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Post time 12-11-2010 11:34 AM | Show all posts
nasihat aku, kenal2 ajelah dulu
be friends and kenal hati budi
jangan terburu2.pompuan camtu susah nak dapat.
lama2 dia syok la kat ko
tapi pls know your boundaries ler.
jgn be too 'buddy friendly' and yet be 'appropriately affectionate'
dunno that's the right way to put it
kalo dia memang x berkenan kat ko,sampai tua pon dia layan ko as friends jek
who knew dalam blur2 da tu, dia syok kat ko gak.
so the key,ko tackle dia slow2.
keep dropping hints yang subtle to keep the momentum before you fall into the category of 'just friends'.
itulah cara aku tackle awek aku skrg

warning: sometime woman prefer to be single for a reason. Get to know what that reason is. Who knows that's a dealbreaker for u. Mcm member aku tackle sorg awek ni, rupanya2 she's dull and kepala gamer. terus hilang interest after 2 weeks of dating.Kesian lak awek tu walaupon cun ya amat pon.
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Post time 12-11-2010 12:40 PM | Show all posts
Ni wa cite camne cara bf wa takel wa. Kitaorg  satu opis and dh smpi stage merisik (alhamdulillah).

1. Early stage mcm kengkawan biasa.. Tegur2 gelak.. Ade email reramai.. Add dlm fb.. hehe
   (ini nk menimbulkn rs comfortable..hoccay..)
2.Chatting dlm fb..time memalam b4 tido.. Utk menambah kn kemesraan dan keselesaan
3. Once dia rs aku dh selesa ngn dia, trus ajak gi tgk muvi.. Aku ingat gi reramai so said yes lah.. skali bila tanya sape lg pegi.. dia jwb kitaorg dua org jek.. trus mcm erk.. Tp xkan aku nk jwb cancel plak sdg kn td dh ckp iye.. huhu.
4. Bila kuar tu, takde ok ckp bab feeling ni.. Tkde u lap me i lap u ke..Cite yg general but interest yg lebih krg sama.. Yg penting biar kimia tu terbit (chemistry)..
Lg satu, jgn sesekali 1st date minah tu yg byr.. Kompom 100% ko kene reject.. hehehe

Lenlain lps tu, pepandai sdirik lah.. ponat plak nk taip ni.. huhu
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Post time 12-11-2010 02:08 PM | Show all posts
Reply 58# plainjane


wakakaka...
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Post time 12-11-2010 02:12 PM | Show all posts
Reply 55# Santo


eh lupa, aku prasan ko ckp ko ensem kn...
pesbuk plisss...
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Post time 12-11-2010 02:33 PM | Show all posts
alah.. p je la kat die.. cakap je.. weh.. ko kua lunch ngan sape? kua lunch skali mau? aku banje.. yok weh...

kalo die kua ngan kawan.. ko pass la pluang ni dlu..

tak pun, ko mintak anak buah ko ajak die g mkn.. pastu, buat baik ngan die.. pastu ajak die g lunch.. tapi beramai.. pastu, dekat2 ngan die.. (bukan ngendeng, tapi bagik selese die nk bebual ngan ko) then, ko trus la ke fasa kedue.. ajak g lepak plak dan seterusnya hingga berjaya..


kne ayat paso dlu.. tak de pasal nk wat ayat jambu.. sure die tangkap ko nk kat die.. n ko tak nk bende tu blaku skang nih.. so, wat cam membe jee.. mule ajak mkn.. pastu. kalo da dapat lunch same tu.. jgn wat pasal nk diam jek.. ko tanye la pasal die slalu shopping kat ne.. (pasal adik badik n background toksah sangt kot) kang die kate ko bz bodi..
hahah

(ni yang aku buat time nk ngorat laki aku dlu... straight forward ckp)
hahhahahahahha...
selamat..
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Post time 12-11-2010 04:32 PM | Show all posts
Ok la oleh kerana sian kat ko n aku pun selalu gk dapat ajakan lunch dari lelaki2 ni , meh aku tol ...
bonquiqui Post at 9-11-2010 18:11



    aku stuju 200% dgn komen ni.

anyway, aku rasa tt ni kelakar "Keje aku yang banyak nak mampus makin banyak sampai aku pun nak mampus...." mmg aku gelak baca karangan tt.

funny guys senang nak dpt perhatian girls.

pada aku, aku jenis suka berterus terang, malas nak hint2, n wonder what if this, what if that.  
hidup ni a big gamble, kalau gamble ko kena, dpt la aweks tu, if tak kena, sila move on to the nx target. no biggies.

good luck tt.
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Post time 12-11-2010 04:36 PM | Show all posts
selama ni dalam kepala aku pompuan ideal aku camni
1. Islamic, jaga sembahayang, pakai tudung etc...
2. Cool, calm and collected.. (tak gedik la)
3. Doesn't talk gibberish
4. Totally independent
5. Practicality is her forte
6. Visionary and have substantial amount of guts to do what she wants and getting what she needs.
7. No make-up whatsoever (sikit2 boleh la kot)
unforseeable Post at 9-11-2010 23:23



    tt, susah ke nak jumpa yg macam tt nak tu?

