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aku kwn2 dgn srg laki ni since form4 smpai dia masuk u..(aku lak x masuk u lg time tu)..dia dh trpndg awek2 u la konon2..ktrg pun lost cmtu jer..upe2nye,stalk pye stalk,time kwn dgn aku,mmg ade srg girl minat dkt dia..awl tahun ni aku kna proposed dgn mak tunang aku ni..mak dia nk match kan ktrg...hjung tahun ni aku dh nk kawen..tapi sempat lagi aku stalk kekasih lama aku tu..aku kena kuat la nk mulakan hidup baru dgn bakal suami aku ni...x nak la jadi isteri curang.. |
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tarabas1976 posted on 27-11-2012 05:10 PM 
Waaa, urban betul lifestyle ko eik? Dapat 1 kiss dari F, terus move in together (bersekedudukan? ...
bukan lah 1 kiss je aku terus move in dgn dia... means aku fell for him. It took months gak nak move in. Rumah aku tu bukan aku sorang je, ramai lagi roommate2 aku.. Nama pun masa tu tengah muda, apa nak fikir. Besides, at that time aku betul2 rasa he was meant ror me..
And pelis la... jgn cepat judge seseorang mcm ustaz/ustazah tak bertauliah kalau diri ko sendiri pun tak betul. |
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brown_pupil posted on 28-11-2012 09:23 AM
bukan lah 1 kiss je aku terus move in dgn dia... means aku fell for him. It took months gak nak mo ...
Aku tak pernah pulak kata ko bersekedudukan tuh sebagai salah. Aku cuma kata "urban". OKlah tuh, nanti anak-anak ko kelak boleh teruskan gaya hidup urban nih masa dieorang tengah-tengah muda nih. Kalo ko sendiri terasa macam bangang citer ko bersekedudukan dengan boyfren kat forem, atau setidaknya ko terasa malu tak perlu rasanya menuding jari kononnya pembaca/forumer yang baca citer ko nih sebagai ustaz/ustazah tak bertauliah.
Itu adalah sifat manusia. Hatta, kalo ko tengok anjing beromen tepi jalan pun ko akan terdetik "Anjing saper lar yang beromen tengah jalan tuh.....". Apatah lagi kalo manusia.
Kalo ko nak orang baca tapi tak nak komen, ko pegila bukak blog dan citer pasal ko bersekedudukan(pastikan ko block komen-komen yang ko tak suker) okey?
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tarabas1976 posted on 28-11-2012 11:03 AM 
Aku tak pernah pulak kata ko bersekedudukan tuh sebagai salah. Aku cuma kata "urban". OKlah tuh, n ...
whatever....!
aku rasa thread ni pun cerita pasal cinta lama kan.. bukan pasal nak judge anyone based on their past. Last edited by brown_pupil on 28-11-2012 12:27 PM
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tarabas1976 posted on 28-11-2012 01:06 PM
Cinta lama dengan maksiat lama tu lain. (Jangan pulak kata aku nak judge ko aper pulak). Pasai aku ...
well , the funny part is.. aku tak pernah plak tulis aku sekatil dgn dia kan.. Besides, there are other people in my house at that time.. and yet you have jumped out of conclusion out of nothing??
sekurang2nya aku ni xde la nak berlagak suci murni sgt mcm kebanyakkan org2 fefeeling dalam forum ni.. at least for me, apa yang dah jadi dulu dah lepas pun. Nak rewind balik pun dah tak guna. Takde sapa pun dlm dunia ni yang terlepas dari buat silap, even ustaz berserban pun ada gak yang kena tangkap khalwat kan...
Wat I did in the past was indeed stupid, but it was too late to regret. At least after that it thought me a lesson never to trust man so much..even untill now. |
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tarabas1976 posted on 28-11-2012 03:03 PM
Kalo ostad tu move in together dok serumah ngan ustazah macam yang ko buat, kalo tak bernasib baik ...
apa2 je lah ye labu... 
aku x kenal ko, ko pun x kenal aku...
ntah2 ko pun lebih kurang sama je ..
But hey, I'm not judging... |
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kadang2 bila bercerita kisah cinta lama ni,,,,
kita perlu menjaga sensitiviti orang lain.. lebih2 lagi bila kita ni berpegang pada 2 kalimah shahadah.
memang kita ade kebebasan berforum, kebebasan meluahkan pendapat, kebebasan menyuarakan ape2 yang kita tak senang...
tapi bukan dengan membuka aib sendiri, bukan dengan menjatuhkan maruah diri sendiri,,,
p/s: menulis lebih bahaya daripada bercakap sebenarnya..... Last edited by kaishi on 29-11-2012 10:59 AM
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cinta lama....susah nak lupakan....dia dtg dan dtg lagik....dan lagik....dan lagik.....smpai dah beranak pinak pun dia dtg lagikkkk....adussssss |
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mulai dari hari ni cinta lama aku tu aku dh flush kt lobang najis...pepagi tadi mg aku tekadkan semangat..mg x guna nk kenang org yg pangai mcm hazab...syukurlah allah dh tunjukkan sikap dia yg sebenar psl aku yakin allah itu ada perancangan yg lebih baik buat aku.. |
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ex bf dulu kaki pmpuan...
