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Hmmm...
[AceHand SPECTaceLAR]
Burger tu kira suplemeng jugak kan...?
Jizzz... Klong! Klong!
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Cara i divert rasa bersalah shopaholic habit adalah dgn sharing items dgn my teen daughters and son.
My daughter almost my height but obviously slimmer , yg younger daughter walaupun baru 10, she is tall so byk baju baju we ols rotate among us.
Utk son, we share skincare. Haircare, Or sebenarnya, i buy in bulk,kendian bagilah my kids semua ni.
I memang ajar my children to be presentable, be weight watcher, jaga skin etc
Walaupun ad aje mereka culas tak kira lah yg boy mahupun girl
I rasa wow, tak sesia baju or bag yg gilegike shopping dulu masa.memuda..sebab dptlah bagi my kids. Hahha ni penyelamat kan..kalau tak, bising mother i, ni reta dunia semua tak berpakai kena soal dlm kubur! |
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But,i strongly advise the adikadik,supaya jgn terikut sgt habit shooaholic,sentiasa beringat.
Tapi jgn sampai kedekut sgt. Maybe dah merasa satu dua branded items,kemudian teach yourself how to train your lust towards them . Luxury is actually when u know how to live happier in luxe ways not in luxurious things surround u |
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Post time 27-1-2022 01:26 AM
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AceHand replied at 9-1-2021 02:22 AM
[AceHand SPECTaceLAR]
Burger tu kira suplemeng jugak kan...?
Takk... burger tu buat tempeleng u je |
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Post time 27-1-2022 01:28 AM
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denim replied at 26-1-2022 09:39 AM
But,i strongly advise the adikadik,supaya jgn terikut sgt habit shooaholic,sentiasa beringat.
Tapi j ...
I dont have daughter or any nieces yet... only son and nephews... and a younger brother!!! so i kasi some of my bags and jewelries to my sis in law... ok je i anggap dia mcm adik kandung i je... |
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baru jumpa thread ni and i syukur sgt jumpaaaa
skrg i lepas solat hari2 doa semoga tak beli benda yg tak perlu, masalahnya i memang jenis beli.... i kira2 balik i ada 21 perfume, telekung SK ada 10 pasang, baju ada 3 drawer tapi sayang nak bagi orang huwaaaaaaaaa
i menyesal tapi i tak boleh nak overcome masalah nak membeli tu.... |
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juliesha replied at 27-1-2022 10:01 AM
baru jumpa thread ni and i syukur sgt jumpaaaa
skrg i lepas solat hari2 doa semoga tak beli benda y ...
As long as u pakai semua tu .baguslah ! Perfume tu pakailah hari hari. Telekung tu u buat bertukar every week ke, and ada yg bawa opis,bawa dlm keta. Kalau kat rumah ada few rooms, u letakkan every room ada telekung dan jadikan solat certain waktu di certain room.
Hilang sikit rasa berdosa beli bykbyk..hehehhe |
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Aah telekung tu mmg buat gitu, perfume pun hari2 pakai tp ada expired date kan kalau bertahun biar dia ada bau tengik gitu...
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I baru jumpa thread ni.. congrats to tt sbb dah berjaya jadi ex-shopaholic. Unlike me, unfortunately masih lagi belum berjaya.huhu.
The thing is, I bukan hoarder.. I pun bukan jenis shopping semua barang. I kalah dengan branded handbag je..huhu. I tak ada ikut certain time frame pun bila nak beli bag ni. Yg I perasan I akan rasa membuak2 nak beli beg bila I stress. Since 2020 bila tak dapat travel, I end up beli handbag. Bukan boleh pakai ke mana sangat pun lagi2 bila lockdown segala majlis dinner kenduri semua tak ada.
Pernah in 1 month I habis RM60K just beli beg! Rasa excited masa unboxing sekejap aje, lepas tu tak rasa apa sangat dah. Ada beg2 yg masih belum pakai pun sejak beli.
I don't know what was I thinking. Maybe I sakit kot..hehe. Kadang bila anak I buat perangai, I geram fikir..buat apa aku simpan duit banyak2 untuk anak yg sakitkan hati aku, dah aku keje penat2.. baik aku belanja. Sounds terrible right? Tapi all those thoughts yg kadang2 push me to spend. Pastu try to justify myself, branded bags are considered investment..
