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Post time 24-5-2010 10:41 PM | Show all posts
ye la...zura pun bru prasan...ramai girl la kt sini kan...gath nnti pnh dgn pink la
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Post time 25-5-2010 07:51 AM | Show all posts
Dulu ada sorang forumer kat sini tak silap Audetom, dia dapat anak lelaki gak...tp skg dia dah senyap jer...agaknya bz dengan bb dia kot....
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Post time 25-5-2010 08:10 AM | Show all posts
haah...qairina alhamdulillah muntah keluar lendir mmg kebiasaan bb dgn usia sebulan lebih..sy pun pakai minyak yuyi..tapi ayh saya prefer guna minyak telon..stakat nie dua2 pakai..rumah sy pakai yu yi..rumah ayah guna telon..qairina mmg kuat kentut..tpi semalam qairina demam hari ni pun...sian dia..tpi xnnagis may be dia fhm ibu penat brkerja..smlman sy xtido jaga dia..risau sgt...
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Post time 25-5-2010 08:55 AM | Show all posts
Alissa,.. lupa pulak Sab .. Audetom tu kawan baik Sab... dia tengah sibuk pindah umah baru.. tu yg senyap skt kat forum kot.. nama baby dia pun Rayyan.. sama mcm kak idrina..

Semalam Sab gi jumpa Doktor Johan.. Baby Specialist from HKL tapi buat locumn kat Lourdes Hospital. Since Dayyan lahir, dia lah doktor Dayyan. Semalam Dayyan inject yg sebulan tu and happy sgt bila tahu berat Dayyan dah naik.. sekarang berat Dayyan 3.3kg on his 48 days. Bleh lah kan.. Doktor kata satu pencapaian yg membanggkan.. hehehehe.. Sab mintak doktor check perut dayyan sebab dia asyik muntah kan balik susu yg dia minum kan. Bila check, Doktor kata everything is fine. But, Sab curious lah kenapa Dayyan asyik muntah je.. susu dah tukar banyak kali.. Then baru Doktor explain. Dia ckp maybe Sab forgot that Dayyan born premature. So untuk baby macam Dayyan, injap saluran pemakanan dia tak matang. Doktor explain it will takes time for baby like Dayyan. Ehmm terlupa pulak mommy ni.. Dayyan kalau hisap susu until now sangat perlahan.. 80ml about 3 oz perlukan almost 1 jam nak abis.. Doktor cadangkan Sab stop dulu bagi NAN yg baru try 4 hari tu.. and bagi baby Frisolac Comfort . Susu ni formulated khas untuk muntah and sembelit.. Susu ni susah nak carik kat market and pada Sab its really expensive...  Tin kecil jer cost me RM45. Selalunya Anmum ke.. Enfalac ke even Isomil pun tin besar 1 kg baru rm60 gitu kan? Doktor cakap susu ni takde kat market. Kena beli from clinic or Farmasi. Lunch hour ni nak gi carik kat guardian, hopefully ada lah.. takut tin kecik tu baper ari je bertahan tu..




Doktor suggest Sab guna susu ni utk Dayyan for about 2 weeks dulu, then tengok macam mana.. kalau still muntah gaks maknanya something wrong dgn injap pemakanan Dayyan. Sab tengok struktur susu ni sgt berat tau.. tak macam susu biasa.. Dayyan nak abiskan punyalah payah.. sampai dia merengek-rengek.. penat kot.. Ada sesapa pernah cuba susu ni utk baby tak? Setakat ni 2 kali dah Sab buatkan utk Dayyan.. dia still muntah tapi tak banyak sgt mcm selalu..
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Post time 25-5-2010 09:15 AM | Show all posts
Reply 530# alissa_sofea

hi alissa,
sy masih ada lagi kat sini..tp, cuma jd silent reader jer...seronok baca pengalaman masing2..

betullah kata sab tu, baru2 ni sy sibuk pindah rumah. Sekarang dah tak sibuk sgt dah...cuma tak berapa fokus kot sbb selalu tak cukup tido..keje kat opis pun byk yg terbengkalai..kadang2 sampaikan ank2 yg besar tak pegi sekolah. Rayyan selalu bangun antara pkl 4 lbh hingga 6 pg..bukan setakat nak susu, tp nak main sekali. Dahlah skrg ni papanya takde...dugaan betul ada bb selepas 8 thn bercoti ni..  kadang2 ada rasa nak marah, tp Rayyan selalu senyum kat saya bila dia tengok muka sy. Sekejap jer jadi sejuk balik...

