[update] Spill the beans?

NtahSapaNtah

Originally posted by norjanah at 9-1-2008 11:47 AM


hmm..ntah le ntah....x tau le mn satu ptg....mmg manusia buat silap.
tp perbuatan jahat ke baik ke...walo besar zarah....ada balasannye kan..
jadik, selaku manusia yg buat silap terutamanya ...

nak suruh dia kawin ngan minah tu? tak dapat kot.. aku nak sapu hahahaha... acah je

ev700

Originally posted by norjanah at 9-1-2008 11:47 AM


hmm..ntah le ntah....x tau le mn satu ptg....mmg manusia buat silap.
tp perbuatan jahat ke baik ke...walo besar zarah....ada balasannye kan..
jadik, selaku manusia yg buat silap terutamanya ...

Setuju dgn pendapat ini, if yr friend betul2 insaf dan nak taubat nasuha, ini adalah satu jalan yang dia kena lalui, if he fails, then thats it, thats the price he has to pay for betraying his wife, once... As what u said, dia budak baik.. mmg yang baik2 ni ujian Allah pada dia besar skit... All the best 2 yr friend.

NtahSapaNtah

Originally posted by norjanah at 9-1-2008 12:01 PM
tp aku stil rasa semacam kalo x buat opismet aku yg 2 org ni kantoi...
aku cakap ngan kakak2  lam opis ni.....derang seriau gak....tp tanak
dipersalahkan. lg seriau seminggu 2-2 tu mc sampai 2 ...

Isy.. ni dah jauh sangat perjalanan nih. Dah mendatangkan syak-wasangka. Eloklah dihalang jika boleh. Takut makin jauh hanyutnya... cam banjit kat Pahang plak

cantthinkofany

firstly why don't you talk to the husband?.....tell him that he is your friend and his wife is also your friend and the woman that he is having the affair is also your friend...

tell him...as a friend to all, you felt really uncomfortable with the whole situation...

ask him...how serious is he with the relationship......

tell him....you are not trying to be busybody or what but as a true friend, you can't let this continue...

ask him...what if you would tell it to the wife?....

tell him...you are taking the initiative to talk to him first as you are guessing the depth of their relationship only through your mata kasar and you do not know the real truth behind the affair....thus you would like him to confirm....what is his intention and objectives towards the affair thing...

ask him....if he is serious about it...would he come to a point to tell the wife or let your spill the beans....

his answer would somehow gives you the indication whether you are allowed to get yourself involve or just let it be....guess he knows his wife better than you and he knows his involvement in the affair more than you do.....

BingkaUbi

tu yg aku sokmo malas nak baik2 ngan org msia kat sini.....x pasal2 kena subahat tipu org..aku dah penah dah buat camnie.....siap tolong cover kawan tuh time nak terkantoi ngan bini dia...last2 biler dah kantoi, ngan aku skali disalahkan....x cukup tuhh...anak dia pung reti cakap uncle jahat cam ayah gakkk.....

moral of the story, bior jdk kera sumbang......janji idup senang...kuikuikuikui

Lipton

Tak tahu le ..tapi rasanya aku lagi senang sound si somi tuh....utk si isteri ..rasanya i'd rather her to know from somebody else lah...

Waaa bohsan le kes cureng mureng ni...eh sarah hang sound jantan tu lagi ni..ello bro nak pasang lagi sorang ke...be gentleman le..bincang elok2...kan tak elok dok wat  pangai lagu ni...sepandai2 tupai melompat jatuh gak tak tanah tu...

ganisara

good point...
but not many people as "genius and intelligent"as we are....
and many people (specially Malays) can be rational enough to accept the truth...
this gentleman talk idea is brilliant but not applicable in the host's case....
it will end up back fire.....

my suggestion to host....
the truth will prevail sooner or later because "affair " wont last long enough and becoming happy ending....
keep cool and play it by ear..
you wont lose a friend by keeping cool.they are....
enjoy live my dear...............................................................................

my-alja

Originally posted by NtahSapaNtah at 9-1-2008 09:48 AM


Awak punye kes ni cik Alja, patut sula je mamat tu.. Baru bertunang dah tunjuk unsur-unsur ayam jantan

hihihihi...ayam jantan, berkokok aje lebih

my-alja

bak kata soul...cuba sarah cuba2 pancing dan teangok reaksi kawan pompuan tu...cemana dia sebenarnya, buat2 citer pasal org lain yg ada "affair"...tgk apa input yg dia  bagi nanti...

drp situ nanti, u nilai sendirilah nak bagitau atau tidak....tapi kena ingat gak sarah, kekadang manusia nie ...dia akan marah semua angin, matahari dan alam keliling dia sebelum dia nak paham ...

jadi kena bersedialah....

kudajantan77

Originally posted by my-alja at 9-1-2008 08:31 AM


tapikannn...bayangkan kalo kita yg jadi pasangan yg kena tipu tu...dan kawan kita tahu, dia diam aje

aduhai...sakitnya rasa!!

aku bagi Mario Winan tolong jawab soklan nih ...

I don't wanna know
If your playin me, keep it on the low
Cause my heart can't take it anymore
And if your creepin, please don't let it show
Oh baby, I don't wanna know

Oh baby
I think about it when I hold you
When lookin in your eyes, I can't believe
I don't need to know the truth
Baby keep it to yourself

sarahmirza

Oh my, gue busy hari ni, lagi 20min nak masuk meeting.

