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Reply #260 [Red^Ribbon]'s post
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orang lelaki ni senang aje, kalau dia dah sayang dgn seorang perempuan. he will go as far as the volcanic mountain, penah dengar pepatah 'laut akan ku renangi?' Mcm tu lelaki akan menjaga wanita. Dari persoalan you samada dia sayang ke tidak, lelaki itu sememangnya sayang kepada gf nya itu... |
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Reply #258 Tidus's post
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can you explain the question properly please, cara you tanya soalan pun mcm orang hilang arah jer... |
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ifan, mcmana nak bgtau mak bapak yg kita nak kawin? prada ni anak manja. apa saja yg prada buat mesti dicontrol. parents tak brapa open minded pasal relationship.. tp diorang tau prada ada kuar dgn my bf and mereka pun suka my bf. masalahnya i dunno how to break the news. prada segan giler nak cakap tp prada nak bgtau secepat mungkin supaya senang bole get ready with the preparation for my wedding. |
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Reply #263 pradabella's post
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Ibu bapa adalah orang yang paling dekat dan orang yg paling penting dalam hidup kita. To break the news to them needs a little bit of effort and tackling. Find the right time and place to tell them about the news. Treat them to a dinner and bring your bf along so that both of you can tell to your parents together. This shows that you and your future husband is seriously considering to live together in marriage. Tunjukkan kepada your parents yg u benar2 bersedia untuk mendirikan rumah tangga. |
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Originally posted by ifanonline at 25-12-2006 02:41 PM
orang lelaki ni senang aje, kalau dia dah sayang dgn seorang perempuan. he will go as far as the volcanic mountain, penah dengar pepatah 'laut akan ku renangi?' Mcm tu lelaki akan menjaga wanita. D ...
[size=-2]thank you ifan....:love: |
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nk tny gk
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i juz broke up 4 a wik..n i knw dis 1 guy..laswik alone we wen out 5times..he knws evrythg about me..d reason y i broke up..n he do gv me sum advices..i thk i like him..but im afraid d feeling comes juz bcoz i was down n he wer der 4 me..wat do u thk?do he likes me?Y shld he be nice to me if hes not? |
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nak tanye jugak...
ok.. ere goes.. im currently datin someone for close to a year now... org nye humble, a total sweetheart..gewd lookin..sweet, carin, manja, n teramat lah lemah lembut.. (in a gewd way) so far he have been very loyal.. tapi in da beginning of our relationship, dia byk bersmsan dgn girls.. some i noe.. some i dont.. tapi after continuesly arguments.. he eventually stop.. da first question... how to noe if ur bf is flrtin behind ur back...
n 2nd question.. biasa la kalau every months pms sampai kan.. ill tend to be extra scary n sensitive.. usually i will tell him in advance seperti (baby i thnk im gonna have my --r--d soon.. so please be extra alert ok)... n eventualy selalunya time nie we alwayz have a masive fight tak pernah miss every month... selalu nye i tau la i psycho.. but like i said i cam over sensitive so maknanye i need extra attention a.k.a pandai2 la pujuk... but da prob wit him is.. he's very ignorant.. i mean.. he's not da type yg suka gaduh2 or jerit menjerit.. apa lagi maki memaki.. so bila i tgh marah.. he choosed to buat bodoh.. seperti bila i hang up.. dia takkan call blk... (kan i ckp im demandin for extra attention)and when i start to scream ke yell ke.. he choosed to not to layan at all or letak telephone.. pendek kata dia takkan pujuk la.. dia akan biar je i sakit ati sorang2.. sometimes up to 3-4 days dia tak call i ok.. i mean why oh why does he have to be soooooo ignorant.. takde la susah sgt nak pujuk sejam dua kot.. kata syg...i dah warn dah siap2 before nak dtg tu tiap bulan.. tapi bila the arguments terjadi.. dai buat bodo.. stress ok.. (which by da way is exactly wat im feelin rite now.. sigh)
3rd sometimes i feels like im not gewd enuff for him... i sometimes think he's too gewd to be true..n i have doubts when he say he loves me.. as i mention earlier.. he such a sweetheart n all.. bila i tanye dia dia syg i tak..he said syg.. with the additional of ayat2 manis dia... diselit some promises.. but eventually kadang2 dia tak buat pun da promises...for example eh.. he said since we got back from our vaction.. he look at our relationship in a new way.. he's serious about us.. n when he meet my parents n all it makes him lagi serious nak kawin ngan i... n all he wanna do now is focus on our relationship.. taknak buat i marah dah.. taknak buat i nangis dah.. he's not gonna be ignorant anymore.. tapi i pms.. tak layan la plak.. tensy ok.. so da question is how to trust him.. n really be asured dat he really do love me.. like canne nak tau when he's sayin it he really mean it... like really do mean it... n bukan ayat manis sahaja... mind u i thnk he's a very sweet talker.. ayat nak cinta kasih syg je... n from the body language how can i see that..
nywayz.. i guess thats all for now.. nanti ill thnk for more question k dr love.. apa apa pun.. thanks in advance.. highly appreciated..
