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Edited by ifanonline at 22-1-2016 08:28 AM
kena la buat2 travel dan bz keje sebab takde org nak....
dear, all this reasons of 'travelling' and 'busy working' is too lame already...i think almost 99% of andartu is giving this excuses...
we are all given 24 hours...ramai wanita yg berkahwin pun busy juga travel dan keje...
actually, the main reason is the big MALAS...plain and simple...
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sy dah kembali single.
xde ape perasaan pon.
neutral.
sbnrnye xde ape mslh pon kalo maseh single di usia 3series nie.
awak mungkin akan rs sunyi skt, tp blh je create suasana baru utk hlgkan sunyi tu.
cari kwn2 baru, habiskan lbh byk masa dgn keluarga, cari hobi baru.
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mana tau kot jodoh..tapi kalau dah malas tu namenye penyakit..xkan laa jodoh nak dtg golek2 ibarat dapat terpijak..tp bila baca kat sini kbnykan yg masuk 3 series smua suke travel sebab xnk memikirkan sgt psal nak dapat pasangan...bukak laa hati awok2 tu..3 series pon ade je org nak ejas..lgi2 klu yg sedap mata memandang (lain org lain citarasa)... |
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tsuza posted on 22-1-2016 08:47 AM 
mana tau kot jodoh..tapi kalau dah malas tu namenye penyakit..xkan laa jodoh nak dtg golek2 ibarat d ...
tsuza,
di awal 3 series - ppuan sgt excited nak cr psgan. wat janji temu. positif, b'usaha.
tgh 3 series - perasaan excited dah tkr ke neutral (which mean that kalo ade psgan, ok. kalo xde, pon xjd mslh). mula cr aktiviti2 utk hlgkan rs sunyi. travel sane, sini. create new circle di kalangan org2 yg spt depa.
lewat 3 series - psgan bkn lg matlamat. waktu nie dah mula pkr ke arah mengukuhkan ekonomi, mendalami agama. |
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syg laa klu dah lewat 3 series matlamat dah kurang nak mendirikan rumah tangga..klu camtu nnt cari yg awal 3 series laa..haha
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tsuza replied at 22-1-2016 09:12 AM
syg laa klu dah lewat 3 series matlamat dah kurang nak mendirikan rumah tangga..klu camtu nnt cari ...
Depend bg individu. Ada yg masih tak berputus asa & ada yg sebaliknya. Tp lumrah manusia semua nk berpasangan... Those yg kata tak kisah tu sbtlnya kisah... You can observe from all the comments here... |
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ifanonline replied at 22-1-2016 07:16 AM
kena la buat2 travel dan bz keje sebab takde org nak....
dear, all this reasons of 'travellin ...
ape maksud u dgn MALAS? prempuan yg dh 3series tp still single malas cr jodoh @ malas pk pasal jodoh?jodoh tu ade jual kt pasar ke? |
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entah. i rasa pendapat i tak bias, bahawa still kaum adam mostly boleh di jadikan tempat beteduh.
maybe u sealau terdengar keluhan sahabat wanita.
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ipes2 replied at 22-1-2016 07:04 PM
entah. i rasa pendapat i tak bias, bahawa still kaum adam mostly boleh di jadikan tempat beteduh.
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I second your opinion. Mmg masih ramai lelaki yg baik2. Cuma maybe majority kat sini bertemu dgn org yg salah... |
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sebab yang baik baik tu kekadang agak memboringkan.
tak adventurous dan tak mmberangsangkan.
yang macho macho pulak ade isu commitment, ade isu dgn regular work, suka wanita stylish etc
susah nak match
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sis umur berapa? macam dah berpengalaman  |
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Mungkin betul juga cakap u, banyak bertemu dengan orang yang salah. In my case maybe its true. So defence mechanism jadi makin tebal. I think my trust towards men almost zero. So kadang-kadang mungkin ter miss lelaki yang baik. Orang lain tak tahu lah bagaimana.
Nak cakap tak kisah tu betul juga. Nak cakap tak kisah pun ada betulnya juga. Honestly masa i buka thread ni sbb saja la nak menghilangkan bosan dan ada rasa sunyi sikit. Now dah ok dah. Memang takdak pk apa pasal jodoh. Like a roller coaster. I think single women in 30's semua berperasaan begitu. Ada kala sunyi ada kala memang langsung tak kesah. Bila tak kisah tu laki dok mesej nak kenal ke apa semua boo layan. Bila tengah sunyi tu mula lah menggagau.