apasal ramai jek member aku yg macam tu, but still single?
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Post time 12-11-2010 05:57 PM | Show all posts
1) first sekali tanya dia dah ada bf lum
2) jika tiada, hang ckp hang nk jadi bf dia
3) jika jrg nak berjumpa waktu kerja, hujung minggu n after kerja sms berita2 lawak, tanya aktiviti seharian dll
4) bg kfc ke coklat ke buah2an ke piza, pastu esok2 ajak kuar mkn ramai2, kalau berdua nnt gossip hangat seofis di kalangan ofismate memerli/mengusik
5) take care/caring spt 'jgn kerja rajin2' 'balik awal harini', pujian membina
6) kejutan spt bawa kfc makan sama2 kat meja dia kalu dia x sempat  ajak kuar
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Post time 12-11-2010 06:54 PM | Show all posts
Jawapan den pulak :

1. berapa lama aku nak tunggu sebelum aku boleh ajak dia lunch?
Biler ko dah rasa selesa dan tahap confident tinggi, dah boleh ajak, kalau boleh siasat tempat lunch yang dier suke atau teringin nak pergi.

2. camner nak ajak kuar dia kuar lunch?
Ajak normal tuk keluar makan ler. But the perfect timing is needed.

3. orang yang tak hensem macam aku ni boleh ker ngurat awek camtu?
Tuhan tu Maha Adil, ko cakap ko kelakar kan.. pompuan suka orang yang kelakar, bertanggungjawab. Muka No 3 @ 4 kut...

4. sebagai seorang awek macam mana korang judge physical attraction seorang lelaki?
Physical hanya value added, badan ko berketul2 tak, body fit... cuma pakai dulu pakaian body fit, lepas tu tengok kat cermin... apa ko rasa dulu...

Harap membantu...
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:02 PM | Show all posts
tt, susah ke nak jumpa yg macam tt nak tu?

apasal ramai jek member aku yg macam tu, but ...
owenkatz Post at 12-11-2010 16:36


Betul ker ramai member nko yang macam tu? and still single? bole citer sket apsal tak? jual mahal ker or malas?
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:07 PM | Show all posts
Reply 59# plainjane


   Same dilemma with girls also la ye tak? tak cun tapi nak yang hensem... macam aku tak hensem tapi nak yang cun... tapi dia ni takde la cun mane pon... cun pada aku jer... tegok hati tenang beb... pastu karakter dia buat aku cair habis... lol, nak kate cun giler ramai bebenar sangat kat tempat aku keja ni... suma pinggang ramping... pastu pakai skirt jangan citer la ramai dia... heh
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:09 PM | Show all posts
njgn be too 'buddy friendly' and yet be 'appropriately affectionate'.
InVendeTTa Post at 12-11-2010 11:34



   ye ker? yang ni tak penah terfikir la plak... cam tu ek? approriately affectionate? aku ni jenis suka buat lawak bodo... tu kira buddy friedly ker?
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:11 PM | Show all posts
alah.. (pasal adik badik n background toksah sangt kot) kang die kate ko bz bodi..
wrw967 Post at 12-11-2010 14:33



   Ye ker? aduh baru nak jadi topik...lagipun benda ni yang selalu aku tanaya pon kat sesapa... aku jenis main tanya jer... tak ok ker?
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:14 PM | Show all posts
Reply 54# nurul_akmar

Betul ka paham? boleh paham ker? ramai aku tanya dia ni jenis blur sket... sampai boss aku pon cakap camtu.... blur and lurus..., tapi otak tip top... camner tu?
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 Author| Post time 12-11-2010 10:17 PM | Show all posts
Reply 42# Syik_Gojet


   Busy keje cik oiii.... hari2 sakit kepala... rase nak lepas jawatan jer sy ni.... ni pun dah sampai limit stress, kalo tak sebab nak usha dia dah lama dah saye mintak turun pangkat... sebab kalo turun pangkat sy tak dapat la nak tegur dia len kali...

dapat tegok dia rase sejuk sket hati....
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Post time 12-11-2010 10:40 PM | Show all posts
jgnlaa turun pangkat... bkn sng nk jawatan skrg kan... jadikan admire un4c sbgi semangat... cayok2 ye...
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Post time 12-11-2010 10:46 PM | Show all posts
jgn tll merendah diri... semua org ade manisnye.. un4c pon not bad ape... cayok... trskan step seterusnye....
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Post time 12-11-2010 11:01 PM | Show all posts
nanti mak pk dulu ye...mak tnya hubby mak ke ...
hheheh
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Post time 12-11-2010 11:24 PM | Show all posts
Reply 74# unforseeable


    dia fhm.. tp ko jgn trs ckp ko ske dia.. kang dia terkejut.. terus elak dr ko.. seyes
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Post time 13-11-2010 01:15 AM | Show all posts
Reply 72# unforseeable

This is the fun part
if u complete the puzzle and get the girl, ko akan lebih hargai awek ko tu unlike the case of...
awek tu yang mintak kapel or keep dropping hints here and there mintak kapel..
that from my experience la.
so in your case why not try tackle slow2 pon since dia pon single.
And yes, if you can make the girl laugh, more likely she's gonna fall for you.
rupa? Ntahler..bende ni very subjective tapi kalo dia dah suka,mka cam pecah rumah pon dia akan suka so try not to think abt it too mch coz guy yang x confident akan nampak mcm loser di mata pompuan.
so kalo nak ajak kua lunch ke ape,just go ahead.There's no appropriate time to ask for lunch so why think too much?
or ko dah anggap first lunch=first date?
in that case, stop the angauness la yek
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