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Reply #61 LostSoul's post
u are right on certain points....
infidelity could be categorized in few :
"being naughty" started by man (many malay men in offices- 40 yrs above tend to do this and often come out with "meleseh and cakap gatal and semi lucah"-
this is the first step...
he will stop if the bait eaten and start to focus only on the subject(woman) as the subject responded to these little "advances"...and the second step started..
mutual and "understading" of the both species lead to "more" thus the affair continue to level softcore......
at this point,if both are married ,things are tough,works productivity slumps,budget screwed up,less communications with family,unreasonably "busy"and many things happened that leading to "curious"among peers and family members.....
softcore leads to hardcore...at this point....
(i had concluded at the past threads on the consequences)
i agreed sex would only happened when feelings of love/lust/desire/wanting/exploring combined as human begets differences...
i did fell in love in one of those women (married) and i did encountered with her hubby to release her for me...(the rest is history)
as for others ,in my case,some are well careeared single mothers,some remarried, and a few still with the hubbies.... |
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Reply #63 ganisara's post
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so its true then, having an affair did involve emotions.. and when involved any emtotion, hurt is one of them.. |
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Originally posted by ganisara at 9-1-2008 01:07 PM 
u are right on certain points....
infidelity could be categorized in few :
"being naughty" started by man (many malay men in offices- 40 yrs above tend to do this and often come out with "meles ...
Meleseh tu apa? Sama dengan meleset ke? Suka cakap dekat2 manja2 dengan perempuan ke? |
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Gani, hang ni ada something against Malay men ke? dari hari tu dok emphasise how much Malay men (siap guna capitals lagik) tak reti jaga bini la, insensitive la ..... tsk, tsk.... |
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ada, dukalara...  yg buat skali, n thats the one n only.. sbb tu org kata, everybody deserved a 2nd chance |
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Originally posted by dukalara at 11-1-2008 08:45 AM
Ada tak suami yang pernah curang.... selepas tertangkap.... bertaubat.... menjadi suami yang baik dan setia? Tidak mengulangi perbuatannya?...
atau..
species jenis ini... akan terus melakuk ...
takat ni tak pernah dengo. semua kes yg aku tau, semua ulang balik.
kalu tak sampai atas katil lagi, ringan2 tu masih ada gak.
tapi cam kata losol, mungkin ada gak lagi. anyway, betul laa..everybody deserves a 2nd chance.
terpulang pada org yg mencurangi atau yg dicurangi utk wat keputusan. |
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semua yg berlaku adalah dgn izinNya jua...
mohonlah kepadaNya agar rumahtangga anda pulih kembali dan agar suami anda kemabali ke pangkal jalan. |
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Reply #65 sarahmirza's post
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Reply #64 LostSoul's post
yes..its true and it hurts.....
but this is the thing (hurt emotionally) have to be accepted by both parties....
but it will hurt most to the other half if they got to find out...... |
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Reply #66 RedAlert's post
i am not againsts Malay Man but after 14 married women/numbers of their fiance's and girlfriends,i concluded they need to look into themselves very carefully and start to appreciate their love and their women more gracefully and dont take for granted on their women feelings......
they would never know what woman can do if their love and expectations being betrayed....
the women i had encountered with had shown their true emotions to me in the form of............................(refer my past threads) |
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Reply #67 dukalara's post
it depends on which categories of woman he got affairs with....
(refer to my past threads) |
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Reply #70 dukalara's post
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Insha Allah, dukalara... kalau tak salah, sye terbaca dlm forum ni jugak.. berkenaan suami yg curang, tp selepas tertangkap, bertaubat dan sampai skg menjadi suami yg baik sampai la sekg... jgn putus harapan ye dukalara.. |
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Post time 9-1-2008 01:07 PM
