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Reply #59 mbhcsf's post
Hami's like batman and will come in the middle of the night.  |
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well ...what ? coming from Mars? I Like Jupiter ( ni nak menang jugakkkk..call it PRIDE ..ahaks i accept). the song - Drops of jupiter..nice ..so okay. I am still maintaining my stand. hehehehe...anyway ...just leave this to the audience pulak ler...so audience c'mon. taklarat ler. my bodily fluid is depleting. so take a break letih...hari ni banyak jalan.
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Reply #63 mbhcsf's post
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Of course, I have pride. Sometime it makes me do things that I regret... |
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as i am perusing ur points..
hmm, got to know what this guy is having? the type of affect, mood , the type of anxiety disorder,the severity etc.
whether this situation, is basically one shoe fits for all, in which i very much doubt it.
it is common to apply the tip of the iceberg principals in many instances...
but i think there is no treatment that would fit for all. with psychology, it is all multifactorial actually.
but nevermind, hold ur thought.
well having faith on what you believe in could also be therapeutic. |
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regret is the thing of the past dear. Do not carry baggage. ALLAH knows, He for one understands you, me and the rest. |
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okay mana Hami dear??? the Nocturne |
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Reply #66 mbhcsf's post
no shoes fit all.
Therefore, take it for checking. Test it. If it doesn't work for you, discard. Find another way.
Simple. |
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i am just fine. that simple.
( i am so afraid when u are writing this way, nampak macam garang actually) |
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huh?
Originally posted by nazadiyah at 29-2-2008 12:53 AM 
after pride is proud?
macam mana tu? okay kalau bolh explain dengan beberapa patah perkataan lagi... |
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Adoi, Agul. Semenjak beli Sedona Method laju je komen2 kome! . Many interesting comments since my last post that look inviting ..........What to do this ole owl has had a long week!
Some people have beliefs such as no pain, no gain. As much as most people think that it's true, I must say that this is a clear demonstration of pride.
I usually would associate this pain with the level of success. Kinda remember a quote from Genghiz Khan...."There is no glory
without pain..." something like that...But then that was the age of romance............These days people are more pragmatic. Why then they say "necessity is the mother of invention". People are finding better ways of doing things. I think there are enough challenges out there for all...not to worry, they would find you too.... but to simply look for the more painful thing......I think it had it's time and place.
Poor self esteem? Yes. Having pride in suffering? Yes. Could both exist at the same time? Yes.
Am a bit confused here, dear Agul. Am of the mind that there really is no pride in being subjugated.( If there is no choice then you take it with your chin up). Why do nations cry for independence then?
"Hidden pride"..........Well, I only know that we often learn not to express pride too effusively when others may be chellenged or offended by it or especially when you are expected to be humble . |
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Originally posted by Agul at 28-2-2008 01:58 AM 
What we're talking about here is not about pride in your country or pride about a job well done as these do not get in the way...
We're talking about the kind of pride that hold you back. That ...
My take is true and authentic pride is that which results in goodness such as genuine self esteem and agreeableness etc in the person. It may and may not be displayed. For example, you may observe a mother's pride by the way she beams..............To me pride is all about self preservation.
However, there are other categories of emotions such as contempt, false modesty, stubborn pride, hubris or self-aggrandizing self-esteem and so on that can really put up bigger challenge to the self. |
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Originally posted by hamizao at 1-3-2008 07:08 PM
Adoi, Agul. Semenjak beli Sedona Method laju je komen2 kome! . Many interesting comments since my last post that look inviting ..........What to do this ole owl has had a long week!
I u ...
營ni adalah salah satu emosi yang saya sendiri kena kaji dan hayati... Sometime I've hurt people's feeling because of my pride..
We learn from all experience, good or bad.
Sometime, there are glory after pain, for genghiz... However for those familiest that he lay waste to, because of his ambition, yes pain, no gain...
So the principle of advancement is actually conveying more life to all, rather than爃eroically燾arrying爐he爓orld,爓ith爌ain燼nd爂rimace爈ike燼tlas.
About low self esteem and pride, well, a beggars take pride is not being a thief. It's ok to have pride. Just don't get stuck.燣ike爐he燽eggar燾ases,爄t's爋k爊ot爐o燽e燼爐hief.營t's爂reat!爅ust燿on't爂et爃ung爑p爋n燽eing燼燽eggar.
Independence is about freedom. Freedom is a great motivator. Everyone wants freedom.
In the book, under pride there are lots of keywords which falls under pride like disdain, contempt, haughty, arrogant, false humiliaty... You gett hat down pat...
I try to see if there any cases of pride masquareding as false humiliaty...營f爐here爄s,營爐ry爐o爈et爂o..
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Reply #76 hamizao's post
What you label as true and authenthic pride is nearer to courageousness.
In sedona we have emotions that falls on lower scale such as apathy, grief, fear, lust, anger, pride...
On higher scale we have Courageousness, Acceptance and Peace.
Of course we have other method of classification, but I'm using this.
I know you want to buy that book... |
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tak tau nak selit kat mana...tolong baca sajalah |
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meh u selit tang nih
self fulfilling prophecy ( you could ask ur partner ) dengan pride , ada beza ker tak dak?
sebab ada element perception tang tu...
Alja = tak pa ker kalau i panggil you "hang" sebab i think u rapat dgn i though you may not necessarily sense this. Oh kalau tak i just call you by your nick... |
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Post time 28-2-2008 09:05 PM
:pompom: 
:pompom: these are nuts
