|
Author |
Post time 14-3-2016 04:21 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
Sedikit update..
Suami saya dah ceraikan isteri kedua tu..bkn sbb saya minta cerai ke apa..tp sbb dia mmg gaduh dgn the other person tu...
Saya xtau pun diorang gaduh..ingatkan dia happy dh dpt org yg dia nak..tp dia kata dia x boleh nak tahan dgn sikap demanding that person..sampai tahap dia kata that lady merendah rendahkan dia as suami...menurut suami..penceraian tu mmg kehendak dia selepaa ditimbang tara yg dia x boleh hidup dgn that lady
N suami ada ckp penyesalan dia...dia bgtau lps poligami br dia sedar yg dia x boleh nak poligami..terlalu ssh nk handle...ntah lah..rasa mcm nk buat perjanjian aka taklik...huhu buat kaum adam..poligami tu indah on the surface je...kalau u all pandai handle..ok la..kalau x pandai..jd mcm ni lah...hal cerai ni besar..libatkan family...n mungkin ada dendam...so pikir lah dlm2 sblm lafaz akad nikah tu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 14-3-2016 04:21 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
Sedikit update..
Suami saya dah ceraikan isteri kedua tu..bkn sbb saya minta cerai ke apa..tp sbb dia mmg gaduh dgn the other person tu...
Saya xtau pun diorang gaduh..ingatkan dia happy dh dpt org yg dia nak..tp dia kata dia x boleh nak tahan dgn sikap demanding that person..sampai tahap dia kata that lady merendah rendahkan dia as suami...menurut suami..penceraian tu mmg kehendak dia selepaa ditimbang tara yg dia x boleh hidup dgn that lady
N suami ada ckp penyesalan dia...dia bgtau lps poligami br dia sedar yg dia x boleh nak poligami..terlalu ssh nk handle...ntah lah..rasa mcm nk buat perjanjian aka taklik...huhu buat kaum adam..poligami tu indah on the surface je...kalau u all pandai handle..ok la..kalau x pandai..jd mcm ni lah...hal cerai ni besar..libatkan family...n mungkin ada dendam...so pikir lah dlm2 sblm lafaz akad nikah tu |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 14-3-2016 04:34 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
N these few weeks ni suami mmg baik sgt kt saya...huhu byk benda dia baru sedar katanya...good thing is...mmg lately rasa mcm cinta tu revive semula..
Mcm the other day..kami buat spontaneous trip and date...something yg kami selalu buat sblm kawin mase xde anak ..tp lps dh kawin..byk alasan..pyh anak la...kerja la....saya rasa dia nak benda yg mcm tu la..everyday rasa mcm tgh bercinta..bkn relationship hanya berdasarkan tanggungjawab...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 14-3-2016 04:34 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
*sblm kawin dan x de anak |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Alhamdulillah...segalanya selesai..
Syabas utk tt kerana sabar selama ni
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Salam..
Yang membaca juga perlu ambik iktibar dari kes siputsedut..bila kawen jgn 100% bergantung kepada suami. Bukanya tak percayakan suami...tapi standby kut2 apa2 jadi. Cuba independent walaupun ada suami..jika tetiba ditinggalkan atau tidak dipedulikan suami, atleast dah pandai hidup sendiri. Kepada siputsedut..walapun dah berbaik dengan suami, berjaga-jagalah..langit tak sentiasa cerah
I wish u the best!!! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
eventho we dont know each other nak cakap.. just be careful ... even if he said that they have divorced... betul ke or just to sedap and pujuk youwe never know what will happen in the future. as my mum pernah cakap..jerat tak pernah lupakan pelanduk..pelanduk aje yg lupakan jerat.
take care of yourself first..
