"Kuat Propa, Main Order Makan Macam Janda Kaya!"- Chef Wan Mengamuk De

Potpouri

Baiknya la haii ko ni pun chep. Janda je pun, anak pun dah beso2 bukan tanggungjwb ko pun. Buat serabut otak sendiri nak menanggung hidup org.  

Kalau aku dh byk kali bebel tak jalan jg hantar je pi hospital kerajaan. Biar menunggu lama2. Nasiblah orang tu bernama chep wan, bebel2 pun tak lokek, tahan kena maki jelah.. hahhaha

Bagus jg hencapan mcm ni bg kesedaran kt org lain.

cclina2

Sakit pun sudah many times previously masuk Ampang putri hospital tu bill beribu la saya settled kan.
I did all that because i know she is fragile, insecured and never work in her life.
Sekolah pun sampai darjah 6 datang dari keluarga yg susah.
Yes our jodoh tak panjang cuma 4 tahun sahaja as we are not compatible in so many ways and her insanely jealous behaviour that droved me off the wall!
But i never cheated her once or ever slept with any women in my entire life except her yg saya nikahi secara halal as my wife.

Datang dari keluarga susah
But jodoh kita tak panjang saya cerai kan dia cara baik and promised to myself saya akan jaga dia sampai la dia masuk keliang lahat itu some day pada Allah.
Itu Janji2 saya dgn dia dan Allah yg saya tak kan sia2 kan hidup dia EVER!
Despite what happened i now understand that she is young masa itu.
Beza umur kita cuma 3 tahun.
Datang dari Kg dan keluarga yg susah.
Both her parent had passed away very young.
She has 14 adik beradik dan di beri jaga oleh several saudara mara.
She was raised by her grandmother saudara adik beradik to my late dad mother.
Her mother and my dad are brother and sister.
So we are 1st cousin.
Kerana hidup nya yg susah all my grandmother and both my parent instigated me to take her as my wife.
Masa itu i was only 23yrs old still inmatured.
We only meet each other in the living room 3 times before our grandmother tunang kan kami berdua.
6 months after that we were both married.
We were both so young in a way felt lost.
When she was young she was so beautiful just like my daughter kurus zaman muda2 dia.
Berebut anak2 kampong nak ambil dia as a wife.
From Guru sekolah tu even Dr yg minat my grandmother said to me once.

cclina2

Tidak memilih jodoh
Tapi nenek tengok kau Wan la paling sesuai jodoh kan dgn Yatie ni.
Kau ini Rajin, baik hati dan kerja bank boleh jaga cucu nenek ni baik2.
So i thought ok la may be there love after marriage.
I have never been in love before pun.
Bercinta mcm mana pun saya tak tahu seriously except apa yang saya tengok dalam cerita2 hindustan tu filem Bobby itu.😂😂😂
Perhaps when i get to know her well baru la kita belajar bercinta i thought to myself.
Since she a good and beautiful person and i am also a good and responsible person why not i sacrifies my life by taking her as my wife and look after her well so that she is happy and hidup beliau tidak la melarat.
I also noticed while visiting the kampong on weekend to be with my grandmother sister home and next to her grandmother home dia ini seorang yang rajin mengemas dan pandai masak pun.
A perfect calon to be my wife.
Saya tidak langsung memilih jodoh saya siapa juga melainkan i was hoping some one yang baik2 dan boleh menjaga anak2 saya di masa akan datang and pleased my family too including my parent.
So after much instigation from my arwah dad and several grandmothers i finally said yes and asked in hand of her marriage.
Masa itu saya sudah pun bertugas di Perwira Habib Hand before moving to Utama Wardley Merchant Bank a subsidiary merchant bank of HSBC and Wardley Ltd UK and Utama Bank Sarawak.
Despite bertugas di bank and working always like a mad dog i was also involved in other direct selling company like Avon Cosmetic, Tupperware, Amway to berniaga kain2 batik segala pinggan mangkuk Niko, Pyrex to even Cosway!
I never forget the days where i used to sell tons of costume jewelleries ini.
Each month collectively i used to make from rm20,000 to rm40,000 just buat direct selling aja usually lepas kerja, kepejabat2 kawan2 dan on weekend.
Masa tu naik honda cup 70 motor tu aja.
We were living very well even i was 23 yrs old.
My home masa itu di Bukit Belacan was a whole entire rumah bungalow yg saya sewa dari Kak Mimah dan Abg Salim ini.
U should see the interior with all the best expensive rattan furniture and carpets everwhere when my x wife first moved in after our wedding.



