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 Author| Post time 12-6-2008 06:15 PM | Show all posts

Reply #18 sosimple's post

owh... sos faham perasaan awak... rs kesunyiaan tuh boleh jd mcm2...  skrg awak buat apa??.. dah abes skola??... ms skola awak x rmi kwn eh.. ke sbb org tkt nak dekat ngan awak sbb awak nie mix or pelik???


ak skrg blajar dlm tahun kedua di universiti..

bkn ak ni pelik, tp mgkn sbb org melayu sndr yg segan nk bekawan ngn ak scara rpt

setakat betegur teguran, tanya2 psl peribadi utk mula2 tu ad la...tp utk jadi sahabat kamceng, x rmi yg nk

mmg bosankan kalau x der org yg boleh nak memahami kita... rsnya kawan awak tuh jauhkan diri sbb dia fikir lain kut... yelah dah awak peluk2 dia pastuh ckp sayang dia.. mungkin tetiba dia ingt awak nie da jatuh hati ngan dia... dan awak pun x terangkan dia mksd sayang tuh hanyalah sbgi kawan...


mungkin jugak, tp ak rs dia da lama igt cmtue kot...tp mungkin juga sbb dia beputus asa dlm memberi tarbiyah islamiyah kpd ak sbb
niat dia pd mulanya mmg nak islamkan ak..

tp ak lebih kpd nak bersahabat dgn dia jer...ak main2 n ambik sikap acuh x acuh jer...

walaupun ak dilahirkan dan dibesarkan dlm keluarga yahudi dgn tradisi yahudi sejak kecil sehinggalah sebelum ak dtg ke malaysia masa umur 8 tahun,

dan ak pnah idup dgn kefahaman dan sedikit pengamalan ajaran islam di malaysia (bapa biologikal ak seorg muslim), ak ilang punca dan arah semasa akil baligh iaitu masa 13 tahun di mana parents ak x tinggal bersama lagi dah

ak ikut mak ak di mana dia kembali kepada judaism dan ak ilang kpercayaan kpd mana2 agama-yahudi atau islam

mcm manapun, disebabkan di bawah asuhan mak ak, ak masih teruskan pembelajaran dan mentaati sesetengah suruhan judaism sehinggalah 2 tahun selepas tu, semasa ak berumur 15 tahun

iaitu setelah selesai perceraian ibu bapa maka ak idup keseorangan dlm keadaan terumbang ambing dgn maksiat dan ketidakpercayaan terhadap tuhan (atheis) di sebuah boarding school

di boarding school itulah ak jmp sahabat ak ni...dia yg menyelamatkan ak dr kumpulan bdk2 yg menjerumuskan ak ke lembah maksiat dan kehinaan dan juga menyelamatkan ak dr sorang pelajar yg pada mulanya ak igtkan seorg sahabat yg baik bg ak..(tp sebenarnya bermuka muka dan mpunyai niat buruk terhadap ak)

pttnya ms dia jauhkn diri tuh awak kejar dia blk n terangkan kead... tp x palah bende dah lepas... skrg nie apa yg awak buat utk menghilangkan rs bosan dlm diri awak??...


ak skrg dah kembali kpd roh pentarbiayahan agama asal ak...

kdg2 selalu jugak terkenangkan sahabat ak tu, tp ak cuba sibukkan diri ak dgn ilmu...tu jer

bkn rs bosan, tp rs kekosongan....ak jmp dia dlm keadaan jiwa ak yg kosong dan tiada harapan

tp dia muncul mberi sinar cahaya yg menyuluh kehidupan ak yg skarang ni..sbb tu ak terhutang budi padanya

migdal... awak nie sakit ke??


ak ad mslh kardiak yg kronik....

