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tiramisuu posted on 18-7-2013 11:57 PM
tolak dua-dua..problem mamat A..dia nk ko yg dulu..tp yg ada skarang ko yg skrg..kena accept la ko y ...
i pn xtau nape i kasar ngat ngan lelaki.tapi mungkin hati i trtutup utk knal org baru kot.tahla.sbelum i kenal ngn yang A tu(yg i suka),i slalu mainkan perasaan lelaki. mmg nakal habis lah.org tu ckp i love u.i pun i love u too. hakikatnya i xrasa apa pun.couple smpai 3-4 org, test market(bajet hot) biasalah zaman baru nak up.lepas jumpa A, mmg i dah dapat rasa karma i akn kena ngn dia.lepas kami break tu, i slalu cakap padan muka kat diri i sndiri lah.(bila kenal B,i cuba syg dia, tapi tahla.)out comes dia, i keja buli dia jaaaaaa..maki dia.teruklah dia kena dulu.tu yg dia ada juga try kenal pompuan lain tu kot.tapi,i xle trima lah sbb dia konon sggup buat apa ja utk i suka dia.tapi cari spare part gak kan.tapi klo pk balik,dia usaha 3-4tahun nak lembutkan hati i,mmg patut pn dia cuba kenal org lain.skang A balik, i mmg dah lama tggu dia.sjak ari khamis aritu, i dh try ignore dia.sbb baca pendapat kwn2 kat forum ni lah.tapi baru dua tiga hari kan, so i xtaula i kuat x nak move on.insyaallah
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mylmor posted on 19-7-2013 08:16 AM
dia dah ajak p beli cincin dh...tp i mintak hold smpai lepas i p umrah hujung thn ni insha allah.. ...
takut x nak kawen?
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tahilalatmanis posted on 19-7-2013 08:57 AM
sampai bila dia nk pancing ko sebegitu? kalau dh kawin, dia nk longgokkan harta depan ko jugak ke ...
tulah. i xnafikan,i mgkin leh stay dgn dia sbb i tau hidup i xkan susah.tapi,smpai satu tahap, hati xleh nak terima, i bincang masalah rumah tangga kat forum cmni pn dh bole jadi dosa(xkenal satu sama lain)apatah lagi klu cerita kt kwn rapat dlln.. i takut i jadi isteri jahat
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missus_meow posted on 19-7-2013 08:59 AM
Sometimes u hv to kiss a lot of frogs b4 u find ur prince. Rsnye phm ur dilemma ... kalo lpskan du ...
my dilemma actually macam ni, i syg sorang ni,(ex bf i yg i dh tggu 4-5tahun,dlu break pasal keluarga takleh terima kami yg terlampau mcm belangkas)kami dipisahkan oleh org sekeliling.tapi skang dia dtg balik,cuma i xtau apa plan dia dgn i.mmg dia ada ckp nk end up his life ngn i tapi cara dia yg tlampau banyak berahsia buat i rasa ragu2.i xkesah kalau dia,i sggup tggu 3-4tahun lagi.tapi dia tu sndiri btl ke serius ngn i.dia kerja kt singapore.airforce team leader utk jet2 camtulah.busy katanya.tapi ada waktu2 dia yg alasan dia xcontact tu xmasuk akal.
at the same time,this another guy had been trying to win my heart since 4-5years.i kenal dia just after i broke up dgn my ex.dia nak masuk minang i.dia ajak i kawen.i xtau i patut tunggu ex i atau..........
ex i tu cakap dia dh apply kerja kat malaysia.kiranya nak balik sini dlu,nak start over.tapi i xrasa dia akan dapat kuar dari kerja kat singapore tu.since before this dia dapat offer dari us pn company dia xlepas dia.soh dia stay dgn tawarkan mcm2... |
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mylmor posted on 19-7-2013 09:38 AM
bile baca citer yang ni..nasihat i..u tinggalkan A..u tinggalkan B....
sebab A nak u yg dulu..y ...