Oh, I need help...huhu. |
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Queen_DB replied at 30-1-2022 12:39 AM
I baru jumpa thread ni.. congrats to tt sbb dah berjaya jadi ex-shopaholic. Unlike me, unfortunately ...
U serius nak sembuhkan penyakit gila handbag tu? Iols alhamdulillah boleh laa dikira sembuh... now berjaya tahan diri dgn beli 1 handbag sahaja setahun.. every march.. itu aja....
Cara i sembuh penyakit gila handbag branded tu? I sedekah handbags yang i jarang pakai kepada my friends and sis in law... chanel flap, chanel PST, chanel WOC, dior gaucho, dior hobo, guccissimo sling, LV neverfull, ferragamo python, u name it most of it i dah let go tanpa bayaran.. rasa lega dapat letgo handbags tu elakkan berkulat.. i have a hard time cleaning and rotating those bags.. now i just keep a few sahaja some birkins, lady diors, chanel boys, chanel flaps and 1 LV alma (sbb ini hantaran kawen, tak gamak kasi orang)... |
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Dulu b4 covid memang I tried to limit myself beli 1 or 2 bag a year. Yg lain my hubby yg hadiahkan sebab diapun tau I gila bag. Nasib baik perangai I tak menurun ke my dotter. Dia tak kisahpun nak ada beg mahal2 ni. Yg I punya pun dia jarang mintak pakai. I memang ada je bagi my mom & sisters bag2 yg I dah jarang pakai & ada yg dah jual as preloved mana2 yg masih in excellent condition. So tidaklah I ni jenis yg susah nak letgo barang. Like my baju mmg selalu I buat spring cleaning dan bagi orang.
Apps like shopee ke lazada ke mmg I sengaja tak install takut I kecundang dgn nafsu.haha.. So kalau nak apa2 I just suruh my dotter belikan I. So bab shopping online ni agak selamat di situ. Shopping complex mmg jarang sgt jengah sbb I ada ada anxiety & on medication so masih takut2 nak pegi tempat crowded walaupun dah tak de lockdown. Jadi nafsu nak beli emas secara tak langsung terbantut di situ. Haha.
Bagus u kaka. I ni masih struggle. Nasib baik I masih boleh fikir waras dgn limitkan harga beg yg I boleh beli not more than rm30k per bag. So, I masih dapat elakkan beli birkin. Sebab deep down I masih rasa membazir beli beg yg harganya boleh beli 1 bijik kete. Mungkin sbb I bukan lahir dlm golongan kayangan dan pernah hidup susah dulu so bab tu I masih beringat.hehe. Tapiiiii... kalau kumpul2 my purchased 2 tahun ni dah boleh dapat 4 bijik new birkin yg biasa2 kot.huhu.
I think dgn travel je boleh cure my addiction. I would rather spend money to create memories travelling around the world than buying material things. I really hope tak lama lagi things will be better & we can travel safely & freely again.
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Post time 30-1-2022 08:17 PM
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Queen_DB replied at 30-1-2022 07:22 PM
Dulu b4 covid memang I tried to limit myself beli 1 or 2 bag a year. Yg lain my hubby yg hadiahkan ...
InsyaAllah dah boleh travelling pasni... yes, masa travel i pun tend to pakai simple2 so tak rasa nak shopping sgt... and usually LV alma bb bag tu best sgt utk travel sbb bleh sumbat byk barang, tak kotor...
Lazada i ada je tp dah jarang pakai.. i still keep lazada for my toiletries shopping... i bought my contact lenses supply, shower gel, detergents, softener, listerine, N95 mask (mtex brand malaysia) semua kat same shop yang i dah follow siap2.. bila stocks low, i just repurchase aje barang tu...
Other online apps i still keep is cultbeauty for my skincare purchase & iherbs for supplements... yes sounds boring sbb i keep repeating buying barang yang i dah comfortable to use... |
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Queen_DB replied at 30-1-2022 07:22 PM
Dulu b4 covid memang I tried to limit myself beli 1 or 2 bag a year. Yg lain my hubby yg hadiahkan ...
Oh my i mmg rasa u jenis byk handbags hahahah.... love to see your collection if u dont mind.. cuci mata, pun jadi la happy tengok collection orang...
I pakai birkin bukan selalu... utk jalan2 kat pavi, klcc, attend function, networking dinner or meetings yang penting with certain circle sahaja...