Sumber Foto : Hotlips

Back to cerita my x wife and me tu la kisahnya 4 years kita together.
Infact sayang jodoh kita tak panjang.
She has always been also a beautiful and kind person too.
After my 1st child Nadzri was born everything was fine and i could put up with her jealousy heart sikit2 lah.
But after my daughter was born she got abit too insanely jealous buta.
Biasa la berniaga Avon dan Amway jual pinggan dan mangkuk ini saya kena always surrounded by all sort of ladies as i need to recruit members.
Tapi this ” Green Dragon eye” masa tu i called her cannot tahan.
It come to a point she become too possesive gila kerana sayang kan saya sangat2 kerana me jaga dia dengan baik.
Infact my mother and relatives kata saya yang spoil her too much with all the luxury to the point dia takut orang lain akan curi saya from her ..
Perkara yang tak ada di ada ada kan selalu.
All at the back of her mind.
I worked super hard instead of getting respect for my contribution and sacrificies made she made my life so stressful and unhappy.
In the end she drive me off her further and further to the point i decided to divorced her.
😢😢

Tidak kisah ‘mulut puaka’, yang penting tanggungjawab terhadap anak dan bekas isteri terbela
continue…It was heart breaking to see my two kids Nadzri back then 4 yrs and Serina 3 years seperated from me.
The day saya keluar rumah after i divorce my x wife at pejabat kadi in Kuang was the sadest day of my life.
I was so closed to the kids.


I spoilt them with clothing and everything just like my grandchildren too.
What happened to Serina and the 2 kids also made my heart broked.
I wished there was a solution for the marriage to stay.
But u all already know the true story from my side.
What Gavin tell the whole world is another thing la.
So when i moved out i decided that she the best mother to my kids and i will never putus kan that hubungan diantara ibu dan anak2.
Although she has never worked before in her life and i thought let me just look after them just like a father to those kids by providing them all the allowances.
I promised my x wife masa bercerai saya tak akan sia2 kan nya dan anak2 saya seumur hidup saya.
Sedeh kan cerita hidup saya ini as i went through alot in my life always trying to be good to others mau pun dgn family sendiri.
But then i always thought nak buat mcm mana ini semua dugaan Allah pada kehidupan saya sendiri.
Yang paling penting saya mesti menjadi manusia yg paling bertanggung jawab di dalam segala perkara yang Allah sudah tetap kan and place that on my shoulder.
Over the years i put up with alot of things that not many people know the sacrficies i had to go through in life.
They only know how to judge me by what they hear from all this mulut2 puaka yang kerja mereka hanya suka bersangka buruk dan menyebar fitnah tak habis.
That is why u see me as a person being very strong dan mempunyai keyakinan dan kecekalan yang amat tinggi.
It does take alot for others to bring my spirit down pun.
My past experiences growing up as a child was always tough but i am always a survivor.
What doesnt kill me will always make me a much stronger person!



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Kak-Leen

MissVixen replied at 25-9-2019 09:25 AM
Kalau dah begitu... Kenapa chef ni nak mengungkit je. Ex tu dah ikut kehendak dia. Dah la sampai s ...

