Ape tanda2 GF yang x bley dibuat bini??

RuL469

mmg x dpt dicari psgn yg perfect smua segi..
kekurangan dia & kelebihan ko akn saling melengkapi..
itulah guna berpasangan..saling melengkapi kelemahan yg ada..
terima la dia seadanya..
ko muda lagi.. pengalaman yg mematangkan kita..

mbhcsf

demam panas  disertai ruam dan sakit pada sendi.......hmm denggue...sebab dia muangkin ada deman denggi..itu yg tak leh buat bini sebab kena pi admitted dulu

hitamputih

salams....

ciri ciri tu sndiri tetapkan laa bro

~ada yang nak pandai sembang
~ada yang nak pandai memasak
~ada yang nak pandai melayan
~ada yang nak pandai manja

itu semua sndiri tetap.tp ada guidelines, dlm quran, ko cari ya.

cumanya cuba pikir balik, adakah ko nak kawin ngan dia sbb dia pandai basuh pinggan atau sbb ko sygkan dia........?

ada satu org tua pesan sama aku, kalau nak kawin, better kawin org y ang free hair tapi mendengar kata dari kawin org yang tudung labuh tapi tak mendengar kata.

renung2kan!

anonymous5050

cmne lak yg tudung xbrape nk labuh n kdg2 je dgr kate??

hitamputih

bleh di baiki lagi, tp selagi tak menjadi suami tak perlu laa patuh yess sir yess sgt kan. patuhi kata ibu bapa selagi ia ke arah kebaikan.........

anonymous5050

baik!!!
akan buat bile tibe msenye je...........
klu bru stkt kapel................xdenye nk dgr sgt ckp.......mlainkn bnde tu btul laaa

itik_magic

nakal x semestinya x sopan.......

hitamputih

sopan dlm kenakalan................
tertib dlm kedegilan
lembut dlm ketegasan

anonymous5050

me = xnakal + sopan

cq

Originally posted by hitamputih at 20/1/09 09:32 AM
salams....

ciri ciri tu sndiri tetapkan laa bro

~ada yang nak pandai sembang
~ada yang nak pandai memasak
~ada yang nak pandai melayan
~ada yang nak pandai manja

itu semua sndiri teta ...

scq setuju sesangat ngan tam tih,.

mbhcsf

ada satu org tua pesan sama aku, kalau nak kawin, better kawin org y ang free hair tapi mendengar kata dari kawin org yang tudung labuh tapi tak mendengar kata.

renung2kan

hmm... in other word u wanted like Miss Crawford - kind lady with a tudung and saying yessss....abang all the way along?hmm....

hmm....well in both condition u see there plus and minuses - the lady without the hijab could gain her reward by just being very very obedient to thsi Mr Hitam putih but he still need to be responsible in giving tarbiyah to the wiife ( let say lah ini duty semua husband to all the ladies )  while the lady with a hijab could  release him from his duty to give proper religiopus guidance to the wife ( and what you could do is some form of behaviourak management wakakaka). U see, ada plus and minuses jugak.

mbhcsf

err mind the spelling but it would be a dull world if and only that lady dok cakap yer yer  haiyaaa

mbhcsf

Originally posted by cq at 20-1-2009 12:21 PM


scq setuju sesangat ngan tam tih,.

napa u setuju sangat dgn dia?hmm...

hitamputih

of course semua ada plus minus

~ the isteri tak dengar ckp ~ susah nak bentuk....degil and sgt rebel. even so dia ikut this is odd as sepatutnya dia ikut  islam totally where a wife shud listen to her hubby.

~ the isteri dengar ckp tp not enough ajaran agama ~ boleh / mudah dibentuk. InsyaAlllah if proper guidance dia akan ikut laa ajaran islam, (in case of suami soleh la)

on i would really hope we are not going to have the old age battle of sexes and woman's right here, yess?

hitamputih

not expecting yess sir 24/7 but only a slightly not objecting anything out from her  hubby mouth. why do u put it on a very extreme cases? mendengar kata tu = patuhi apa yang elok la.

u miss me ya?

mbhcsf

Originally posted by hitamputih at 20-1-2009 04:10 PM
of course semua ada plus minus

~ the isteri tak dengar ckp ~ susah nak bentuk....degil and sgt rebel. even so dia ikut this is odd as sepatutnya dia ikut  islam totally where a wife shud liste ...

how sure are you?

~nope. been  busy ..tak miss pun

mbhcsf

why would these two elements of hijab and obedience being the highlighted values here?

how if there is to be non-compliance...dengaq kata but tend to be very selective ~ hypothetically? [  still busy ...but ada masa jugak response]

hitamputih

no i just quote from some elders telling me that, he might be wrong though. i might be wrong. u might be wrong. so crystal clear?

what if, instead of trying to get my attention, u reply to the thread owner regarding his probs?

mbhcsf

Originally posted by hitamputih at 20-1-2009 05:33 PM
no i just quote from some elders telling me that, he might be wrong though. i might be wrong. u might be wrong. so crystal clear?

what if, instead of trying to get my attention, u reply to the ...

well , actually your post has attracted in fact not only me but several attention of others, by just stating two elements tudung and being dis/obedience.

By just relying on those mere pendapats / opinions then i would simply said that your statememnt is invalid and simplistic. Boleh tak...[ provocative yer ]

Have i addressed the posed problem by the thread's owner well actually yes in my own way - tak baca ker ... plse refer to yg dengue fever tu

limauais

nak bentuk perempuan ni perlukan kesabaran...
maklumlah perempuan bermain dengan emosi...
kalo dgn org dia syg, teguran tu leh buatkn dia jd sensitif
tegur dgn kasih syg..bukan perli@sindir..
tp kalo perempuan tu ego tinggi, mmg susah nk dibentuk..

tp aku rase nk bentuk laki lagi susah
silap2 ego dia tercabar..wpn isteri sudah berlembut
langsung tak nak dgr nasihat isteri..
mgkn mase gf leh ikut lagi..
dia rase dia betul.. tak leh terima pendapat /nasihat org...

[ Last edited by  limauais at 20-1-2009 05:44 PM ]