I HATE YOU BUT I LOVE YOU

cekman · Post time 3-5-2009 07:41 AM

for me...initially i would be disappointed if my expectation is unmet but i try to think on the positive side...i console myself with logical reasons and try to deal it in another way...

anyway...In this 'subject' i think it's wise not to expect too much so as not to be disappointed when you don't get what you want...

mbhcsf · Post time 3-5-2009 10:01 PM

then dear a person say that as  you are settling for less, hmm what would u reckon??? ( ni org kata i terfikirso i tanya bukan panadanagn peribadi saya )

ahaaa so second clause- there is an 'expectation"  jugak ler kan.....

so what have you learn in  this thread ?

cekman · Post time 6-5-2009 07:06 PM

not settling for less but being realistic....

2nd clause?? im being rational

so far... others' opinions can be a guidance

so...what's your expectation on love....and have you ever been in a conflict situation between love and hate emotion??

mbhcsf · Post time 6-5-2009 07:53 PM

Originally posted by cekman at 6-5-2009 19:06
not settling for less but being realistic....

2nd clause?? im being rational

so far... others' opinions can be a guidance

so...what's your expectation on love....and have you ever bee ...

my expectation on love..well i guess it is quite simple actually

Love should be enriching, empowering, and inspiring ( lupa nak bubuh ni ) as well as having the ability to make you "grow'.

no..i 've never been in or out of love....nope tak pernah..

well? have you?

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mbhcsf · Post time 6-5-2009 07:54 PM

but why did you create thsi thread in the first place? just curious, that 's all.

cekman · Post time 7-5-2009 02:38 PM

Originally posted by mbhcsf at 6-5-2009 19:54
but why did you create thsi thread in the first place? just curious, that 's all.

just interested to know what other's opinion are in the subject....

mbhcsf · Post time 7-5-2009 05:10 PM

and thus far , we have not got a pattern lagi ....

Agul · Post time 7-5-2009 07:16 PM

We have attachment and aversion to nearly everything. So we want something or someone to be closer. At the same time we also have resistance, rejection and we want to be seperate form that thing or that someone.

No wonder we keep beating ourselves up.

So we have someone we want to get closer to... and we also want to be awy from them... We have thing we like, love about them, we have thing we don't like about them...

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Agul · Post time 7-5-2009 07:25 PM

I really should learn this lesson well, but my bad habit have complicated things... It's like your giving wrong signal in traffic, bound to cause an accident...

Been giving wrong signal all this t. this timeime, now not sure how to act. Should have listen to friends advice. Too "degil".

Worst if it nvolves not just one women...

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 09:42 AM

Sherlock Holmes views on love is rather " interesting" ...I like it ( just being cynical)

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 01:58 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 7-5-2009 19:25
I really should learn this lesson well, but my bad habit have complicated things... It's like your giving wrong signal in traffic, bound to cause an accident...

Been giving wrong signal all t ...

hmm...Agul ...what are you mumbling about?

I think it is nice to vent some thoughts but ....err hmm?

err..

Agul · Post time 8-5-2009 02:55 PM

nothing...

just venting... i don't really want people to understand what i wrote.

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 03:30 PM

but you have just written your thoughts in words....and dear, people do read this you know. I guess you want to be understood...yeah ..is it?

Agul · Post time 8-5-2009 04:58 PM

yes. there are some want to be understood. and there are also want to not be understood. So that's why i write it, at the same time writing in a hard to understand way.

It's simple actually. Sometime you are nice to people. And they think you have some romantic attraction, when it's just friendship. So thing becomes complicated.

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 05:27 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 8-5-2009 16:58
yes. there are some want to be understood. and there are also want to not be understood. So that's why i write it, at the same time writing in a hard to understand way.

It's simple actually. S ...

GOD.....

Agul, you are being too complicated and you know what Dr House ( ASTRO AXN ) said that to a boy ..".you know i have this "complexes" ~ women like it ( he winks then

) .... i think you inadvertently has the trait... sure right...

have to say this ya ...sorry yer .

got to ask Anna Freud or one of the Freud descendants to psychoanalayse you... hmm wonder what they found ..the supressed section ( of mind I mean , yer )

Agul · Post time 8-5-2009 05:55 PM

No need for Anne Freud, I have this one women who keeps trying to psychoanalyse me, my writing, the way I act, the way i answer her supposedly psychological question, and also... nagging...

worse still. there's 2 more who's starting to be investigate me too... although they don't have the training the first women said she underwent...

Although I'm more wary with the second one, as she may be the smartest among them, as she can understand complicated concept quite fast.

Crazy, but if they want to play, then I'll play with them...

If I'm not with crazy/strange people then maybe it's me who's crazy...

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 06:37 PM

and dear too bad Avril Lavigne is already married...

hey ..i am off tomorrow..you nak postcard ? i boleh hantar ...if u wish lah...

mbhcsf · Post time 8-5-2009 06:39 PM

Originally posted by Agul at 8-5-2009 17:55
No need for Anne Freud, I have this one women who keeps trying to psychoanalyse me, my writing, the way I act, the way i answer her supposedly psychological question, and also... nagging...
...

oh dear oh dear

one lady too many lerr you....

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