Sab, oklah tu berat Dayyan dah naik...aku skrg ni pun tgh risau gak ngan Rayyan sbb dia masih muntah2 lagi. Kadang2 banyak sgt dia muntah..tp mak aku kata nak naik badan lg kot. nak g klinik malasnyer...(boleh ker camtu..???) sbb papanya takde..  malas nak kehulu ke hilir sensorang.. ke nak kena tukar susu gak ke si Rayyan ni ek??
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Post time 25-5-2010 09:37 AM | Show all posts
aude, Sab...kat trhread lain pun ada saya baca ttg susu untuk anak2 yng mengalami sembelit dan muntah2..ramai yg syorkan bg anak minum susu frisolac comfort...biasanya susu ni ada kat farmasi seperti yg sab bg tahu....sabtu lepas saya ada cari susu ni utk anak saya....tiba2 jer dalam 2 mgu ni anak saya asyik sembelit....dulu tak sembelit ....saya dah tukar susu sustagen, tp tak ada perubahan, tukar lagi susu progress tp tak nampak perubahan jugak...pergi carefour nak beli frisolac comfort tp mmg tak ada...sebab masa tu saya tak tahu lagi ianya ada dijual kat farmasi atau klinik2 jer...tup2 saya beli isomil...anak pulak bila minum isomil...saya nampak perubahan dia minum banyak...agaknya sedap kot susu ni...bab sembelit tak tahu lagi sebab semalam baru bagi....harap2 lepas ok lah...kesian bila anak sembelit....sampai berpeluh2...basah baju kalau nak meneran....
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Post time 25-5-2010 10:03 AM | Show all posts
Reply 534# alissa_sofea


   Sab pun dah pernah bagi Dayyan Isomil tapi Sab beli Isomil sebab risau tengok Dayyan asyik muntah jer.. tapi bila Dayyan minum sama je macam minum susu lain tu yg Sab tukar NAN pulak.. Tapi org kata Isomil bagus utk baby elak sembelit kan..
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Post time 25-5-2010 10:38 AM | Show all posts
masa memula bb lissa muntah tu dia minum susu ape?????
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Post time 25-5-2010 11:55 AM | Show all posts
saje nak share ngan kengkwn kat sini...........rasanye ade yg dah baca........just utk panduan pd masa akan dtg.........

When and How to Tell Your Child That He-She Is Adopted
By David W Richards


This is not an easy thing, for sure. Telling that he/she is adopted would be a hard job for you. And, imagine how she/he feels.
You wonder, when would be the best time to announce the truth? And, how should you say it?
The best time to let him/her know is since the first time you see him/her. If it's baby, do it by the time he/she might understand any of this talk about adoption (as young as two is good enough). If it's a bigger kid (two or more), it's better to tell him/her from day one so it is easier for you to maintain relationship with them.
Some people say, the sooner they found out about the truth, the better. Yet, there are some others who wait until the kid gets at least six to eight years old.
However, there are those who wait too long. Worse, these parents never plan to tell the kid. And, at the end, he/she finds out by him/herself. Can you imagine how much it hurts them, to find out not from the adopting parents themselves?
That is why, the best thing to do is to tell them as early as possible.
No, how do you do it?
You wish to do it in the gentlest way possible for you don't want to hurt them.
Some parents use books. They buy those children books telling about adoption. They bring up the conversation from the book.
Some others just tell him/her like that without forgetting to explain the reason why he/she is adopted. If the kid is young enough, no need to give the details about his/her biological parents, later on when he/she grows up and wishes to see them. Yet, tell him/her that his/her real parents actually love them so much and this big love is one of the reasons why they give him/her up, for a better life.
Also, never forget to show how this kid brings happiness to your family. How he/she is desired. How you love them so dearly. That way, you can avoid them from feeling hurt.
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Post time 25-5-2010 12:27 PM | Show all posts
reen, mula2 saya bg anmum..tp mmg tak sesuai langsung...dah ler bb baru 2 mmgu....kena sembelit dan muntah ...tp muntah tak kerap...ada ler 2 -3 kali jer...mak saya datang terus suruh tukar susu dumex dulac...sampau umur setahun pun saya masih mengekalkan dumex...tp yg setahun ke atas saya guna dumex dugro dan sustagen sebab anak saya tak makan, bila bg sustagen dia ok sikt......sejak setahun 2 bulans aya bg 2 susu (dugro yg ada bijirn dan sustagen) tp 3 mggu lepas dia sembelit...saya tukar kepada susu progress...tp tak nampak perubahan...hari ahad baru2 ni saya beli isomil...ptg semalam baru start minum isomil....hari ni tak tahu perkembangan...nanti ptg gi ambik kat taska, saya akan tanya sama ada anak saya tu membuang ke tak hari ni....kalau isomil tak jalan jugak...nanti nak gi farmasi nak beli frisolac comfort pulak....demi anak sanggup berhabis duit...kesian kat dia...kalau kita tak berikhtiar ....dia tak ada sesiapa lagi dalam dunia ni....
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Post time 25-5-2010 12:41 PM | Show all posts
mmg pun....kesian sgt bila tgk anak2 sembelit.........biar la kite berhabis pun x pe...........klu leh kan.......biar kite yg tanggung segala sakit anak tu kan....
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Post time 25-5-2010 02:33 PM | Show all posts
Reply 532# enasabrina


    anak ju pun minum frisolac,tp bukan frisolac comfort..sampai skrg memang serasi dgn aleesya,tak berani tukar susu lain..
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Post time 25-5-2010 04:01 PM | Show all posts
Salam kawan2...nak daftar nama ni jadi ahli hehehe...

