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Post time 11-4-2016 05:24 AM
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mbhcsf replied at 11-4-2016 05:16 AM
Masa kenal or taaruf, things like this u x berapa notice kot, ye?
Ms tunang i mmg nk putus pun..bile i dh sedar y dunia n cara berbeza. Y plg pnting pemikiran n basic instict..mcm u xperlu nk guide dia on every aspect. Kindda can make own and correct decision kalau hubs not by herside.
Tp famili insist to continue dgn harapn give her chances and hoping after mariage kerukunan dan harmoni tu dtg.
But not.
I dont have anything to chat with her. Dia xpeduli isu semasa. No new knowledge. Limited knowledge sbb dia xbnyk mmbaca..and xinterested pun nk borak psl ilmiah gosip or isu semasa.
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Victorioussss posted on 11-4-2016 05:24 AM 
Ms tunang i mmg nk putus pun..bile i dh sedar y dunia n cara berbeza. Y plg pnting pemikiran n bas ...
sabar lah TT.
u pon br lg b'pisah.
nanti lm2 perasaan u kembali normal.
lps nie, cari lah yg btl sekufu.
yg blh sm2 share ilmu, pendapat.
ramai keliling i yg rs psgan depa xspt yg depa hrp.
waktu b'cinta nampak mcm blh share everything.
tp lps kawen, br tau.
cite politik, bini kata biarlah.. hal negara, pak menteri ade.
cite ekonomi, bini kata xpe lah bang. yg penting abg ade keje.
cite isu semasa, bini kata ntah lah.. sy sibuk dgn anak.
bende2 yg wat somi teruja, hlg skt demi skt.
motif perbualan dgn psgan jd limited.
lm2 umahtangga jd sepi. mujur ade anak2 yg wat riuh umah. |
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Wow dude, i'm currently in the same boat as you, almost identical.
Not to brag, but I'm a pretty resourceful person, i talk quite a lot about well...lots of stuff, science, politics, technology, business to name a few, but my wife on the other hand, is totally the opposite, she's not interested in any of that, doesn't like to read much and need me to do all her bidding, she can't think to manage a few things by herself.
To add salt to the wound, she's a lazy person and is totally bad in bed. I almost did not go through our marriage when i spotted all the differences (after awhile), but did so anyway since i did not want to embarass my family, of which now i regret very much.
The only thing keeping me in this marriage is my daughter whom i love more than myself.
I'm barely older than you.
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omg...this is why i prefer be a single mummy ...me the opposite way my ex totally maharaja lawak tyoe,
take it easy TT layan je your feelings etc...times heal soon. |
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kalu dah tak serasi dan cinta pun dah pudar, elok lah berpisah sajer....jgn seksa diri sendiri dan seksa diri si dia jugak...dan tak perlu kot nak buruk2 kan org yg pnh jd pasangan kita, kalu stakat kekasih tu lain citer, nie dah pnh kawen, ada anak bersama plak tu...se buruk2 dia, she is the mother to you child.
since baru lagi single, biasalah kalu takde hati nak carik pengganti....bila dah lama nanti, usia pun cecah 40an, akan terbit jugak rasa kesunyian dlm hati tuh....tunggu jer lah...
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Victorioussss replied at 10-4-2016 02:37 PM
Sbb nick victorious dah taken. So tekan double2 s.
Victoria yes nm pmpuan.. victorious nope kot. ...
Oh baca u cakap sbb red alert 2 eh. Ada lagi ke red alert? rasa macam game zaman dulu2 ja. |
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Victorioussss replied at 11-4-2016 02:59 AM
My jokes kindda dark.. sort of cyanide n happiness..9gag..southpark...
Her jokes mcm..raja lawa ...
Omg i also cannot take maharaja lawak type of jokes. I totally understand that feeling. |
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rileks bro...biasa la tu baru clash...healing takes time...u will rise once again...unless you want to be gay...thats a different story... |
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ok i see, well, tak palah i hope your wife and your son is okay ( i tak tahu pulak u dah sampai ada anak dah that means lama jugak lah you all menikah ni ) okaylah u know, be a good father then. i am you and your wife have tried ( on the positive side of things) .
I hope she is okay , i mean your wife tu , may be tak sekufu dan may be somehow it would be better for her to know that things just did not work out not entirely because of her kot..sebab kita tak tahu kesan penceraian to a person macam dia. an honest , positive and constrictive closure would help i think. sebab kalau boleh maintain good terms lah with her kot sebab still , she is a mother to your son anyway.
tapi tak palah if thsi is the best decision then doakan semua dapat mencari kebahagiaan dengan rezeki memasing.
tapi be your son kalau mana sempat .
i wish you well.
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the boy - your son dah berape tahun ? > 12 months? < 48 months ? ye ?
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I dunno wat to say...I also dun like to read..hopefully my future husband wont hate me for this 
wish u all the best. u have a kid, hope u raise him well n give him all the love he needs from a father n a mother. that's the most important thing. ciaoo |
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give support jugak to your wife, tak easy tu jadi single mom and looking after a toddler dok giat berexplorasi sekeliling , letih , that's for sure so...
tak pa lah , wife tu letih tu ....dan may be this could explain her disinterests on other things , may be ? hormonal...
but you know tak pa lah ...jagalah and support depa sehabis baik.
isk sian pulak 24 months tu...anyway, semoga dia jadi anak yg soleh dan menghormati org tua dia kelak.
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Salam TT
X pelik pun, mngkin u masih trauma dgn perkongsian hidup selama 4 tahun yg rasanya penuh penyeksaan mental (based on u pny cerita). So skrg dh single mmg ni la masa terbaik unt u backpackers kan. Moga bertemu someone dlm pengembaraan u nanti 
Jgn tutup terus hati, rugi la sbb u makin tua. Sunyi la kalo x de peneman. I prcaya if someday u jumpa someone yg betul2 memenuhi citarasa u, u pasti akan hdup bahagia dgn dia. InsyaAllah. Good luck  |
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btw
mcam best jek deskripsi wife ko tu....................
girl yg itu ini,aq x leh ............sakit hati,haxhaxhaxhax |
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single 3  |
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I faham apa yang u rasa... bila perasaan dah tawar hati mmg tak de rase nak ade relationship pun... i tak rasa ni sbb depress ke... just perasaan nak ada partner tu tak de maybe sbb tawar hati... tapi i believe that feeling tu akan wujud balik once u jumpa org yang u suka... cuma now maybe time to heal... |
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Tak nmpk sebarang issue/masalah pun. kenapa perlu bukak tred ... |
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TT, aku pun divorced at 30s and now already hv been about 3 months kami officially separated. bezanya aku ni perempuan.Memangla awal awal perceraian akan rasa macam tu. Rasa dah serik untuk mulakan perhubungan baru. Tapi believe me, ada someone out there yang blh jadi your perfect soulmate, share same interest, same personality, understand each other.
Aku dengan ex aku pun tak penah share same interest, bertahan sampai 10years plus baru berpisah.
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 11-4-2016 09:29 AM
Post time 11-4-2016 01:45 PM
...he is talkative while i am not..see banyakkknya perbezaan antara kami (just to name a few here) selalunya Allah jadikan manusia yang berbeza attitude n manners, knowledge etc utk saling melengkapi kekurangan masing-masing. I just cannot imagine kalaulah kami laki bini jenis dua dua suka bercakap banyak, dua dua kalau bersembang nak dominan saja..mau roboh jugak bumbung rumah...
