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bujang.actlly kitorg pn ada kene2 sedare sket2.so family pn mmg kenal dia.dia x kawin lg sbb dulu ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 23:22 
i rasa patut difikirkan kalo org tua2 yg menasihati...kalo setakat kwn baya2 sendiri n komen lebih lak pasal seks semata....tak perlu nak peningkan kepala sgt la...yang perlu difikirkan adakah lelaki tu mmg seorang yg bertanggungjawab, mampu membimbing and seikhlasnya mengasihi kita..... |
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Reply puteri_malam
sbenanye yg ckp2 tu ialah kawan2 sy sbb drg nk tgk sy dgn yg sebaya, yg dior ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 23:56
bab nikah kawin ni elok la merujuk lebih pada org2 tua yg pengalaman derang takleh kita sangkal...
bkn kata takleh dgr pendapat kwn2 bole juga tp pandai2 la menimbang.... |
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bujang.actlly kitorg pn ada kene2 sedare sket2.so family pn mmg kenal dia.dia x kawin lg sbb dulu ...
nylliette Post at 20-7-2010 23:22 
kalo dh kenal......family pon dh kenal.....ok la tu
apa ada pada umur
yg penting agama, hati budi dia...... |
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i rasa patut difikirkan kalo org tua2 yg menasihati...kalo setakat kwn baya2 sendiri n komen leb ...
puteri_malam Post at 20-7-2010 23:41
itu lerr kat put.....kalo dh parents kasi restu, go ahead je la kan
juz remember, not all of our frens ni sincere kat kita......tapi i am so glad, coz saya ada 3 4 org yg sgt rapat yg sgt baik......rindu plak kat derang!!!! |
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Reply 65# iza_yuss
thanx iza_yuss
mksudnye,soal seks ni x pyh la dipikir kan |
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itu lerr kat put.....kalo dh parents kasi restu, go ahead je la kan
juz remember, not all of ...
iza_yuss Post at 21-7-2010 00:15
takder la iza...rasa mcm tak best jer la sbb kwn2 baya TT ni dok ckp pasal seks semata... |
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Reply iza_yuss
thanx iza_yuss
mksudnye,soal seks ni x pyh la dipikir kan
nylliette Post at 21-7-2010 00:17
banyak hal lagi nak pk selain dr sex
kaka takut nanti u dh menopoz, tapi ur hubby still sihat though dia lagi tua 13 tahun dr u......skalik tambah yg lain....
x kira la lelaki ke pompuan, kalo dh ati busuk, jahat, so jadik x elok jugak
tapi kalo baik ati, sejuk je umahtangga
~~sori, bahasa akak cam kasar plak....hehe |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 21-7-2010 00:29
takder la iza...rasa mcm tak best jer la sbb kwn2 baya TT ni dok ckp pasal seks semata...
puteri_malam Post at 21-7-2010 00:19
xlah drg ckp psl seks semata, byk lg yg lain2..tp itu salah satu je yg agak mganggu pikiran sy nih
macam2 lerrr nak pk......same la jugak pepatah ni, idup utk makan? or makan utk idup?
bleh x kita apply, idup utk sex? or sex utk idup (beranak pinak)?
hmmm..btul tu |
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kawan2 TT ni dh kawen ke blom? kalo dah, cuba tanya derang, x penah gaduh ke? dah ada anak blom? ...
iza_yuss Post at 21-7-2010 00:24
tu kena tanya TT...sbb dlm ni ku nmpk mmg mcm persoalan seks tu yg sgt ditktkan dek TT |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 21-7-2010 00:40
sbb dlm ni ku nmpk mmg mcm persoalan seks tu yg sgt ditktkan dek TT
puteri_malam Post at 21-7-2010 00:26
xdela takut sgt..cuma tpikir2..since ada ruangan tny lelaki kat sini, sy cuba2 lah minta pandangan, signup sini semata2 nk tny prob ni tau..gigih |
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soal ni pada saya pertinent tapi quite manageable like all those things pertaining to things under the sheets ni....and based from your judgement on him - mature and what not, i mean heyy..you could easily talked thsi thing out with him.....that is what maturity of thinking is all there for?? kan??