2 tahun kapel lastly kantoi kt myspace...
amik gamba ngn pmpuan lain siap peluk2 bagai kt tepi sungai..
clash pn melalui phone..n until now x penah jmpe die dh..
terserempak pn x penah....
fb myspace pn xde...hohoho... |
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Ex 1 baik, kaki masjid, pandai masak, tak hansem tapi penyayang... break sbb salah faham biler aku soh tgk movie " ten things i hate about you". Took 2 weeks to totally foget him.
Ex 2 (bukan ex boyfriend betol-betol) aku minat mamat nkh giler... jadik Secret Admire dier masa buat diploma... jumpa balik masa kat uni... ber mesej dekat 2 tahun.... then my friend cakap dia dah ada gf, rasa sedih.. dia propsed 2 kali...sebab dah tahu dia dah ada gf, i stepped out... last sekali he changed his fon number after my last message. My never forgotten first love.. friend told me he married his gf after 3 years we lost contct... some good friends said he might really like me. His wife now is less pretty than me. What a choice for a chinese look handsome man! Reminiscing the memory is the sweetest thing to do.
Ex 3 tunang orang... a bad intention man....
Ex 4 husband org.. haha terjebak... but hidayah Allah helps both of us... now i forgave and forget him and he does the same thing... |
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Frankly, kalau diberi pilihan untuk kembali kepada my ex, i would choose ex 1... i just want a simple, happy and blessed life... |
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brown_pupil posted on 28-11-2012 04:46 PM
apa2 je lah ye labu...
aku x kenal ko, ko pun x kenal aku...
i beleve that when we refresh on our long ago unsupposed to do things, it means that we really really regret it... admitting those things means that we had repented on doimg it.... i believe its not an i feel good thing to confess right?..i had several friends like you... and now theh are blessed with good husbands and kids... hidup ini bukan tentang bagaimana kita bermula, tapi bagaimana kita berakhir... husnul khatimah harapnya... InSyaAllah. Amin.
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magpie5672 posted on 2-12-2012 12:18 AM
i beleve that when we refresh on our long ago unsupposed to do things, it means that we really rea ...
True... It takes guts to admit all the wrong things that you have done before. But yet, aku rasa mmg culture org2 kita ni suka menjadi ustaz/ustazah tak bertauliah bila cerita2 mcm ni kuar. I guess they forget the fact that we're indeed just human. And human makes mistakes..
If I have the power to turn back time, I'd go back and turn things around.. but then if I do so.. I would not have met my husband now. So i would say let by gone, be by gone.. |
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brown_pupil posted on 3-12-2012 09:46 AM
True... It takes guts to admit all the wrong things that you have done before. But yet, aku rasa m ...
things happen for reasons... i hope Allah will bless you and your family, dunya an akhirah. InSyaAllah...
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magpie5672 posted on 2-12-2012 12:09 AM
Frankly, kalau diberi pilihan untuk kembali kepada my ex, i would choose ex 1... i just want a simp ...
agreed !!!
honestly i pon tsangkut kat my first EX !! till now masih berharap pada dia even da ade BF..atleast lom bekawen kan..huhu..
my first Ex
Start kenal 16 taun..berkawan rapat n kapel sampe 17..
sbab mlas sgt nk pk hati n perasaan.. nk fokus SPM pnyer psal..we break up..
OMG !! i,m heartless..xpk perasaan girl tue..nk SPM plak tue..
plan further study pon xsame2..plih U masing2..
2nd EX
kenal kat matrix..
she cute i think..tp totally..i xlei masuk ngn perangai n kawan2 dia..
i try tp xlei masuk gak..
she is the first gf wat ak sakit ati sampe ak fobia ngan jenis girl camnie..byk kali sakit HATI !!!
(tiap kali berkawan ngan girl skunk, i akan takot ngn perangai mcam si girl nie..haha..scary !! )
we break up time frst year kt U..
3rd EX
satu U..start ngn skandal... jdi kksih gelap..@ coz masih terikat ngn 2nd Ex..
pastu kapel after break ngan 2nd EX..
yg nie ok seket..jenis xmajuk..cepat cool..sekepala !!
tapi xpande manage dri seniri..ssuke bangga diri..bajet bagus dr girl len..xske ngn career skunk dia..
i tpaksa tiggalkan si dia..
honestly..
de 1st ex was the best girl i ever had..
contact alik after six yrs..berkawan balik..
terus terang mahu memperisterikan dia..
dia da ade BF..she said " ak xlei lupekan kamu n the same time..ak xmahu mengecewakan si dia @ BF"
who care..still mengharap..still contact..
xnak pk pasal jodoh skunk !!
move on to be SINGLE !!
hail yeahh !! sonok single..tp sampe biler..aisshhh..
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 27-11-2012 05:10 PM
