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Originally posted by ammar_7e at 17-8-2008 02:46 PM 
hehehe..mmg besar..tubuh anak dia dah cam baby sumo dah..
si ammar lahir 3.16kg pon doktor kata besau..sampai sume org ingat kandungan i ni kembar.
maklumlah..mamanye ni kecik..just 37kg befo ...
Uih..keciknya u..patut kena C-section....wife abg night beranak normal...........so boleh agak ler dia kecik ke besau..he..he.. |
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Originally posted by ammar_7e at 17-8-2008 03:08 PM
time kah3x tu kena tgk avatar abg nigh..baru real
Sekarang anak u dah berapa orang dah? |
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Reply #65 nighunter71's post
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baru sorang..umo nak masuk 7 bulan.. dah 10kg.. |
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Originally posted by ammar_7e at 17-8-2008 03:15 PM
baru sorang..umo nak masuk 7 bulan.. dah 10kg..
Oh..muda lagilah nie...
Anak abg night yang sulung rasanya jauh lagi berat dari u dah....last timbang 42kg...adik dia 35kg..kah3x |
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Reply #67 nighunter71's post
muda apenyer.. dah suku abad + 21 bulan hidup kat bumi Allah ni..
tapi target nak anak lagi 3-4 org.. tu pon kalau pasni xleh bersalin normal gak.. |
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tu lerrr...kalo dengo citer org mmg laa ketaq lutuit dibuatnyerr....tapi pengalaman masing2 tak sama....
mak sy pun ade bgtau...bersalin ni pun kira rezeki masing2 laa..ader yg senang tu alhamdulillah...yg susah tu sabaq je laa....org yg langsung takde anak tu lg sian....
nak kater pasal yg taat /baik dgn suami tu senang bersalin ...tak jugak...kawan sy yg ade kekasih gelap time pregnant tu pun..senang je dia bersalin.....
kalo Allah uji kita dgn dugaan susah nak bersalin tu maknanyee Dia sayangkan kita...sebut pasal dosa ...saper yg takde dosa kan... |
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If you ever decide to have another child make sure its your decision. You are the one that is going to carry the baby for 9 months and suffer the delivery. Don't base your decision on what other people are telling you.
Mulut orang ni tak boleh di tutup. If you have one child they'll ask bila nak tambah, kesian anak you tak ada kawan. If you have 2 kids and they happen to be same gender - they'll ask try lah lagi for boy/girl. 
So, make your own decision. Only try for a baby when you are emotionally stable. Right now you are not. But its good that you are looking out for answers to overcome you traumatic experience.
On a scale of 1 to 10 I would say you delivery experience is about 5. Not too bad.
I know of worst cases - extreme bleeding (like Blackmore said) until dr have to do hysterectomy. You should be thankful your uterus is intact and you are able to have more kids if you choose too. My sis in-laws (2 orang) bled so much that dr had to perform hysterectomy and the decision to have more children is snatched away from them.
As for the labour pain, asthma etc - you just need to be introduced to a better dr. Go to the Parenting board there are many suggestions on good gynaes.
Btw, I have bad experiences with birth too. But I tell myself that I'm lucky to be alive and take care of my kids. I almost died too - my blood pressure dropped very low with the first son cos I reacted badly to the anaesthesia which was wrongly administered. With my second son I was given wrong dosage to stop contractions which made my heart beat crazily. Both times I was lucky that there were doctors around to manage my condition and revive me. Both my sons are pre-terms. So there was general panic at both times. That possibly added to the wrong dosage etc.
I have clotting issues too. I almost bled to death with second son.
I was and am traumatised by my experiences. But you know, so what. Worst things could have happened. I'm here and that's all that matters.
I hope you'll find your peace soon. Stop dwelling in the past. Congratulate yourself for surviving that experience. Life is too precious to be wasted thinking about a past experience. Each and every pregnancy and delivery is unique. No two child are the same. |
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fydza, the decision nak menambah org baru depends on you and your partner...talk to him...ckp2 org luar tuh ko abakan jekkk... |
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Originally posted by ammar_7e at 17-8-2008 02:35 PM 
pada yg belum pnh pregnant, jgnlah takut lak..
tapi aku dulu alhamdulillah..kandungkan si ammar..mmg xder alahan langsung..
mak aku cakap, mak aku dulu asyik baring jer..
setiap mlm aku akan ...
My friend, baby dia 5.02kg masa baru lahir.. C-section la. |
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Reply #28 fdyza82's post
i think lah kan... your problem was the gynae herself... like u said, she panicked and tak tahu nak buat aper... mebber you're better off seeking a more skilled and experienced gynae for your next pregnancy? ... Walllahualam.
my first pregnancy pun difficult sikit. gynae detected 8cm dermoid ovarian cyst at 12 weeks. surgery at 16 weeks. pre-eclampsia and warded at 27 weeks. delivery at 29 weeks with the paed warning us beforehand that lungs collapse may occur and baby may not survive... baby had to have blood transfusion twice. suspected brain damage, Alhamdulillah the fluid cleared up on its own. baby stayed in NICU for 2 months. I stayed kat labour ward for 2 weeks, obs & gyn ward for a month to wait until the blood pressure lessen... which it never did... blood clots... then had 2 surgeries for wound breakdown. sakit nyer masa re-stitch memang tak terperi ler... tapi what to do? redah jer la...
so, i'm kinda apprehensive with my 2nd pregnancy, but to me ini sumer ujian Allah... so berserah sajer lah kepadaNya. So far, into my 4th month dah... blood pressure still okay, no cyst detected... Alhamdulillah  |
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Post time 17-8-2008 03:04 PM
