HITCH Problem...

ifanonline · Post time 19-6-2009 12:03 PM

Hmmm...good insight, but can you really do that? It is possible but human behaviour tends to think that certain action requires certain result. It is hard to say that doing something to someone without any outcome or effects. It's like the law of physics where you throw a ball up into the air and you aspect that the ball would not fall to the ground.

ifanonline · Post time 19-6-2009 12:14 PM

Excellent insight...'commitment yg tak menyusahkan'...i do feel that way sometimes. Am I selfish? Am I self-centered? It is hard to say for myself because in relationship wise, I am 100% committed, you can say that I am more romantic than a women..hehe.

Maybe you're right, my responsibility in a relationship is lacking. I can accept the positive and negative side of a woman, but responsibility is something that is not easy to sustain. Loving is one thing, when you get older, responsibility comes into play.

Agul · Post time 19-6-2009 03:50 PM

hi jan,

Excelllent advice as always.

Fear and fantasy is the thing that has been holding so many people back.

It's time to take risk. I've seen so many bad relationship, and some good one

. Doesn't matter, if there is someone I really like, I'll take the chance.

lantanao8 · Post time 19-6-2009 09:09 PM

Originally posted by ifanonline at 17-6-2009 14:12
Hi guys/gals,

Well,well,well...what do we have here. I am having a problem here...i dunno, it's considered a problem but it's something bugging me in my heart and brain for some time now. I am ...

there is definitely someone out there for you....the problem is ... how would you two get together....I guess you have to keep on trying and trying and trying...............good luck bro....

Hana · Post time 19-6-2009 10:10 PM

aku ingatkan ifan ada problem dgn red...

pendapat aku ye..

sebenarnye, kalau ko pikir byk2 mcm nie sampai pening, itu tandanye - ko blum jumpa ppuan yg ko betul2 madly wildly crazly in love..

ko takut keseorgn ajek tu.. if ko lepaskan "dia" maybe ko akan "lonely" walhal, ko takder laa suka sgt2 ..
sekadar mcm memenuhi klise ayat yang norma - org lain berpasangan, ko pun ada pasangan.

ini pendapat aku la..
sbb dulu2 aku kalo jumpa org thru blind date, misti aku pikir - perlu tak aku proceed? perlu tak aku kasi dia peluang? aku nie perlu kawen sgt ke? nak tunggu org lain ke nak proceed with this guy? (aku lagi teruk tau..sbb ppuan ada talian hayat)
finally, kesimpulannye, aku kena tunggu org lain..biar ler jadi labu..biar ler org lain kutuk aku..janji aku puas hati..