Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)

ifanonline

Originally posted by budakcikangcute at 16-8-2006 05:19 PM
ok, aku nak tanya ni..

sebagai seorang lelaki, ape perasaan dan tindakan ko bila
awek ko cakap macam ni

"awak kena ingat, esok dah kawin, duit awak tu, duit saya..
duit saya, duit saya ...

belum kawin lagik dah demand yer? tengok lelaki tu jugak...kalau jenis tak kisah dengan semua kenyataan2 perempuan    tu, it's ok...kalau lelaki tu kena kan pelbagai peraturan jugak mcm mana pulak? vice versa...

ifanonline

Originally posted by LegalVixen at 16-8-2006 05:56 PM
aku plak nak tanya.....satu soalan berikutan dari benang yang telah ku hamparkan di dalam ni....

INTRO...> Aku ni dah umur 27 tahun. Kerje bagus. Semua ada. Tapi takder boipren. Dulu ada, tap ...

most likely your looking at the wrong places, but from your post, i think you're an interesting person, you like salsa and
mountain climbing...but u yourself also have to be wife material in order to get husband material...maybe your
attribute do not potray for what you want rather than receiving the opposite, for example attracting all the pisau cukur
and anak mak...

MsAnonymous

kewl thread



aku ada few Qs nak tanya..
nanti aku list

neeeza75

Hi En Ifan....

Mmmmm logik jugak explaination yg anda bagi keatas soalan drp saya...

Soalan saya adalah seperti berikut:-

1) kalau saya asyik call mamat ni menyatakan rindu & sayang kepada beliau adakah dia akan raser bosan & jemu & jelak...? normally jawapan yg dibagi atas segala kenyataan mamat ni akak berkata "alhamdulliah" mmmmmm ok ker mcm tu ?

2)Mcm maner nak tahu mamat tu rindu kat kiter? Any idea? raser macam tak ader leer kalau girl aje asyik rindu giler kata mamat yg di rindu...? or mcm maner nak buat mamt tu rindu kat saya ada cadangan?

ok leer setakat ini aje persoalan saya thank you in advance.

ifanonline

Originally posted by neeeza75 at 16-8-2006 07:26 PM
Hi En Ifan....

Mmmmm logik jugak explaination yg anda bagi keatas soalan drp saya...

Soalan saya adalah seperti berikut:-

1) kalau saya asyik call mamat ni menyatakan rindu & sayang ke ...

hi neeza,

answer to the first question,

kalau boleh, jangan cuba menelefon dier setiap satu jam, itu kalau boleh...kalau tak tahan rindu tu, nak buat mcm mana  kan? telefon jer lah...but from my advice, dalam satu hari tu maximum 2-3 kali call ajer...lebih daripada itu, memang
membosankan, jemu dan jelak (pinjam your words kejap!). One more thing, try and call him at the right time, jangan
telefon dier waktu dier tengah makan, bekerja atau melakukan aktiviti2 yg dia tidak dapat menumpukan perhatian kepada
awak sepenuhnya. Berkenaan jawapan awak yang suka guna "alhamdulilah" pada setiap kenyataan mamat tu, please use
the word "alhamdulilah" appropriately, sometime mamat tu akan terasa seolah-olah di 'di perli' if you use that word to
often...be careful..

answer to the second question,

dier akan rindu kat awak sekiranya dia respond quickly to your action, sebagai contoh, kalau awak hantar sms, dier
akan balas cepat2 sms awak supaya awak tak tertunggu-tunggu jawapannya. Referring to your question pasal nak buat
dier rindu? banyak peringkat nak buat seseorang itu merindui anda, but i will give you one example, cuba call him once
in every 2-3 days time, see how is the response...if he calls you back between those days, that means he misses you,
but if he dosen't, push it up to 4-5 days...wait for his call, kalau dier tak call jugak, you quickly hantar sms "I Miss You"
pada hari ke-4..guys tend to forget that they have a girlfriend sometime..

midori88

aku hingat kan neeza..takyah ler ko slalu sgt call mamat tu & ckp bab rindu & syg kat dia..control lah skit..bila nak end d call ko cakap luv u jer dah arr..

nak tau dia rindu ke tak..idea ifan tu ok gak..lagi satu bila jumpa dia asyik sebut..eh! dah lama erk kita tak jumpa..& dlm perbualan korang hari tu dia asyik mention jer pasal dah lama tak jumpa tu..and dia pegang tgn ko mcm takmo lepas..ha..tu maknanyer dia rindu giler babas ler kat ko..hehehe..

sha214

Moshi-moshi...

