulnerable due to emotional breakdown..
So, it would be much appreciated if we could mind our languange in giving opinion or feedback towards his/her problem...

Dia nak luah kat sini pun dah cukup utk tunjuk yg dia sedih/down & needs opinion..

So, let's just give our opinion/share experience without using the languange that only can be accepted by us (we think is ok, but not to others...)

No offence to anyone,ok?

midori88

ala manusia nie kan survivor...ckp jer takleh hidup lah..apalah...tapi elok jer nanti...idup lagi..tak mati pun...ckp jer lebih...

hitamputih

seperti kata abg halim, jgn laa cemari rumah aman ini yer

mmmmmmmmmm sometimes, love is need.....

i love u
i need u
i want u

mcm maksud lain lain
but in the end
depends on the person who take it.

kita takleh kata org yang need his/her partner tu tak love his/her partner.

he need, because he love.............

love know no language.........................

(tu belum konflik nak alihbahasa love = sayang or cinta? )

sLapshock

apa korang mengarut sak... aduh. pening pening.

Hana_Hirokawa

1.Sigh, what to do, dah takda jodoh.. though its hard, but i guess, i will move on... masa berjalan beb...

su_anna

klu aku sms soalan ko ni kat bf... mesti dia akan jwb soalan aku tu dgn  soalan balik...


for sure, i love him.. and i need him..

Deadgurlzz

(aku rs smlm aku dh posted here..tp asal xde ah??? ish pelik tol)

Which are the one that you wanted to hear from your partner?

ekceli both stat i dun wanna hear from my loved one...
tp if 1 day have to break up, i would rather him to say num 1 rather than num 2


Which are the one that is a common phrases talked between two couples?

yang ni depend on own's attitudes...if jenis cinte thp gaban, mybe they would talk bout num 2 but if they think of their future and their own good, it mite be answer num 1.

blackmore

Originally posted by sLapshock at 27-11-2007 16:34
"Baby, what will happened if i die/my love fades/dont love you anymore/sick of you, what will happened to you?"

1.Sigh, what to do, dah takda jodoh.. though its hard, but i guess, i will move on...
2.Dont say that Baby, i cant love without you, you're like my breath, my heart and my soul...


Which are the one that you wanted to hear from your partner?
Which are the one that is a common phrases talked between two couples?

...the statement above  is being posed to u perhaps to find out just how much u love your gf/bf...

...and the two possible answers that were given above are the 2 most cliche answers that u will get for that kind of question...

...however...if u were to ask which one yang aku prefer to hear...my answer would be neither...cos ianya bererti berakhirnya riwayat percintaan aku ngan kekasih hati aku...which kalau bley aku takmo terjadilah kan??...sapa yang nak putus cinta??...kalau bley kita nak bercinta hingga ke jinjang pelamin dan hingga ke akhir hayat kita...

...which phrase is the most commonly heard??....eerrr....both actually are common phrases...commonly used...commonly said...and commonly heard...however...the first answer is most likely dilafazkan oleh seorang yang berkeyakinan diri...yang percaya pada Q & Q...dan yang tak mudah patah semangat...but...it can also diucapkan oleh seorang yang menyerahkah nasibnya pada takdir...yang tidak mempunyai inisiatif tuk cuba memperbaiki keadaan dan nasib sendiri...



...is answer no. 1 tu = to love??...eerrr....neh..thats not love...that is a must...a need...u need to move on bila kisah cinta ko dah berakhir...u got to move on in order to maintain your dignity and sanity...tak kiralah perpisahan tu terjadi for whatever reason...yang pasti...u need to carry on living your life...

...u move on becos of love??...ekekekeke...lawak kapa???...katakanlah gf ko rejek ko for some other stud...do u move on becos u love her or u move on becos u owe it to yourself to carry on living??...

...ok lah ok lah...having said the above...aku jugak tak dapat nak nafikan there are pple who are willing to sacrifice their feelings for someone yang they love...but...to meet this type of pple...susah beb...tak ramai yang willing to sacrifice their feelings for others...dah nature manusiakan??...to put their own feelings on top of others...

...answer no. 2 = need??...eerrr...to me thats love bro...it has got love written on it all over...cuma...pada aku...the person yang mengucapkan kata2 begitu is someone yang begitu taksub skali ngan their lover...terlalu cinta giler pada kekasihnya...sehinggakan mereka menjadikan kekasih mereka tu as their source of happiness...membuat mereka rasa seolah2 hidup mereka akan berakhir jika ditinggalkan kekasih hati....too fixated are they to their lover that they fail to see that there is so much more that life can offer to them....and that is what u will be if u love someone else more than your ownself...

...are they selfish??...in a way yes...cos...when u are obssess with your lover...u tend to be overly protective and possessive...which can suffocate your lover...dan aku agree ngan ko...this kind of relationship is not healthy one...

...as to which one is my choice between love and need??...eerr...i guess it has got to be love..cos love is one of our basic need in live...dont u think so slap??...

iu78

u don't need to be with him to love him

my xbf used to say that to me, which i though was a total crap until we broke up. then i realized that, eventhough we werent together, i still love him as much. and it opened up my eyes. and now we're married

hitamputih

Originally posted by iu78 at 29-11-2007 01:02 PM
u don't need to be with him to love him

my xbf used to say that to me, which i though was a total crap until we broke up. then i realized that, eventhough we werent together, i still love him  ...

nice....!
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