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Post time 2-4-2014 03:03 PM | Show all posts
adikfatin posted on 2-4-2014 02:04 PM
Cari? Haha. Senang kan kalau cari calon suami mcm pi kedai serbaneka,rasa nak-nak,amek kan.. Tak s ...

adik oi...
hidup ni kena berusaha...jodoh pun kena usaha...
bukan aku suh ko pegi tnye org suke kt ko ke tak...
bergaul lah dgn lebih ramai org..
doa lah semoga jumpa jodoh yg baik...
ni tak...terus mcm putus asa je aku bace...




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Post time 2-4-2014 03:17 PM | Show all posts
xyah la sedih sangat sampai terkeluar ayat "Mungkin jodoh aku Allah tetapkan kat syurga kot. Insyaallah.wallahualam.." best sangat ke budak laki tu?
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Post time 2-4-2014 03:38 PM | Show all posts
ko ego..nak jual mahal pastu sentap dia sembang dgn org lain

so kalau nak, tunjuk cara nak..kalau tak nak, usaha utk move on
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Post time 2-4-2014 03:43 PM | Show all posts
tu l suka x nk tunjuk...tunjuk la skit ..
x salah pun..
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Post time 2-4-2014 04:40 PM | Show all posts
ais_kosong posted on 2-4-2014 09:30 AM
hmmm...
ko masih harapkan dia ke dik?
kadang lelaki ni anggap kita best friend dia

kan..tp nila masalah perempuannye..bila baik sket jatuh cintala pa bagai..sdgkan llki tu baik je pun agp kwn je pun..ppuan ni beli cokelat sebijik pun leh cintan cintun...hik3..nth pape..
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Post time 2-4-2014 05:06 PM | Show all posts
nizam49 posted on 2-4-2014 03:43 PM
tu l suka x nk tunjuk...tunjuk la skit ..
x salah pun..

dlm kes adik ni, cane patutnya dia tunjuk dia suka kat lelaki tu?
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Post time 2-4-2014 05:11 PM | Show all posts
adik fatin...

mmg xde harapan ker? cer la try lik....kikikiki
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Post time 2-4-2014 05:27 PM | Show all posts
little_sis posted on 2-4-2014 05:06 PM
dlm kes adik ni, cane patutnya dia tunjuk dia suka kat lelaki tu?

ishh....klau kau suka orng mcm mn kau bt...?
msti kau ambil berat kn..msj dia call dia..
kita tgok cra dia la....tunjuk la skit..
ni bt x thu...harap dia ja...mmg la laki tu ingt dia x suka laki tu..
gituuu...
msti laki tu anggap adik ni suka dia...


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 Author| Post time 2-4-2014 05:32 PM | Show all posts
yerlah....manusia kan. apa2 boleh buat
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Post time 2-4-2014 05:50 PM | Show all posts
lily_kama posted on 2-4-2014 02:09 PM
Adik ketot.. Ada baca x kt bod mod psl moved thread?

nex time kabo dulu k......

haper laa hakak lily ni panggil tt adik ketot pulak..

err..move laa dik,x pon hang confess ke @ pun focus study kalo x abeh lg@ kalo dah abeh balajaq fokus carik keje biar stabil hidup @ kalo x nak keje,tunggu org masuk minang...bla..bla....bnyk options hakak bg tu..nk mana satu..?
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Post time 2-4-2014 05:58 PM | Show all posts
dlm relationship antara lelaki dgn ppn ni,kena phm satu jaa..lelaki kalau dia suka dia akan direct bgtau suka/syg/cinta bla..bla...kalau x bgtahu apa2,kita sbgai ppn jgn perasan,anggap sebagai kawan.

bg ppn lak,lelaki kena paham ni, ppn cepat perasan kalo korang concern,amik berat, call hari2/sms bla..bla,jadi kalo korang terover action korang tu, undur balik.buat lah mcm biasa.

jadi dua2 side kena faham, laki kalo suka ckp direct,kalo tak suka jgn layan lebih.dan ppn plak selagi lelaki x confess,selagi tu jgn perasan apa2.even ppn approach dulu,lelaki akan ttp confess kalo dia suka hang pa..ada paham..dik?..

jadik kaunselor cinta la plakk...penutup sebelum balik rumah ni..

cc :@Innrukia
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Post time 2-4-2014 06:45 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 posted on 2-4-2014 05:50 PM
haper laa hakak lily ni panggil tt adik ketot pulak..

err..move laa dik,x pon hang confess k ...

