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sweetpea911 replied at 1-6-2019 02:02 PM
Wahh.. seronok dengar.. anak2 dah besar boleh spend time sama2 mcm masa awal2 kawin dulu..
Betu ...
Aminnn ya Rabbal Alamin. Same to you too dik |
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Our spouse complete us. Mn dia kurang kite penuhkan lah. - nobody is perfect, kite sdri byk flaws. If we think dia perlu diperbaiki, cubelah. Tp kite jatuh cinta pd dia atas semua his best qualities & his flaws isnt it? |
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kuihbakar replied at 1-6-2019 11:42 AM
Hampir 20 tahun dik. Sekarang suami lebih loving. Dulu2 tak reti cakap I love you. Sekarang hati2 ...
Happy nye baca. Envious sedikit. Moga till Jannah |
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noraidil_06 replied at 1-6-2019 09:47 PM
Our spouse complete us. Mn dia kurang kite penuhkan lah. - nobody is perfect, kite sdri byk flaws. I ...
Thanks kak.. tu lah sblm kita nk complaint mcm2 kena pikir balik diri kita pun byk kekurangan tp dia terima je as whole package.. setakat benda yg kecik, kena belajar utk accept, let go & move along.. kecuali bila dia broke our trust ( cheat, abuse, disrespect etc)..
Sy rasa mgkin sindrom pms tetiba nk emo over small things.. haha blame the hormone |
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Takde manusia yg perfect baik lelaki atau perempuan. Nak tunggu sampai dpt yg perfect mungkin 1 dlm 1000. Tu pun kalau suka sama suka. Tapi kita ada hak memilih, so pilihlah yg sesuai dgn keinginan kita.
Mcm I, yg berperangai baran wpun handsome nak mampus, mmg first to go la. Mungkin dia tak baran dgn kita sbb dia sayang kita, tapi kalau dia baran dgn org lain, means itulah perangai sebenar dia. |
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sweetpea911 replied at 1-6-2019 10:15 AM
Pada sy setiap org ciri2 ideal tu berbeza.. taste masing2 kan..
Ada org nak lelaki mcm ni, ada ...
syukur allah dah bg apa yg kita nak tu.brapa ramai lagi yg kat luar sana masih tercari2 dan belum dpt apa yg diorg nak. kalau ada yg kurang here and there, kta yg berusaha tuk menyempurnakannya. itu dugaannya.
kenal brapa lama pon..malah bertahun tido sebantal pon..still tak kenal lagi..
asalkan xde toxic relationship tu..ok lah. myself reminder also. |
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Edited by Cik.eda at 3-6-2019 12:10 AM
Kalau ada plan nk keluar bersama, both yg nak keluar tu kan? Bukan si dia sorang. Quite selfish pda dia, he decide to go but he also decide not to go. Abih awak tu terkontang kanting.. Kalau dh kawin and he still bawak perangai mcm tu, sebulan dh ni happy nya cadang pi honeymoon, tetiba x pergi sbb just x de mode, not the right day..
Tukar situation lah kan.. Dia suka awak.. Awak suka dia.. Dua ni suka sama suka.. Buat all the thing together.. Tetiba he decide not to love you amymore and didnt have the effort to tell you..
Conclusionnya, both is important dlm hubungn. Dh kawin pun kena ada effort to make every day value. Bukan sbb dh kawin, couple, tunang, kena accept je apa yg ada.. If you really are significant to him, he would think that you should know this and that. Jaga hati and else.
Try talk to him. Why you ada urge to jaga hati dia tapi dia tak usaha nk buat mcm tu. Maybe he think you are someone yg ada "commen sense" tu, so he doesnt need to.. But in fact you need him to have that commen sense jgak.
Tak jalam jugak. Awak tunjukkan apa yg awak nak tu, lama dia akan ikut cause he feel the good from it. |
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Nobody perfect. You kena hadam benda tu dulu. Ada benda yg x best pd psgn kita yg kita x suka, & of course ada juga benda yg x best pd diri kita yg psgn kita x suka. If u hrpkan bf u jd lelaki yg ideal pd pandangan u, u pernah tanya x soalan yg sama pd dia??
