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Originally posted by ganisara at 30-11-2007 03:24 AM 
tq for giving such a sensible statement regards to my "english"....
picked up from certain forumners that commented my English,my "jahat" for "sapu"this women(directly given verdict)and other ...
am i a chosen one? if yes...why? Iif i am not a chosen one,why ALL THIS?
chosen one  , the very tak berakhlak one adalah..
kalau smeua lelaki camni, rosak masyarakat.. |
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Been a long time since I read something so riveting.  |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 30-11-2007 05:56 PM
thank you... your statement is eventually "suara hati"a lot of women out there
of which man MUST TAKE NOTE.....
i concluded in my past thread how man (malay)could doing "the mistreating"
towar ...
Are you trying to justified all the things that u did all these while? That sleeping with all those women make them happy?
It's true what u said that semua ni realiti. Memang tak heran pun pasal orang zaman sekarang ada affair, seks bebas sana sini.
Tapi if berzina tu boleh buat perempuan like me happy, I would rather being unhappy. If i have got problem with marriage (na'uzubillah), i'll just settle je lah... memang lah nanti rasa sedih, unhappy and segala macam perasaan yang tak best... tapi itu pun ujian Allah jugak. When u told how all those women yang konon2nya smartlah, bijak lah whatsoever yang bagus2 tu, have slept with u because they are unhappy with their marriage, it just made me wonder whether they really use their akal fikiran yang bijaksana tu utk berfikir mana baik, mana buruk, dosa pahala dah tak fikir lah kot. And mana letaknya maruah wanita2 itu? For me, kalau harga sebuah kebahagiaan itu terpaksa dibayar dgn menggadai maruah dan agama, biarlah tak bahagia. Tak bahagia di dunia, tapi selamat di akhirat.
P/S : Takut dgn dunia sekarang.. kalau tak kuat iman di dada, mungkin terjebak jugak dlm dosa2 besar ni. Kenalah bykkan doa pada Tuhan mintak2 dijauhkan. |
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ganisara, instead of finding out the reasons why those wiomen willing to have series of volcanic moments with them, it is better for you to find out why you even agree to have the sessions with them.. because the real answer lies in yourself, not in those women.. without you being reciprocal, or perhaps in some events, you were the initiator, you will not be where you are now.. it seems that you're the one who is keep looking for something, not them..
and happiness is not all about sex.. |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 30-11-2007 04:24 PM
i am no angel nor devil, i am a simple ,humble ,average gentleman just like you all...only thing why God keep testing me with all this complexity of life involving woman..? Married women to be precised...
why he keep testing me for almost 20 years ,till now that every given woman closer to me ,needed to be invoved emotionally,sexually??
am i a chosen one? if yes...why? Iif i am not a chosen one,why ALL THIS?
kami pon bukan angels n devils... kami just pendengar Mr. Gani..
dont blame God bila u berada dlm situasi nie. It was u who put yourself into it. Sifat caring yg tak bertempat. Sorry to say.
benda paling simple b4 u get involved with married women nie particularly Melayu... Dont listen to their problems.
Klau u tak listen to their problems u takkan kena test.. Semua start dr you... klau u dengar.. you dah buka peluang utk dorang supaya raih simpati etc etc. Come on use your sense sket. Takkan tak reti mengelak bila benda dtg mcm tu je?
dont let pompuan2 nie come closer to you and ask favour.. esp s*x favour. Volcanic moments tu semua bollocks!Tu semua lust sahaja. Maybe sbb nak rasa thrill dgn situasi bertukar2 partner kat katil.
I hate bila org ckp kenapa I diduga gini gitu walhal dorang tau root of their problems.
It takes two to tango bukan sorang..
Your problems.. not those women but you. Sifat caring tak bertempat. Dlm masa sama u ambik kesempatan atas masalah org lain. shame on you.
Masalah dgn isteri sendiri tak selesai, u pula nak jd good listener to masalah orang..