Itu yg akak jadi x berkenan tu.. Tolong org kalau masuk dlm ig je mesti ungkit.. Then mesti selit kutukan kat org tu. Lepas tu up diri. Akak suka je bila tolong org dan diam2. Tambah lagi mak kpd anak2 sendiri.. Ada benda boleh kutuk dlm ig. Ada benda x perlu kot.. Kalau mahal sgt, UMSC pun boleh gi. Xde la semahal Gleaneagle @ Prince Court tapi they have all the top specialist there.. Err.. Hospital Putrajaya pun ada private wing..  

Kak-Leen

Madel replied at 25-9-2019 08:04 AM
Cabaran nak jaga pesakit tu mmg berat
Org sakit ni mmg banyk karenah, degil tak dengar nasihat, m ...

Ala Madel.. Dia kan gitu.. Selagi dia boleh dedah keburukan org dan up kebaikan dia, selagi org tu dia x perlu kipas, selagi tu la dia buat.. Tapi kalau dah x ikhlas, serah je pd anak2 dia utk tanggung mak diaorg..

Kak-Leen

adeqbun replied at 25-9-2019 08:07 AM
ai dh bertahun kene block ngan cepwan ni sbb die duk kutuk2 melayu pastu puji2 kwn2 bangsawan die yg ...

Humble la sangat kawan2 dia sehumble dia, kan.. Akak minat chepone sejak 1993 lagi.. Tapi these few years, dah sangat kurang.. Sedih la bila someone I look up to rupanya sejenis begini ..

MissVixen

cclina2 replied at 26-9-2019 01:45 PM
Tidak memilih jodoh
Tapi nenek tengok kau Wan la paling sesuai jodoh kan dgn Yatie ni.
Kau ini Raj ...

Bekas Isteri dia jealous sangat dengan acik nak beli avon dan tupperware cepone atau dengan anak2 ikan cepone?

seri_mawr

untung janda cepwan ni...
mana ada bekas lagi gini...

jadi laki pun ada tak semengah...
ni dah jadi bekas laki pun dia tanggung segala mak nenek...

dalam mulut2 bising n xde insurance dia ni...ada gak part berhati mulia...walaupun mulut mcm longkang...hahhahaa'

Kak-Leen

zehra2 replied at 25-9-2019 09:46 AM
Org yg tk pnah jaga org sakit mmg ler melahar cef wan..
Try jaga.. mcm cef wan ni dia hulur duit je ...

Kami jaga org tua dan nenek atuk jua.. Tp kami xde la nak complaint mcm dia. Dan ramai je yg all out utk org tua tp x pulak gini gaya.. Just be wise.. This just shows the real him..

Kak-Leen

siputsedut replied at 25-9-2019 09:54 AM
i kan..tgk mak i seksanyaaaa kene jaga makan bila dah buah pinggang tahap 4..semua benda tak boleh ...

Kita x suurh makan bercatu tapi eat healthy & balance your life aje. Tp ramai akak tengok yg lhidup sihat, makan seimbang, exercise tu ialah rutin seharian, fast food ni x ambil tapi takdir Allah tu dia tetap jatuh sakit. At least dia dah usaha. Yg xde  @ kurang usaha memang nak kena bebel tapi jgnlah hambur dlm media sosial ni..  Memalukan diri sendiri juga..
Moga mak Siput diberikan kesihatan yg baik dan panjang umurnya..

Kak-Leen

Mierafaziera replied at 25-9-2019 10:01 AM
gila dia ni...semua nak sound kat ig..dah macam alip sukri dah...meroyan tak abih2..tapi alip sukri  ...

Dia antara manusia paling waras dan matang dalam Malaysia ni.

cclina2

MissVixen replied at 26-9-2019 07:33 AM
Bekas Isteri dia jealous sangat dengan acik nak beli avon dan tupperware cepone atau dengan anak2  ...

hahaha..anak ikan yee....

Kak-Leen

nuralisa replied at 25-9-2019 10:08 AM
aku rasa janda dia pun dah lali...

tpi janda dia punnnn... tak beragak2...

