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kalo i bila dicurangi oleh husband..memang takleh terima.....apa lagi yang tak cukup.....???????
manusia tak pernah puas...terutama manusia bernama lelaki.....:@ :@ :@ :@ :@ |
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Originally posted by mybabyyou at 5-1-2008 10:46 AM 
kalo i bila dicurangi oleh husband..memang takleh terima.....apa lagi yang tak cukup.....???????
manusia tak pernah puas...terutama manusia bernama lelaki.....:@ :@ :@ :@ :@
the exact same words yang disebut oleh fauziah latif dalam majalah nona tahun 2001 kot |
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Reply #1 dukalara's post
...Perasaan anda ketika tahu anda dicurangi... di tipu oleh manusia bertopengkan binatang yang hakikatnya adalah suami / isteri anda sendiri....
...Perasaan ketika tahu pasangan berzina dgn kekasihnya...
Hanya Allah jua yg mengetahuinya
...Apa tindakan yang anda ambil...
Berbincang dan cari jalan penyelesaian
...Apa jadi dengan hidup anda sekarang...
Seperti biasa... tidak ada gunanya meratapi apa yg telah berlaku. well maybe sikit2 boleh la... lagipun masa tidak boleh diputar kembali. kehidupan perlu diteruskan.
...Adakah anda memaafkan pasangan....
Bukankah Pencipta kita Maha Pengampun, kenapa tidak kita hambaNya?
people make mistakes, nobody's perfect
...Jika pasangan anda bertaubat dan berjanji tidak mengulangi... adakah anda mampu mempercayainya semula...
Kita hanya mampu merancang, Allah jua yg menentukan segalanya
...Kenapa anda memaafkan pasangan? kerana cinta? anak2? takut hidup sendiri?
kerana Allah.
everyone deserves a 2nd chance
...Adakah anda mengalami tekanan jiwa? Jika ya, pernahkan jumpa pakar jiwa?
Alhamdulillah tidak pernah
...Adakah luput cinta anda pada pasangan?
...there will always be a special place for him in my heart |
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Reply #40 unggas's post
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letihh la dgn topik nih... |
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Originally posted by arysa at 5-1-2008 08:52 PM 
...Perasaan anda ketika tahu anda dicurangi... di tipu oleh manusia bertopengkan binatang yang hakikatnya adalah suami / isteri anda sendiri....
...Perasaan ketika tahu pasangan berzina dgn keka ...
tottally agree with u.. especially part yang last skali...
perasaan sayang tu bukan bleh lenyap tiba2..mungkin kita sukar maafkan kesilapan pasangan but.. nak buang perasaan yang pernah bertapak dlm hati tu.. bukan mudah.. pada saya.. once kita dah sayang seseorang.. aper pun dia buat kita still sayang dia.. just sama ada kita boleh terus bersama dgn dia atau tidak itu yang berbeza.. depends pada seseorang.. |
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Reply #49 bakawali_04's post
For me cinta ke sayang ke macam chipsmore...kejap ada kejap tak dak ikut situasi dan emosi ha ha ha ha ha...  |
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Reply #51 Lipton's post
u are right...technically....
for those who is facing "kecurangan" thing...the best move is to stay cool,dont over react ,dont "serang"your hubby or wife..
make case study on yourself and do self analysist what had transpired to this infedilty thing and why it happened to you....
and one thing...kecurangan stands on "lust and desire" and not "love" and it will be on temporary measure only...
remember...only love last forever....(forgive your other half)...... |
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Reply #52 ganisara's post
Gani kalau kecurangan tu mungkin berakhir ngan pernikahan..what say u..? |
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Reply #52 ganisara's post
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if u don't love that girl,why you hurt your spouse? |
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Reply #54 limauais's post
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cant resist the temptation kot |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 7-1-2008 11:06 AM
u are right...technically....
for those who is facing "kecurangan" thing...the best move is to stay cool,dont over react ,dont "serang"your hubby or wife..
make case study on yourself and do se ...
honestly easier said than done...  |
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tak pernah mengalami (mintak dijauhkan daripada dugaan camni )
tapi ada kengkawan yang pernah mengalami..setakat ni kenal 3 orang kes camni
kes 1: mereka berbaik semula, and teruskan hidup bersama (atas dasar cinta kot), but last2 break-up gak coz si lelaki ulang kesalahan yang sama
kes 2: mereka berbaik semula, and teruskan hidup bersama (atas sebab anak2), la ni tak tau ape cite sebab tak keep in touch
kes 3: mereka berbaik semula, and teruskan hidup bersama (atas sebab anak), and sempat lagi conceive 2nd child, unfortunately si lelaki masih menggatal (muka baik cam pak imam, tapi perangai cam setan)..la ni my friend kata dalam hati memang kosong, tiada lagi rasa cinta..stay hanya kerana anak2, especially si kecil yang masih merah lagi..buat masa ni dia tengah membina perniagaan sendiri so that dia leh membesarkan anak2 single-handedly. she said once she's sure she can do that, she would say bye-bye to the hubby |
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Reply #53 limauais's post
in my case,i didnt hurt anybody's feeling because all the relations based on "lust and desire" and most the women admitted that were not "quite loving me" but they felt "comfort,sexy,romantic,loved,proud and respected" with me.....
i had tried to send many signals and messages to all men (Malays)in my past threads (AFFAIR WANITA MELAYU,AFFAIR OF THE CHOSEN MAN PART 1 & 2)that their women (gfs and wifeys) need all the qualities above,the "comfort,sexy,romantic,loved,proud and respect" as part of good governant of man/woman relationship...
but ,Malay man would always BLAMED their woman for being "curang,jahat,sundal,
tak sangka,konon nampak solehah,gatal,and many unbecoming words, at their woman that once "loved,sayang,berkorban,tinggalkan keluarga demi mereka,bertahan dgn attitude mentua and ipar duai,cuba jadi isteri solehah,beri anak2 yg comel,and the whole "world " for THEM (in the name of Allah)....tanpa atau berpura tak sedari semua ini berpunca from THEM........ |
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Reply #52 Lipton's post
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i had replied in my past threads of all the consequenses from pre affairs to post affairs.....tq |
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Reply #59 ganisara's post
Alah malas pulak nak belek2 ni...anyway thanks bro... |
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Reply #58 ganisara's post
i beg to differ... i'm sure they will feel at least a bit pinched when its ended.. not sure about all, but most women cannot get involved sexually without some emotion tagged to the guy... so, i do think you might hurt them, unintentionally.. and perhaps, in due course to many of your affairs, you might hurt yourself too..
but i agree that when this incident happened, lets take a look at the root.. |
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Reply #61 LostSoul's post
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sedikit sebanyak akan ada perasaan dan emosi yg terlibat... lebih2 lagi bila terasa diri disayangi... |
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