logik tak?
i mean sebab tu the thinking tu penting ..... |
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and then you know find this thing out from the expert ...i dunno try lah memana agensi yang boleh bagi informative kaunseling ( ni bukan kaunseling yg malaysia dok kata sakit jiwa labelling with psycho what not - narrow thinking tu semua tau ) daripada dok dengaq itu ini ..org tua can say 1001 thing for 1001 nights dalam hal hal macam ni pergghh ...at the end ofthe day it is all will fall back on you. You think , you manage. |
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betul3x..sy ada member dia kawin umor 18 dengan lelaki 50+....dapat anak sorang tp lelaki tu meninggal beberapa tahun kemudian sebab kanser. dia power ke x sy x pasti la....x penah tanya member tu
stu lg nak tanya...keinginan ko camne plak ..kuat ke suam2 je jgn ko plak yg x larat dgn bakal hubby u
hnsyoong Post at 21-7-2010 07:15
alahai ni lah yg org2 ni ada sebut jugak..nnt kl dia mati dulu camne..ko nk jd janda muda ke
err tp xdela pikir sgt..ajal maut kuasa Allah kan..sape2 pn bleh pegi dulu kan |
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Post Last Edit by nylliette at 21-7-2010 08:43
based from your judgement on him - mature and what not, i mean heyy..you could easily talked thsi thing out with him.....that is what maturity of thinking is all there for?? kan??
mbhcsf Post at 21-7-2010 07:59
errr..shy2cat lah to talk to a man openly abt this
and then you know find this thing out from the expert ...i dunno try lah memana agensi yang boleh bagi informative kaunseling ( ni bukan kaunseling yg malaysia dok kata sakit jiwa labelling with psycho what not - narrow thinking tu semua tau ) daripada dok dengaq itu ini ..org tua can say 1001 thing for 1001 nights dalam hal hal macam ni pergghh ...at the end ofthe day it is all will fall back on you. You think , you manage
smpi kene kaunseling ke.hmmmm |
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errr..shy2cat lah to talk to a man openly abt this
smpi kene kaunseling ke.hmmmm
nylliette Post at 21-7-2010 08:36
bukan talk like a serious tone gitu like : hey hubby we need to talk
i pun ketaq, alaa masa masa usual conversation approach the subject appropriately
shy? okay ...hmm..well may be kita from background berbeza kot.....ahaks....well tak pa u buat , approach cara mana yang sesuai dengan you but the main point is communication is the utmost important when involving this under the sheets tu...
anyway ....
kaunseling tu ialah sesi penerangan bukan you ada masalah pun ...again...may be cara kita lihat sesuatu berbeza ..so ...i dunno kalau i bebenda camni , ni kalau saya ya ...saya ntah take it like okay he is 40 , if anything we can talk about it over ....kalau hubby tu SAMA WAVELENGTH dengan kita ni tang ni the thinking, maturity tu penting ..... |
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dato CT tue bahagia jer nampak...lagi jauh umur nyer...tu sume bukan pengukur kebahagiaan. Kawin buk ...
menjad Post at 20-7-2010 17:21 
mmg la bahgia Tok T tu...pe g yg dia nk pk??? duit ada..Tok K xda pun dia kesah pe...DUIT..DUIT...stu gi NAMPAK BAHGIA....yg kite nmpak..yg xnampak mna kte tau.... |
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setuju.... kalau dah penat urus rumah tangga lagila pempuan x fikirkan sgt pasal nak ...
hnsyoong Post at 21-7-2010 07:20
sll dgr camtu la isteri2 yg pernah ku kenali n suami2 yg ada isteri ckp....
blk kerja sibuk dgn urus umahtangga n anak2, dah tgh mlm penat tido
tu la juga sllnya alasan lelaki guna utk dptkan peluang berfoya2... |
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 20-7-2010 11:41 PM
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sy ada member dia kawin umor 18 dengan lelaki 50+....dapat anak sorang tp lelaki tu meninggal beberapa tahun kemudian sebab kanser. 
dia power ke x sy x pasti la....x penah tanya member tu 
...kuat ke suam2 je 