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
adoii... sedih nenet baca
bertabahla... kalau nenet, mau la saka 7 keturunan nenet kuarkan...
teruskan hidup, jangan cepat mengalah kerana anak2 tu perlukan perhatian lebih dr kita.. tak pe la berkorban.. lepas ni jangan mudah percaya 100%. jangan terjatuh dua kali dalam lubang yang sama.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 14-3-2016 07:54 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
Me too..takut jatuh dmdm lubang kali ke4..huhu so i told him...sbb i mmg dh forgive him for hurting me(i was ready to let go)..kalau dia nak balik ke family ni..boleh..but this time around..i won't stop chasing my dream...and i don't want to sacrifice my dreams anymore....that is my syarat to him...n tgh consider for the taklik...still new to me...so i dunno how to react.. But i am happy for my kids..sbb now they get their daddy back... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Alhamdulillah...good news for u..sesungguhnya dlm kesabaran itu ada hikmah. Semoga suami TT lebih menghargai TT. Semoga berbahagia selalu. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
siputsedut replied at 29-2-2016 12:53 AM
Itulah..aku made it clear to him..masa dia gheja kt utara dulu..aku fresh grad dgn gaji tinggi..tp ...
Nyampah la jantan guna alasan fikirkan anak.. dia g kawen tu tak fikirkan anak pulak.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
kak.....
am so relieved to hear that
mcm2 bermain dlm fikiran bel..
kalaulah my hb dgr kisah2 ini semua...sigh...
apa pun bel harap lps ni korang buang yg keruh...ambil yg jernih
apa yg dah jadi...jadikan sempadan dlm hidup
teruskan melangkah...tp sesekali toleh belakang untuk ingat supaya jgn ulangi kesilapan
rasa nak hugs you kak
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 12:45 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
beldandy replied at 15-3-2016 12:25 PM
kak.....
am so relieved to hear that
mcm2 bermain dlm fikiran bel..
Tak habis lg bel...
Parents the other person suruh hubby ffikir balik..n ckp hubby terburu2..x bg peluang anak dia utk berubah...n the other person pon sehari berpuluh2 kali call suruh terima dia balik..
Me? Terus makan hati |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 12:46 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
Sekarang hanya berserah...x push pun suami..biar dia decide sendiri..apa pun keputusan dia..hidup mesti diteruskan..terus melangkah dan kuat demi anak2 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 01:30 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
beldandy replied at 15-3-2016 01:15 PM
tu la...b4 kawin xmo pikir abis2
pikir pun konon nnt x bleh cerai je
ingat senang nk ...
Plg akak x suka...parents that person blame akak..katanya sbb akak mintak cerai la hubby goyah n kelam kabut ceraikan anak dia..sedangkan hubby dh explain x tahan that person suka demand sampai hak akak ditindas..boleh dia kata dia demand mcm2 sbb jeles hubby akak sayang akak lebih..i was like....speechless..insecure much la pompuan ni...pastu nk babitkan nama akak...
Hubby x pernah pon ngadu mslh kt sana..i thot they were happy..tiba2 cerai..nak kata my fault lg? Cukuplah akak seksa selama ni..nk tuduh2 akak pulak..what did i ever do wrong?
Just because akak bkn jenis melawan mengamuk garang..sedap je buli akak ada sapa2 nk tlg lempangkan dorang on behalf of me
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 01:34 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
ziela_janjirock replied at 14-3-2016 05:25 PM
Salam..
Yang membaca juga perlu ambik iktibar dari kes siputsedut..bila kawen jgn 100% bergantung ...
Ye betul..tp saya percaya...wanita ni mmg kuat..dtg la angin ribut angin badai..mmg kita boleh bangkit semula...tq |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 01:35 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
animcute replied at 14-3-2016 06:42 PM
eventho we dont know each other nak cakap.. just be careful ... even if he said that they have div ...
Itulah...mmg nak kene jaga hati sendiri..tp lately ni xleh elak lg dr rasa bersedih..as time passes by..i will heal...mungkin lebih dr before..lebih kuat..siapa tau kan? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Author |
Post time 15-3-2016 01:39 PM
From the mobile phone
|
Show all posts
stania83 replied at 7-3-2016 07:26 PM
--dah cerai ke put? Baru nak suruh sabar setahun dulu, itupun kalau sayang lagi la kat husband. amik ...
Tak cerai lg sis..sampai ke sudah mmg suami xnak ceraikan...hari2 nangis...n now dia dah ceraikan isteri kedua tu...huhi drama x habis lg..tp aaya x masuk campur pun urusan diorang..xde push hubby pon..biar dia yg decide n bertanggugjawab atas keputusan dia tu... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
|