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Reply #1 tempur's post
if you don't get her, you failed.
If you managed to get her, congragulations! You just dated a a cheater!:pompom: :pompom: :pompom:
SEcara jujur la. Ko nak cari ke pasangan yang tak setia? arini dia tinggalkan pakwe dia, pilih ko. esok dia tinggalkan ko, pilih org lain lak... |
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Originally posted by tempur at 23-7-2008 05:22 PM 
Kalau kita berada dalam situasi suka pada seorang perempuan yang sudah mempunyai pakwe. macam mana nak takle ye awek camni....
sebenarnya dah lama minat tapi牋tak ebrani nak rapat..last dapat t ...
brader, bukan susah nak tekel awek orang ni...
tapi kalau ko pikir balik, tangkap awek orang ni xde menangnye...
kalau ko berjaya tekel dia, ko baru berjaya dapatkan seorang pompuan yang curang...
honestly, ko nak cari pasangan yang curang ke? Hari ni hari mamat tu, esok mungkin hari ko pulak... |
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Reply #65 Agul's post
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curang is just a perception...:re: a perspective from certain angle |
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all is fair in love and war
but i don't condone it, morally
our life have been bounded by moral guidelines
if you're a machiavellian, keep pursuing until you get what you want
but remember, just keep hoping that one day she won't do the same thing because of another 'better' man |
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machiavellian = the end justifies the mean = matlamat menghalalkan cara |
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Reply #66 True-X's post
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call it by any names but it is still immoral |
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Originally posted by hitamputih at 25-7-2008 12:32 PM 
call it by any names but it is still immoral
depends on perspective...
kl tak tau criter sebenar.... aku rase tak fair call in immoral.....
jika belum berkahwen... u still open to choose.... macam2 mende leh jadi... |
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watpe nak ngorat pmpuan dh de pakwe..
aku yg single ni kan ada  |
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Originally posted by True-X at 25-7-2008 11:54 AM
curang is just a牋perception...:re:牋a perspective from certain angle
Well of course, everything is just percepttion in the realm of dualities, or non-advaita.
But the big question is, do you really believe this, or are you just selecting this, and adjusting your personal moralistic codes?
You really need to dig deep into yourself. To really answer this honestly. Lip service is no good.
If you really go for perception in everything, then everything and anything goes. There are no white, nor black. So, someone may steal, other people get angry, thet perceiv him doing wrong. He may perceive that he does nothing wrong, that he is just taking his fair share from the rich. That's his perception. Who's right, who's wrong? Can we steal, lie and cheat? Of course we can, if we perceive that to be a good thing. 燜rom the angle of Robin Hood (modern day government), he's just being noble. From the爌oint of Rich people (current middle class people) hat was totally unfair. So again, who is right, or wrong?
Could you believe this? IMO you don't realy subscribe to this idea. You're just saying that. Lip service. Bla, bla, bla....
You see, in relationship, the foundation is based on trust. While it is not wrong to go shopping for better partners, everyone does it.... 燗t certain point you both agree that those relationship starts, you both need to have certain understanding how to take these realtionship from that point onward. At least a general ideas.
If you both agree that it's perfectly all right for both of you to date (or sleep) with different partners (open relationship) then there's no problem in doing that. (of course, if you're a Moslem, there's certain rules to be adhered to) From the point of view.
If, however you both decide to commit to your partner, and not having 2, 3 or more gf/bf at the same time... Then you should honour that mutual decision. if you don't,you just have to admit that you're a very dishonourable person. A liar, cheater, delusional and hypocritical爐o boot. If you found out someone better, it's ok to break off. No problem, but if you're seeing someone else, you have to tell your current gf/bf.... if you have a modicum of honesty. It's up to them to continue with you or not. If your current gf/bf are bad, abusive, or have other bad character, you should leave immediately. What the heck are you doing with them still?
So, the way is simple. If you're not hypocritical.燭he problem is, when there's a problem in realationship most men, women don't really discuss with each other. They are forever analysing, thinking, worrying, guessing by themselves and they never tell thir partner what is really in their mind. |
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So, for men, why would you want to get into relationship with someone who is weak, and can't really make up her mind. I want this guy, wait, that guy is cute, but that guy has bmw z4... I say, choose better/nicer girls. Unless you're someone who just want to have fun and dump her when another cuter girl come tagging along... That is bad. But sick people with sick people, that's a matches made in heaven...
Come on, it's not that hard to get any kind of women today... You are the chooser today, not them. |
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Reply #70 True-X's post
its not about cerita sebenar
everyone has justification
even gambler pun ada justification
so do thief
and politician too!
for me, kalau nak kat org lain
takperlu curang
just break the relationship
and start new one! that is not curang, that is jodoh tak sampai
but
if a girl / guy tgh ada couple yg serius steady. suddenly duk flirt / couple with others, that is curang. no matter wat the reason is. |
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Reply #73 Agul's post
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oh and i just read ur post and i agree with u all the way..... |
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ni la sbb aku putus ngn pkwe aku
laki len ngurat aku smpai pkwe aku rimas n last2 clash..
pkwe aku rsa die xle bg yg trbaik kt aku slagi ade laki tu
pkwe aku rsa tcbr, slma 3taun die bsabar
aku dh trgkn xde pape, tp die ttp xslesa, xthn
mgkin slh aku krana mlyn
peritnye |
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matlamat tidak menghalalkan cara - aku yg poyo |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 24-7-2008 05:25 PM
