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Kenapa rakyat malaysia umur 30lbh pun tak kawin lagi...
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cmf_king_kong posted on 12-6-2013 06:36 PM 
kadang-kadang aku tertanya...what's with this fear with "andartu"?...it just a title je kot...
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ada ler yg kisah bro... ...
pd yg masih lg narrow minded, akan kisah..nnti dipknya x dpt ank lah,itu lah ini lah..
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annehuda posted on 12-6-2013 08:28 PM
aku ada sorang kawan lelaki. die ni baru je kahwin, umur dlm 27thn gitula, wife die pun younger th ...
cemuhan kepada andartu ni disebabkan cultural issue je...
takdela berdosa pun jadi andartu, dah jodohnya lambat sikit nak buat cemana ye tak..redha je la
bagi aku, age is not an issue...just a number je...zaman sekarang ni mana ada umur penentu kematangan dah...ramai je lelaki/pompuan yg dah masuk 30an tetapi perangai macam budak umur 13 tahun hehehehe...so bagi aku takdela isu kalau kahwin dengan lagi muda ke lagi tua ke...kalau end up dengan perempuan muda belum tentu boleh dilentur..bebudak perempuan sekarang lagi cepat matang dari lelaki tau 
alaa..ko baru nak masuk 30 tahun...relax la..30 is the new 20 hehehehe
people make a big fuss out of that status andartu sebab orang yang rasa diri dia andartu tu give a damn about that status..
lagi dilayan kenegatifan andartu tu lagi la menjadi meroyannye golongan2 yg termasuk dlm kategori itu..
cuba ko anggap status andartu tu tak wujud...just consider yourself an early 30s single woman...ha kan senang...
zaman sekarang ni orang dah tak pandang kahwin lambat ke kahwin awal...as long kahwin, tu pun kalau la nak berkahwin...
zara salim davidson tu relax je kahwin umur 34 dengan pakcik umur 50 tahun...dapat dua anak lagi hehehe...
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cmf_king_kong posted on 12-6-2013 08:55 PM
cemuhan kepada andartu ni disebabkan cultural issue je...
takdela berdosa pun jadi andartu, dah ...
cultural issue tu x boleh dinafikan lah..
tp ada jgk yg mencemuh sbb mungkin ada pnglmn yg buruk semasa berkenalan dgn ank dara lewat usia ni..
then,simply jump into conclusion,kata andartu mudah meroyan lah (ppn kan,emo sikit),gemuk lah,buruk lah..bla..bla..bla...
kawen lewat ni bnyk faktor2nya dan semua org pon tahu..
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sue_0684 posted on 12-6-2013 09:02 PM
cultural issue tu x boleh dinafikan lah..
tp ada jgk yg mencemuh sbb mungkin ada pnglmn yg buru ...
then ko balas la balek
"so? am i being what i am is such an issue in your everyday life mate?"
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cmf_king_kong posted on 12-6-2013 09:07 PM
then ko balas la balek
"so? am i being what i am is such an issue in your everyday life mate?"
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hehhe..aku x pernah la lagik kena cemuh maybe sbb ofis aku ni x der kepoh2 psl hal org lain..kita org buat keje masing2..
dan sedara mara ,family aku open minded pasal ni..x der sibuk2 tnya ke sindir ke..
kalo diorang nk rekomen,diorang akan buat btol2..
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Jodoh belum sampai la tu, huhu |
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ifanonline posted on 12-6-2013 08:21 PM
itu semua alasan andartu...don't put the blame on men...u need to look yourself hard in the mirror ...
dan pencinta tegar andartu a.k.a antertu forever sentiasa memberi 'motivasi' pada sang andartu
i always look hard in the mirror & say,
"Dear God, thanks for giving me such a beautiful life, which i can enjoy being single, without commitment & help my married friend with their marriage problem.... And please 'send' someone who can complete me even though he has a flaws"
Amin |
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Innrukia posted on 13-6-2013 07:59 AM
dan pencinta tegar andartu a.k.a antertu forever sentiasa memberi 'motivasi' pada sang andartu:lau ...
that's the 'problem' with andartu...they see marriage as a 'problem'...so many problems this andartu group... |
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ifanonline posted on 13-6-2013 08:50 AM
that's the 'problem' with andartu...they see marriage as a 'problem'...so many problems this andar ...
ko ni dengki sgt dgn andartu sbb ko pernah kena reject dgn andartu ke? 
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bidacool posted on 13-6-2013 08:53 AM
ko ni dengki sgt dgn andartu sbb ko pernah kena reject dgn andartu ke?
andartu ni bakal menjadi barah kpd masyarakat dan negara...
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ifanonline posted on 13-6-2013 08:55 AM
andartu ni bakal menjadi barah kpd masyarakat dan negara...
reason?
how about antartu? tak jadi barah kpd masyarakt dan negara ke?
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bidacool posted on 13-6-2013 08:56 AM
reason?
how about antartu? tak jadi barah kpd masyarakt dan negara ke?
sis 'barah antertu' ni buat kemo pun xleh jalan
dah nazak sgt2 dah |
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Innrukia posted on 13-6-2013 08:56 AM
see antertu yg suka buat conclusion
amik ayat sekerat2..... dah mcm lebai tok tok dah....
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bodoh la kawan2 ko carik ko nak setel marriage problem...isn't it stupid to ask andartu to settle marriage problems?....geeshhhh, no wonder women are confuse...
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bidacool posted on 13-6-2013 08:56 AM
reason?
how about antartu? tak jadi barah kpd masyarakt dan negara ke?
dah ade paper on that...sila scroll ke atas dan study...don't be lazy...
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i rather to be single dari kawen dgn lelaki ntah apa2..
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Innrukia posted on 13-6-2013 08:07 AM
some pompuan pegang konsep...hang nak aku sila kejar & aku takkan terus terang, paham2 sendiri la; ...
So i take it as every women wants the guy to give their best, all out, never giving up and do whatever it takes if he wants to win her hearts...macam tu?
if yes, then i take it takde istilah "loving someone means that you need to let them go" or "give her space"?
hehehe..
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Post time 12-6-2013 08:49 PM