I think atap rumah u yg dah bocor pon you tak fix, beriya2 pula u nak tolong ganti atap rumah org lain yg bocor..
kerja sia-sia  |
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Reply #68 eva's post
thank you al for this "inter break" episode you had made some comments toward me and some points taken......
maybe you are right......
perhaps there are nobody to tell me that all this unwanted things are wrong...listening to their (married malay woman) are wrong...i should avoid them in the first place...
But referring back to their "feedback" about me could lead you all to one thing:
IT COULD BE THE PERSONALITY......
perhaps the god given personality to me eventually "killing me".....
after NK ,i managed somehow to control myself for being aloof and passive...
As this thread is about affair (intimately volcanic)there were also countless
relationships not necessarily leading to bed..(thank god)
till 2005 ,i met EHH. blissfully and married with a company manager...
happy lives,good working and financial positions...
perfect...
but i failed again...i lost in a one nite stand battle....just because of one word from her "I LIKE YOU"
it just happened..unplanned..
how we define now "i like you" could lead one happily married women(EHH) to bed the guy:
EHH is highly educated,bertudung,well sophisticated East Coast lady to be precised,since forumners argued the background of the women involved..... |
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Reply #57 erryinn's post
SORRY...
it doest work that way...
my involvement with all of them unitentionally happened and relationship started way long as working and business partner first.....
it takes their trust,confidence,admire,lust and desire towars me then only things got going....... |
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Reply #61 Penulis's post
God bless you then...some people live with different fate waiting ahead....
thank you for your advised to repent before its too late...
thank you others for expecting me to be "burned in hell"...I AM NO ANGEL,i deserved this ,and god the almighty will decide when my time comes.....
i really prayed after EHH case (purely different case of hubby problems) i would not have involve again with women...
i am not "buaya"or playboy, teasing woman,harrassed or "usik" them with "cakap gatal or semi lucah" (i seen many men did this )in fact i am a serious working and quite a shy guy...
my advised to them :pls stop it..cause it is really "jatuh maruah" for a man to say something like that ,perhaps thay think woman can be "turned on" by those words...they are wrong .very wrong.stop it.
EHH wasnt the last....
this year ... |
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Reply #59 genUmi's post
god bless you then...
and god still award me good health...thank you Allah,I AM JUST HAMBA MU YG DAIF....
last year my second baby daughter arrives..beautiful NSNTA,just like her elderly sister NSSA (mixture of peranakan pashtun).....
many thank you to you Ya Allah.... |
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Reply #62 faraway's post
thank you for putting "the chosen one " as "tak berakhlak" in your point of view(perhaps many others too)
thank you... |
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Reply #53 mclaren's post
thank you for asking me to get some "pengajaran" from other people thread...
but,with due respect,none of them closer of what i really gone through...
anyway thank you.... |
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haiyoo..en gani woo...
awak rasa ape ek dgn kegiatan awak nih?
bangga?
puas?
aperrr......... |
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Reply #64 HelangMerah's post
may god bless you...
some people "nasib berlainan"....
no..adultery never makes anbody happy...dont get me wrong...
the happiness that woman wanted is the true promises of the husband should deliver...
some live with sufferness facing the daily lifes with the husband who treat them like "maid"
some live with "lies and hypocrisy" facing the wrath of in laws and thier antics
some live like zombie (exist but nobody cares,fearing not nor bother)
some live like "daddy princess"before marriage but turn to ...(figured)
BUT,some get even...(in their own views and perspective)...
seem like ordinary and simple fair world...you bet! |
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Reply #67 LostSoul's post
THANK YOU...got your point...
your comments are appreciated but but a bit immature due to the age....
but i bet with your smartness mind you have right now,you will be able to see things differently when it is happening to you one day....
remember...it is the man who would lead the path of any relationship...
gd luck... |
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Post time 30-11-2007 09:30 PM
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