Dah sampai masanya anak2 ambil alih tanggungjawab kot.. Dah tua masing2 kan..

Kak-Leen

nanies replied at 25-9-2019 10:36 AM
mulut boleh tahan dia ni, mana la menantu org putih tu nk tahan

Tapi nasib baik menantu omputih tu cerdik sikit.. Terus minta order dari court. Tu yg dia stop melahar tu..

Kak-Leen

kuchenta_81 replied at 25-9-2019 11:08 AM
katanya ex wife tu sepupu chef wan jugak.
ex wife dari keluarga yang susah, tu dia kawen walo ma ...

Arwah nenek dia yg matchkan dgn sepupu dia ni dulu. Suruh dia jaga ex dia ni sebab x habis sekolah, org susah.

Kak-Leen

mizzmimi replied at 25-9-2019 11:57 AM
Ikut sedap tekak je memang camni la ubat dia. Asalnya memang ada diabetis kan tu yang suruh jaga mak ...

Dah menghidap baru nak jaga makan tu x semua org mampu. Kena adanseorang yg tegas dan si pesakit boleh ikut walau org tu xde depan mata sekalipun.. Tapi ex dia ni dah biasa makan bak permaisuri dari dulu tanpa sesiapa menghalang. La ni dah sakit, entah siapa punya cakap la dia nak dengar.. Kadang2 lagi kita tahan dan marah2, lagi dia makan. And some more, apa aje yg dia nak buat selain dari makan kat rumah tu? Tapi CW boleh je cut off her expenses so that she can’t order food online.. Atau bagi je tanggungjawab tu kat anak2.. Akak ni diabetic juga tapi sendiri sedar x nak susahkan diri sendiri dan anak2. Nak dapat chance utk lihat anak2 habis belajar, bekerja & berjodohan.. Nak tengok kebahagiaan anak2. Dah 21 tahun dah.. Alhamdulillah org ramai x tahu akak diabetic. Yg diaorg nampak akak jaga pemakanan supaya balance dan x melampau.. Kata kunci kena sayang diri dan rasa disayangi oleh anak2 sebab itu la penguat semangat kita dalam apa juga perkara..
Mudah2an Kak Yati ni timbul kesedaran utk perbaiki habit tu.. .Kalau tak sendiri dimalukan dek ex..

kokocrunch

bertuah nya ex wife masih lg chef wan tanggung..

Kak-Leen

Mizlyn replied at 25-9-2019 01:00 PM
u... he melahar klu buat benda tak betulkan..masa anak jantan he cerai kan bini 1st ana dahlia n s ...

Lahar pun x sama level gini. Dia lahar selepas netizen bising2 sebab dia diam x berkutik pasal anak dia.. Lepas tu baru dia lahar, x silap akak. Tapi lahar sekejap je..

Kak-Leen

miss_perfect replied at 25-9-2019 01:19 PM
jappp.... selalunya kalau dah bercerai mmg duda masih kena tanggung janda dia ke? aku ingat nafkah a ...

CW yg nak tanggung ex dia sebab amanat arwah nenek. Lagipun ex dia yg besarkan anak sorangbdiri sebab dulu dia kat US belajar & bekerja dan lepas tu pun selalu sibuk ke sana sini build up his career. By right nafkah anak2 je sampai anak2 habis belajar. Dah kerja tu pandai2 la anak2 nak hidup..  Ni antara sisi CW yg akak puji sejak dulu dia mulakan langkah jadi chefcelebriti. La ni dah jadi kurang minat ..

Kak-Leen

damian_lee replied at 25-9-2019 01:46 PM
Yang penting tanpa segan silu tunjuk jumlah bayaran yaaaaa

Memang perangai mcm ex dia layak dicar ...

Dia.. Org x sempat nak carut. Tegur elok2 pun terus dia carutkan org tu kaw2..