Pd i, sblm nikah kita dan pasangan hanya kenal 20-30% ja. Lps nikah, barulah terkeluar watak sebenar. Bila msg2 dah duduk sekali, tidur sebantal. Bila ada benda x best, bwk berbincang. Jgn cuba mencari salah saja, tp cari solution & punca.
Pd i perkahwinan ini lebih kpd sikap tolak ansur both side. Mcm u, jgn la tunggu dia inform, sedangkan u blh bertanya. Tanya dgn cara baik, guna reverse psikologi. Lambat laun dia blh ubah perangai x elok tu.
Semua org harapkan perkahwinan yg bahagia. Normal la u rasa betulka he's the right guy for u. Takde sapa la yg nk bercerai berai. Pd i perangai dia yg annoying tu xla seteruk mana pun. Mcm forumer lain ckp, byk lagi benda2 yg lebih annoying akan keluar.
Tapi, kalau awal2 lelaki tu dh tunjuk perangai suka maki hamun, pukul ka, kikis u, terang2 kaki perempuan.. Spesies ni wajib la u tinggalkan. |
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Nasehat untuk awa..ape2 pm ye aww
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pada i, tak ada issue besar pun. faham yang korang tak jumpa weekdays, so dapat jumpa weekend je kan.
jadi sure excited nak jumpa tapi tup2 tak jadi pulak. then u sakit hati, u merajuk.
tapi once dah kahwin, u akan duduk sekali. so issue nak jumpa tak jadi jumpa tu mmg xjadi.
cuma maybe communication tu boleh improbe once dah kahwin
Benda ni boleh settle. tak yah fikir sampai perlu kahwin ke tak dengan orang mcm ni.
u pun dah listed out things yang u boleh accept, and tak boleh accept.
as long as dia bertanggungjawab, tak menipu, oklah tu.
nak cari sempurna tu memang impossible.
accept his weaknesses and flaws, and so do you.
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Saya lelaki...dah berkahwin, so ada la jugak pengalaman dalam benda nih, hehe.
Good luck on your relationship! Remember to always focus on the positives, it'll keep a relationship vibrant and exciting.
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misc replied at 2-6-2019 05:31 AM
Takde manusia yg perfect baik lelaki atau perempuan. Nak tunggu sampai dpt yg perfect mungkin 1 dlm ...
Betul u.. xde sapa yg perfect..biasala perempuan ni kdg2 ada masa emo x bertempat.. dah cool down, baru ok sikit..thanks sebab respon  |
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yuki812 replied at 2-6-2019 07:54 AM
syukur allah dah bg apa yg kita nak tu.brapa ramai lagi yg kat luar sana masih tercari2 dan belum ...
Betul kak.. bila fikir2 balik, mmg dia org yg selalu sy doa dulu.. so bile core yg sy nak tu sy dah dapat, sy patut tolerate kekurangan2 lain.. asalkan bukan sampai tahap disrespect kat diri kita.. thanks kak for responding |
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Cik.eda replied at 2-6-2019 11:05 PM
Kalau ada plan nk keluar bersama, both yg nak keluar tu kan? Bukan si dia sorang. Quite selfish pda ...
Itu lah.. rasanya ktrg dah reach stage yg too comfortable with each other yg kadang2 i rasa mcm dia take my feeling for granted.. Sabtu kira mcm default day keluar.. bukan la special date .. kira mcm routine.. tp kalau mmg ada specific plan so far dia xde la mcm ni..thanks ye for responding |
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farlis replied at 3-6-2019 12:59 AM
Nobody perfect. You kena hadam benda tu dulu. Ada benda yg x best pd psgn kita yg kita x suka, & of ...
Betul tu kak.. thanks ye .. kdg2 kita ni demand mcm2.. tp x tengok diri sendiri.. so far dia belum penah lg complaint apa2 psl sy walaupun sy ada gak kekurangan.. harap2 ni masalah normal sblm kawin, sbb belum duduk sama lg tu yg asyik nk jmpa je.. hehe.. |
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redlover11 replied at 3-6-2019 09:21 AM
pada i, tak ada issue besar pun. faham yang korang tak jumpa weekdays, so dapat jumpa weekend je kan ...
