Apa yg anda pelajari hari ini?

canna

It feels so good to help other people and to know that i have something to give them.
It feels so good to have turned my own life around so that it can benefit others.

Agul

If it's someone in our immediate family, chances are they do love us. Only they don't know how to express it appropriately. Maybe they did express it in the only way they know how. maybe they are not comfortable with expressing love, have low self esteem etc... If they are our friends (special or not) it could be caused by the same thing, or maybe they care more about other things. Maybe they are not suitable for you and you'll meet other people who will love you and treats you better.

Agul

You're better than that.

wei_loon5063

To know yourself is to forget yourself

tam99

Manusia saling memandang rendah pada kemampuan seseorang...
sepertimana manusia memandang betapa kecilnya kapalterbang di awam biru...
begitulah orang di dalam kapalterbang memandang betapa kecilnya manusia di bawah..

Jadi, siapa yang kecil sebenarnya?

generasi2

memandang seseorang kecil x menjadikan kita besar..
memandang seseorang besar tak menjadikan kita kecil..
sebesar dan sekecil mana kita, orang akan memandang kita..
andai besar, besarlah..
andai kecil, kecillah..

tak bermaksud kita perlu memberitahu orang lain kita besar atau kecil..
kerana itu akan menjadikan kita kecil..

namun yang lebih penting kita tahu siapa kita
tidak hilang bisa ular walau tidak mematokkk!!..

Sofie_Munir

Setiap orang ada kelebihan dan kekurangan masing-masing......Seandainya kita merasakan kita ada sesuatu kelebihan yang tidak ada pada orang lain,tidak perlulah menunjuk-nunjuk...........kerana kita juga ada kekurangan yang mungkin menjadi kelebihan pada orang lain......Bersyukurlah dengan kurniaan dan pinjaman yang Allah berikan..................

wei_loon5063

Sometimes

Gain is not a gain, gain might be a lost;

Loss is not a lost, lost might be a gain.

So,

look at what you lost from what you gain

look at what you gain from what you lost

things might not be that good

things might not be that bad afterall

tam99

Maksud mu, kita perlu pendamkan `bisa ular' tersebut dan menggunakannya bila perlu sahaja?
Justeru manusia tidak tahu samada kita `berbisa' atau tidak?
kerna sesungguhnya kita tetap berbisa...

dutchy

Originally posted by Agul at 28-6-2007 11:37 PM
If it's someone in our immediate family, chances are they do love us. Only they don't know how to express it appropriately. Maybe they did express it in the only way they know how. maybe they are ...

why so? what is so difficult in expressing ur feelings? what is the boundary..and why set such
boundaries if it is hurting the person that is just asking for some Love?

dutchy

Originally posted by wei_loon5063 at 29-6-2007 06:38 PM
To know yourself is to forget yourself  

?? do explain...

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by dutchy at 1-7-2007 09:20 PM

?? do explain...  

u understand urself by understand others
u love urself by loving others
u feel pain in urself by feeling pain others suffer... etc.

u are only complete when u and others are ONE

in other words it is about EMPATHY

u must be emphatic in rendering service, good, etc. to others

i am emphatic with wei loon, he is always a busy man..it is hard to be a lover down in london town  eh wei loon?

Agul

Low self worth/esteem. Prior experience... Some people are not comfortable with physical dysplay of affections, even emotions. maybe the way they express love is so much different from us that we misunderstand their intention.

It could also be that they are lacking love in their live.

Maybe you can show them more love then they will be more comfortable to express their own love.

But, and it is a big BUT, do not sacrifice yourself in order to covet love. If you don't love yourself, other people will pick up on this and they will treat you without sense of compassion.

Agul

Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 2-7-2007 07:34 PM


u understand urself by understand others
u love urself by loving others
u feel pain in urself by feeling pain others suffer... etc.

u are only complete when u and others are ONE

in ot ...

Could it be that the opposite is true for the text in pink?

I cannot agree with the point in blue though.

wei_loon5063

Dont try to understand everything,

you will end up understandin nothing...

try to understand yourmind, yourself and you will understand everything- Way of the Tao

canna

Today i can wait until all negative and hostile feelings lose their power over me before i say or do anything.
I can take the time to breathe in peace and love, no matter what is going on in my life.

Agul

What if, happiness didn't have anything to do with what you had, where you've been, or who you were, and arose entirely from what you chose to think about, yet nobody knew this?


And that changing your thoughts, so that you could feel happier more often, would entirely change what you had, who you were, and where you're headed, yet nobody knew this either?

Do you think if we told them they'd choose to think differently?

generasi2

xplain......

Agul

Actually it's something that I get from my mail.

What I understand from these is that outer circumstance do not really determine how I feel. Circumstance is not inherently good, or bad, only my thinking makes it so. When we are hurt by a situation, it is not the situation that hurt us but it is actually our view/belief about the situations that hurt us. And these I can change all the time.

When we are happy, we will act differently. Acting differently will gives different results.

But, do we really want to take control of our life? We will no longer be able to blame others for things in our life.

dutchy

the world is so much brighter...when you wear rose tinted glasses