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thread ini dibawakan kepada anda..oleh...HOTLINK
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1 lg buku yg sesuai di baca Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov.
from Doormat to Dreamgirl.
ade tips utk mencari dan memilih pasangan. |
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sue_0684 posted on 15-3-2013 10:12 PM 
tq2 for the info..
x pernah lg bc buku tu..
kalau sudi2,tepek2 lah tips tersebut..
insyaAllah, kalau boleh access sbb iols baca online.
guna lappy ni xbleh bukak plak xtau kenapa |
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owh kena daftar plak...access guna tab xyah daftar. nanti iols tepek yer kalau rajin |
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kinki posted on 15-3-2013 10:25 PM
insyaAllah, kalau boleh access sbb iols baca online.
guna lappy ni xbleh bukak plak xtau kenapa
okeh2...no problem.. ..
next time maybe buleh..
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testing ye....boleh tepek ke x tak tau
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kinki posted on 16-3-2013 05:24 PM
testing ye....boleh tepek ke x tak tau
buleh jer tepek..tp x kuar pon gambornya... |
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II. The Magical Thinking Stage
The feel -good hormones & endorphins begin to subside. Rather than seeing the reality of our similarities & differences, we try to gloss over them with magical thinking, rationalizing, & making excuses for ourselves & our dates. This is the thinking of a child – the wishful but unrealistic idea that somehow things will magically work out.
This is also the stage when many affairs occur. To succeed in relationship, you need to leave the wishing & hoping of magical thinking behind once & for all. If you want to develop love, climb into driver’s seat instead of being a passenger in your own relationship & hoping the car ends up where you want to go. People don’t want to do this because they’re scared. On the surface it appears safer & easier to be defensive & reactive than it does to be proactive. This is when you have to go ‘counterintuitive’ & do courageous things instead of the comfortable thing.
SMART HEART SKILL
Problem-solve & fight fair, problems that are ignored get bigger & cause temporary or permanent disconnection
Don’t wish or wait for your partner to change. When you change, he will change.
Don’t look for love in all wrong places, like so many people do. Having an affair, working late at the office, or avoiding your date/partner by other means will not solve the problems.
Learn to give to your partner because you want to make him happy, not because you expect something in return.
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lg 1 nak suggest buku He's just not that into you
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III – The Power Struggle Stage
You begin to see each other clearly. This stage couples tend to focus on their differences, rather than their similarities, as frustration their parents are projected onto each other. The tricky part is that the closer you get to your mate, the closer you get to your childhood wounds. Instead of sharing, you are now competing.
This is when you have to give up “being right” & give in to “what works”. If you don’t move this stage then you will repeat the cycle again. During this stage you should do the opposite; if you want to disconnect, you need to connect. If you are desperate for connection give more space to your partner.
SMART HEART SKILL
Predict & expect conflict & struggle.
Identify & define struggle
Find solution with problem-solving dialogues & by fighting fairly
Prepare for change by coaching each other
Balance stress with pleasure
Struggles occur at all point in a relationship. Use the struggles to make each of you & the relationship stronger & more secure.
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dah jadi macam dokter chenta je akak inn nie.......... |
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card_reader posted on 16-3-2013 10:02 PM
dah jadi macam dokter chenta je akak inn nie..........
ni baru btol doc chenta...penuh dgn fakta..
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card_reader posted on 16-3-2013 10:02 PM
dah jadi macam dokter chenta je akak inn nie..........
sesaja share mende2 yg dah bersawang kat book cabinet tu....
akk ni suka membaca so byk jer bleh share, tp share psl relationship la yg pompuan2 paling ske nak tau....
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Innrukia posted on 16-3-2013 10:12 PM
sesaja share mende2 yg dah bersawang kat book cabinet tu....
akk ni suka membaca so byk jer ...
banyak buku pasal relation ek....
kalu dalam bahasa melayu, boleh kot nak pinjam...
kalu bahasa inggeris nie, x mampu saya nak baca.....maklom la ngaji sampai tingkat 3 je
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card_reader posted on 16-3-2013 10:14 PM
banyak buku pasal relation ek....
kalu dalam bahasa melayu, boleh kot nak pinjam...
byk ler jugak....so far semua buku lam English la dek non....
Buku Melayu akak beli yg keagamaan jerr
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 11-3-2013 02:27 PM
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Post time 16-3-2013 10:02 PM