i think i can understand what u were trying to say about B, but then, A tak penah kantoi ada pompuan lain.n dia bkn jenis flirt around..i just dont understand what do he want from me. never promise me anything. keep coming. keep texting. penah skali ada sorg duda ni ajak i kahwin, i cakap kat dia,pastu dia melenting
"ape salah kitorg?"
and then i was like.. "huh?" then dengan gabra dia jawab
"i mean,ape salah bbudak laki yg suka kat u.dorg2 muda2 lagi kot.knapa u nak kna pilih org tua tu.?"
honestly speaking,i happy loncat2 masa tu.lam hati lah..because by that time, kitorg masing2 ego n xngaku yg masih sygkan satu sama lain.after 1 and half year,baru kami cam usaha nak dapatkan perasaan tu balik.mmg masih sayang tapi xsama cam dulu lah kn..ada bintik2 hitam yg wat spoil mood kdg2.dia jauh.ntah lah,kdg2 rasa cam dia tarik tali.kdg2 rasa dia mainkn2 i.dia pandai control i.mental i dia khatam solid lah.mgkin dia tlampau knl i, nk tgk market dia tggi agy x.haha.tapi i dah start ignore dia. bru dua tiga hari.lepas bincang ngn kwn2 kat forum ni.tgklah i kuat tahap mana nk ignore dia.huhu
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biozipstar posted on 19-7-2013 12:23 PM
oooooooooooooooooooooooooooo panjang aku oooooooooooooo kan...
faham faham....
mesti u terkejut kalau i cakap ni, tapi mereka tahu.. masing2 tau. sbb masa A dtg balik, i still in relationship ngn B.so by that time, i told him that im so happy with B,bla bla bla..since me & A were playing game 'hide and pretend' both side trying to show off and be better than each other. tapi B tau, i sbenarnya sayang gila kat A.dia tau i g jumpa A.tapi dia igt i&A bercengkerama apelah.so dia cuba nak pisahkan i&A balik dengan masuk akaun i myamar jd i n text A saying things on behalf of me.something like this "im sorry.i feel guilty towards B,lets have separated ways n bla bla bla" bila A jawab cam nak lepaskan i sbb i buat keputusan utk stay ngn B, i mencelahlah.so perbalahan berlaku.
i break ngn B.sbb i xleh trima dia marah2 A.bg i dia xfaham kami break dlu bukan salah A.dorg penah jumpa depan2.masa buffday i bulan 4 aritu.B datang nak celebrate.A pn balik malaysia nak jumpa i.A xnak mgalah wlupun B smpai dulu(i kat tempat kerja),so dia nekad mai terjah je.B panggil dia,lecture dia.B mcm nak tumbuk A lah,tapi i backup A,pastu trus blah dari situ. A mngadap B lah.tapi A tu dia mmg pangai dia suka buat org sakit hati dengan cara lembut.B mgamuk2, dia ckp slow je.siap leh mintak rokok sebatang dari B.
setelah segala perkara berlaku, B tau i xleh lupa A n still contact A, B ajak i kawen. dia tau A xpenah cakap apa2 psl kawen dgn serius.so maybe dia nak bukak langkah dulu
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mitnick posted on 19-7-2013 12:51 PM
kalau i jd tt, i minta petunjuk jea kot.
i cuba..tapi org kata kalau hati kita berat kat salah sorg, xjadi jugak. sbb tu i try dapatkan pendapat.mungkin leh bukak minda sikit berdasarkan pandangan @ pengalaman org lain...
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syaiful posted on 19-7-2013 04:25 PM
aku dulu ada jugak dilema macam nie.. tapi aku pilih perempuan yang tergilakan aku
ingat senang lah ...
u guys kenal macamana?wife u skang yg u gilakan dlu?
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MiaYahya posted on 20-7-2013 09:05 AM
takut x nak kawen?
smlm discuss insha allah early next yr
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mylmor posted on 19-7-2013 09:38 AM
bile baca citer yang ni..nasihat i..u tinggalkan A..u tinggalkan B....
sebab A nak u yg dulu..y ...
mmg si A tak kantoi dengan pompuan len..but then..did he fight for ur love mase korg nye first break up? mcm tak je kan...aku tau..people make mistake and deserve a second chance...tapi kalau kau dah pergi lama..and come back and expect me to be like before straight away..hurmmmm....u must be kidding me! usaha lah sikit...
