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the fact that u've only known her for 1.5 months... i dunno, as for myself i think it's a too short of a period of time in knowing somebody b4 i were to bring the relationship to another stage. probably i'm the type of gurl yg berhati-hati, kot coz i've had a heinous relationship wif my previous ex, so... as for my next relationship nanti (bilala tu, isk...) i wud hafta be extra careful. maybe it's the same for this gurl as to y she's playing tarik tali wif u.
or maybe, yeah... she's the type who won't go showing obvious hints of liking someone. juz like me  so, if she's that type, u can't be that type either. kalu x, sampai bilala korang akan cenggini.
so, as for this gurl, probably it's best for u to know how long ago did she break up wif her ex. i think by this time u wud've known kan, since they way u put it u seem to know her pretty well even in 1.5 months. bukan apa, i juz don't want u to be a rebound.
women love surprises. gd surprises. wut u did by giving her a bouquet of flowers tu... i like the idea. besh of luck to u... |
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Reply #23 juz_a_gurl's post
i like your view... u give me a lot to think... to be a better man...
i'm sure that 1.5 months is inadequate time for a love hate relationship to blossom but again i need to start somewhere... |
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Reply #24 gorgon's post
n yeah, it's a good start. y dun u juz chill, i mean... get to know her more. explore her. i really love this stage, u know. i mean... time ni musti berbunga-bunga, kan? n u can't help by smiling to urself. hehe...
skang ni it's obvious that u've shown ur interest of this gurl to her. this is a little trick a guy fwen of mine told me. try tetiba u keep quiet. no smses n no calls. juz to see how she reacts. n how long did she take to react. if she calls u back or text u asking u y, there's a high possibility that she does have at least a tiny feelings for ya. tp dun keep quiet for too long. nanti dia ingat u're not interested plak. |
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Reply #6 gorgon's post
if ros tu i..i lama dh jd GF u..(i mmg jnis mls tggu lama2..)
ros suka u jugak laa tu..tp dia takut comitment kot..kot..pmpuan nie,wlupon dia suka sgt2..dia nk laki gak start dulu..
gorgon,if nk dia..jgn tggu lama2..terus terang jer..pmpuan xkn sms mane dia berada pd org yg dia x minat..she didnt evn pick up ur call if dia x minat in the 1st place..or at least,dia akn bg alasan BZ.. |
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Reply #25 juz_a_gurl's post
hahaha... yes indeed... sometimes ijust cant stop smiling to myself damn! 
i once tried the trick for not contacting her...... it went very well, she voluntarily called me & asked why i'm on silent mode.... i can sense some worry from her side when i didnt contact her for few hrs....
thanx for your tips & views... |
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Reply #26 intz's post
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hmmmm ada juga problem ngan dia ni..... dia jenis layan tak layan tau.... tu yg i kata tarik tali tu |
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bro gorgon... aku rasa kita punya situasi ni lebih kurang sama lahh..  (sorry ye aku tumpang thread ko je lah.. hehehehe)
cuma beza nya aku dah kenal die more than a year... (1 setengah tahun kot.)
tp since bln 8 lepas adalah saat yg paling mencabar dlm hidup aku... angau beb,, satu bdn angau..hahahaha... mcm ko jgk.. setiap detik aku terbayang nama nya cuma sekali sekala je aku boleh ingat wajahnyaaa ... pelik ke huh?? satu benda yg luar biasa bg aku...
tau mcm mane nk luahkan isi hati.. n smpi hari ni aku pendamkan perasaan tuh... n perasaan tu x pnh berkurang wpun sesekali ade lar negative response frm her...
risau persahabatan dh terjalin akan tercalit luka yg blom tentu mampu disembuhkan... n aku x tau mcm mane penerimaan die terhdp aku.. sama ade kwn @ lebih dr kwn... |
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Reply #29 tom's_01's post
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sudah bertemu cinta baru yer? |
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Reply #30 afja's post
enggak pasti adakah ini dinamakan 'cinta' ??? hehehehe :victory:
atau sekadar mainan perasaan....  , sekadar utk menguji.... |
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Reply #31 tom's_01's post
hahahah ya betul donk!
sekadar mainan perasaan atau perasan atau cinta mula berputik!!!!
damn! |
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amacam gorgon... ko dah meluahkan isi hati lom?? aku nk gaks dgr perkembangan kisah ko ni...
nnt bleh le aku praktikkan... hehehehe |
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Reply #26 intz's post
aku setuju dgn ayat ko tu...klu same goes here...klu aku tak minat dgn org tu...aku takkan layan dr mula lg...serius ckp....aku dgn ex aku dulu pn jatuh cinta masa dlm kelas...ak pn tak tau kenapa aku blh bg no phone aku direct je mase die mntk....
once he sms me....aku blh trs reply...dh lama2 br aku sedar yg aku sbnrnya fall in luv with him....klu aku tak suke.....aku takkan layan...byk je alasan aku bg....padahal org tu call nak ckp pn aku tak nak...apetah lg nak ajak kuar...mmg aku tak nak...
for me....if aku layan seseorg lelaki tu...mayb aku sbnrnya suka kat dia...but now...it already past...jz memory between us....even im luv him so much....tp jodoh d takde....semoga die berbahagia....sorry off topic kejapp... |
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KIlop This user has been deleted
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bro...
dr pndngan gua...n pengalamn....gua pun hadapi bende yg sme...perasaan yg sme...situasi yg almost sme....gua yakin..kalu bro respect die, syg die, treat her the best that u can (jgn emo sgt....pompuan xske laki emo sgt)...understanding...gua yakin...everything will be fine....
sbb...dr citer bro, bleh nmpk...die ske kt lu...caye lar....she's the one....she's the one....jgn lepas kn die...btol ni...xmen2...tp! slow n steady n rilex....die nmpknyer cem romantik skit...kt situ...bro leh kasi twist abes2...tp always rational....
insyaallah....kalu ade jodoh...jge lar die.... |
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Reply #35 KIlop's post
gua paham apa lu cuba nak cakap, tapi dia ni ramai sgt yg target... last nite dia revealed yg ada budak nak masuk minang tapi dia jawab kat budak tu jgn berharap kat dia... actually she told me the same thing.... not to put much hope....
apa2 pun gua nampak lu punya nasihat tu ikhlas... mmg gua respek apa lu cakap... dan gua akan praktis macam lu cakap tu....
::peace:: |
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Reply #37 pastry's post
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ko ni bodoh gak eh.... baca dari mula sebelum membengapkan orang... bahlol |
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Originally posted by pastry at 30-12-2007 07:24 PM 
woiiiitttttt:@
aku nak ko cepatkan proses niat ko kalo ko betol2 nakkan dia sbg isteri ko:@
ko tunggu apa lagi.....gurl tuh mcm bagi green lite kat ko....tapi ko bengap, takut kena rejek da ...
ok la...dia pandai |
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Originally posted by gorgon at 28-12-2007 11:46 PM
gua paham apa lu cuba nak cakap, tapi dia ni ramai sgt yg target... last nite dia revealed yg ada budak nak masuk minang tapi dia jawab kat budak tu jgn berharap kat dia... actually she told me t ...
kalau macam tu dah sampai mase U terus terang dengan dia ... |
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Reply #41 tomok's post
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betul tu tomok.... kenapa mudah bengapkan orang.... bahasa jiwa bangsa... |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 25-12-2007 08:39 PM
Author
aduhh