Aine dan suami dah jadi mummy n daddy, twin girls...alhamdulillah.

Skrg ni bagi enfalac, nampak cam ok je.....x muntah dan berak buat masa ini.

Tapi Aine standby je, tak sesuai zoooooooommmmmmm tukar susu....cam kilat hehehe.
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Post time 25-5-2010 04:07 PM | Show all posts
welcome to the club..............n selamat berpantang.........

ape nama gegels aine tu???????nmpknye bertambah la heroin dlm umah ni...........jgn lupe share pic babies k............bestnye dpt sekali 2.........dlm mcm2 gunda gulana aine...akhirnya Allah rezekikan amanah berganda buat aine n hubby...........
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Post time 25-5-2010 04:10 PM | Show all posts
Reen....hanya allah yg tahu......

Nama tu dah ada, tapi ya allah ramai benor nak masuk share sekali, 2-2 keluarga alhamdulillah boleh terima bahkan terlebih2 excited, itulah byk pihak nak kena jaga hati.

Tunggu paklong Aine turun, dia tu kalu bab2 bagi nama ada pengiraan hari dia lahirlah mcm citer India tu hehehe......
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Post time 25-5-2010 04:31 PM | Show all posts
nak tukar2 susu ni boleh......tapi biar la tgk dlm 3 hari mcm tu.........jgn terus tukar....pasal pewot bb cube nak serasi ngan susu baru.......

especially pada yg ade baby girl ni......jgn letak baby powder kat "POT" baby tu k....ni PEAD reen yg bagitau masa memula reen dpt baby dulu......ada bahan dlm baby powder (TALC) yg boleh menyebabkan cancer......coz klu kite letak baby powder tu...then bila kena kencing bb.....powder tu akan meresap dlm vagina bb.......tu yg bahaya tu..........so now klu tukar diapers x payah letak apa2..........klu melecet/ruam just apply ngan any nappy cream yg anak2 kite sesuai.............
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Post time 25-5-2010 06:03 PM | Show all posts
salam..kwn2..hemm..hari nie..sy hangin satu badan..ada kakak kat tmpt keje sy nie..dh dapt info yg saya ada amik anak angkat..kebetulan mmg adik saya brkerja sekali department sy..tp section lain..nak jadi cerita dia leh sibuk2 tanya..betul2 ker zana ada amik anak angkat..so adik sy trkejutla..dia xpernah bukak story..psal ank saya..rupa2nya tunang ank jiran mak saya yg brcerita sbb kami satu comp.tpi lain2 bangunan mmg suka bz hal org ..yg saya marah privacy sy.sy xmau org mmpertikaikan mana ?sapa?kenapa?..klu direct tanya sy may be sy xkisah..nie dia leh tanya org lain..jadi org lain xtau jadi tau klu yg ok xper..nie mngalahkan paprazzi..bkn apa sy xkisah tetapi mulut2 kat tmpt kerja saya nie bnyk bercerita hal keburukan dari kebaikan dan banyak perisa utk mnyedapkan  rasa..ramai yg berhati busuk..sbb sy trlalu sygkan ank saya saya xmau org mngata hal dia..sy xprnh anggap dia ank angkat..dia anak saya walaupun bkn dari rahim saya..ye saya akui lama2 org akan tahu..tpi bukan dari mulut org..biar dari mulut saya sendiri....sakit hati tul..
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Post time 25-5-2010 06:21 PM | Show all posts
sabar zana...
mmg xsmua org faham ibu sprti kita ni...& ramai yg buat2 faham..kat dpn mcm ok ja..tp blkg mnmbah&mmbrukakn2 kita...
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Post time 25-5-2010 06:40 PM | Show all posts
sabar zana...
mmg xsmua org faham ibu sprti kita ni...& ramai yg buat2 faham..kat dpn mcm ok ja..tp ...
mazura Post at 25/5/2010 18:21



    thank mazura..sy dh cukup sabar sgt2la..sbb sy dah prnh terkena zura..dpn kita kata lain..belakang lain..itu sbb klu boleh sy nk privacy..hati pun senang...hem adatla...mulut manusia mana leh kita tutup..btul kata zura xsemua org faham ibu spt kita...
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Post time 26-5-2010 07:56 AM | Show all posts
Reply 545# RUZANA


   Sabar je Zana.. itu je yang kita bleh buat. Biarkan lah org terus berkata.. tak yah difikirkan sangat.. buat sakit hati jer.. Pelik tengok orang yg suka dengki dgn kebahgiaan orang lain ni..
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