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hi doc..
ok, if u really can give a very good advice..then please give me some. coz i really need it this time, badly. semalam, i just got to know that my hubby cheated on me! we've been together for 2 years..coming to 3. i've known him as a very gentle, romantic, caring man and all other positives things that always make me feel so thankful to God for giving me such a good person in my life. susah senang we've been through together. we sama2 kena hina oleh famili..sama2 tak makan sebab hidup susah..sama2 bertekad nak ubah kehidupan jadi yang lebih baik..sama2 bina kerjaya..sama2 menangis..sama2 ketawa..everything together..dari hidup di pandang rendah oleh kebanyakkan org..sedikit demi sedikit rezeki datang..sedikit demi sedikit we got the oppurtunity to improve our life. it all started about 3 months ago. i perasan perubahan dia. if sebelum ni i have full access pada semua barang peribadi dia..specially handphone..but semuanya berubah. i dah tak bleh sentuh pun hp dia. he never leave his hp..mana2 je dia pegi..dia akan bawak, even masuk tandas sekali pun. when i asked, katanya dia ada rahsia besar yang tak dapat dicerita walau sampai ke mati sekalipun. katanya, ini melibatkan keselamatan dirinya n famili. gerak hati wanita i terlalu kuat mengatakan dia memang ada someone else. dia ada cerita yang dia berkenalan dgn sorang awek. n he said they r just friend. he told me..awek tu yang selalu approached dia,..dia buat biasa je. on the 21st dec, i happened to open his email. it was from a lady..written subject:"buat tatapan.." bila i bukak email tu, there was a picture of lady with the message :"bang..i miss u..muaaaaah!!!" seluruh tubuh i bergetar..i dont know how to explain my feeling that time. i asked him about that. sampai kite gaduh besar pasal tu. mati-matian dia tak mengaku. katanya dia tak tahu why lady tu hantar email mcmtu kat dia. dia bersumpah dgn nama Tuhan, dia takde apa2 hubungan dgn perempuan tu. he said, i yg saje nak buat propaganda, i yang tak nak percaya kat dia. sampai dia nangis2 kat depan i..minta jgn tuduh dia mcm2 coz he really love me so much. the day after,i found out awek tu hantar gambar lagi but using hubby's others email, which i sendiri pun tahu.kali ni ada 4 foto, n 1 of it is foto BREAST awek tu! kite gaduh lagi..n sekali lagi..mati-matian dan dgn menyebut nama Tuhan dia cakap tak tahu menahu pasal ni. after that incident, i do try to accept his explaination.i anggap ni cobaan utk i whereby ada someone yg fanatik minat kat hubby i. and he treated me well,..he still hug&kiss me like all this while..and i was so happy about that. though deep in my heart..there's something telling me that..ADA SESUATU YG BELUM SELESAI. yesterday..28 december 2006..12.15pm..i was just got into my car to go to his office..kite dah janji nak have lunch together..i terdengar bunyi "beep",,bunyi hp kat dlm kereta i..so i berhenti kat tepi jalan. i check kat bawah seat tempat dia duduk when i sent him to office..i jumpa hp dia. it slipped out from his pocket!! i buka hp dia bukan nak check rahsia dia..coz i sendirik dah janji, i takkan ganggu privacy dia. but the reason y i bukak hp dia coz i nak baca sms yg i sendiri hantar kat dia. then, ..dlm inbox tu, selain dari nama KEKASIH HATI (that refers to me)..ada banyak sms dari nama KAK SYAJIHA. dia pernah tunjuk nama ni kat i before but he said Kak SYAJIHA ni just a staff kat tempat dia,..a 45 yrs old lady,..yg dah ada anak 5..n diorang mcm adaik beradik je. i pelik coz byg sgt nama awek ni dlm inbox dia. so i baca..satu persatu..sms yg awek ni bagi..n also 'sent message' , all sms yg hubby bagi kat KAK SYAJIHA ni. time tu, hati i betul2 hancur..diorang memang bercinta. ada satu folder yg my hubby named "BIDADARI HATI"..when i baca semua sms dlm tu..semuanya sms lucah antara awek tu dgn hubby i. ya Allah..hancurnya hati tak siapa tahu..sedih hati i sampai saat ni pun i masih menitiskan air mata. dlm