Kalo weekends, balik kampong, or if i am wandering alone, i akan dress down and pakai LV or chanel flap hitam (sbb yg ni sgt versatile) or boy flap...
Kalo attend formal event, i rasa mcm i memalukan husband kalo dressing cincai2... so kena subtle and classy la.. trying to be one, at least |
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Alamak, segannya I..hehe.. my collection tak de la impressive mana. But I bet yours mesti letup punya..dgn birkin bagai tu..hehe. I dah banyak jugak jual preloved konon nak clear my closet.. but end up I beli pulak lagi after dapat duit tu.haha. I think after this I nak letgo another batch of LVs yg dah tak pakai since I pun dah opt for early retirement. As of now I only have around 20 Chanel mostly classic flaps, GSTs, mini rects, chevrons, C19, WOCs but no boy. I dunno why tak suka boy. The rest tu LVs, lady diors, Gucci.. tu pun ada around 20 plus je lagi.
I start collect pun since 2014, by that time I dah ada financial freedom.. tak de hutang kereta ke rumah. Gaji kira bersih beli apa I nak tak termasuk elaun from hubby. Sebelum tu I biasa je pakai Coach, MK, Longchamp.. even sekarang pun kalau pegi pasar I pakai simple2 & kelek beg biasa je. Masa mula2 keje dulu lagilah, Bonia, Sembonia, Carlo Rino..hehe. So I guess my taste depends dgn keadaan kocek jugak.hehe. Jadi tak adalah sampai berhutang credit card semata nak puaskan nafsu.
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Queen_DB replied at 31-1-2022 04:02 PM
Alamak, segannya I..hehe.. my collection tak de la impressive mana. But I bet yours mesti letup pu ...
I rasa okay je nak beli birkin once in a while, selepas mengumpul beberapa lama... workmanship, leather quality, teknik warna leather tu mmg takde yang setanding hermes... even chanel, dior pun tak secantik buatan hermes.. less color transfer due to leather treatment...
LV i rasa berbaloi sbb workmanship masih cantik, berbanding harga... dulu i gilakan chanel.. sbb tu byk collection chanel... dior tu i cuma simpan lady dior in few colors, hanya semata sbb i minat lady diana... lain2 bag dior i dah letgo kat orang.... |
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Queen_DB replied at 31-1-2022 04:02 PM
Alamak, segannya I..hehe.. my collection tak de la impressive mana. But I bet yours mesti letup pu ...
Cc pun i dah tak pakai sangat dah.. hanya sekeping i ada.. itu pun utk bayar medical card aia (kumpul treatpoints) dengan etiqa smartwaris and smartcash.. charge pada cc.. collect point and full settlement terus the next month.. i kena buat camtu sbb i nak keep my one and only CC... at least ada nampak cash flow in out |
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Birkin tu nanti dulu lah..hehe..sbb honestly, i tak berapa suka sgt design dia. I lagi suka kelly. So maybe after this I beli kelly kot. So far I ada jypsiere dgn evelyne je coz I suka crossbody. Eh, apa nih..patut kita borak nak curekan my addiction..ni nampak mcm galakkan je..haha.
I rasa I ada tgk collection u kat another thread pasal show off bags kan? Ke I salah orang.. kena pegi tgk balik pasni. Hehe.. apapun I beli utk kepuasan diri je..never intended nak berlawan2 dgn sesape. Nak buat apa kan..coz u'll never win pun lagi2 against kak mah ke jamie chuah tu lagilah..haha. No matter how self indulging or lame or vain she is, I still suka je tgk her closet.hihi.
I pun ada CC semata kumpul points utk plane tickets..hehe.
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Queen_DB replied at 31-1-2022 05:14 PM
Birkin tu nanti dulu lah..hehe..sbb honestly, i tak berapa suka sgt design dia. I lagi suka kelly. ...
Bukan utk berlumba.. tp pakai ikut occasions... tak perlu ada byk pun... i initially minat kelly, tapiiiiii tak convenient utk keluar masuk barang |
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green~tea replied at 30-1-2022 06:46 PM
U serius nak sembuhkan penyakit gila handbag tu? Iols alhamdulillah boleh laa dikira sembuh... now ...
Bestnya, nak jadi adik sis boleh dapat free handbag berjenama ![](static/image/smiley/default/lol.gif) |
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