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 Author| Post time 16-4-2019 08:56 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ihtisyam1 replied at 16-4-2019 07:19 PM
Ai janda , ade sorang mamat Ni suka Dan sayang Kat saya.... Suami orang masalahnye, dari tahun lepas ...

Err... Bagus juga u sedar byk benda x best..  Tp, ada juga yg okay bahagia bermadu..
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Post time 16-4-2019 10:04 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I sndri xpernah bercinta..mgkn slalu pkr mcm2..last2 xprnh mncari and x layan plak org2 yg dtg..
Mgkn belum masanya lagi kot..

Tp mcm spupu i..dia baya i..n dia dh lama duk ckp2 psl jodoh n siap join lg carijodoh online..
Tup2 dia btunang mnggu lpas..
Katanya knal ngn psgn tu 6 bulan je baru..ats rekemen kwn2..insyallah mnikah bln 8 ni.

Kita xleh nak baca mcmana datang jodoh seseorang ni..
Janji kalau kita dah betul2 ready n iklas..tambah usaha skit..insyallah jumpa jodoh tu..
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Post time 16-4-2019 10:48 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I kenal suami dalam beberapa hari aje.  Dating pun lepas waktu kerja for a couple of hours dalam bulan puasa (jgn kecam). Masa tu umur I dah layak dipanggil andartu. I told him I didn't want to waste my time bercinta. He reverted to Islam, we did our medical checks, and finally sempat niqah in Ramadan diwalikan ayah.

Lepas kawin baru lah kita tahu perangai masing2. For first few years were pretty tough. Alhamdulillah our marriage is still going strong.

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Post time 16-4-2019 10:50 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I kenal suami dalam beberapa hari aje.  Dating pun lepas waktu kerja for a couple of hours dalam bulan puasa (jgn kecam). Masa tu umur I dah layak dipanggil andartu. I told him I didn't want to waste my time bercinta. He reverted to Islam, we did our medical checks, and finally sempat niqah in Ramadan diwalikan ayah.

Lepas kawin baru lah kita tahu perangai masing2. For first few years were pretty tough. Alhamdulillah our marriage is still going strong.
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 Author| Post time 16-4-2019 10:57 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
kaoru44 replied at 16-4-2019 10:04 PM
I sndri xpernah bercinta..mgkn slalu pkr mcm2..last2 xprnh mncari and x layan plak org2 yg dtg..
Mg ...

Semua tu rahsia tuhan kann.. I pun tak tau apa yg nk jadi 10 thn akan dtg.. Utk u, i doakan jodoh terbaik smpi utk u.. Aminn
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 Author| Post time 16-4-2019 10:58 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Oldbitty1 replied at 16-4-2019 10:50 PM
I kenal suami dalam beberapa hari aje.  Dating pun lepas waktu kerja for a couple of hours dalam bul ...

Alhamdulillah. Nice sharing.. Moga jodoh u kekal
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Post time 17-4-2019 08:30 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Kenal husband 5tahun br kawen.. 5 tahun pertama tough marriage. Bkali2 pikir nk pisah.. Tp selalu doa kalau jodoh moga Allah dekatkan sentiasa.. Alhamdulillah lps je tahun ke 5 bahagia sampai sekarang. Marriage ni give and take. U lose some u get some. Dua2 kena cuba.. Kalau salah sorang x kan pernah jadi. What i learned from pass mistake is jgn simpan marah lama2. Asal x bkenan something je bg tau terus.. Bila merajuk set time.. Masuk hari kedua je buat2 lupa jelah benda lepas. Hari2 bgtau psgn yg kita sayang dia sepenuh jiwa raga... So far takat tu je tau. Lama lg perjalanan ni...
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Post time 20-4-2019 08:48 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bantalkuning replied at 15-4-2019 12:22 AM
mcm i skrng tahun ni fasa ramai kawan i yg kahwin.. ada juga teringin nk kahwin tp dlm masa yg sama  ...

Sama lah. Kawan2 ramai dah kahwin. Tp lelaki. Yg perempuan je terlajak. Taktahu bila nak kahwin. Mmg x jumpa jln menuju kahwin tu. Sedih.
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Post time 20-4-2019 09:31 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
I kenal my husband setahun 7bulan baru nikah. Hazabb jugak laaa tempoh masa tu. Dgn pjjnya., dgn perangainyaa., tp nasib baik bujangggg bkn laki org.,
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 Author| Post time 20-4-2019 09:34 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Missfadh replied at 20-4-2019 08:48 AM
Sama lah. Kawan2 ramai dah kahwin. Tp lelaki. Yg perempuan je terlajak. Taktahu bila nak kahwin. M ...


Jgn putus harap.. Benda mcm ni kdg2 bila.kita berharap x kunjung tiba.. Bila kita tak fikir, masa tu la dia dtg... I doakan u jumpa jodoh u yg terbaik utk u.

Yg i perati dlm persekitaran i. If adik beradik ramai kawen, diorang ni x heran sgt nk kawen. Dkt opis i ni, ada grup junior, geng2 bff... Satu grup ni ada la 6 org semua single lagi.. Pompuan comey2 umur atas 35.. Bila ada geng mcm ni, x heran kut nk ada kapel bagai.
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Post time 20-4-2019 02:27 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
onexox97 replied at 13-4-2019 11:38 PM
I kenal sebulan sekali jumpa terus decide nak kawen .   
Dua bulan lepas tu i kawen
I ada masalah  ...