[ Last edited by  migdal_bavel at 12-6-2008 07:46 PM ]
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Post time 13-6-2008 09:52 PM | Show all posts

Reply #22 migdal_bavel's post

agama asal awak islam la kan... sbb ur biological father is muslim... rite??

erm... nie semua ujian untuk menguji kekuatan awak... sos doakan awak sentiasa tabah dalam menghadapi ujiannya... mungkin kalau awak x lalui ujian2 nie awak akan lebih lalai dan alpa lagi dengan kehidupan awak...

setiap yg terjadi dalam hidup kita ada bersebab...xkn terjadi sia-sia mcm tuh aja... cuma perlu kekuatan diri untuk terima... setiap orang akan mengalami ujian yg berbeza-beza... kita dah merancang yg terbaik untuk diri kita... tapi perancangan ALLAH itu lebih baik dan hebat lagi... may god bless u....
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Post time 14-6-2008 02:47 AM | Show all posts
Migdal, koYahudi ke?   Pangkat anak aku ni ...

Aku ada cerita masa belajar kat US dulu, takde kena mengena dgn topik.

dlm kelas tu cuma ada 2 foreigner je, aku dgn sorang budak lelaki rupa middle east. Kami buat assingment sama2, tapi tak lebih dari tu. Sampai satu haritu bulan ramadhan. Dia ajak jumpa pukul 7pm.  Aku cakap tak boleh sebab time maghrib, nak buka posa lagi.

dia terkejut sangat.  Ko Muslim ke, ko datang dari mana? Aku lagi terkejut, sebab aku pakai tudung, takkan dia tak tau? Aku pun tanya soalan yg sama.

Dia Yahudi dari Israel.  Dia ingatkan aku cina, dan tudung tu macam fesyen je. Well, aku tak kisah, kita berkawan sebab belajar je kan? Tapi budak tu terus tak tegur aku lagi sampai bila2.
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Post time 21-6-2008 06:28 PM | Show all posts
apalah nak jadi dengan orang melayu sekarang.ada yang sudah jadi pelacur, ada yang dah jadi yahudi.sedih betul.awak nanti tak akan masuk syurga tahu tak.masuk nerakala awak.mesti masuk neraka sebab dah tukar agama macam ni.memang yahudi ni jahat samapai anak orang melayu pun dia rampas jadikan yahudi.jahat mak awak ni
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Post time 21-6-2008 07:34 PM | Show all posts

Reply #25 temansejati17's post

apa la hang ni teman..men hentam kromo ja..huhuhu biaq p la kt migdal...dia dgn agama dia..lagipon ada sebab..konflik family n etc pastuh hilang kepercayaan..cuma kita ja kadang2 org islam tp x menggambarkan org islam..sbb tuh pon dia ssh nk trima walopun agama kita nih dah perfect..kita doakn la dia dapat hidayah..yg len2 tuh antara dia ngn ALLAh..
mai salam mai..:handshake: :handshake:
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Post time 21-6-2008 07:35 PM | Show all posts

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 Author| Post time 21-6-2008 07:48 PM | Show all posts

Reply #23 sosimple's post

yahudi

ap yg ak igt psl islam ialah solat eid atau hari raya di masjid at-taqwa, TTDI sms umur 9-11 tahun dan sedikit cerita2 nabi

ayah ak sndiri pn bukanlah seorang yang observant walaupun dia berketurunan Syed dr keluarga 'Alawiy

terima kasih doakan ak...

ak akan doakan sesiapa saja orang yang mendoakan ak
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 Author| Post time 21-6-2008 07:50 PM | Show all posts

Reply #26 Tom_Kurus's post

Maka dengan sebab rahmat (yang melimpah-limpah) dari Allah (kepadamu wahai Muhammad), engkau telah bersikap lemah-lembut kepada mereka, dan kalaulah engkau bersikap kasar lagi keras hati, tentulah mereka lari dari kelilingmu. Oleh itu maafkanlah mereka (mengenai kesalahan yang mereka lakukan terhadapmu) dan pohonkanlah ampun bagi mereka dan juga bermesyuaratlah dengan mereka dalam urusan itu. Kemudian apabila engkau telah berazam (sesudah bermesyuarat, untuk membuat sesuatu) maka bertawakallah kepada Allah, sesungguhnya Allah Mengasihi orang-orang yang bertawakal kepadaNya.[Aali Imran:159]
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 Author| Post time 15-7-2008 09:51 PM | Show all posts