Betul tu.. terima kasih ye..segan plan rasanya sbb nak complaint mcm2 sebab isunye kecik je.. kita as perempuan ni mmg sucker for attention.. hehe..cuma dia workaholic, time office hour jgn harap nk mesej.. jarang dia text utk small talk..tp bila keluar tu mmg dia focus kat i & byk borak.. sbb tu la mcm looking forward once in a week date ni utk catch up with each other.. harap betullah by the time dah hidup sama ni, benda2 mcm ni x jadi isu dah..byk benda yg akan lebih mencabar bila dah kawin nanti.. |
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yprat replied at 3-6-2019 02:25 PM
Saya lelaki...dah berkahwin, so ada la jugak pengalaman dalam benda nih, hehe.
Good luck on your ...
Thank you.. i hope i can always remember that..biasalah perempuan ni mmg craving for attention .. lelaki pulak, masa courting period je bersungguh2.. once dah stable, dah mcm x kisah & let loose je.. tu yg stress kadang2 tu |
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Edited by faraway1 at 3-6-2019 01:57 PM
me benci kalau my husband tak bagitau dia busy weekend..
mau memuncung sedepa, me tak peduli pasal me, rindu pun tidak,
tapi kami ada daughter dan our daughter asyik tanya mana bapak..
so kalau my husband busy weekend, dia patut bagitau so me boleh
plan dengan anak berdua aje..
eh jangan kata my husband, my boss tukar waktu kerja tak bagitau pun
me dah muncung, siap bagitau ada life ok, so kalau tahu waktu kerja pendek,
boleh plan buat benda lain..
so communication penting terutama dalam rumah tangga. |
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ada a few questions la nk tanya...
i dah bnyk kali couple clash couple clash...sebb:
1. i rasa i aje yang terlalu byk compromise in all terms and aku je yg rasa aku aje yg letak effort too much compared to him. then sampai satu tahap, aku rasa aku xdisayangi dah... aku x penting lagi. and aku rasa there's no spark at all. so aku pon fade up so aku walk away tanpa bagi tahu dia ape yg aku rasa. sbb dah terlalu penat nak explain ape yg aku rasa. n ape yg aku nak n etc etc...
2. akan tetapi masa mcm ni la lelaki2 ni akan cuba berusaha berdamai balik dgn aku... masa ni la baru nak pujuk. masa ni la baru nak merayu... masa ni la baru nak beriya text... which is aku lemas. aku rimas. pada aku dah terlambat dah... aku dah decide aku nak walk away dr kau yang menyakitkan hati so harap maklum.
okay soalan aku..
adakah aku yang bermasalah?? sbb every relationship aku dgn mana2 jantan semua akan berakhir mcm tu? bila aku rasa diabaikan.. aku suarakan ape aku rasa, diaorg take action. tp benda ni akan berulang berulang byk kali sampai aku rasa aku xde value kat hati diaorg..sbb aku penat nak repeat. n aku faham lelaki pon mana suka kan nak deal benda yg sama byk kali kan?? n sampai satu tahap aku pikir aku yg problem sbb xboleh nak terima dia seadanya? or adakah aku ni xpaham concept compromise itu sendiri??
n why eh... laki first 3 -5 months kemain mengejar then selepas tu mcm kisah x kisah...
bile aku sendiri decide putus, mintak maaf n mintak bagi peluang...
then bagi peluang, ok balik kejap aje...
lepas tu buat balik benda yg sama... n leps tu aku buat xtahu n aku pon cari org lain
then kata aku x setia la mcm2... why eh? laki semua sama ker ape??
ps: sorry tt for menumpang umah ko lak. hahaha
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Bg aku, kau xkn dpt ape yg kau nk..kalo dh jodoh ko dgn die xde ape blh halang..kalo nnt lps kawen ko dh tersedar menyesal kawen dgn die,ko anggap jela tu dugaan utk ko..sume org akn dduga dlm perkahwinan..tp jln sng,xpayah kawen smpai bila2 huhuhu |
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