keadaan yg masih terkawal, i called tht lady..we both discuss dlm kondisi yg terkawal..dari situ i dpt tahu everything..i dah tahu yg awek tu bukan KAK SYAJIHA..from A-Z i tahu pasal relationship diorang..dari pertemuan pertama hingga la ke pagi semalam. awek tu tak tahu pun yg my hubby dah ada me coz my hubby said he's single. both of us kena tipu. i rasa mcm org yg terlau bodoh kerana terlalu percaya kat hubby i selama ni. i pegang setiap amanah dia,..i jaga makan pakai dia..i beri seluruh kepercayaan n hidup i kat dia..i lah org yg paling setia berada di sisi dia during his bad moments..i sedikit pun tak pernah curang..sedikit pun tak pernah terfikir nak i love dgn sesiapa..but..ini ka balasan yg i dpt???? |
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semalam i felt sooo bad..even i rasa nak end up my life. hati i terlalu hancur. .terlalu pedih nak menerima hakikat ini. apa salah i hingga dia sanggup buat i mcm ni. kite gaduh semalam, and at the end dia mangaku everything that he denied all this while. dia mengaku dia bersalah..n he said kali ni dia betul2 menyesal. dia masih sayang&cinta kan i. dia mengaku, hubungan dia dgn awek tu..kesilapan dirinya sendiri kerana terlalu mengikut perasaan. dia janji takkan buat lagi. this is the 1st n last dia lukakan hati i. dia tak nak kehilangan i.dia tak nak i terluka lagi. dia akan lupakan awek tu..n his begging me to give him a second chance to prove his words..n he claim that hei really mean it this time. he is my hubby..we've been together for almost 3 years..of coz i still love him even till this moment. but its hard for me to give my trust. its so hard!! i asyik teringat kan sms-sms dia dgn awek tu..foto2 awek tu..n segala lakonan dia pada i sebelum ni. i feel so stupid!! |
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hi dewi..aku bukan dr. luv but kesian tgk engko nie..berat gak masalah ko nie..
First of all..bawa bertenang..jgn keterlaluan memikirkan..aper salah ko..kenapa dia wat ko camnie..kalu ko asyik fikirkan hal nie..tentu ko tambah susah hati..lagipun benda nie dah berlaku..kalu ko tau pun aper silap ko there's nothing u can do to fix the situation yg dah jadi..kita tak bole pergi ker masa lepas kan? Apa yg bole kita lakukan adalah berhati2 dimasa depan supaya kejadian yg sama takkan berulang lg.
Sometimes bila berhadapan ngan situasi camnie..running away is a solution, but staying there is also a solution..kedua2nyer ada pros & cons..kedua2 take courage..terpulang kat ko mana satu nak pilih..but bottomline kena ingat sebelum buat apa2 keputusan..dlm idup nie kita nak idup lama & kita nak idup bahagia.. |
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Originally posted by midori88 at 29-12-2006 11:43 AM
hi dewi..aku bukan dr. luv but kesian tgk engko nie..berat gak masalah ko nie..
First of all..bawa bertenang..jgn keterlaluan memikirkan..aper salah ko..kenapa dia wat ko camnie..kalu ko asyik f ...
thanx midori. till now, i really don't know wat to do. luka masih segar berdarah. i still jaga makan pakai dia..i still prepare lunch for him tadi.dia dah buang semua sms2 awek tu. i'm trying to forgive him..but..deep in my heart..only God knows how hard im trying to be strong. i am struggling now... |
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Ni cite aku...
Slalu bila aku ada masalah.....Kat sini lah aku Tuju tuk luahkan prsaan...
Dulu aku ada masalah dgn bf aku...pas aku mintak pandagan korg semua, akhirnya aku putus dgn dia..
Lepas putus aku dah ok..xde la frust nonggeng pun...
Cuma dlm aku meniti hari2 aku slalu rindu kat dia....
Aku still mgharap kat dia....
Aku slalu buka FS dia.....Aku tgk dia slalu online kat sn, jadi aku pun rajin lah tulis apa2 pasal prsaan aku kat blog, dgn harapn dia akan baca...dan nak dia tau prasaan aku yg aku syg kat dia lagi....Tp sbnrnya dia tak pernh pun baca apa yg aku tulis....:cry: pastu aku cam dpt bau yg sbnrnya dia online Fs tu sbb org lain.. That's means dia dah ada org lain....