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Hamboii marahnya sis. Sabaq naa. I think he just likes to tease so abaikan je dia.
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Tu la, mungkin betul juga la kan u cakap. I think susah nak match tu is the best word to describe pencarian jodoh ni. I suka lelaki yang intelligent and smart dalam masa yang sama agamanya bagus, x perlulah dia nak beharta or hensem ke apa, but i would halfway fall in love with an intelligent man.
Jadi mungkin kadang-kadang ada je lelaki baik nak kenal i but i decline sebab i rasa bila borak dengan dia tak ada feel, i mean im a type yg suka cakap pasal everything, pasal current issues, pasal agama, pasal financial, apa-apa jela yang terlintas di kepala i. So bila borak tu jika i rasa lelaki tu tak dapat nak catch up dengan my convo i rasa ishh bosannya laki ni hahaha. I bukannya smart pun but i like it if a man can be a person i can talk about everything.
Entahla mungkin my expectation tinggi sangat kot. But i'll still wont change that expectation. 
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no you should not reduce your expectation. tak boleh lah you sell yourself short just because nak accommodate individuals yang not as intelligent, o as stimulating. my other half is vey intellectual, jadi, I selalu have intelligent conversation dgn dia; and I know how good it is to have a decent and useful chats, bukan bual kosong yang tidak membawa kemana.
walaubagaimanpun, ideal persons tak wujud maybe.
walaubagaimanapun, it is better to be miserable with another, then being miserable alone. (tetapi jangan pulak kita tak mau alone, maka gi cari org yg tiba tiba membuatkan hidup kita miserable) |
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walaubagaimanapun, it is better to be miserable with another, then being miserable alone. (tetapi jangan pulak kita tak mau alone, maka gi cari org yg tiba tiba membuatkan hidup kita miserable)
SUKA QUOTE NI
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Ada juga orang yang tak la bijak sangat, knowledge nya tak banyak mana pun. But the way they talk things with others makes people love talking to them. So mereka-mereka ni dari tak tahu jadi tahu. It's a social intelligence. They know what to say, when to say and how to say. They know how to see deep inside people.
Jadi sometimes tak perlu jadi intelligent dari segi ilmu pengetahuan yang meluas pun tak apa, asalkan kita tahu bagaimana nak tackle dan berbual bersama dengan pasangan berlainan jantina. Yang ni ramai yang fail. Most people goes for surface, but in fact people love when we try to connect to them deep inside. Jadi typical convo like, "awak dah makan?" or "tengah buat apa tu" or "nak borak-borak boleh" or "apa aktiviti harini" or "comelnya, nak kenal boleh" wont actually pique the interest of the other party. It will be seen as something so lame and unimportant to attend to. I rasa benda ni yang selalu dialami oleh andartu-andartu di sini termasuk me. Most of guys yang nak tekel adalah guys yang membosankan dan tak tahu nak borak.
Kadang-kadang kita rasa kesian juga kan, cuba la layan juga. But it turns out at the end biasa nya guys macam ni memang membosankan pun. So at last dah malas nak layan, lantak pi la kat hangpa, aku bagi "seen" ja lol.
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Hi...ioll pon single...almost 3s..bcinta bnyak kali..tp msti xlekat...n xlama..stiap kali bcinta btahan sbulan je...xthu la ape mslh...msti dtinggalkan..rase dri nie cm dsumpah je xlekat jodoh...nk amal mndi bunga takut syirik plak....berserah n tawakal je... |
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Couldn't agree more...
Majority lelaki2 baik ni mmg termasuk dlm kategori yg kekadang membosankan unless u get to know them...
once u explore lelaki2 baik ni mmg u'll get shock... rugi pompuan2 yg teruih reject mr nice ni....
teringat this conversation dgn sorg mr nice.........
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Explore this so-called boring guy aka mr nice ni dulu before you reject them.u'll get shock...trust me..........the other side of them will captivate your heart....
and always be positive towards others and u akan feel positive energy in your relationship with others....
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 22-1-2016 07:16 AM
Post time 22-1-2016 07:04 PM
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