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 Author| Post time 29-10-2007 01:17 PM | Show all posts
apa aku cakap ni..aku pun tak faham..

[ Last edited by  aw76 at 10-9-2008 11:34 AM ]
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Post time 29-10-2007 05:43 PM | Show all posts

Reply #42 aw76's post

Dah ajak dia keluar ke belum ?
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Reply #40 biggirlduncry's post

Ooo nak luahkan ape tu ?
Buatler thread baru boleh kitorang join ...
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Post time 29-10-2007 06:19 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aw76 at 29-10-2007 01:17 PM
definitely not heading the way i wanted it to be.

Feels like i am at a doorway. I was told I can wait there. And I waited patiently. Sometimes the owner opens the door slightly and talk to me ...


i'm no expert, but sometimes (well.. more like most of the time), some women tends to not knowing (or plainly ignoring) what they want or need. give her some space. don't leave and never try to push her. always be there when she needs u. jz hang in there k.
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 Author| Post time 29-10-2007 08:03 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ShinySTAR at 29-10-2007 06:19 PM


i'm no expert, but sometimes (well.. more like most of the time), some women tends to not knowing (or plainly ignoring) what they want or need. give her some space. don't leave and never try  ...


thnx ShinySTAR..

I am not giving up just yet...i did at first but seriously think she is worth the fight...just have to swallow my pride and work at it the best of my ability. I do care a lot for her but sometimes rash judgment and emotions cloud my mind..
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 Author| Post time 29-10-2007 08:04 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by thedude at 29-10-2007 05:43 PM
Dah ajak dia keluar ke belum ?


working on it...may just ask her that 2nite....wish me luck..
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Post time 29-10-2007 09:24 PM | Show all posts
all the best...
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Post time 29-10-2007 09:43 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by aw76 at 29-10-2007 08:04 PM

working on it...may just ask her that 2nite....wish me luck..


luck
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 Author| Post time 29-10-2007 11:15 PM | Show all posts
i can still sleep.

[ Last edited by  aw76 at 10-9-2008 11:36 AM ]
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Post time 30-10-2007 12:13 AM | Show all posts
mmm don't stop being a friend to her.. you may have to take it slowly with her, so slow down your pace. she may have cold feet, you're going too fast, and she maybe being careful.. so, no other way, give her some space to breath, but never lose touch.. once she got use of having you around, she may start to see you, for real.

good luck, dude!
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Post time 30-10-2007 02:03 PM | Show all posts

Reply #50 aw76's post

erm... aku rase... budak pompuan ni is trying to avoid u la.. maybe dia dah ada someone yang dia suka kot... sebab berani je dia tak bagi ko tepon dia regardless how u feel about the answer..

tapi selagi tak confirm ape2.. cuba la buat yang terbaik.. tapi jgn le depressed plak..

take care...
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Post time 30-10-2007 03:52 PM | Show all posts

Reply #50 aw76's post

Takpe .. pelan-pelan nanti boleh ...

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Post time 30-10-2007 04:13 PM | Show all posts
posting.....
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Post time 30-10-2007 04:33 PM | Show all posts
posting.....
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Post time 30-10-2007 06:54 PM | Show all posts
mmm analogy paling senang.. macam main tarik tali... hehehehe
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 Author| Post time 30-10-2007 09:42 PM | Show all posts
[quote]Originally posted by LostSoul at 30-10-2007 12:13 AM

And I march on...i may have lost the battle yesterday but the war is not over just yet.

[ Last edited by  aw76 at 10-9-2008 11:36 AM ]
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Post time 30-10-2007 10:35 PM | Show all posts
die men tarik tali la..
if she has somebody else..of coz she told u earlier rite..
so plz dont stop trying ur level best..

ramai sokong ni
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Post time 30-10-2007 11:10 PM | Show all posts

Reply #57 aw76's post

since u are honest + sincere with your intention i could not help myself to read thru the 3 pages.
i'd put this into her perspective alright?

say, if i am a girl of about 21-24 years old, just had the 1st job and staying in the big city, i'd say that my options are open to just any guys. any guys being not only the ones that are recommended by my parents but also from my circle of friends.
although u'd be the latest acquaintences from my parents recommendation, i'd like to concentrate on pursuingmy career first.

it'll be helpful if the guys are not that too forward unless they are really into it. in this case, you.
to me, i'd be head over heels if you'll be fast enuff to convey your message across.

time yourself with the r'ship milestone:
3 months - you should know each others' feelings
6 months - anything serious should be clarified
1 year - probably the best to set things off
1 1/2 years - the next step again
3 years - i reckon tunang or nikah would be perfect

anyhow, good luck!
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 Author| Post time 30-10-2007 11:16 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by watachiwa at 30-10-2007 10:35 PM
die men tarik tali la..
if she has somebody else..of coz she told u earlier rite..
so plz dont stop trying ur level best..

ramai sokong ni


exactly like what lostSoul cakap...certainly hope it is tarik tali.. and i can certainly get the message if she'd tell me she has someone..

p.s: didn't know i had supporters...thanks a lot. If this goes where i wanted it to go....you guys are all invited.
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Post time 31-10-2007 01:09 AM | Show all posts
chaiyyok...
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