Dan paling myedihkan aku....selami ni aku still anggap dia seorg yg baik & Jujur wlalupun kitaorg dah clash.....tp sbnrnya ms kitaorg couple dia dah ada affair dgn org lain...patutlah dia bsikap dingin dgn aku...Tiba2 aku sedar Betapa BODOH nyer aku selami...
Ni lah hakikat yg paling aku tak dapat Terima!
[ Last edited by polaris_girlz at 30-12-2006 12:23 PM ] |
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Originally posted by BaBy^GhoSt at 27-12-2006 12:55 AM
i juz broke up 4 a wik..n i knw dis 1 guy..laswik alone we wen out 5times..he knws evrythg about me..d reason y i broke up..n he do gv me sum advices..i thk i like him..but im afraid d feeling come ...
hye baby,
to tell you the truth, i wouldn't go out with a baby ghost...i takut hantu tau...hehehehe...just joking...
anyway, you're in a stage where you're feelings is mix up. Selalunya dipanggil 'rebound' stage. I'm not worried about the guy your dating, but i'm more concerned about you! Maybe the guy likes you very much but you are the one who is playing him! Ask yourself first whether you trully like him or not then maybe both of you can continue to another level... |
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Reply #273 polaris_girlz's post
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polaris..kenyataan tu kadang2 memang pahit..tapi yg pahit tu lah yg akan jadi ubat tuk kita nanti..takper this time around ko lost..tapi think positive..hidup nie umpama roda..hari nie ko kat bawah..esok lusa maybe turn ko plak diatas..siapa tau kan..yg penting..hati mesti mau baik..lagipun no pain, no gain kan.. |
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ifan!kalo bf asik cite pasal xgf dia nape ar....dia ckp dia nyampah tp gamba x dia gamba anak buah dia xgelpren ade dlm henpon!kate nyampah tp buatpe simpan...sy takler jeles bahkan (eceh) takde perasaan langsung tp nak gak tau sbb dia...tolon jawap bagi pihak bf sy yg cb tu plis..:jeling: |
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Reply #273 polaris_girlz's post
Sesuatu masalah itu sebenarnya datang dari diri kita sendiri, cuba anda cermin kan diri sendiri dahulu sebelum menuding jari kepada orang lain. Sebagai manusia, kita mudah melihat kesalahan orang lain daripada kesalahan diri kita sendiri. Mungkin bf awak melihat sesuatu yang tidak kena pada diri awak dan dia ingin mencari pasangan yg lebih baik. Mungkin pada diri dia, awak mempunyai kecacatan samada dari segi fizikal atau perasaan. Maksud cacat disini adalah kekurangan diri yg tidak dapat diterima oleh bf awak itu.
Sememangnya manusia, lelaki atau wanita ingin mencapai kesempurnaan tetapi dalam perjalanan mencapai kesempurnaan tersebut kita leka dengan apa yg kita ada dan tidak menghargai apa yg ada dalam tangan kita. Cuba anda cermin diri, apa kekurangan anda? Apa yang menyebabkan dia meninggalkan anda? Yang pergi tetap pergi tetapi diri anda adalah tanggungjawab anda sendiri. Perbaiki peribadi atau apa sahaja yang perlu diperbaiki untuk meningkatkan kesempurnaan diri kita. Diharapkan pada masa depan 'soul mate' kita akan muncul pada suatu hari nanti. |
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Reply #268 aku_si_dewi's post
Love is something thats need to be kept cherish and alive. If love is to go astray, the feeling of lust and desire will perish and decay. Love needs to be lighted in a flame of burning light, never to be dim by the unknown power of people.
Kehidupan berumahtangga sememangnya satu daripada cabaran hidup kepada lelaki atau wanita yg berkahwin. Sama juga semasa berdating, suasana dating harus diserap kedalam marriage life. Kalau semasa berdating kita pegang tangan bakal isteri, sepatutnya setelah berkahwin we should do the same thing. We should do even more!
Create an environment where you and your husband will always be in love with each other. Do something on a weekly basis like going out for dinner, cycling, mountain climbing, watching movies, etc,etc...you need to start ignite the flame of love in your marriage again. |
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ifan.. u tak jwb pun my questions..  |
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Reply #279 babe's post
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hold on babe, i'll be right there... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 25-12-2006 03:10 PM