Oooo... Tapi hasilnay 4 ketul jugak kan... Disamping permasalahnya itu
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Post time 20-4-2019 02:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
noraidil_06 replied at 14-4-2019 12:28 AM
Sy kenal husband kejap je. Dia ajak kawin. Confident je walhal x de duit pun. Allah permudahkan urus ...

Berdasarkan pengalaman atau sedang menghadapi perkara itu skrg ni?????? Atau pengalaman drpada kwan2 yg lain???
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Post time 20-4-2019 02:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
farlis replied at 14-4-2019 02:20 AM
Alhamdulillah kak.. Moga jodoh kak nora kekal hingga ke syurga...

Lelaki lain yg bergelar suam ...

Tambah2 lagi yg dah bagi lelaki tu merasa nikmat haram puas2 kan... Lepas dah jemu.. Tak nak kahwin.. Alasan isteri pulak.. Lagi kes naya kan??
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Post time 20-4-2019 02:33 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Sy bertunang 6 bulan.so ms bertunang tu la kenal suami. Sblm tu kenal suami sbg kwn abg sy yg biasanya borak2 kosong saja. Skrg baru 7 thn nikah n kdg2 mcm x kenal jugak.
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Post time 20-4-2019 05:15 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
farlis replied at 20-4-2019 09:34 AM
Jgn putus harap.. Benda mcm ni kdg2 bila.kita berharap x kunjung tiba.. Bila kita tak fikir, mas ...

Pernah juga tak fikir pasal kahwin tp mmg x de apa pun. Betul juga kan, Bila sekeliling kita ramai x kawen, kita pun rasa okay tak kahwin.
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Post time 20-4-2019 08:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Missfadh replied at 20-4-2019 08:48 AM
Sama lah. Kawan2 ramai dah kahwin. Tp lelaki. Yg perempuan je terlajak. Taktahu bila nak kahwin. M ...

jgn sedih.. jodoh akan datang bila tiba waktunya.. skrng ni u chill la dulu.. pergi travel ke.. doa la banyak-banyak
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Post time 20-4-2019 08:50 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Missfadh replied at 20-4-2019 05:15 PM
Pernah juga tak fikir pasal kahwin tp mmg x de apa pun. Betul juga kan, Bila sekeliling kita ramai ...

betul.. i ada dua circle kawan.. satu geng yg mmg tahun ni semua kahwin and semua dh bertunang melainkan i seorang.. satu geng lagi travel buddies i yg semua tak kahwin lg and bt masa skrng tk ada perancangan nk kahwin pun..

bila u hangout dgn geng yg nk kahwin ni mmg u akan rasa down tiba-tiba mcm ‘turn aku je blum’.. ‘tk ada sapa nk dkat aku’

tapi bila dgn geng travel ni plak, mmg u tk rasa fikir nk kahwin pun sbb banyak lg tmpat di dunia ni yg u nk explore and u tk ready nk sttle down lg..

pokoknya environment kita juga yg mmpengaruhi minda kita  
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Post time 21-4-2019 05:56 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bantalkuning replied at 20-4-2019 08:44 PM
jgn sedih.. jodoh akan datang bila tiba waktunya.. skrng ni u chill la dulu.. pergi travel ke.. do ...

Insyaallah doa byk2. I mmg selalu travel. Ada juga terfikir nak sambung belajar lg utk isi waktu lapang.
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Post time 21-4-2019 05:57 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Bantalkuning replied at 20-4-2019 08:50 PM
betul.. i ada dua circle kawan.. satu geng yg mmg tahun ni semua kahwin and semua dh bertunang mel ...

Kesimpulan nya, chill je lah kan. Sama2 lah kita usaha.
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Post time 25-4-2019 12:22 PM | Show all posts
i single for 2 months je lepas officially cerai... then i met my current husband...  heols still heart broken from his failed marriage 2 yrs++ ago.... lepas weols terserempak 3 kali kat starbucks tu, heols terus dptkan number phone i.. dia ckp, he no longer believe in marriage, but when our eyes first met, he felt the "SPARK"... thats why dia pursue to get to know me more...

tp i ni janda, dah tua pun, and i malas nak berfoya2,  i just nak settle down and have a happy life with family... i ckp kat dia, i bagi dia peluang kenal beberapa bulan, tp if tanak serius, dont waste my time... i takkan marah even if dia tanak kawen... i can start bagi harapan kat orang lain plak... i tak suka pasang 2-3 spare boyfren at one time.. pening  kepala nak manage...

dgn i kena manage my son yang bersekolah, my career, my economy as single mother... dgn court cases tuntutan nafkah tertunggak, mutaah, harta sepencarian...  dengan extended family members yang still ask for my help some times... so i have lots of other priorities to think about...

true enough, lepas 6 months kenal, heols terus  ajak i jumpa parents dia and set date bertunang and nikah 1 month after... key salient point kat sini is just communication and cut the crap, baru cepat we move on to the next level..
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