Nak tanyer gak..tp nak tanyer aper eik?...Hmm..:hmm:

sha214

Here go one question...

I the romantic n cherish type of girl but not all the times laa sometimes (kadang? bulan mengambang..hahaha)
terasa nak pegang tangan bila berjalan,have candle light dinner n got bouquet of flowers but
boyfren kata "saya tak suka laa pegang tangan or anythg to do with romantic nih,geli la".

Then nak buat macam aner untuk dier fall for it gak yer?...
Hehehe'..

ifan... ada question..

aku seorg student.. 20 n aku telah minat one guy yg bagi aku best sgt. hensem, stylo, baik, sporting n prangai dier lebih kurang aku jer.. tak baik sgt, tak teruk sgt. dier memang jenis lelaki mahal yg susah nak suka kat sorang pompuan, n setia. dier still teringat ex dier smpi skang tapi dah bleh terima hakikat laa dier da takkan dapat balik ngn ex dier.. dier sgt cool, dier jenis tak heran sgt ngn org kt tempat blaja kitorang nih tapi dier mmg baik ngn geng2 aku..

aku rasa dier tau aku suka dier, n awal2 tahun dulu, aku penah ada affair ngn dier tapi time tu dier br break ngn ex dier n aku pon sama. aku memang suka dier sgt, tapi aku rasa dier da takde hati ngn aku... dier sendiri cakap dier still tengah cari gadis yg bleh buat dier tak pandang pompuan lain dan berpuas hati sebagai gf dier... mamat nih memang demand sket.. same laa ngn aku tp masalahnyer aku da jumpa dier... n dier tuh takde hati ngn aku...

camana nak buat dier suka kat aku??

langkah lain aku buat, ialah menguruskan badan..aku nih montok sket... tak nampak kurus so aku nak nampak lebih cantik..dari segi prangai aku tak tau nak ubah apa...

ifanonline

Originally posted by sha214 at 17-8-2006 11:04 AM
Here go one question...

I the romantic n cherish type of girl but not all the times laa sometimes (kadang? bulan mengambang..hahaha)
terasa nak pegang tangan bila berjalan,have candle light di ...

hi sha,

tak semestinya berpegang tangan, have a candlelight dinner itu dikategorikan romantic...maybe for u it's romantic,
for that guy fikir disebaliknya...cuba cebur kan diri dalam aktiviti yang dibuat oleh that guy once in awhile, maybe he
thinks you're more romantic by joining his activities and being with him doing the activities together...

ifanonline

Originally posted by lady_arviena at 17-8-2006 11:18 AM
ifan... ada question..

aku seorg student.. 20 n aku telah minat one guy yg bagi aku best sgt. hensem, stylo, baik, sporting n prangai dier lebih kurang aku jer.. tak baik sgt, tak teruk sgt. die ...

hi lady,

try being his friend first, you can start from there...sesetengah lelaki tak suka kalau perempuan coming on to 'hard' on
them...be subtle and yet don't forget to concentrate your goal and relationship dengan that guy...

Originally posted by ifanonline at 17-8-2006 11:31 AM


hi lady,

try being his friend first, you can start from there...sesetengah lelaki tak suka kalau perempuan coming on to 'hard' on
them...be subtle and yet don't forget to concentrate your  ...

tapi ifan..aku segan laa... walaupon kadang2 aku nih nampak jer hepi go lucky,kelakar n slamber, sebenarnya aku bleh jadi pemalu ngn guy yg aku minat.. aku terer gak berlakon depan dier buat slamber.. tapi kadang2 aku rasa takut dier tak suka ngn prangai aku jer..
dier jenis yg lebih rela menyendiri, gi sana sini pon sendiri, lunch pon sendiri joging pon sendiri sebab dier malas nak campo ngn budak2 yg tak sama kepala ngn dier or apa dia pk aku pon tak paham.. dier mmg ramai member tapi dier lebih senang buat apa2 sendiri.dats y aku segan nak rapat da ngan dier...dulu dier slalu gak kuar ngn geng kitorang tapi now, cam tak berminat jer...stakat lepak2 jer... aku pon sebab selalu terserempak jer...kalo tak, jgn harap bleh berhubung ngn dier...

aku ingat, aku nak buat biasa jer smpi aku betul2 kurus ker..pastu baru aku try2 again...ok ker?