Bukan tt laa... Uols salah pandang tu...
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Post time 2-4-2014 07:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lily_kama posted on 2-4-2014 06:45 PM
Bukan tt laa... Uols salah pandang tu...

ahah..adoi..buleh silap pndg lak..excited nk komen gamak nya..hihi
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Post time 2-4-2014 07:36 PM | Show all posts
sue_0684 posted on 2-4-2014 07:04 PM
ahah..adoi..buleh silap pndg lak..excited nk komen gamak nya..hihi

Menarik ekk topik ni?
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Post time 2-4-2014 07:54 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
lily_kama posted on 2-4-2014 07:36 PM
Menarik ekk topik ni?

x jgk..tp topik ala2 santai jer..hihi
mcm comel jer2x..
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Post time 2-4-2014 09:26 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kasihan perempuan
Mostly jiwa lemah cepat perasan
Lelaki sukakan dia
Pastu terbuai2
Berangan sorang2
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Post time 2-4-2014 09:27 PM | Show all posts
yang aku tau,banyak kes pompuan meroyan cam taik,terlepas kekasih pujaan.salah satu nie.dari segi cerita pandai ang susun,tp nak susun langkah dapatkan cinta gagal,apa da..
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Post time 2-4-2014 09:45 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adikfatin posted on 2-4-2014 02:04 PM
Cari? Haha. Senang kan kalau cari calon suami mcm pi kedai serbaneka,rasa nak-nak,amek kan.. Tak s ...

Adik,
mebi ms mula tu dia adala segram dua rasa suka pd ko.
tapi, judging from ur reply kat thread  ni, i think ko ni suka menjawab.

Lelaki pantang pompuan menjawab dik,
unless bapak ko kaya raya, atau ko cantik macam ratu dunia.
else,


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Post time 3-4-2014 07:23 AM | Show all posts
cheeky_meal posted on 2-4-2014 04:40 PM
kan..tp nila masalah perempuannye..bila baik sket jatuh cintala pa bagai..sdgkan llki tu baik je p ...

ala nak wat mcm mana dah lumrahnya gitu..
iols pun selalu jadi gitu jugak
pencinta lelaki gitu
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Post time 3-4-2014 07:46 AM | Show all posts
How to get over someone you can't have

I was giving a lecture about love's psychology in one of the education centers in Egypt and when i started talking about getting over someone you can't have one of the attendants raised her hand and asked for the permission to talk.

The lady kept saying in a very romantic tone, "No this is not love, this can't be, the mind is not responsible for love, this is not love, this is not love"

The tone was really soft to the extent that i felt that the lady will hug the chair in front of her while talking! Sadly this lady was like millions of other people who have been completely brain washed by the media to the extent that they become completely shocked when they hear someone talking about scientific facts that explains love.

The lady was in a state of shock and denial, one part of her wanted to believe what she was hearing and the other part was afraid to do so. If she believed the words she will recover from the breakup but in the same time she will admit that all of her beliefs about love were false!!



Love is beautiful, i saw it on TV !!

So back to the lady who was shocked, The main reason she felt so bad is that she heard me saying that falling in love is a process that is controlled by the mind and that our brains are like giant computers that look for matches based on our past experiences, belief systems, relationship with parents, unmet needs and the way we were raised.

So i asked the lady to describe love according to her perspective, she stood and only kept repeating the same statement using the same romantic tone "Love is beautiful, Love is beautiful, love is beautiful"

Sadly the lady was describing exactly what she saw on the Television, what happened in the movie titanic before the ship sank and what she has been hearing since years in romantic songs.

After talking with the lady for few minutes i realized that her beliefs about love mainly were formed and influenced by the media instead of real life experience.

You might be wondering what does this has to do with getting over someone you can't have, but when you know that the main reason people don't recover after breakups is because of their false beliefs about love you will stop wondering!!

Getting over someone you can't have is all about fixing your beliefs

Because you have been brainwashed to believe that love is the solution to all problems you will face a horrible time getting over anyone you can't have. If you really want to get over a person quickly then you should turn off the TV, forget about Titanic and listen to what science has to say about love:
•Love is the solution to all problems: If you have this belief then you are classified as a love addict who uses love to cope with life problems. This is no different than drug abuse or cocaine addiction. The solution is to fix your life problems and not to find a romantic partner.(see Why do i get addicted to relationships).
•I loved him so much, i cannot forget him: You can forget anybody in a short while if you convinced your mind that the relationship was over. Nothing can convince your mind that the relationship was really over other than deleting the old memories, getting rid of the gifts, preventing day dreaming and stopping all kinds of bargaining
•There is only one soul mate: As soon as the computer in your brain finds another match you will fall in love with him. Why do you think people who love each other cheat? simply because there are hundreds of potential partners out there and not just one (see Why do people cheat)
•I can't tolerate being single: You suffer from serious emotional problems that needs to be dealt with first before you get into a relationship else you will choose the wrong partner just to kill your bad feelings.
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