Reply #29 migdal_bavel's post

i can be a very good friend you'll eva have once in a life time
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Post time 16-7-2008 10:19 AM | Show all posts
klu dah jodoh nk wat mcmner???
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Post time 23-7-2008 05:10 PM | Show all posts
Migdal...

I  nak tanya...

1- So, u hv Malay blood lah ye... ur father not an expat eh??

2- U went to boarding school... was it in M'sia?? and eligibility under bumi title ke bec ur father Syed Melayu??

3- Since u said ur "sebatang kara" dun u hv any other relatives around?? as far as i'm concerned Syed family ni bonding dia kuat...

Just curious... at first thot ur pure mat saleh/arab... bec ur lingo n slang mcm Melayu biasa...

Lots more I wanna ask dear, tapi maybe kena go to relevant thread...

Nanti kena bombard pulak kt sini soalan off topic...

Thanks
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Post time 23-7-2008 05:10 PM | Show all posts
Migdal...

I  nak tanya...

1- So, u hv Malay blood lah ye... ur father not an expat eh??

2- U went to boarding school... was it in M'sia?? and eligibility under bumi title ke bec ur father Syed Melayu??

3- Since u said ur "sebatang kara" dun u hv any other relatives around?? as far as i'm concerned Syed family ni bonding dia kuat...

Just curious... at first thot ur pure mat saleh/arab... bec ur lingo n slang mcm Melayu biasa...

Lots more I wanna ask dear, tapi maybe kena go to relevant thread...

Nanti kena bombard pulak kt sini soalan off topic...

Thanks
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 Author| Post time 23-7-2008 06:51 PM | Show all posts

Reply #33 milo_888's post

Migdal...

I  nak tanya...

1- So, u hv Malay blood lah ye... ur father not an expat eh??


yea, my father is from a syed family of malay-turkish origin

but bear in mind dat we've neva spoken bahasa at home. both of my parents used english for daily conversation.

he studied in da us and met my mom, got married and stayed for some years till he brought diz family
to malaysia and started his business.

2- U went to boarding school... was it in M'sia?? and eligibility under bumi title ke bec ur father Syed Melayu??


sure it's in malaysia and i'm qualified for my dad is malay aiight?

3- Since u said ur "sebatang kara" dun u hv any other relatives around?? as far as i'm concerned Syed family ni bonding dia kuat...


lol, both my parents come from a very large family.

but wht i meant of being sebatang kara is i'm all alone in diz country, not because of having no family members but because of having nobody who can take care of me.

my father's family neva endorsed da marriage and da members hate us.

da family of mohammed will neva eva bless da family of a jew. diz iz wht i learned from em.

he now is married to an indonesian woman and blessed with 2 children (they now live in jakarta).

surely his family sanctioned diz matter.

Just curious... at first thot ur pure mat saleh/arab... bec ur lingo n slang mcm Melayu biasa...


i regard myself as pure jewish of sephardic origin and neva think myself as a malay one.

tho i can write malay, i suck at malay speech.

and i learn it as well as talk using it at skewl only.

Lots more I wanna ask dear, tapi maybe kena go to relevant thread...

Nanti kena bombard pulak kt sini soalan off topic...

Thanks


do ask me more if u wanna know me better...

it's ok tho coz i'm to return to da states in december and i'll be on9 no more in diz forum preceding to dat.
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Post time 23-7-2008 08:15 PM | Show all posts
itu bukan mencintai kawan karib tuh..
itu maksudnya sayang kawan karib..
maksudnya sayang dgn sahabat
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Post time 24-7-2008 02:33 AM | Show all posts

Reply #35 migdal_bavel's post

Thanks for replying..