LegalVixen

So, im looking at the wrong places....So en ifan, where shall i find a husband material guy? tpt apa yg i patut slalu hangout then?

Lagi satu, Ur saying that my image might potray or likened by the bad boy or mama's boy....So, i kena ubah image i plak yer?

LegalVixen

To add.....i am a very wife material mind you.

ifanonline

Originally posted by lady_arviena at 17-8-2006 12:37 PM

tapi ifan..aku segan laa... walaupon kadang2 aku nih nampak jer hepi go lucky,kelakar n slamber, sebenarnya aku bleh jadi pemalu ngn guy yg aku minat.. aku terer gak berlakon depan dier buat slam ...

tak semestinya u dah kurus baru nak start berkawan, dalam proses 'pengkurusan' tu pun u cuba-cuba lah tackle dier,
dalam masa yg sama jugak kurus kan lah badan u...and yes, sometime guys suka tengok physical attribute...

ifanonline

Originally posted by LegalVixen at 17-8-2006 01:16 PM
To add.....i am a very wife material mind you.

cuba list down what attribute yang u ada?

LegalVixen

hmm...let see...

in relation to wife material, the supporting evidence are:
1. I can cook,
2. I am loyal,
3.I am spiritual and emotional adequate,
4.I am ready to have a significant other as part of my life.

in relation to me as a woman, the evidence are:
1. I am friendly, happy go lucky,
2. I am honest;
3. free in making expressions (tho some says tht i do intimidate typical malay guy)
etc etc.

To make a list ifan, it will be a neverending list.

And i do note my negative side which is i love voicing my opinion out loud. Not that i like to debate or disregard others view, its just that i mmg suke voice out my opinion. I was told by my guy friend that if i keep on expressing and giving my opinion on certain thing, it will definately intimidate guy. So, u think i should be more submissive? am i wrong in voicing my opinion?

My PR is good, but i end up having bad bf. In fact, i dont even have tht much of bfs since i always down with work.

What the hell wrong with me!!

ifanonline

Originally posted by LegalVixen at 17-8-2006 02:04 PM
hmm...let see...

in relation to wife material, the supporting evidence are:
1. I can cook,
2. I am loyal,
3.I am spiritual and emotional adequate,
4.I am ready to have a significant other a ...

hye vixen,

well, u do have the wife material absolutely, i hope you'll find a great guy someday, but here is the thing, loosen up
the "voicing my opinion out load" attitude...yeah, guys do get intimidated by women who are loud and think they are
smart kinda way...although you are a really 'smart' person, during the early courtship phases, dont' show your
"intellectual quotient a.k.a IQ" to much in the early stages because you are still begining to know one another and you
don't want to debate about why the israelis killing the lebanese people at a mamak stall when you even don't know          what is your partner favourite food or hobbies? do you understand where i'm getting at?

Yeah, sometime you should be more 'submissive' in order not to intimidate your partner so soon, you will have time for
debate, argument, cat and dog fight later when your relationship progresses along the way.

play the 'dumb-educated-women' once in a awhile, you'll get the man you want and also have fun at the same time

LegalVixen

Ifan, i must admite, mann ur good at ur advice...almost a counsellor!!

Well.. ok then...gotta play the 'dumb-educated' woman as u said.. so tht i wont scare those guys off away.. or perhaps, i should colour my hair blond, to compliment the so-called dumb blond.. baru real.

I shall play by the game and see how far i go....

ifanonline

Originally posted by LegalVixen at 17-8-2006 03:05 PM
Ifan, i must admite, mann ur good at ur advice...almost a counsellor!!

Well.. ok then...gotta play the 'dumb-educated' woman as u said.. so tht i wont scare those guys off away.. or perhaps, i s ...

thank you for the compliment vixen, i like to see people happily in LOVE! Love is so important to me because only LOVE
can turn the world around, betul tak?:love: