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Post time 31-10-2008 10:15 AM | Show all posts
kalau tuan rumah nak kahwin, yg paling penting restu ibu dan ayah. sekarang cube bitau parents u abot ur relationship/ status laki tu and niat nak kahwin. kalau depa setuju, maka teruskanlah. bawa laki berjumpa ibu ayah. biasanya ibu ayah boleh tahu laki tu baik utk anaknye atau tak. mesyarakat mmg akan byk berkata2. tak perlu dihiraukan sgt.

so, kalau dah ok, suruh laki tu bincang ngn isteri dia, tanya isteri tu samada nak bersemuka atau tak. kalau nak jumpa, jadi u tak boleh lah takut, jumpa je lah,,, kalau dia hentam u depan org ramai, u diam je la, u tak buat salah, samada dia nak jumpa atau tak itu masalah dia.

jadi pastu, suruh laki tu bawa isteri dia pegi mahkamah syariah utk wat "permohonan kebenaran poligami". ini kalau u nak kahwin terang2an la... u know, 2nd wife and so on pun berhak apa buat majlis riah meriah tu panggil kawan2. cume tak perlu la gembar gembur sgt pada pihak sana. kita bukan perempuan simpanan. jadi proses mahkamah tu ikut keadaan... kalau isteri dia snang bekerjasama, maka proses nye tak makan masa lama,,, paling lama 3 bulan. once kebenaran mahkamah dah dapat, u and bakal hubby tu g pejabat agama, amik kebenaran berkahwin.
soal anak2 dia, kalau u boleh berlaku baik,,, u tau, mungkin anak2 dia akan sayang u macam ibu dia sndiri. benda macam ni mmg satu masalah, masalah bkn utk dielakkan,,, tapi utk dihadapi. kalau rasa jodoh kuat, teruskan,,, dia mgkin yg terbaik,,, laki menipu perkara biasa... laki2 yg dah kahwin satu pun mmg slalu menipu dlm rumahtangga.

jadi, buat keputusan... u cuba yg terbaik... buat persediaan kahwin... dalam perjalanan utk hari akad tu,,, kalau ade bende yg menghalang, itu br takde jodoh. u tau jodoh sume dari allah, kalau dari proses awal smpai akhir takde halangan maksudnye mmg itu jodoh yg ditetapkan.

i faham u,,, bukan senang nak lari.
jadi kalau tak nak lari, u teruskan.
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Post time 31-10-2008 12:02 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by meow_nakal at 31-10-2008 03:45 AM


maksudnya org tuh in denial...
dier buka2 thread...biar org lain dengar..
tapi dier tak nak dengar kata org...

walaupun mende tuh tak bagus...
tapi dier tetap akan ikot cara dier..



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[ Last edited by  otakotak at 31-10-2008 08:17 PM ]
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Post time 31-10-2008 12:20 PM | Show all posts
tak yah buka pekung di dada, kalo tak boleh terima pendapat, takyah di war2kan. ye tak... bace2 je kisah yg ada, dan buat kesimpulan sndiri
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Post time 31-10-2008 12:27 PM | Show all posts

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Post time 31-10-2008 05:40 PM | Show all posts

Reply #536 meow_nakal's post

hi meow nakal..
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Post time 31-10-2008 05:41 PM | Show all posts

Reply #542 otakotak's post

nk mntak publisiti la tuh..
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Post time 31-10-2008 05:46 PM | Show all posts

Reply #546 LoveSungmin's post

saper weyh?

wa ker?
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Post time 31-10-2008 08:03 PM | Show all posts

Reply #547 otakotak's post

a'ah....
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Post time 31-10-2008 08:17 PM | Show all posts

Reply #548 baroque's post

xder mksd nak carik cheap publisiti....
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Post time 31-10-2008 08:17 PM | Show all posts
boleh bagi nasihat di sini..memang digalakkan....tapi ayat dan perkataan yang digunakan itu biar lah berpada..kata orang melayu kan?penuh budi bahasa....ini macam ***** ***** pun ada..jgn lah jadi kebencian orang lain, please?everyone?
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Post time 31-10-2008 10:52 PM | Show all posts

Reply #547 otakotak's post

bkn lu la..

tuan umah kot???
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Post time 31-10-2008 10:52 PM | Show all posts

Reply #550 firdaruddin's post

sori la abg mod..

kdg2 teremo lak..
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Post time 31-10-2008 11:22 PM | Show all posts

Reply #551 LoveSungmin's post

wa da terhemo dah tdik


ps: bek to d topic... momod marah kang
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Post time 31-10-2008 11:37 PM | Show all posts

Reply #553 otakotak's post

hehe..
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Post time 1-11-2008 10:01 AM | Show all posts

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Post time 1-11-2008 06:43 PM | Show all posts

Reply #555 baroque's post

carik gado ker?

ps; abg fir..jgn marah naaa...marah bar jer
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Post time 1-11-2008 07:08 PM | Show all posts

Balas #543 nazo\ catat

betul..
yg ni aku sokong 100%
cerita2 mcm ni dh byk sgt dibincangkan ..kalu tak kat LF , kat FD..LP pun ada gak kdg2
cuma kena rajin mencari..
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Post time 1-11-2008 09:28 PM | Show all posts

Reply #556 otakotak's post

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Post time 1-11-2008 11:55 PM | Show all posts

Balas #1 exchangeserver\ catat

i pernah juga keluar dgn husband org...suka tu memang suka tapi kene jaga diri...x boleh nak ikut kan perasaan..so i pun jauhkan diri...dia pun macam faham...kami bertiga dalam 1 organisasi...so bila jumpa, just  senyum je la...hubungan xkan jadi kalau pandai kawal diri...
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Post time 2-11-2008 12:33 AM | Show all posts

Reply #559 naive.mokkun's post

btol tu..
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