Boy... u don't sound like 19 y.o at all... u sure dats ur age?? ur so matured and knowledgeable... sure u spend lotsa time reading... which I truly believe a significant Jewish culture...

Btw, d Jewish guy with the lilit thingy is really u?? If its really you, I dare not near you with a ten foot pole.. ur so big!!

Well, I'm always scared of big mat saleh esp when they hv colourful eyes...always imagine a tall big highlander / mafia with walking towards me while I'm unlocking my apartment door... dats scary.... and it make me rush entering the door... no offence...
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Post time 24-7-2008 03:05 AM | Show all posts
Dear ur a victim... I dun blame u... I'm speechless... if ur words belong to Ben Stiller or Adam Sandler I couldn't be bothered... but ur born Muslim... and u intended to revert once after ur parents' divorce.. y not give urself another chance?? u had this in mind before...

Well, i'm not really an ahli in discussing abt d whole religious comparative issue... but I know somebody who does... talking aqidah with sentiments and logics brings you nowhere...

Ur not just another bohsia on d street who's shallow thinking made her belief being traded easily with money... ur different..

Pls consider my offer... if I may regard it as an offer... or an invitation to treat... or anything you name it..

Take care

p/s : hope ur not another Eli Cohen or Mossad... no offence...
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Post time 24-7-2008 03:11 AM | Show all posts
Dear ur a victim... I dun blame u... I'm speechless... if ur words belong to Ben Stiller or Adam Sandler I couldn't be bothered... but ur born Muslim... and u intended to revert once after ur parents' divorce.. y not give urself another chance?? u had this in mind before...

Well, i'm not really an ahli in discussing abt d whole religious comparative issue... but I know somebody who does... talking aqidah with sentiments and logics brings you nowhere...

Ur not just another bohsia on d street who's shallow thinking made her belief being traded easily with money... ur different..

Pls consider my offer... if I may regard it as an offer... or an invitation to treat... or anything you name it..

Take care

p/s : hope ur not another Eli Cohen or Mossad... no offence...
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Post time 24-7-2008 06:20 AM | Show all posts

Reply #25 temansejati17's post

aku setuju ape ko ckp  wahai teman...tp aku ada sket muskil citer tuan umah ni...cam ada propoganda lak...
tapi jgn lupa teman ada yahudi yg baik hatinya...Allah ciptakan sesuatu pasti ada gunanya...
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 Author| Post time 24-7-2008 08:37 AM | Show all posts

Reply #37 milo_888's post

Thanks for replying..

Boy... u don't sound like 19 y.o at all... u sure dats ur age?? ur so matured and knowledgeable... sure u spend lotsa time reading... which I truly believe a significant Jewish culture...


lol, i tot i sound sorta a 15 or 16 y/o lad...how come u regard my writing as matured?

being jewish is something to be proud. many jews will face a ba'al teshuvah phenomenon (finding da right path, repenting, trying to be religious etc) during their late teens..

i learn judaism at a yeshivah of lubavitcher jews (da largest jemaah of orthodox jews)

Btw, d Jewish guy with the lilit thingy is really u?? If its really you, I dare not near you with a ten foot pole.. ur so big!!


yay, where on earth av u seen me with tallit? did u mean my previous avatar pic?i was wearing tefillin, not tallit and am not a big guy.

dun assume dat every jewish guy with tallit on tv dat u watched is kinda a huge man.

if u happen to see me, u'll think of a 16 year-old guy...i'm only 5' 5.9 inches (in malaysia, it'd be 167.5 cm only)...

at skewl, some malay guys were even taller n bigger than i was..

Well, I'm always scared of big mat saleh esp when they hv colourful eyes...always imagine a tall big highlander / mafia with walking towards me while I'm unlocking my apartment door... dats scary.... and it make me rush entering the door... no offence...


lol, which area are u now? are u in da us?
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