Thanks you all. Actually mmg dah pernah perli2 dengan mamat ni pasal hal ni. Dulu2 tak rasa lain macam tapi sejak 2-3 bulan ini lebih2 pula manja2 dia orang ni Santai je tanya dia masa borak2 lunch pasal dia dengan GF ni dan mamat ni kata saja je isi masa lapang bosan2, nothing serious. Bila tanya kat GF pula, cara jawapan memang sah macam orang bercinta. So, macam mana nak suruh si suami ni terus terang saja kat wife dia?

Kasihan pulak kawan gue yang single tu. My hubby senang je jawab, biarlah dia orang tu. Lelaki memang sama je jawapan dia orang, macam dah ada tulis dalam buku pulak.

sarahmirza

Kalau pura2 tak tahu maknanya dah kira subahat menipu, deceit & heartbreak. Oh, may God forgive me.

my-alja

hehehehe....

yg nie pompuan yg ada "nama" dlm masyarakat, kuda

dia takut masuk paper METRO, front page

kudajantan77

aku rase pompuan single tu mesti dah barai .. kalo affair dgn org dah kawin, tak kire ler laki ke pompuan, mende tu dulu dorang test.

Ariys21

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 9-1-2008 08:08 AM
Her hubby is a @#^%$#%&^%$# :@ . It is the hardest secret I ever keep; my friend (the husband) ada affair dengan my own friend (single lady) and I know the husband's wife. I feel so guilty that t ...

If ada proof, bgtau..i

ajinomotonosuga

kasik tau je la odah kalo dah CONFIRM btui2..setakat was was prasangka or gossip tu tok sah la campur hal oang tuuu

kalo dah kompem tu cakap jek laa

alaa setakat ilang kawan walo close pun..bukan nya matii
ko de koge da..anak laki kerier..so apa susah nak pk jauh2 kawan seme tu

ppl come ppl go..tak suke bleh bla, nak still kawan ok..mende tak elok dan btui ada bukti ko cakap je laa

hati ko puas..emosi ko stabil so wat keje kat opis seme2 ok.. kalo kawan ko tu ada otak tentu dia tak buang kawan semata oang cakap btui kat dia..kalo dia kecewa or apa pun..ateh mung ler gitu k?

patut la depa2 ni susah paham tulisan aku.. mende mudah cam ni buleh jatuh bursha dunia

sarahmirza

Masalahnya bukan takut hilang kawan tapi takut dia orang suami isteri gaduh2 perang dunia ke 3 sampai cerai berai, kemudian hari ahkak juga yang akan disalahkan sebab busybody.

Satu lagi, makin buat rasa salah ialah gue juga yang kenalkan mereka 2 orang ni. All of us kerja lain tempat, gue terkenal mamat ni kat site, masa aktiviti sosiol terkenalkan pula dgn GF ni. Ingatkan kenal gitu2 je rupanya dah macam itu macam ini.

Kuda, I tak ambil tahulah GF tu macam mana tapi dalam hati kadang tuh terlintas juga. Lagi ketara bila mamat ni tak jadi nak sewa apartment sama building dengan kita orang. Takut kantoi agaknya.

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by sarahmirza at 9-1-2008 03:50 PM
Masalahnya bukan takut hilang kawan tapi takut dia orang suami isteri gaduh2 perang dunia ke 3 sampai cerai berai, kemudian hari ahkak juga yang akan disalahkan sebab busybody.

Satu lagi, m ...

macam lah cerai berai tu mende pelik zaman ni
salah satu sebab cerai tu naik kadarnya sebab isu zaman informasi gak..informasi waktu ni cukup canggih, ko tak cakap pun one day bini tu tau
kalo nak ikut salah diri, nanti kalo ko tak kasik tau..bini tu tau gak dia blame ko gak pasai tak kasik tau? kata kawan..haa kan?

so pi mai macam tu..to tell or not to tell?

malang tadak bau..kalo ko dah bau malang seme tu cam cerai, anak2 psiko..apa beza nya kasik tau or tidak?

so kene timbang gitu, at least ko , kawan ko jantan tu , kawan ko bini dia tu, kawan ko single gal tu..seme tu tau PRINSIP ko.

tak kompromi mende2 cam ni..ok?

easy81

same jek hal affair2 ni kat opis memane pun ade. kat opis saye pun ade. bos saye ni hensem (bukan bos..actualy senior exec jek). muke cam sinclair ape yg bercium tuh..

memule memg sakit mate..boses sume tau skandal die..sampai dah dok beruda2 mlm bute lepas opis hour lagi. mcm2 la kantoi. kain pelekat kat bilik meeting plak..

tapi last, tak kemane hubungan tuh..dorg dah takde benda dah. dgr citer dah kantoi dgn husband pompuan. tak tau sape bgtau..

aku sian jugak dgn bini bos aku nih sbb die selalu call laki die spot check. tapi memg laki die playboy nak buat cemane. dah habis affair dgn bini org, sekrg sibuk plak ayat org lain plak..

aku plak mls nak amek pot..sbb pada aku laki kalu jenis yg tipu banyakkali nih, tp bini still nak tunggu, maknenye memg bini la yg carik nahas..

laki hensem, tapi kalu jenis mengawan bersepah2 ni tak bekenan sungguh..

NtahSapaNtah

Apa-apa hal pon, yang berlaku curang tuh, ingat-ingatlah check bilik make sure takde cctv.. jap lagi keluar plak DVD baru tak ke haru