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mylmor posted on 22-7-2013 08:20 AM
smlm discuss insha allah early next yr
elelele...excited lah tu
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mylmor posted on 22-7-2013 08:50 AM
mmg si A tak kantoi dengan pompuan len..but then..did he fight for ur love mase korg nye first bre ...
Camna nak cakap ea, i faham bila org cakap, dia xfight for me msa first break up. tapi actually, i was the reason for us to bo break up by that time.i did the biggest mistake in my life by jumping into his family (planning to fix everything) but i was actually making the problem worse. he felt betrayed. but he just stay away from me before decided to break up after people around keep coming and telling stupid things to make us hate each other. the only thing he cant accept was when my oldest sister told him that there's a guy came over to my house to fetch me after one week he didnt contact me. the last met, he said "keep telling me that u love me so much! u didnt meant to do all those things. but along! along told me there was a guy fetch u out!u are fxxkxxxg liar!"
tapi bila jumpa balik, mmula mmg dia marah lagi.tapi dia yang mai cari i kat umah sewa. the next following week pn.turun dari singapore semata2 nak jumpa ja.tapi cakap garang2..after few months, by contacting each other using email, dengan sendiri kami cakap sweet2. tak sedar macamana leh jadi camtu. bila i mintak maaf pasal yg lepas, dia cakap "tolong jangan spoil mood. i nak yang happy je" i takut, dia nak balas dendam kat i ja.there are things yg buat i rasa cam i kna main2.ada jugak perkara yg i rasa dia dalam tempoh pemulihan.so dia nak tgk i yg dulu..?mungkin x?ke i tlampau nak pk positif sbb i sygkan dia?
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MiaYahya posted on 22-7-2013 09:04 AM
elelele...excited lah tu
tak..sebab lepas discuss smlm gado dgn dia....dlm hati rasa nak pijak2 jek die..selamat dah dia smlm i jerit suh dia balik...."nak balik sangat kan..p la balik!!" sambil tolak dia... aarghhh..stress btol!
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MiaYahya posted on 22-7-2013 09:18 AM
Camna nak cakap ea, i faham bila org cakap, dia xfight for me msa first break up. tapi actually, i ...
entahlah..dr apa yg u citer..dia sangat suka berahsia..which i dont like....
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mylmor posted on 22-7-2013 09:30 AM
tak..sebab lepas discuss smlm gado dgn dia....dlm hati rasa nak pijak2 jek die..selamat dah dia sm ...
ayoo.u tolak dia? hahaha... tapi zman skang mmg zaman pmpuan belasah lelaki kan? hehe
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mylmor posted on 22-7-2013 09:31 AM
entahlah..dr apa yg u citer..dia sangat suka berahsia..which i dont like....
xpelah u, i rasa i dh ada keputusan kot. smoga ni yg tbaik..
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MiaYahya posted on 22-7-2013 09:37 AM
xpelah u, i rasa i dh ada keputusan kot. smoga ni yg tbaik..
ala...kumbang bukan sekor....hehehehe
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mylmor posted on 22-7-2013 09:40 AM
ala...kumbang bukan sekor....hehehehe
asik kumbang ja, i igt nak try tupai pulak lah...
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MiaYahya posted on 22-7-2013 09:36 AM
ayoo.u tolak dia? hahaha... tapi zman skang mmg zaman pmpuan belasah lelaki kan? hehe
bukan tolak sampai dia jatuh pun...x de larat la iols nk tolak dia sampai dia jatuh...just tolak dia suh dia balik cpt2...ni sambung gaduh ikut whatsapp...bencik!!!!!! |
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MiaYahya posted on 22-7-2013 09:47 AM
asik kumbang ja, i igt nak try tupai pulak lah...
bahaya tupai tuh..kang x pepasal kene tebuk ..lalalala
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